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I dont normally need help with this stuff but I am really struggling at this point....
To put it bluntly... I used to not have issues finding girls and I in the past have had serious relationship issues.. Commitment issues as it will...
I have been going out with this girl for 4 months. Seeing her for like 8 months now and I know she has ONLY guy friends.. No girls as friends but she goes on about how her guy friends always squeeze her bottom and stuff and it really makes me worry... anyway... there are a few issues to the relationship like she does some drugs and I dont like it at all and she gets drunk every weekend and I am old enough to be passed that area of my life..
Point being is I trust her but she goes out and gets smashed with all of her male friends to which I have never met any of them... Every weekend she gets paralytic with them and tells me stories of say this weekend her friend she goes out clubbing with tried to hookup (kiss her) and she said no.. i have a bf and then he kept trying so she got into a taxi and left. Last weekend the taxi driver put his hand on her crotch and was trying to get with her..
This kind of shit really concerns me... I mean.. This stuff happened last night with her male friend but every 30 minutes pretty much she was messaging me while drunk saying 'i like you SOOO much'
arhhghh I know Im soo F*Ked up about the issue. I've told her and she said.. its ok i would be jealous to if you hung around with girls..
What am I spost to do about it all????
Tomorrow I plan on asking her if i can meet these male friends.. She keeps on telling me since she started going out with me all her friends seem a little pissed at her and have started to test her. She tells me I wont like going out with them because they will try to fire me up by coming onto her and stuff infront of me.
The issue I have is in the past I have just got ridden of a girl at the first sign of trouble.. This one Im trying to hold onto because I think she is the only keeper I have ever met... yet most nights Im pretty much worried out of my head as to what she is up to.. for instance tonight she went over to a mates (guys) house to watch movies with..
Just to add one more thing... she doesnt invite me out with her friends... her excuse for that is she doesnt ask me out because she doesnt want to get drunk infront of me because she doesnt want to make a fool of herself..
Advice? what do I do? I feel the need to get rid of her and find someone that wants me to be more of their life but I know when it comes to this stuff I always ditch the towel to early.. I need to know If in this case Im being immature and just cant cope with my shit or I should get rid of her...