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So my lady friend and I have been having the sex quite frequently. (I'm 23, she's 21.) She's currently on the pill so I haven't been using a condom. However, I've had reservations about orgasming inside her. So much so that I would pull out rather than doing so. Well last night was particularly more passionate than previous nights and she didn't get off me right away when I said I was about to cum, and I went ahead and came inside her. I instantly had a and I told her that I really didn't want what just happened to happen.
Now, from day one, she's told me that it was ok, and even gone so far to say that she wanted me to do it inside her. She's been on the pill for quite some time now, and in addition to that, she has some kind of medical condition where she gets her period less frequently than most women (say once every 3 months as opposed to monthly.) Despite all this, I still worry about the prospects of getting her pregnant.
Now I know what some of the responses to this dilemma might be: (a) if you're so worried about it, don't have sex or (b) wear a condom, silly. Well here's the thing, she loves sex. I'm loving it too. I don't think I could just give it up cold turkey at this point. I think it would put a serious damper on our relationship. As for a condom, this brings up another issue. This issue has gone from a "I don't feel comfortable doing this" kind of thing, to her saying "Well why don't you trust me when I say its ok for you to do it?" I think that by using a condom as this point would be saying that I don't trust her.
So here it is: how irrational am I to have said the things that I said. I know that the pill is about 99% effective in preventing pregnancy, but damn, I'm the kind of asshole with the luck to be that 1%. Someone please educate me about the pill.
Please, please don't let this thread devolve into a debate about the effectiveness of the pull out method.