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Gay Soldier on Cover of Soldier (Why The US Is Behind The Times)

http://www.soldiermagazine.co.uk/mag/feature1.htm

“I still can’t get my head round the US’ ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ policy,” said Tpr Wharton, who has served Queen and country for six years.
“Considering some people have general problems every week I’m not complaining,” he said “I haven’t got any personal problems. My problems are like every other soldier’s – bombs and bullets.”
The trooper was also keen to elaborate on the general misconceptions people have about homosexual men and women. “People tend to think gay people don’t like sport and that
they just sit and file their nails – that is not the case,” he said. “I love playing and watching sport –I’m a massive Liverpool fan and I don’t own a nail file.”


The gay stereotype is quickly dying, and yet still, there are those that tout "homosexuals" will break the morale of the US armed forces. Gay people are like everyone else and should be able to serve openly.

This is kind of another DADT thread, but it's more a highlight of how another country, much like ours in its legislative overzealousness, is 10 years ahead of us on military social issues.

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  • Fuzzy Cumulonimbus CloudFuzzy Cumulonimbus Cloud Registered User regular
    Mom2Kat wrote: »
    Hell here in Canada we have had military wedding for gay couples, (once the highest court said no, you can't ban gan marriage its against the charter of rights and freedoms).

    There is no real problems here. Hell even the largest protestent church (United Church of Canada) was and is fully behind the courts. Society hasn't collapsed and our troops are doing a damn good job in Afaghanistan.

    Reposting this here, as the other two threads are duplicates. Dumb forums. ):

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  • TicaldfjamTicaldfjam Registered User regular
    With the amount of need and the stretching thin of our military, you'd think the military would be glad that ANYONE would serve valiantly.

    I remember seeing a former US Army general on Fox News making the " You've go to trust your soilder in the trenches of battle" which was really his code for " I don't want no faggit trying to rape me while I kill, cuz I can't concentrate on killing".


    I mean personally, I'm not gay. If I was in the military and someone was gay I could give two fucks. I just want a badass with a machine gun and to KILL KILL KILL the badguys across from us.

  • Sunday_AssassinSunday_Assassin Registered User
    http://www.soldiermagazine.co.uk/mag/feature1.htm

    “I still can’t get my head round the US’ ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ policy,” said Tpr Wharton, who has served Queen and country for six years.

    There's a joke in there somewhere, I'm sure of it :P

    Seriously, though, this just sounds like common sense to most people, I would have thought. It's just another case of policy remaining the same where change would cause politicians a few career problems (see: War on drugs etc.) if it happens on their watch.

  • Mr_RoseMr_Rose Registered User regular
    Forgive my ignorance, but what is "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" exactly?
    As I understand it, it amounts to saying "yes homosexuals are banned from serving, but we, as a matter of strict policy, refuse to actually determine whether or not any of our service personnel are homosexual."
    If that's the case then your military is more fucked up than I imagined...

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  • RMS OceanicRMS Oceanic Registered User regular
    Mr_Rose wrote: »
    Forgive my ignorance, but what is "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" exactly?
    As I understand it, it amounts to saying "yes homosexuals are banned from serving, but we, as a matter of strict policy, refuse to actually determine whether or not any of our service personnel are homosexual."
    If that's the case then your military is more fucked up than I imagined...

    Basic summary:

    - The army is not allowed to ask about your sexuality when you join.
    - If the army discovers that you are gay, for example if you walked up to your general and said "I enjoy sexual intercourse with people who are the same gender as I am", you will be discharged.

    And yes, it is fucked up.

  • GoodOmensGoodOmens Registered User regular
    Mr_Rose wrote: »
    Forgive my ignorance, but what is "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" exactly?
    As I understand it, it amounts to saying "yes homosexuals are banned from serving, but we, as a matter of strict policy, refuse to actually determine whether or not any of our service personnel are homosexual."
    If that's the case then your military is more fucked up than I imagined...

    Well, it's a little more complex than that. The military will discharge anyone who engages in homosexual acts, which can include any statement by the service member that he or she is homosexual. Even, say, mentioning a boyfriend back home would do it (potentially, at least). Sexual orientation itself is not a basis for discharge, sexual activity is. So, basically, if you're gay don't act gay or talk gay or give anyone anywhere the impression that you might act gay or talk gay later. Yes, it's fucked up.

    What I really don't understand is this: we ask our military personnel to undergo inhuman amounts of stress and trauma. We ask them to train for untold hours, to endure extremes of temperature and deprivation, to be ready to leave their homes and families at very short notice for extended periods of time, to be hurt and to kill and to die. We ask them to be, frankly, superhuman. And we worry that the final straw might be that Bruce over in the 33rd Batallion might check out their ass.

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  • HyperAquaBlastHyperAquaBlast Registered User regular
    I'm all for gays being open in the military cause it really shouldn't matter. I use this same analogy to the homophobes here in the Coast Guard: I'm a man and I work with women. I like women but just because I do doesn't mean I'm going to rape them or not be able to work with them because I'd fall in love with all of them cause I like girls. Same thing for a homosexual. Just because a guy is gay doesn't mean he has uncontrolable urges to have sex with men. We have sex offenders on both sides but they are few and far between (hopefully). Mostly people are here to do their job they volunteered for in the military and get some benefits. I guess the other thing is the prissy stereotype and I don't know how to explain that since I have seen so many metrosexuals here but they all have done their job and then get nice once off duty.

    Anyways the things is my shipmates hardly ever understand when I say this and their immediate response is asking if I'm a fag. And thats the problem I see mostly right now. Taunting and disrespect and just plain guys being bullies. Most of the armed forces are fresh out of American high schools and not exactly the greatest citizens.

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  • RecklessReckless Registered User
    Don't Ask, Don't Tell needs to go and I think Gates and the rest of the Administration understands that. Robbie wants another +-15,000 troops, well, there you go.

    Edit: Hey, my rookie Senator is pushing the issue. http://www.politico.com/news/stories/0709/25498.html

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  • GrimReaperGrimReaper Registered User regular
    I remember hearing about an F15 pilot in the USAF getting chucked out because he announced he was gay on a tv interview or something. He was a highly decorated one as well. That's a pretty retarded thing to do, of all the professions to chuck out someone the air force should be the last to be doing something as stupid as that. Being a pilot is a highly specialised skill, it takes millions to train them and just because one says he's gay he gets chucked out. It's the very definition of stupidity.

    On an offshoot note anyone hear about in the American south how some of the people who were involved with the black civil rights movement are essentially repeating the white segregation talking points about gays. The hypocrisy is outstanding.

    If I were gay and American i'd be pretty outraged, thankfully because i'm in Europe we are all pretty chilled out about peoples sex lives etc. I'm actually pretty peeved that American fox news thing decried Amsterdam as the moral cesspit, damn Dutch it should at least have been London.

    EDIT:

    Fox trashes the Dutch

    I want a good laugh, pity they don't do one of their crap reports on the UK. The only one I could find was this one:

    Fox is geographically challenged

    What I find hilarious about that is when they mentioned where Leeds was I laughed myself silly, the area they circled was just south of the midlands. It was as if someone had circled an area of texas and said "this is new york".

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  • KeamienKeamien Registered User regular
    One of the main issues with changing American policy is we are way too fucking proud to admit any mistakes. Ever. I see it in my chain of command from the bottom to the top, no one wants to possibly harm their career by admitting to a mistake. But on the other hand, them thar gays are everywhere here in the services. I can count five off the top of my head that are in my company alone, which is less than 100 people.

  • jothkijothki Registered User regular
    I wonder what would happen to Don't Ask, Don't Tell if we ever brought back the draft.

  • GrimReaperGrimReaper Registered User regular
    jothki wrote: »
    I wonder what would happen to Don't Ask, Don't Tell if we ever brought back the draft.

    If conscription was ever brought back in the UK I'd be declaring myself as loving the cock. Although if they asked for proof I may find myself in some trouble. Hey, I could always provide a photo to 4chan and request some shopping couldn't I?

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  • King RiptorKing Riptor Registered User regular
    jothki wrote: »
    I wonder what would happen to Don't Ask, Don't Tell if we ever brought back the draft.

    They'd probably get rid of it. If not I'm pretty sure sales of Ass less chaps would go way up that year.


    IIRC there was a thread on here about this where Obama stated he wants to end DADT.

  • japanjapan Registered User regular
    GrimReaper wrote: »
    jothki wrote: »
    I wonder what would happen to Don't Ask, Don't Tell if we ever brought back the draft.

    If conscription was ever brought back in the UK I'd be declaring myself as loving the cock. Although if they asked for proof I may find myself in some trouble. Hey, I could always provide a photo to 4chan and request some shopping couldn't I?

    You...

    You do realise that cock-loving is not an obstacle to serving in the UK's armed forces, right?

  • MelksterMelkster Registered User regular
    So, as a gay man, I have to say...

    That soldier on the cover is ridiculously hot.

    /le sigh

  • GrimReaperGrimReaper Registered User regular
    japan wrote: »
    GrimReaper wrote: »
    jothki wrote: »
    I wonder what would happen to Don't Ask, Don't Tell if we ever brought back the draft.

    If conscription was ever brought back in the UK I'd be declaring myself as loving the cock. Although if they asked for proof I may find myself in some trouble. Hey, I could always provide a photo to 4chan and request some shopping couldn't I?

    You...

    You do realise that cock-loving is not an obstacle to serving in the UK's armed forces, right?

    Oh shit...

    I'm.. i'm off to wash my mouth and brush my teeth now. I knew I shouldn't have hired that gay escort and his friend to my house with their camera just as a precaution.

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  • King RiptorKing Riptor Registered User regular
    japan wrote: »
    GrimReaper wrote: »
    jothki wrote: »
    I wonder what would happen to Don't Ask, Don't Tell if we ever brought back the draft.

    If conscription was ever brought back in the UK I'd be declaring myself as loving the cock. Although if they asked for proof I may find myself in some trouble. Hey, I could always provide a photo to 4chan and request some shopping couldn't I?

    You...

    You do realise that cock-loving is not an obstacle to serving in the UK's armed forces, right?

    Well that would eliminate 90% of your population as eligible to serve.
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  • darthmixdarthmix Registered User
    Can I ask an incredibly stupid question on this topic?

    Before DADT the military didn't allow gay people to serve in any capacity, even if they were super-closeted. So, if we repeal DADT... don't we just revert back to that earlier policy? Obviously I'm completely misunderstanding how military policies like this get changed. Did the earlier policy get erased when DADT went into effect, such that it wouldn't be resurrected if we repealed it?

  • Casual EddyCasual Eddy Registered User regular
    Melkster wrote: »
    So, as a gay man, I have to say...

    That soldier on the cover is ridiculously hot.

    /le sigh

    oh god yes

  • Captain CarrotCaptain Carrot Registered User regular
    Repealing DADT (such that the military officially doesn't give a fuck whom you fuck) will involve setting up the new policy, yes.

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  • Casual EddyCasual Eddy Registered User regular
    I would imagine they would keep the 'don't ask' part since you aren't allowed to ask about that sort of thing for any other job.

  • MelksterMelkster Registered User regular
    I would imagine they would keep the 'don't ask' part since you aren't allowed to ask about that sort of thing for any other job.

    The new bill should just be called, "You Can Tell Anyone You Want!" Though sadly, that doesn't quite have the ring to it as "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" though. Edit: Seriously, it needs a better name than just "Gay Soldier Bill" or something. We should come up with a cool, catchy name for it and then all blog about it at once. It'll catch on and help the cause.

    Speaking of DADT, did anyone else read Unfriendly Fire: How the Gay Ban Undermines the Military and Weakens America (Hardcover)?

    I was surprised to learn that being gay in the military was on the whole better before DADT than after. At least back then, you could use the Queen for a Day defense - that you weren't actually homosexual, you just had a temporary homosexual experience that has now passed. You still had to lie, but at least you didn't lose your entire career, and the military didn't lose a valuable trooper.

  • Fuzzy Cumulonimbus CloudFuzzy Cumulonimbus Cloud Registered User regular
    Don't Ask: DO TELL HONEY

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  • KhavallKhavall Registered User regular
    I think a few things here.

    First, DADT is stupid. I've got a tilted view because right now I work a lot in musical theater, so I hang out with the gays all the time, but other than the fact that many of the ones I know just wouldn't want to serve in the military, I don't think any of them could ever harm morale or be ineligible for service other than being gay. Fuck, I'm hardcore trying to lose weight right now so I can serve, and a lot of these guys could just join up straight away without any problems other than the gay, and would be a benefit to wherever they're serving and probably help morale, they're fun people.

    Second, It's going to be repealed and it's going to be repealed relatively soon, I have no doubt. It's a long hard process to change the uniform code, but it will happen.

    Third, from what I understand the Commissioned Officers of the armed forces in the US are incredibly conservative. Liberal Officers basically either have to shut up or deal with a ton of shit. This is obviously a roadblock.

    Fourth, the idea that the gays will have to deal with a ton of shit... sure they will. They do in pretty much everywhere not Oberlin campus, Chelsea, NYC, or the Village, NYC. Sure there are exceptions, but they do have to deal with stupid people. I'm sure that when blacks started serving in the military they also had to deal with a ton of shit, same with the outside world. But a lot of soldiers know if they have a gay squadmate and don't care, and I have a feeling when those that can't deal with gays serving with them see that the gays actually are capable and not disruptive, they'll either change their opinions or be the outcast opinion. Also they'll be ordered not to harass the gays and they'll either do so or be drummed out.

  • Kipling217Kipling217 Registered User regular
    darthmix wrote: »
    Can I ask an incredibly stupid question on this topic?

    Before DADT the military didn't allow gay people to serve in any capacity, even if they were super-closeted. So, if we repeal DADT... don't we just revert back to that earlier policy? Obviously I'm completely misunderstanding how military policies like this get changed. Did the earlier policy get erased when DADT went into effect, such that it wouldn't be resurrected if we repealed it?

    The problem was that there was no formal rule against gays serving. There was a lot of homophobia, gaybashings and dishonorable discharges. But no outright: "gays can't serve here" rule. Gays where just considered unfit soldiers if found out.

    Thats why DADT is so fucking stupid. It legalises homophobia, while giving no protection to gays. Lots of peope get kicked out for "telling" part. None have gotten kicked out for the "Asking" part.

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  • RecklessReckless Registered User
    Khavall wrote: »

    Fourth, the idea that the gays will have to deal with a ton of shit... sure they will. They do in pretty much everywhere not Oberlin campus, Chelsea, NYC, or the Village, NYC. Sure there are exceptions, but they do have to deal with stupid people. I'm sure that when blacks started serving in the military they also had to deal with a ton of shit, same with the outside world. But a lot of soldiers know if they have a gay squadmate and don't care, and I have a feeling when those that can't deal with gays serving with them see that the gays actually are capable and not disruptive, they'll either change their opinions or be the outcast opinion. Also they'll be ordered not to harass the gays and they'll either do so or be drummed out.

    Sounds to me an awful like historical echoes of the desegregation of military units, which is how I frame the elimination of DADT. The parallels are fairly obvious.

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  • WotanAnubisWotanAnubis Registered User regular
    GrimReaper wrote: »
    EDIT:

    Fox trashes the Dutch

    I want a good laugh, pity they don't do one of their crap reports on the UK.
    Well, I got a laugh out of it, at least. Seriously, "after legalizing euthanasia and infanticide"? Seriously? :lol:

    Also, the only reason Why We Are Developing A Suicide Pill is because we don't have easy access to guns.

  • blizzard224blizzard224 Registered User
    GrimReaper wrote: »
    EDIT:

    Fox trashes the Dutch

    I want a good laugh, pity they don't do one of their crap reports on the UK.
    Well, I got a laugh out of it, at least. Seriously, "after legalizing euthanasia and infanticide"? Seriously? :lol:

    Also, the only reason Why We Are Developing A Suicide Pill is because we don't have easy access to guns.

    Man I must be some kind of filthy liberal because that video seems entirely positive to me.

    On the subject of Gays in the Military, while checking to see what the Australian Military's stance was on the matter, I found an article in the Sydney Herald:
    The University of California's centre for the study of sexual minorities in the military found that the Australia Defence Forces's decision to lift the ban on open gay and lesbian soldiers had not caused a decline in military performance.

    The centre's director and University of California department of political science Assistant Professor Aaron Belkin said the Australian findings were in keeping with research into gays and lesbians in the Canadian and Israeli forces.
    http://www.palmcenter.org/press/dadt/in_print/gay_military_recruits_subject_of_us_study

    Obviously any sane person already knew that would be the case, but there you go, (relatively) concrete evidence.

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