How about this? I'm in love with a wonderful lady. She's probably the smartest woman I've ever met, wonderfully funny, and her tastes differ from mine precisely enough to be interesting, but not enough to be irritating. Possibly most importantly, she is superhumanly patient with yours truly, who can be a little difficult to handle at times.
The problem is that she is practically engaged to another guy. I have pretty unorthodox views on relationships, so this doesn't bother me in and of itself, but we care deeply enough about each other that the doomed nature of our relationship has become less novel and romantic, and more annoying and sad.
And this is a pattern with me. Of my last four relationships, two have lived outside of the country, one was so mentally unstable as to preclude any hope of cohabitation (let alone marriage or kids), and one is the girl mentioned above. I suppose I avoid truly long-term relationships by only seeing women that logistics or lifestyle makes it difficult to remain attached to.
File this as "general dating", as opposed to "OKC".
Plan of action: Stop getting involved with women who are ultimately not available.
In all seriousness, that is really the best plan in this situation.
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ArtreusI'm a wizardAnd that looks fucked upRegistered Userregular
maybe it's going okay BECAUSE you both have brain problems
ever think of that?
Yeah actually. We have both learned a lot because of our respective issues, and it makes things easier. Also having somebody who understands depressions helps.
I need to get to the gym and get my flabby midsection into shape
But then I will be the fat guy at the gym and I can't reconcile that so I just don't go
Nobody would give a shit about you being the fat guy at the gym. Just go to the gym.
Otherwise you will just keep feeling like shit and just be the fat guy at home.
To add on to this, you could start with doing some jogging/running around your neighborhood. Cardio does a lot for you especially if you're trying to lose weight or a flabby midsection.
AnosognosWho wants to playvideo games?Registered Userregular
It's the most important thing along with not eating a lot of high calorie junk. You can get rid of a gut outside the gym just as easy as inside. That's not to say it's easy at all if you love food. But social anxiety isn't an excuse here.
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BeastehTHAT WOULD NOTKILL DRACULARegistered Userregular
ok so basically i met chantelle around the end of october? our first date was oct 30th or something
we hit it off tremendously, she was smart, funny, i meet her daughter (super cute) and cat (a tiny panther)
she lives where i grew up, went to my same school, we even have mutual friends!! small world huh etc etc
i saw her every single weekend for a month, sometimes going up to see her during the week
hell i even got her to make an account here and start reading homestuck
things were fine, everything was 'this is great you are great' until her dad died
and she dumped me
whole bunch of stuff happened after that basically leaving a huge fucking bitter taste in my mouth
my plan of action is to be a despondent piece of shit and wallow in selfpity until i manage to meet another girl on a dating website
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Garlic Breadi'm a bitch i'm a bitch i'm a bitch i'm aRegistered User, Disagreeableregular
I weighed 165 last October and a couple weeks ago I was ~130-135
I wish I had taken a before shot because I don't really notice a difference. I've still got a little gut and muffin top, but my pants are all too big now. I think all of the weight came from my butt
I just want to say that the last one of these threads convinced me to sign up with okcupid. I met a nice young lady and we have been dating ever since. Thank you very much for showing me this website.
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You can use my diet plan. It's called "Let your anxiety kill your appetite completely and lose 30 pounds in 3 months"
being an unambitious dude playin video games is the basic audience for this site, so these posts are practically invisible to me
the rule does work!
ok, pizza time
if you ever feel like you're a shit person you should probably remember that just about everyone is shittier of you than you are of them
like spiders except you cant crush them
No
Start jerking off, openly
Don't hide it
Just push your chair back, slide your pants down, and beat off furiously
You can use my diet plan. It's called "Let your anxiety kill your appetite completely and lose 30 pounds in 3 months"
yo at least one of those computers has to have a webcam
yo mama could, though
AAAHH
damn visual brain!
We both have brain problems but it is going pretty okay.
last time i checked it i had a bunch of messages but
i can't really figure out how to respond to an overture via the internet
bronsonian revenge
I will bang ladies younger than me and get mail order guns
that or start chatting up ladies again
ever think of that?
In all seriousness, that is really the best plan in this situation.
Nobody would give a shit about you being the fat guy at the gym. Just go to the gym.
Otherwise you will just keep feeling like shit and just be the fat guy at home.
Yeah actually. We have both learned a lot because of our respective issues, and it makes things easier. Also having somebody who understands depressions helps.
Yeah, for real. I'm always thinking "Man what does that person think of me because I'm doing ____" or whatever if I'm out in public
but it's like
who cares? They don't know what I'm thinking and I'll most likely never know them on a personal level
But anxiety
To add on to this, you could start with doing some jogging/running around your neighborhood. Cardio does a lot for you especially if you're trying to lose weight or a flabby midsection.
Steam
ok so basically i met chantelle around the end of october? our first date was oct 30th or something
we hit it off tremendously, she was smart, funny, i meet her daughter (super cute) and cat (a tiny panther)
she lives where i grew up, went to my same school, we even have mutual friends!! small world huh etc etc
i saw her every single weekend for a month, sometimes going up to see her during the week
hell i even got her to make an account here and start reading homestuck
things were fine, everything was 'this is great you are great' until her dad died
and she dumped me
whole bunch of stuff happened after that basically leaving a huge fucking bitter taste in my mouth
my plan of action is to be a despondent piece of shit and wallow in selfpity until i manage to meet another girl on a dating website
I wish I had taken a before shot because I don't really notice a difference. I've still got a little gut and muffin top, but my pants are all too big now. I think all of the weight came from my butt
and now i don't need an okcupid profile
this feels like an infomercial testomonial
But last run was not enjoyable at all
I usually just stumble into relationships/banging
whats the name of that site that lets you anonymously tell your secrets, i can Do a Thing
and have a job and my own place again
There are dudes out there that are creepy into bunnies, probably.
i meant for the whole forum im not scared of sharing my orrible horrible sexlikes
the last temp job I went to the girl I was working with said shit and then said "wait how old are you"
but wouldn't it be great if I could crush them like arachnids?
well you have my full and undivided attention
i'm waiting
I would've asked you about walter matthau, personally
I'm less Dennis the Menace and more Problem Child
and only oviposition