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So I've known this girl, lets just call her C, for some time now. We work together. Until recently we started talking and texting eachother and became facebook friends and all that shit.
We have been texting a lot for the past couple of days and she has been giving me the 'eyes' at work lately, so I invited her to come hang out and watch a baseball game. She said she was free after 7 and that she would call me. Doesn't call me for the entire night. Fine. She's not interested I can move on. I was a little disappointed though, but what can you do? So I became a little bit more distant the next day at work (wasn't giving her the cold shoulder or anything).
Just a note: I've made my intentions of moving just past friends pretty clear from the get-go.
So then I get a text from her later that day asking me how I was doing etc, followed even later that day with a facebook message that she was free all weekend and that I should call her to hang out (?). Naturally I'm a little confused (and she is still flirting (or so I think) with me through text & facebook).
Anyway, the next day at work there is some playful touching and whatnot throughout the day yada yada yada. I leave work and as soon as I do, I get a text from her "Fine. Don't say bye. Anyway, just hit me up if you wanna hang". First off, what the fuck does this mean? She wanted me to actually say bye to her, sounds pretty interested right? Wrong.
Later that day I shoot her a text asking her if she wanted to hang after work. She said yes. So I told her, allright well after I am done golfing I will give you a call and we can go from there. Get done with golfing (probably a little later than I had planned, time lapsed was about 3-4 hours). I give her a call. No answer. Allright. I send her a text telling her I called her and there was no answer. Fast forward 6 hours later I send her another text "Hey.. where did you go?". This was followed by a "Sorry. A friend came over and we are watching movies". What the hell? She doesn't even let me know that she made other plans that night? Naturally I was a little pissed sent her a text back "Good thing I didn't hold my breath.." to which she replied "".
Yeah, fuck that shit. This has happened two times now. I haven't heard back from her since (this was last night). Thankfully I don't have to go back to work for about 3 weeks.
I don't know what I'm asking here really.. I'm just really really confused. Maybe someone can shine a little insight on what I should do from here. I guess this is pretty much a lost cause but I do like her a lot. But when people break plans with me (and without even telling me), it pisses me off to no end.