My last girlfriend and I had sex without condoms; she was on another form of birth control, and it was just more fun that way.
My current girlfriend doesn't like the mess involved in not using a condom, and I respect that, but I sometimes find it harder to cum with a condom on, especially after about a year of frequent condomless sex. Hell, sometimes it just flat out kills my erection after a rather short period of time.
Any suggestions for something super thin or that doesn't kill quite so much of the sensation? Presently we just us standard Tojans or whatever the Durex condoms are that are in the black and purple box.
Also, aside from viagra, are there any over the counter options to prolong an erection? Currently (when the condom isn't killing it for me) we go for 15-20 minutes, but I wouldn't mind lasting longer some times.
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The harder the rain, honey, the sweeter the sun.
Lamb Skin condoms are very good (had a girlfriend allergic to latex) and Trojan Ultra Thin are good from what I have heard but I never used em.
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That said, a post on the VaginaPagina livejournal community has a lot of recommendations; one which I read a lot is "Kimono;" they appear to make a variety of thin condoms. There were also a couple other comments mentioning Durex Love.
http://secure.condomania.com/condomwizard.asp?dept=172
^that site was recommended as a good source to look for particular kinds. Good luck!
P.S. Perhaps you could use a female condom? They feel different from a regular condom but it might give you some more sensation.
This is good advice. Also look into larger ones if they're constricting.
These are the ones that are given out at my college dorm - I find them smaller than normal condoms, and I've heard more than a couple stories of them breaking.
If you're both in a monogamous relationship and your only concern is birth control, then they could be an effective option.
WATER BASED LUBE ONLY.
Durex Love are great. I've never had one break on me and they feel much nicer than others I've tried.
If you're going to use lube, only use something water-based, as anything petroleum based will wear down the condom and increase the likelihood that it will break.
Specifically, they may not protect against STIs transferrable by body fluids, such as HIV. They are just as effective against skin-transferrable STIs as latex and non-latex condoms (that is, sort of effective but still not immune).
To each his own, but I've found condoms that have a pocket at the end (where the head goes) feel better than ones that do not. lube helps.
http://www.condomdepot.com/product/detail.cfm/pid/2474
The harder the rain, honey, the sweeter the sun.
Seconded. However, I find that Trojan Magnums actually work a lot better in terms of providing sensation. roomier up top, seems to do the trick.
As for the second issue, prolonging, protip: Get right up to the edge of climax, stop moving, and then 'flex' (same muscle you would use to cut yourself off from peeing) your wang as hard as you can for a few seconds. You should feel the normal pressure frem flexing subside as the muscle tires, and then start moving again - slower. About half-time instead of your usual beat. Keep your abdominal muscles tight (or for more advanced movement peeples- abs, torso and lower back) and concentrate on flexing on each inward thrust.
It wont be long before the 'omigodimgonnasplode' feeling subsides a bit, and you may in fact experience the 'internal orgasm' for men - not as intense as the squirting version, but pretty damn fine of its own accord. The upside being that you can have as many of these as you want with no recharge time. When your 'done' (ie completely physically exhausted), finish off the final lap with the usual no holds barred action. Repeat as required.
I will be trying this asap.
I had the hardest-near-impossible time climaxing with regular condoms being to small. I tried Magnums and it was no better and it was a little too loose with Magnum XLs. Then I was recommended LifeStyles XLs which felt thin enough and big enough, I later spoke to a guy at one of the online condom ordering places after they change the name (and the feel) and he told me LifeStyles XL was bigger than Magnums and a bit smaller than Magnum XLs.
Brands I have tried and not liked:
Trojan - including the delayed climax (really most people I know say its the worst brand)
Kimono - their large variety is not that large
Viva - a condom which you use their printable measuring kit and order condoms based off you length and girth, right size but felt like a tarp on my cock.