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should I act as councellor when I am not impartial?
AthenorWho needs lions when you have a battlecruiser?Registered Userregular
A good friend decided to break up with his future wife last night. It was -hard-, and he's obviously torn up over it. I was present, along with a few friends who are like family to him.
This morning, he had breakfast with his S.O., and as a result she convinced him to do counseling. This advice is going to come from us (their friends), in order to save money and be honest.
None of us feel we can be truly neutral, but we also want to help our friends, and not seem to be the enemy. And considering the circumstances, she is honestly saying she can grow and mature (which is the big problem). She just wants to do it with him. Personally, I think I've heard this song and dance before, but we'll see.
The counseling session won't come today. Everyone is too drained. Last night he spent the night as a friend's house, and no one knows where he'll spend tonight. So.. yeah. Not entirely sure how we are going to proceed. I was hoping for advice, but I reserve the right to be selective with details to protect the innocent. After all, they are my friends.