first time sex advice

admanb

In theory the more sexytimes you have the longer he'll last, just because his body and brain will be less OMGOMGWE'REHAVINGSEXOMG

deathwish

Well all has gone well, I'm not as freaked out about my body or him looking at it.
thank you everyone for any advice you mentioned.
btw doing it in the shower didn't really work out much:/

godmode

Perhaps you just need to grasp the basics first before you try too many "adventurous" scenarios. By all accounts, shower sex has been described as all kinds of fun!

Peen

Shower sex has a lot to do with your shower set-up and your height relative to each other. It just doesn't work for some people. Don't worry about it.

Cryogen

godmode wrote: »

By all accounts, shower sex has been described as all kinds of fun!

Then good sir, please allow me to add one account to the contrary!

I've never liked shower sex. It's awkward, most showers just aren't really big enough. One of you often ends up being out of the water stream and hence gets cold. The water itself can also act to wash away any natural lubrication. Also, performing oral sex is a pain, you end up drowning from the water! Overall, in my opinion, its just annoying and not hot at all. Just showering together, soaping each other up, can be nice & romantic but for the sexytimes I really think you're better off getting out of the shower

deathwish

The same thing happened to me! Lol
And it also burned my eyes with all the water, the shower was too small for any of that too. I almost choked on water and it did get pretty cold:/
And yeah his taller than me for about 5 inches so that didn't help lol

ceres

Cryogen wrote: »

godmode wrote: »

By all accounts, shower sex has been described as all kinds of fun!

Then good sir, please allow me to add one account to the contrary!

I've never liked shower sex. It's awkward, most showers just aren't really big enough. One of you often ends up being out of the water stream and hence gets cold. The water itself can also act to wash away any natural lubrication. Also, performing oral sex is a pain, you end up drowning from the water! Overall, in my opinion, its just annoying and not hot at all. Just showering together, soaping each other up, can be nice & romantic but for the sexytimes I really think you're better off getting out of the shower

My experience as well, mostly.. plus I like the water downright tepid and most of my partners have wanted it fucking boiling.. plus I am quite short and I just kind of end up with dick in my belly button. Not sexy.

admanb

It definitely requires a specific combination of heights or a lot of strength for some in-the-air action. Definitely not for everyone.

Great foreplay though.

Figgy

Add me to the "no shower sex" wagon. Even as foreplay. You get out, and then you're two naked, wet, clammy bodies trying not to stick together. And if you stop the dry off thoroughly so that doesn't happen, it disrupts the "flow."