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My girlfriend, who I've been with for 7 months, told me last night that she has been having thoughts of a guy at her work. At first she said it was just her thinking he was hot. As well as saying it didn't matter cause she had only seen him once and didnt know his name. But she tends to lie to me when I might get upset. So after some coaxing she admitted it was a guy who I've met and who she works with regularly. And not just thoughts about him being hot but thoughts of giving him oral sex and such. The man in question is twice her age at 50 and incredibly buff. He also tells her that he likes to have sex with young girls but make it known that he isn't looking for anything other then sex. She also seems to think he likes her too, eyeing her when he thinks she isn't looking. On top of that she leaves town often to go to work sites with him. Leaving them alone in a car by themselves for hours at a time. She tells me none of it matters cause she doesn't love him she loves me. This is all very disconcerting because when i told her not to lie to me anymore about anything she says "Why, what if that lie keeps us together?" She doesn't seem to understand that it's not fair to me when she lies about things just because she is afraid of losing me.
Now I need to know if this is normal. This is my first girlfriend so I'm not sure what to think. Is it normal to think of having sex with other people? I can see when a girl is good looking but I don't think of putting my mouth on their naughty bits. It's not as though we don't have an active sex life. We have sex once a day and increase that to 2-3 times a day on weekends. Also we've been living together for 2 months.
And one last thing. Before she told me this yesterday she told me she wouldn't mind if I watched porn. Cause according to her I need more ideas. So does she just want someone more experienced?
Any advice is welcome. Forgive my ignorance if this is common place for couples.