Hey [chat], is it normal to feel unmotivated and kind of ashamed to nearly always be the one inviting himself over to meet other people? I think the last invitation I got was from January when a friend had his birthday. But he invited like a hundred people, so that doesn't really count.
Is it that weird to call me up or shoot me an e-mail inviting me over for idk dinner or movies or a beer? I'm nearly always the one who has to ask. And it's not like all my friends are all the same kind of shy people, they're a very diverse bunch. And when I meet them it's great fun, but if I don't call them up I don't think they'll ever talk to me again or something. I already have separation anxiety after having lost nearly all the friends I ever made, now I can't help fret a lot over other people I know simply not wanting to ever talk to me again.
among my circle of friends, it tends to be the same people who keep inviting everyone else to parties
maybe in your circle
it's you
Same here. We had one socialite friend that tended to keep everyone abreast as to what was going on.
among my circle of friends, it tends to be the same people who keep inviting everyone else to parties
maybe in your circle
it's you
It's not so much a circle as it's a bunch of people who don't really know each other, or only know of each other. I think the closest thing to a circle is the guys from the computer club back in high school, but I hang out with 2 of them separately most of the time and we only meet as a group once every blue moon.
t Winky: Oh I'm sorry, I'll just give you a call next time I want to maek poast.
t Eddy: The thing with friendships is that they are not like relationships. When someone in a relationship doesnt want to see the other half any more they'll let them know, possibly in a very confronting, angry, frustrated, hateful, distanced, considerate, inconsiderate, roundabout way...but they'll be "breaking up". Friendships don't work like that, when someone does not want to be friends any more they will reduce contact to zero.
among my circle of friends, it tends to be the same people who keep inviting everyone else to parties
maybe in your circle
it's you
It's not so much a circle as it's a bunch of people who don't really know each other, or only know of each other. I think the closest thing to a circle is the guys from the computer club back in high school, but I hang out with 2 of them separately most of the time and we only meet as a group once every blue moon.
t Winky: Oh I'm sorry, I'll just give you a call next time I want to maek poast.
t Eddy: The thing with friendships is that they are not like relationships. When someone in a relationship doesnt want to see the other half any more they'll let them know, possibly in a very confronting, angry, frustrated, hateful, distanced, considerate, inconsiderate, roundabout way...but they'll be "breaking up". Friendships don't work like that, when someone does not want to be friends any more they will reduce contact to zero.
If someone genuinely dislikes spending time with you I think they'll try to avoid you when possible
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This is the best game of DF. We lost all the supplies and five of seven dwarves in an unexpected thawing of the ocean. The two survivors struggle on, haunted by mental illness, no tools except one copper axe and no real useful skills.
Day 1: Crappy beds in a cave.
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DynagripBreak me a million heartsHoustonRegistered User, ClubPAregular
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guh, my head doesn't feel so great. hope it holds up well enough for me to lift some weights.
Also, I finished Astro City: Dark Ages 2. Such a great series. I think there's a new one coming out real soon.
This is the best game of DF. We lost all the supplies and five of seven dwarves in an unexpected thawing of the ocean. The two survivors struggle on, haunted by mental illness, no tools except one copper axe and no real useful skills.
Day 1: Crappy beds in a cave.
are you gonna try to survive until the next caravan?
If someone genuinely dislikes spending time with you I think they'll try to avoid you when possible
Avoiding me is ridiculously easy, I work full-time and spend most of my time indoors working on sideprojects or playing vidjagames. I mean, if they dislike me, it'll take me ages to find out about it.
This is the best game of DF. We lost all the supplies and five of seven dwarves in an unexpected thawing of the ocean. The two survivors struggle on, haunted by mental illness, no tools except one copper axe and no real useful skills.
Day 1: Crappy beds in a cave.
are you gonna try to survive until the next caravan?
The goal was to do just that, start churning out food crafts and then bring it back from the brink.
Sadly, dwarves can't drink salt water and all the beer was at the bottom of the sea. Hence, they just died of dehydration. Holding one another.
The caravan arrived one day and found the needless deaths, there was just one question,
"Why did they decided to park their wagon on the frozen shore in the first place?"
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Homogeneous distribution of your varieties of amuse-gueule
This is the best game of DF. We lost all the supplies and five of seven dwarves in an unexpected thawing of the ocean. The two survivors struggle on, haunted by mental illness, no tools except one copper axe and no real useful skills.
Day 1: Crappy beds in a cave.
are you gonna try to survive until the next caravan?
The goal was to do just that, start churning out food crafts and then bring it back from the brink.
Sadly, dwarves can't drink salt water and all the beer was at the bottom of the sea. Hence, they just died of dehydration. Holding one another.
The caravan arrived one day and found the needless deaths, there was just one question,
"Why did they decided to park their wagon on the frozen shore in the first place?"
do you need water to make beer now?
I don't know how mentally ill they are, but couldn't gather some herbs and build a wooden brewery and make some beer?
If someone genuinely dislikes spending time with you I think they'll try to avoid you when possible
Avoiding me is ridiculously easy, I work full-time and spend most of my time indoors working on sideprojects or playing vidjagames. I mean, if they dislike me, it'll take me ages to find out about it.
What age group are we talking here?
I ask because I hang out with friends a lot less these days unless there's a specific event happening. Back in the day I used to hang out with friends on nearly a daily basis but my friends and I have gotten older it's gotten harder to hang out. Life just has a habit of getting in the way as you get older.
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Mojo_JojoWe are only now beginning to understand the full power and ramifications of sexual intercourseRegistered Userregular
This is the best game of DF. We lost all the supplies and five of seven dwarves in an unexpected thawing of the ocean. The two survivors struggle on, haunted by mental illness, no tools except one copper axe and no real useful skills.
Day 1: Crappy beds in a cave.
are you gonna try to survive until the next caravan?
The goal was to do just that, start churning out food crafts and then bring it back from the brink.
Sadly, dwarves can't drink salt water and all the beer was at the bottom of the sea. Hence, they just died of dehydration. Holding one another.
The caravan arrived one day and found the needless deaths, there was just one question,
"Why did they decided to park their wagon on the frozen shore in the first place?"
do you need water to make beer now?
I don't know how mentally ill they are, but couldn't gather some herbs and build a wooden brewery and make some beer?
Not in time they couldn't. Thirst is a swift killer.
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DynagripBreak me a million heartsHoustonRegistered User, ClubPAregular
among my circle of friends, it tends to be the same people who keep inviting everyone else to parties
maybe in your circle
it's you
It's not so much a circle as it's a bunch of people who don't really know each other, or only know of each other. I think the closest thing to a circle is the guys from the computer club back in high school, but I hang out with 2 of them separately most of the time and we only meet as a group once every blue moon.
I am aware that the nature of friendships tends to vary from culture to culture, but... supposing that circles of friends who all know each other tend to form, if I were considering a bunch of people who don't really know each other (but know you), I would suppose that most of those people do have a circle of friends. Who know each other, and who you don't really know. So when they seek people to hang out with, they might not look to you first.
I so want ME3 to come out. Like, tomorrow. I must admit having played ME1 and ME2 for the first time back to back I'm kind of scared of what they're going to change though
Um, have you played through Portal 2 yet?
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If someone genuinely dislikes spending time with you I think they'll try to avoid you when possible
Avoiding me is ridiculously easy, I work full-time and spend most of my time indoors working on sideprojects or playing vidjagames. I mean, if they dislike me, it'll take me ages to find out about it.
What age group are we talking here?
I ask because I hang out with friends a lot less these days unless there's a specific event happening. Back in the day I used to hang out with friends on nearly a daily basis but my friends and I have gotten older it's gotten harder to hang out. Life just has a habit of getting in the way as you get older.
Nearly all my friends are twentysomethings, none of us have children [strike]thank god[/strike] yet and nearly everyone is in university/on the hunt for their first real job.
I never hung out with anyone on a daily basis since high school, so that's OK.
I am aware that the nature of friendships tends to vary from culture to culture, but... supposing that circles of friends who all know each other tend to form, if I were considering a bunch of people who don't really know each other (but know you), I would suppose that most of those people do have a circle of friends. Who know each other, and who you don't really know. So when they seek people to hang out with, they might not look to you first.
This may or may not be the case, of course.
Cultural differences are pretty minimal between here and US/UK/Germany/Scandinavia/Australia/New Zealand. :P
I guess you're right in that they all have closer friends elsewhere.
Hmm, tonight should be rad. Bunch of friends I haven't seen in ages are coming. Should make up for not getting Donglover tickets. Gonna have a goooooood day.
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Same here. We had one socialite friend that tended to keep everyone abreast as to what was going on.
So just remove a small area of hair.
Get your initials permanently etched into your chest and back.
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t Winky: Oh I'm sorry, I'll just give you a call next time I want to maek poast.
t Eddy: The thing with friendships is that they are not like relationships. When someone in a relationship doesnt want to see the other half any more they'll let them know, possibly in a very confronting, angry, frustrated, hateful, distanced, considerate, inconsiderate, roundabout way...but they'll be "breaking up". Friendships don't work like that, when someone does not want to be friends any more they will reduce contact to zero.
the only area the groupon would apply to that I need is the back of the neck and that didn't seem worth 150
have you done an all melee run
If someone genuinely dislikes spending time with you I think they'll try to avoid you when possible
Day 1: Crappy beds in a cave.
Also, I finished Astro City: Dark Ages 2. Such a great series. I think there's a new one coming out real soon.
On to something else
Don't get me wrong, I loves me some Mass Effect
But 14 playthroughs of ME2 alone?
That.... that might be too much Mass Effect
are you gonna try to survive until the next caravan?
you're a silly
do it
nothing but melee and powers
Yes, it's a collection of the one shot specials. And Amazon is shipping it. I got mine last week.
but ME3 isn't out yet
The goal was to do just that, start churning out food crafts and then bring it back from the brink.
Sadly, dwarves can't drink salt water and all the beer was at the bottom of the sea. Hence, they just died of dehydration. Holding one another.
The caravan arrived one day and found the needless deaths, there was just one question,
"Why did they decided to park their wagon on the frozen shore in the first place?"
"So it's dark outside so there'll be monsters so let's go inside but uh I need some wood so let's go out and OH GOD MY FACE"
I tried to watch a video of that, but the guy's voice made me tear my own ears off.
didn't mean they werent friends
do you need water to make beer now?
I don't know how mentally ill they are, but couldn't gather some herbs and build a wooden brewery and make some beer?
What age group are we talking here?
I ask because I hang out with friends a lot less these days unless there's a specific event happening. Back in the day I used to hang out with friends on nearly a daily basis but my friends and I have gotten older it's gotten harder to hang out. Life just has a habit of getting in the way as you get older.
Not in time they couldn't. Thirst is a swift killer.
yeah, i ordered it just now. pretty good time for me, though I guess now I'll have to wait years for the next one after it.
also, you know that pumps can desalinate sea water, right? although they are kind of a hassle to build
I am aware that the nature of friendships tends to vary from culture to culture, but... supposing that circles of friends who all know each other tend to form, if I were considering a bunch of people who don't really know each other (but know you), I would suppose that most of those people do have a circle of friends. Who know each other, and who you don't really know. So when they seek people to hang out with, they might not look to you first.
This may or may not be the case, of course.
Yeah, I gave up.
Do want Terraria, though.
I so want ME3 to come out. Like, tomorrow. I must admit having played ME1 and ME2 for the first time back to back I'm kind of scared of what they're going to change though
Um, have you played through Portal 2 yet?
Most likely. I've been filling in some of the gaps in my collection. Like The Tarnished Angel. But I think I'm completely caught up now.
Nearly all my friends are twentysomethings, none of us have children [strike]thank god[/strike] yet and nearly everyone is in university/on the hunt for their first real job.
I never hung out with anyone on a daily basis since high school, so that's OK.
I guess you're right in that they all have closer friends elsewhere.
next week's doctor who is PIRATE EPISODE.
Also this episode was awesome.
Take that, depression and suicidal urges.
though when I put it in for two and a half minutes, everything was pretty hot, but the chicken was undercooked
maybe next time I put the chicken in for a minute or two by itself and then the whole thing for a minute and a half
Do you remember that kid that Captain Jack used to get his 'street' info from? The one that was centuries old but looked like twelve?
Yeah.
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