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Tommy2HandsTommy2Hands what is this where am iRegistered User regular
edited January 2010 in Singularity Engine++
...or not

My mom is currently in the other room, having some sort of psychotic breakdown while cursing my existence. She throwing stuff, smashing things, and she nearly punched me in the gut earlier. This all happened after my former-alcoholic aunt came over to try to make amends with my mother, as well as drop off a gift for my little sister. My mom, apparently convinced that this gift was actually some sort of insult to her, began screaming extremely rude and hurtful comments at her for the next half-hour. Tired of it, I walked out of the bomb shelter that had become my room, intending to calm my mother down and politely ask my aunt to leave, with the promise that I would have a more personal conversation with her later.

Instead, my mother screamed in rage in the background while I listened to her twin tell me on and on about how sorry she was for the past couple years. After finally politely telling her that now was perhaps a bad time, I turned to my mom to face down one of the largest shitstorms I've seen from her in quite a while. Besides being repeatedly called a loser and told that I'll never amount to anything, I was also told that in her educated opinion, my sleeping disorder was self-induced, and that her constant anger was generally my fault.

Fed up with listening to her tell me what a piece of shit I am, I walked back into my room, and locked the door.

Though this tends to happen every few days, this is the first time I'm going out on a limb to ask anyone else

What the fuck do I do?



This could also be a general friend/family/whathaveyou venting thread, I suppose.

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  • Dr.FunkensteinDr.Funkenstein Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Sell your mom off to an asian sweatshop

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  • ThatDudeOverThereThatDudeOverThere Clock King Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    the only advice I can give you is to get the hell out of there at the earliest possible opportunity

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  • AMP'dAMP'd Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Hugs, bro

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  • chrishallett83chrishallett83 Hi! Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Your mum is a silly goose.

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  • DubhDubh Rebel Rebel Your face is a messRegistered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Tommy

    all you had to say is that you were having a bad day in the Gloss thread, or something

    that sucks and everything

    but this is... a little too much information

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  • Calamity JaneCalamity Jane That Wrong Love Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    the answer is easy

    dissassemble and reassemble like voltron

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  • Tommy2HandsTommy2Hands what is this where am i Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    the only advice I can give you is to get the hell out of there at the earliest possible opportunity

    I don't have fucking anywhere to go

    my whole family agrees with her

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    From the Desk of the Democratically-Elected Pharaoh-President of the Shadowrelam of Egypt
    MacGuffin wrote: »
    Baka!
    Belief in the heart of friendship and you'll always be kawaii Tommy-Chan!
    Tumbling
  • AMP'dAMP'd Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Also, who even says "parentals"

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  • Wrench N RocketsWrench N Rockets Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    the only advice I can give you is to get the hell out of there at the earliest possible opportunity

    I don't have fucking anywhere to go

    my whole family agrees with her
    Well, move out and make something of your life?

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  • Calamity JaneCalamity Jane That Wrong Love Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    don't take things personally

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  • scarlet st.scarlet st. Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    stop smoking and drinking so you can focus on school thereby getting into a school away from home with scholarships?

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  • Calamity JaneCalamity Jane That Wrong Love Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    smoking pills and takin' weed

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  • PharezonPharezon Struggle is an illusion. Victory is in the Qun.Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Livejournal ->

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  • #pipe#pipe Cocky Stride, Musky odours Pope of Chili TownRegistered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Tommy how old are you

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  • SheriSheri Resident Fluffer My Living RoomRegistered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Maybe she should see a brain doctor about that whole going-off-the-deep-end thing

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  • NogsNogs Crap, crap, mega crap. Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    sleep with her sister

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  • Cold Salmon and HatredCold Salmon and Hatred __BANNED USERS regular
    edited January 2010
    the only advice I can give you is to get the hell out of there at the earliest possible opportunity

    I don't have fucking anywhere to go

    my whole family agrees with her
    Well, move out and make something of your life?

    tommy is like 13 or something
    i kid, he's 16

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  • Tommy2HandsTommy2Hands what is this where am i Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    #pipe wrote: »
    Tommy how old are you

    16

    tSheri I've been trying but jesus it's hard to get her to change anything about herself

    mostly because she holds this belief that in any and all situations she's right and everyone else is utterly wrong

    my mom is basically the whole of D&D manifested into one being

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    From the Desk of the Democratically-Elected Pharaoh-President of the Shadowrelam of Egypt
    MacGuffin wrote: »
    Baka!
    Belief in the heart of friendship and you'll always be kawaii Tommy-Chan!
    Tumbling
  • #pipe#pipe Cocky Stride, Musky odours Pope of Chili TownRegistered User regular
    edited January 2010
    you should call the cops on her

    #pipe on
  • SheriSheri Resident Fluffer My Living RoomRegistered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Like

    It really is not normal to scream and rage and throw things on a regular basis

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  • Tommy2HandsTommy2Hands what is this where am i Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    #pipe wrote: »
    you should call the cops on her

    I really doubt that that would do anything but make the situation worse

    aannnndd it seems that she's calmed down now

    still gonna wait an hour before checking out the damage

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    From the Desk of the Democratically-Elected Pharaoh-President of the Shadowrelam of Egypt
    MacGuffin wrote: »
    Baka!
    Belief in the heart of friendship and you'll always be kawaii Tommy-Chan!
    Tumbling
  • Dr.FunkensteinDr.Funkenstein Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Sign her up for Wife Swap

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  • BedigunzBedigunz Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Hugs

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  • Calamity JaneCalamity Jane That Wrong Love Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    sure it is

    i can't say i've had a complete day until i hit somebody upside the head with a coffee cup till they bleed to death like that south african bitch from The Power Of One

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  • George Fornby GrillGeorge Fornby Grill ...Like Clockwork Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
  • DoodmannDoodmann Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    All mom's are fucking crazy. Just stay away from her for a little while, she'll snap back and wonder what the fuck is wrong with you for thinking she is crazy.

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  • Calamity JaneCalamity Jane That Wrong Love Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    the answer is to blow your nut all over the back of her head and attack her with ya balls

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  • Calamity JaneCalamity Jane That Wrong Love Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    tommy stop washin' ya balls as prep

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  • .avi.avi regular
    edited January 2010
    i wonder if they sell ball shower caps

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  • M.D.M.D. and then what happens? Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Well if you've tried confronting your mom on more than this occasion and she flips out regularly than I would say avoid her as best you can, I understand you live in her house and it's probably hard to, so that you can avoid being in this situation again.

    Sucks that you are in this situation, I had a horrible parent but I had my mom there to help get me and and my sister away from my dad. It's a bit hard to do anything if you don't have anyone in the family that could support you or take you in.

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  • DubhDubh Rebel Rebel Your face is a messRegistered User regular
    edited January 2010
    your mom is a silly goose

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  • Dee KaeDee Kae Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Listen to and commit to doing every idea suggested in this thread.

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  • Calamity JaneCalamity Jane That Wrong Love Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    fuck a dog in front of your ma

    does the ol' trick

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  • QuothQuoth the Raven Miami, FL FOR REALRegistered User regular
    edited January 2010
    She won't change unless you do and maybe not even then

    moving out is really the only viable option

    I speak from experience very like yours except it was yelling without violence and it was every single day multiple times a day

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  • Calamity JaneCalamity Jane That Wrong Love Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    man what a besieged life

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  • SpacehogSpacehog Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    What is her situation? Are there money problems? Is she on meds? What is the history with your aunt?

    Not excusing her behavior in the least, but is there a reason?

    Also, I cant think of a worse forum to post this in, except for maybe 4chan.

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    Wow...oh my gosh. What guy isn't going to throw a punch or whatever with another guy that calls him a gay-slur? Really? Is it really that big of a deal? Holy crap..please, let it go. Justin Bieber is fine and the kid isn't in the hospital or something. Jeez.
  • SkellieSkellie __BANNED USERS
    edited January 2010
    #pipe wrote: »
    Tommy how old are you

    16

    tSheri I've been trying but jesus it's hard to get her to change anything about herself

    mostly because she holds this belief that in any and all situations she's right and everyone else is utterly wrong

    my mom is basically the whole of D&D manifested into one being

    Yeah I moved out of home as soon as it was financially feasible because I was sick of my stepmother, who could be so childish and temperamental about the smallest of things, and couldn't be reasoned with.

    Hugs.

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  • Calamity JaneCalamity Jane That Wrong Love Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
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  • Tommy2HandsTommy2Hands what is this where am i Registered User regular
    edited January 2010
    Spacehog wrote: »
    What is her situation? Are there money problems? Is she on meds? What is the history with your aunt?

    Not excusing her behavior in the least, but is there a reason?

    Probably stress, my father died in 2007 and she works as a substitute teacher, no meds currently, bad

    E: Nah, SE's pretty cool and Anjin's comments are actually cheering me up a bit

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    From the Desk of the Democratically-Elected Pharaoh-President of the Shadowrelam of Egypt
    MacGuffin wrote: »
    Baka!
    Belief in the heart of friendship and you'll always be kawaii Tommy-Chan!
    Tumbling
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