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I feel awkward making this thread but here it goes.
I've gone out on 5 dates with this girl I met about 3 weeks ago. I really like her. I can't describe it very well, but I'm always glad we go out and I'd like to spend more time with her than just a date or a two every week. I have a couple of problems though.
1. I've never been in an actual relationship
2. I don't really know if she's actually interested in going that far
I go out on dates often enough but most don't really go past the 3rd one before I tell her I'm not interested or vice-versa. I never felt anything for the girls I've gone out with so it didn't really bother me.
To address my first concern, this is really new to me; I've gotten rejected plenty of times and vice-versa so I'm used to that. But I'm really nervous about her rejecting me or being just friends, I don't know why. Which leads me to going about of asking her. All I really know about her relationship status is she isn't dating anyone and apparently has never had a boyfriend either.
Finally how do I know she's really interested? I initiated the first date, the 2nd and 3rd she called me to set something up.Just recently she canceled something with her friend because we already had an agreed upon date. She has a lot of friends so I was thinking she was just being nice and wanted to make another one. She used to move around a lot so she had trouble keeping friends.
We're going out again tomorrow and I'd like to ask her then but I don't really want to put her on the spot. Not only that I get really nervous even thinking about it so I'll probably end up choking anyways.
Any questions you'd think would help, I'll try to answer them. I'll say our dates are pretty normal dating etiquette (for me at least), nothing intimate, just the usual fare.