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Authority Intervention in Crimes

AsiinaAsiina Registered User regular
edited April 2009 in Debate and/or Discourse
Alright, this is the third time I'm going to try to write this OP and have it make sense.

At what point should someone involve the authorities when dealing with a minor crime.

Just to throw out some possible examples: A child breaks your window by accident, should you call the police or their parents? A friend breaks something of yours during a party. Do you charge them with vandalism or make them pay for what they broke/forgive them. An employee is caught stealing for his employer. Should he be arrested or just made to pay back what he stole and fired. All of these examples people deal with the crime themselves, rather than involving the authorities.

Some people would argue that involving the police in petty crimes is a waste of resources. It also ends up involving otherwise law abiding people with the criminal justice system, which can have some fairly negative consequences.

But where is the line drawn?

Is it based on age where minors should be excused? Well minors can still commit fairly heinous crimes that should definitely involve the police (murder, rape, etc.)

Is it intent? Should we just write off accidents as accidents? You still call the police if someone hits you with their car, even if its an accident.

Monetary value? What about crimes that don't have a money figure easily attached that can be paid or worked back.

If retribution involves committing another crime? Obviously we can't have vigilante or street justice happening en masse. The authorities must be brought in at some point. But there does tend to be sympathy for those who commit crimes in retribution. People who kill or injure those who are guilty of killing or raping a family member are given quite a bit of sympathy by the media and the public.

There must be some line drawn, but where and why?

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  • CindersCinders Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Asiina wrote: »
    There must be some line drawn, but where and why?

    Why must there be a concrete point at which we convert accidents to criminal behavior? If there actually is a line, I would assume that it is flexible and perpetually moving based on the situation.

  • JustinSane07JustinSane07 __BANNED USERS regular
    edited April 2009
    I think one of the keys is whether or not you know the person. If my friend breaks my Xbox, I'm not going to call the cops on him because I know him and as two civilized adults, we can work it out so he pays me back.

    But let's say that happens with a friend of a friend of a friend at a party or something, I might be more inclined to involve the police/courts because I have no guarantee that the person provided me with their real info or ever seeing them again. Getting the police/courts involved, even for a simple report, atleast gets the information out there and available.

  • Dunadan019Dunadan019 Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    you only need to involve the law if you can't get compensation through other means.

    the amount and time and frustration currently in the legal system prevents the use of legal avenues for minor compensation unless you are absolutely crazy or vindicitive.


    in other words, unless you have a lot of free time on your hands and don't like your neighbors.... you will go and talk to them first to get them to pay for it.

    Mental midgets kill my inner child.
  • KalTorakKalTorak Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Obviously it's a case-by-case thing, but I usually feel like the police are who you go to if the problem can't/won't be resolved without them. If the vandal/thief refuses to pay for the damage, if you can't find them, etc. etc.

  • SheepSheep Registered User, __BANNED USERS
    edited April 2009
    At what point should someone involve the authorities when dealing with a minor crime.

    When the person involved is too young, intellectually unable to understand the severity of what they've done, or, considering the transgression, when the offender's handlers or parents are unable to handle the problem.

    Example: I had a friend in the 10th grade that was constantly harassed by his girlfriend's ex boyfriend. Basically bitter over their breakup and took to occasionally insulting my friend and his new girlfriend.

    Friend informed the teacher, who informed the principal, who brought the kid into the principal's office and was scolded. Nothing happened. Harassment continued. Repeat. This time kid's parents are called. Nothing happens. Issue continues. Friend again tells principal. Nothing happens. Friend busts dick wads nose, cops are called, and friend is arrested.

    What my friend did is technically wrong, even though the kid deserved it. The issue should have been placed into the confines of the law the moment it became clear that the bully wasn't going to stop.

    This also reminds me of an episode of King of the Hill, where Hank is being bugged by a little kid always causing mischief and damaging Hank's lawn. Hank complains to the parents, who brush it off as their child "expressing himself". Little kid was a prick. Again, confines of the law, kid should have been punished, parents reprimanded, and end of discussion.

    Instead, they got a whole 30 minutes worth of episode out of something that could have been nipped in the bud.

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  • AsiinaAsiina Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Cinders wrote: »
    Asiina wrote: »
    There must be some line drawn, but where and why?

    Why must there be a concrete point at which we convert accidents to criminal behavior? If there actually is a line, I would assume that it is flexible and perpetually moving based on the situation.

    But what determines that line? I would imagine most people would agree that YOU are the douchebag if you call the cops on the kid playing baseball, but that if you don't involve the police when someone breaks into your home then you are also being ridiculous. There are some set of social standards here in what crimes are and are not acceptable to go to the police about. I'm asking us to determine what these are.

  • QuidQuid The Fifth Horseman Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    All crimes should have the option of going to the police if you're unable to resolve the problem to your satisfaction.

    Example: My neighbors next door were loud last night. I could have called the cops who would have told them to keep it down and, while kind of dickish, well within my rights in the off chance I think they're being threatening. Instead I just banged the wall a couple times and they settled down, but it's important for the option to be there.

    If that woman's cleavedge made one more person pick the game up off the shelf, it was a net positive for microprose. And to be blunt, if taking her top off could have increased sales enough to get a sequel, I'd endorse it 100000% because I like playing great games.
  • HonkHonk Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I say involve the law when it cannot be resolved civilly by you and the other party, mostly. I had my ceiling as well as my mp3 player broken by the same guy on two different occasions, without an admittance or an apology. This due to the fact that he can be a direct moron when drunk. I'd consider police if the next time he breaks something it's very expensive and he again won't confess to it.

    So I think I see it from a monetary value side I guess.

  • Grid SystemGrid System Registered User
    edited April 2009
    Asiina wrote: »
    There must be some line drawn, but where and why?
    Why must there be a line drawn? Issues like this are incredibly fact-sensitive, and trying to draw a definitive line is like trying to nail jello to the wall.

    Intent does, of course, play a very large role. The offence of Mischief (which is the closest we get to vandalism here in Canada) requires intent, so if a kid breaks your window by accident, then there's no point in calling the police because there is no chance of successful prosecution. You might be able to sue the kid for negligence, but that's a waste of time too, most likely.

    I suppose if I were to propose a line, it would be to call the cops whenever it's not a waste of your time to call the cops, but that's so vague as to be meaningless.

  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS
    edited April 2009
    I'm inclined to let a lot of shit go. Every car I've owned has been hit in a parking lot, while it was parked and I was sitting in it. Every time I got out, looked at it, determined that nothing was damaged except paint and told the other driver not to worry about it. Sure, repairing the damage would likely have cost me about a grand in each instance, because repainting and matching and blending properly combine to make way more expensive than getting a low-quality paint-job at Maaco. But it's not going to impact the car's ability to do its job, and calling the police to file a report (no citation can be issued in a private parking lot but a report helps make the insurance wheels turn) involves standing around a parking lot for an hour or two which really isn't worth my time.

    DAMM
    Drunks Against Mad Mothers
  • CindersCinders Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Asiina wrote: »

    But what determines that line? I would imagine most people would agree that YOU are the douchebag if you call the cops on the kid playing baseball, but that if you don't involve the police when someone breaks into your home then you are also being ridiculous. There are some set of social standards here in what crimes are and are not acceptable to go to the police about. I'm asking us to determine what these are.

    I would argue that these social standards differ from person to person making it impossible to achieve an accurate definition.

  • EndomaticEndomatic Registered User
    edited April 2009
    I think you should involve the authorities when you think your personal safety (or of others of course) may be at risk. Otherwise I don't know if it's necessary, unless there are unique circumstances such as someone is breaking shit on purpose continually or repeatedly to be a fucking dick, but doesn't pose a physical threat. Something like that.

  • AsiinaAsiina Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    So if people are expected to civilly solve their own crimes whenever they can, should we be encouraging it? Should police intervention be taught to our children as a last resort only? Is it right to chastise someone who goes straight to the police over an act of vandalism rather than making an attempt to deal with it personally first?

    If you hold these standards for yourself (Well, I would just ask them to pay for it rather than go to the cops) would and should you expect that from others?

  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS
    edited April 2009
    Asiina wrote: »
    So if people are expected to civilly solve their own crimes whenever they can, should we be encouraging it? Should police intervention be taught to our children as a last resort only? Is it right to chastise someone who goes straight to the police over an act of vandalism rather than making an attempt to deal with it personally first?

    If you hold these standards for yourself (Well, I would just ask them to pay for it rather than go to the cops) would and should you expect that from others?

    Yes. Police and courts aren't free, nor underworked.

    DAMM
    Drunks Against Mad Mothers
  • QuidQuid The Fifth Horseman Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Asiina wrote: »
    So if people are expected to civilly solve their own crimes whenever they can, should we be encouraging it? Should police intervention be taught to our children as a last resort only? Is it right to chastise someone who goes straight to the police over an act of vandalism rather than making an attempt to deal with it personally first?
    It all depends on the situation. Generally speaking however, yes if the other party isn't acting in a threatening manner.

    If that woman's cleavedge made one more person pick the game up off the shelf, it was a net positive for microprose. And to be blunt, if taking her top off could have increased sales enough to get a sequel, I'd endorse it 100000% because I like playing great games.
  • EndomaticEndomatic Registered User
    edited April 2009
    Asiina wrote: »
    So if people are expected to civilly solve their own crimes whenever they can, should we be encouraging it? Should police intervention be taught to our children as a last resort only? Is it right to chastise someone who goes straight to the police over an act of vandalism rather than making an attempt to deal with it personally first?

    If you hold these standards for yourself (Well, I would just ask them to pay for it rather than go to the cops) would and should you expect that from others?

    Yes. Police and courts aren't free, nor underworked.

    Exactly. I only really say what I say because of personal experiences with authority. Even on the right side of the law I almost exclusively have poor encounters with officers.

    They are over-worked, and a lot of them are jaded.
    I have plenty of first hand evidence of my town cop being an asshole just because he can be.

  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS
    edited April 2009
    Hypothetical situation. I'm at a bar, I'm drinking and having fun and end up talking to some girl about whatever. Over-amped douchebag comes out of the woodwork and tells me I'd better stop talking to his girl. I say I'm just having a conversation, I'm allowed to do that, and then he punches me. I'll have a bruise and there's maybe a minor cut. I pay my tab and go to another bar to have some more drinks so I won't feel it. Am I a bad person?

    DAMM
    Drunks Against Mad Mothers
  • SpeakerSpeaker Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    You go to the police when:

    1. The threat of harm is severe.
    2. No other institution or party is capable of addressing the problem.

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    Walkers with the sun and morning, we are not afraid of night,
    Nor days of gloom, nor darkness -
    Being walkers with the sun and morning.
  • HonkHonk Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Hypothetical situation. I'm at a bar, I'm drinking and having fun and end up talking to some girl about whatever. Over-amped douchebag comes out of the woodwork and tells me I'd better stop talking to his girl. I say I'm just having a conversation, I'm allowed to do that, and then he punches me. I'll have a bruise and there's maybe a minor cut. I pay my tab and go to another bar to have some more drinks so I won't feel it. Am I a bad person?

    No, but you'd probably be a more satisfied person if the guy spent a few nights in jail. But small stuff like that never gets to or through court.

  • iTunesIsEviliTunesIsEvil Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Honk wrote: »
    Hypothetical situation. I'm at a bar, I'm drinking and having fun and end up talking to some girl about whatever. Over-amped douchebag comes out of the woodwork and tells me I'd better stop talking to his girl. I say I'm just having a conversation, I'm allowed to do that, and then he punches me. I'll have a bruise and there's maybe a minor cut. I pay my tab and go to another bar to have some more drinks so I won't feel it. Am I a bad person?

    No, but you'd probably be a more satisfied person if the guy spent a few nights in jail. But small stuff like that never gets to or through court.
    Yeah, basically this. I'm not sure how in the world that would have made you a bad person.

    I know that I would, personally, feel better if that douche bag had to deal with some sort of consequence (other than maybe sore knuckles?) for having hit a guy for talking to "his girl".

  • SpeakerSpeaker Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Honk wrote: »
    Hypothetical situation. I'm at a bar, I'm drinking and having fun and end up talking to some girl about whatever. Over-amped douchebag comes out of the woodwork and tells me I'd better stop talking to his girl. I say I'm just having a conversation, I'm allowed to do that, and then he punches me. I'll have a bruise and there's maybe a minor cut. I pay my tab and go to another bar to have some more drinks so I won't feel it. Am I a bad person?

    No, but you'd probably be a more satisfied person if the guy spent a few nights in jail. But small stuff like that never gets to or through court.

    A guy spending a few nights in jail helps nothing.

    Being walkers with the dawn and morning,
    Walkers with the sun and morning, we are not afraid of night,
    Nor days of gloom, nor darkness -
    Being walkers with the sun and morning.
  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS
    edited April 2009
    Honk wrote: »
    Hypothetical situation. I'm at a bar, I'm drinking and having fun and end up talking to some girl about whatever. Over-amped douchebag comes out of the woodwork and tells me I'd better stop talking to his girl. I say I'm just having a conversation, I'm allowed to do that, and then he punches me. I'll have a bruise and there's maybe a minor cut. I pay my tab and go to another bar to have some more drinks so I won't feel it. Am I a bad person?

    No, but you'd probably be a more satisfied person if the guy spent a few nights in jail. But small stuff like that never gets to or through court.
    Yeah, basically this. I'm not sure how in the world that would have made you a bad person.

    I know that I would, personally, feel better if that douche bag had to deal with some sort of consequence (other than maybe sore knuckles?) for having hit a guy for talking to "his girl".

    Well he has just gotten away with assault, and now knows he can get away with assault. That's how it would make me a bad person. Suppose I feel just fine knowing that "his girl" is either pissed at him or not worth my attention after such an altercation, with no further need for personal satisfaction. The point in going to the police would be to make sure that people don't get away with assault.

    DAMM
    Drunks Against Mad Mothers
  • AsiinaAsiina Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Honk wrote: »
    Hypothetical situation. I'm at a bar, I'm drinking and having fun and end up talking to some girl about whatever. Over-amped douchebag comes out of the woodwork and tells me I'd better stop talking to his girl. I say I'm just having a conversation, I'm allowed to do that, and then he punches me. I'll have a bruise and there's maybe a minor cut. I pay my tab and go to another bar to have some more drinks so I won't feel it. Am I a bad person?

    No, but you'd probably be a more satisfied person if the guy spent a few nights in jail. But small stuff like that never gets to or through court.

    Isn't this just revenge? In this situation the police don't need to be involved to civilly resolve it, but it's socially acceptable because "ha ha fuck that guy"? That doesn't really make sense.

  • AsiinaAsiina Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Honk wrote: »
    Hypothetical situation. I'm at a bar, I'm drinking and having fun and end up talking to some girl about whatever. Over-amped douchebag comes out of the woodwork and tells me I'd better stop talking to his girl. I say I'm just having a conversation, I'm allowed to do that, and then he punches me. I'll have a bruise and there's maybe a minor cut. I pay my tab and go to another bar to have some more drinks so I won't feel it. Am I a bad person?

    No, but you'd probably be a more satisfied person if the guy spent a few nights in jail. But small stuff like that never gets to or through court.
    Yeah, basically this. I'm not sure how in the world that would have made you a bad person.

    I know that I would, personally, feel better if that douche bag had to deal with some sort of consequence (other than maybe sore knuckles?) for having hit a guy for talking to "his girl".

    Well he has just gotten away with assault, and now knows he can get away with assault. That's how it would make me a bad person. Suppose I feel just fine knowing that "his girl" is either pissed at him or not worth my attention after such an altercation, with no further need for personal satisfaction. The point in going to the police would be to make sure that people don't get away with assault.

    This too. Doesn't letting a crime slide just make it more likely to happen again? Maybe not to you but to someone else. If you are naturally forgiving, aren't you just enabling these people?

  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS
    edited April 2009
    Asiina wrote: »
    Honk wrote: »
    Hypothetical situation. I'm at a bar, I'm drinking and having fun and end up talking to some girl about whatever. Over-amped douchebag comes out of the woodwork and tells me I'd better stop talking to his girl. I say I'm just having a conversation, I'm allowed to do that, and then he punches me. I'll have a bruise and there's maybe a minor cut. I pay my tab and go to another bar to have some more drinks so I won't feel it. Am I a bad person?

    No, but you'd probably be a more satisfied person if the guy spent a few nights in jail. But small stuff like that never gets to or through court.

    Isn't this just revenge? In this situation the police don't need to be involved to civilly resolve it, but it's socially acceptable because "ha ha fuck that guy"? That doesn't really make sense.

    Well, the argument is that the police do have to be involved, because otherwise I just taught a guy that he can go around punching people in bars if he doesn't like them.

    DAMM
    Drunks Against Mad Mothers
  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS
    edited April 2009
    Asiina wrote: »
    Honk wrote: »
    Hypothetical situation. I'm at a bar, I'm drinking and having fun and end up talking to some girl about whatever. Over-amped douchebag comes out of the woodwork and tells me I'd better stop talking to his girl. I say I'm just having a conversation, I'm allowed to do that, and then he punches me. I'll have a bruise and there's maybe a minor cut. I pay my tab and go to another bar to have some more drinks so I won't feel it. Am I a bad person?

    No, but you'd probably be a more satisfied person if the guy spent a few nights in jail. But small stuff like that never gets to or through court.
    Yeah, basically this. I'm not sure how in the world that would have made you a bad person.

    I know that I would, personally, feel better if that douche bag had to deal with some sort of consequence (other than maybe sore knuckles?) for having hit a guy for talking to "his girl".

    Well he has just gotten away with assault, and now knows he can get away with assault. That's how it would make me a bad person. Suppose I feel just fine knowing that "his girl" is either pissed at him or not worth my attention after such an altercation, with no further need for personal satisfaction. The point in going to the police would be to make sure that people don't get away with assault.

    This too. Doesn't letting a crime slide just make it more likely to happen again? Maybe not to you but to someone else. If you are naturally forgiving, aren't you just enabling these people?

    I certainly am, but I'm also enabling myself to continue enjoying my night on the town and get home and in bed before 8am tomorrow by dodging several hours interacting with the police and potentially a forced trip to the hospital that I can't afford for something that will heal on its own anyway.

    Edit: I also avoid providing my name to my attacker.

    DAMM
    Drunks Against Mad Mothers
  • iTunesIsEviliTunesIsEvil Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Well he has just gotten away with assault, and now knows he can get away with assault. That's how it would make me a bad person. Suppose I feel just fine knowing that "his girl" is either pissed at him or not worth my attention after such an altercation, with no further need for personal satisfaction. The point in going to the police would be to make sure that people don't get away with assault.
    I guess I wouldn't be sure how to proceed personally. I'd be pretty angry at getting hit by the douche, and I'm not very good at "letting it go."

    Of course, I don't think that a couple nights (or 1) in jail would make a difference to a person that hit you because you were having a conversation with his girlfriend. But then again if you file a report, and he does this again in the future to someone else and they file a report as well then there's a pattern showing the legal system that this guy is a raging asshole that needs some time away from the civilized world.

  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS
    edited April 2009
    Well he has just gotten away with assault, and now knows he can get away with assault. That's how it would make me a bad person. Suppose I feel just fine knowing that "his girl" is either pissed at him or not worth my attention after such an altercation, with no further need for personal satisfaction. The point in going to the police would be to make sure that people don't get away with assault.
    I guess I wouldn't be sure how to proceed personally. I'd be pretty angry at getting hit by the douche, and I'm not very good at "letting it go."

    Of course, I don't think that a couple nights (or 1) in jail would make a difference to a person that hit you because you were having a conversation with his girlfriend. But then again if you file a report, and he does this again in the future to someone else and they file a report as well then there's a pattern showing the legal system that this guy is a raging asshole that needs some time away from the civilized world.

    I'm not convinced prison will be more effective at dissuading his entitlement complex than losing girls would.

    DAMM
    Drunks Against Mad Mothers
  • iTunesIsEviliTunesIsEvil Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    With as big a dick as you'd have to be to hit someone for having a conversation with your S/O, I'm not sure prison or losing the girl would cause you to a critical look at why your behavior doesn't seem to be working out.

  • NintoNinto Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    I like how you're all assuming the assailant would lose the girl over it.

    Nerd fantasy/wishful thinking?

  • ViolentChemistryViolentChemistry __BANNED USERS
    edited April 2009
    Ninto wrote: »
    I like how you're all assuming the assailant would lose the girl over it.

    Nerd fantasy/wishful thinking?

    I'm not, actually. Frankly I'd expect him to get a blowjob out of it.
    Well he has just gotten away with assault, and now knows he can get away with assault. That's how it would make me a bad person. Suppose I feel just fine knowing that "his girl" is either pissed at him or not worth my attention after such an altercation, with no further need for personal satisfaction. The point in going to the police would be to make sure that people don't get away with assault.

    DAMM
    Drunks Against Mad Mothers
  • Dunadan019Dunadan019 Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    With as big a dick as you'd have to be to hit someone for having a conversation with your S/O, I'm not sure prison or losing the girl would cause you to a critical look at why your behavior doesn't seem to be working out.

    at a bar people get drunk and get into fights over less stupid shit than that.

    don't assume that the only reason he threw a punch was because he was a "huge dick"

    nice guys do stupid things when drunk and threatened.

    Mental midgets kill my inner child.
  • NintoNinto Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Ninto wrote: »
    I like how you're all assuming the assailant would lose the girl over it.

    Nerd fantasy/wishful thinking?

    I'm not, actually. Frankly I'd expect him to get a blowjob out of it.
    Well he has just gotten away with assault, and now knows he can get away with assault. That's how it would make me a bad person. Suppose I feel just fine knowing that "his girl" is either pissed at him or not worth my attention after such an altercation, with no further need for personal satisfaction. The point in going to the police would be to make sure that people don't get away with assault.

    Yeah the bolded part is definitely true. I just think that while it's (in my opinion) not worth your time to spend on either the BS timewasting you'd have to go through with the police OR continuing with her, it's going a bit too far to assume that "someone else" (in this case his girl) will deliver the consequences sorely needed for this over-aggro prick.

    At a certain point, we all have to take responsibility for our own physical safety. The cops can't be there to protect everyone everywhere.

  • HonkHonk Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Asiina wrote: »
    Honk wrote: »
    Hypothetical situation. I'm at a bar, I'm drinking and having fun and end up talking to some girl about whatever. Over-amped douchebag comes out of the woodwork and tells me I'd better stop talking to his girl. I say I'm just having a conversation, I'm allowed to do that, and then he punches me. I'll have a bruise and there's maybe a minor cut. I pay my tab and go to another bar to have some more drinks so I won't feel it. Am I a bad person?

    No, but you'd probably be a more satisfied person if the guy spent a few nights in jail. But small stuff like that never gets to or through court.

    Isn't this just revenge? In this situation the police don't need to be involved to civilly resolve it, but it's socially acceptable because "ha ha fuck that guy"? That doesn't really make sense.

    The part about the satisfaction might be revenge yes, I'm strange in a way that I don't see it as something wrong to enjoy getting back at people who's hurt me. In the scenario VC wrote here, I'd probably contact police for the following reasons:

    A) So that the guy won't beat anyone else up.

    B) He might realize he did something wrong and change his life around so he does not do it again at any later occasion.

    C) It would make me very satisfied to make the guys life less enjoyable, in this case knowing he spends the night in jail or whatever might come out of contacting the police.

    Reason C might or might not be most important to me at the time I make the call to contact police.

  • GungHoGungHo Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Asiina wrote: »
    An employee is caught stealing for his employer. Should he be arrested or just made to pay back what he stole and fired.
    Depending on your jurisdiction, a police report should be considered if for no more reason than to have it on record that the person stole so that they cannot come back and have recourse to sue for wrongful termination.

    Also, "caught stealing" can be any number of things. Office supplies... eh. Whatever. Skimming cash from the register? How much? Stealing expensive lab/computing equipment or stealing proprietary/private data... now we're into real larceny and we're calling the cops. (And, yes... I've had to make that call before.)

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  • AsiinaAsiina Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    GungHo wrote: »
    Asiina wrote: »
    An employee is caught stealing for his employer. Should he be arrested or just made to pay back what he stole and fired.
    Depending on your jurisdiction, a police report should be considered if for no more reason than to have it on record that the person stole so that they cannot come back and have recourse to sue for wrongful termination.

    Also, "caught stealing" can be any number of things. Office supplies... eh. Whatever. Skimming cash from the register? How much? Stealing expensive lab/computing equipment or stealing proprietary/private data... now we're into real larceny and we're calling the cops. (And, yes... I've had to make that call before.)

    I stole that example from the H/A thread, where it was essentially taking cash from the register.

    As for the whole "satisfaction" thing. What if I'm really pissed that a friend of a friend broke my xbox and I think getting the police involved will teach him a lesson. But if I was having a good day I'd be more likely to let it slide. Should "whether I feel like being a dick or not" really be the standard in whether a crime is worth going to the cops? Should someone be judged as a dick for doing so?

    Yah sure that guy shouldn't have punched you or broken your stuff, but he committed a crime and isn't it wrong for people to treat you badly because you choose to actually pursue the technically correct course of action?

  • iTunesIsEviliTunesIsEvil Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Dunadan019 wrote: »
    With as big a dick as you'd have to be to hit someone for having a conversation with your S/O, I'm not sure prison or losing the girl would cause you to a critical look at why your behavior doesn't seem to be working out.

    at a bar people get drunk and get into fights over less stupid shit than that.

    don't assume that the only reason he threw a punch was because he was a "huge dick"

    nice guys do stupid things when drunk and threatened.
    I feel pretty safe labeling the person that does the punching in VC's hypothetical as a huge dick.

  • Grid SystemGrid System Registered User
    edited April 2009
    Asiina wrote: »
    As for the whole "satisfaction" thing. What if I'm really pissed that a friend of a friend broke my xbox and I think getting the police involved will teach him a lesson. But if I was having a good day I'd be more likely to let it slide. Should "whether I feel like being a dick or not" really be the standard in whether a crime is worth going to the cops?
    Yup. I wouldn't express it that way, but the underlying principle is as sound as you're going to get.
    Should someone be judged as a dick for doing so?
    Nope. The only time you're a dick for going to the police is when there are no reasonable grounds for believing that an offence has been committed. Otherwise it's entirely up to you to decide if it's worth your time and effort.

  • geckahngeckahn Registered User
    edited April 2009
    Asiina wrote: »
    Honk wrote: »
    Hypothetical situation. I'm at a bar, I'm drinking and having fun and end up talking to some girl about whatever. Over-amped douchebag comes out of the woodwork and tells me I'd better stop talking to his girl. I say I'm just having a conversation, I'm allowed to do that, and then he punches me. I'll have a bruise and there's maybe a minor cut. I pay my tab and go to another bar to have some more drinks so I won't feel it. Am I a bad person?

    No, but you'd probably be a more satisfied person if the guy spent a few nights in jail. But small stuff like that never gets to or through court.

    Isn't this just revenge? In this situation the police don't need to be involved to civilly resolve it, but it's socially acceptable because "ha ha fuck that guy"? That doesn't really make sense.

    Well, the argument is that the police do have to be involved, because otherwise I just taught a guy that he can go around punching people in bars if he doesn't like them.

    generally speaking this is why bars have bouncers, so the cops do not get involved.

  • SpeakerSpeaker Registered User regular
    edited April 2009
    Prison is where people who are sentenced to long incarcerations are sent after trials.

    Jail is where people are held prior to trial for short periods if they can't make bail, or if they only have sentences of a few months.

    Being walkers with the dawn and morning,
    Walkers with the sun and morning, we are not afraid of night,
    Nor days of gloom, nor darkness -
    Being walkers with the sun and morning.
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