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Problems getting excited above and beyond [Sex question]
Well, damn...did I never expect to post here, with this...but here goes nothing.
So, recently I have been dating this girl and we started sleeping together (no sex yet, but a lot of naked fun). As fun as that is, I have some 'problems'. Now, I've had this with the previous girl I slept with, and possibly the one before that, who was my first.
I simply do not 'feel' it, that is, I do get in the mood, I do have fun, but when she goes down on me, for example, it seems like it takes ages for me to come. Not that I am bored, but it simply doesn't get me any more excited, I have a much better time getting her off.
Now, the thing is, if I masturbate (which I haven't done since we started sleeping together), I do get in the mood, breathing heavy, etc.
I talked with her about it, explained my problems and although she does find it somewhat frustrating, she seems to be okay with me being slow and not very responsive.
Oh yes, one last thing, even though I have slept with several girls, I am still a 'technical' virgin (both ended prematurely, once for logistic reasons, once because we simple didn't work together).