I know i aint much to look at but its not what people looks like its what is inside that counts im a fun bubbly person and im really a romantic i may not look that good from the outside but good inside
What I’m doing with my life
i have 3 wonderful children which one does not live with but the other 2 do, i enjoy football with the children also love swimming im an outdoor person but loves the quiet nights in with a dvd and popcorn
I’m really good at
being a mum and keeping everybody happy, im really sure what im good at to be honest
The first things people usually notice about me
my ass lol everyone says i got a cute bum so that is fine lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
oh where to start im a big fan of Twilight and Vampire Diaries i dont mind gavin and stacey and music i like anything except heavy metal and that sort of music i like most foods
The six things I could never do without
my phone
my family
my friends
my children
thats all i can think of lol
I spend a lot of time thinking about
a new life with a nice decent guy
Well hey there dating people, you're looking good :winky:
I'm thinking I might maybe possibly join you soon. Don't really want to, but I do at the same time. And i'm wondering how I'd even do at this point
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VivixenneRemember your training, and we'll get through this just fine.Registered Userregular
edited December 2011
also maybe I'm not hip to it because I'm not single
but surely a profile that's written so clumsily—with zero attention paid not even to grammar but to basic things like your SHIFT KEY and your FULL STOP KEY—isn't going to net you that much attention
maybe I am overthinking this... maybe
but a profile written like that makes me think that if you're so inattentive and vapid as to the way you "sell" yourself or try to attract people enough to send you a message, it does not make me think you are really very serious about finding someone on OKC at all and are just doing it for some other reason
maybe those reasons are valid, sure, but I dunno, I feel like if she can't even put the effort into making a profile that's coherent, why bother making one at all
My profile is stupid. There's no picture, it's full of bad jokes, it's not close to completion and I hate it. I still get messages at least once a week or more with people wanting to talk or go on dates.
also maybe I'm not hip to it because I'm not single
but surely a profile that's written so clumsily—with zero attention paid not even to grammar but to basic things like your SHIFT KEY and your FULL STOP KEY—isn't going to net you that much attention
maybe I am overthinking this... maybe
but a profile written like that makes me think that if you're so inattentive and vapid as to the way you "sell" yourself or try to attract people enough to send you a message, it does not make me think you are really very serious about finding someone on OKC at all and are just doing it for some other reason
maybe those reasons are valid, sure, but I dunno, I feel like if she can't even put the effort into making a profile that's coherent, why bother making one at all
You are definitely over thinking this. There are a lot of people who do not see grammar and all this as a priority. Especially not online
That might not make them your ideal person, but it doesn't make them an unsuitable match
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BeastehTHAT WOULD NOTKILL DRACULARegistered Userregular
tito do you want to internet date me we can go and get some ice cream and maybe play some of that new spyro game on xbox
Well in that case I've got to say that I'm a very petty and shallow person, because a basic grasp of the language is pretty much a must as far as I'm concerned.
Or at least the absence of lols
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VivixenneRemember your training, and we'll get through this just fine.Registered Userregular
edited December 2011
but Kyle, it's not even the grammar that is actually bothering me
it's the sheer vapidity, if you will, of the stuff she is saying
you read all that stuff in her profile and you realize that even though you've read it, you know NOTHING about her except for the fact that has kids, laughs out loud a LOT, has an allegedly cute butt (LOL) and cannot think of a six thing she can't live without
I don't care about grammar considering I ain't very good with it myself. What I am interested in is someone who likes being bound and gagged and transported across state lines.
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VivixenneRemember your training, and we'll get through this just fine.Registered Userregular
edited December 2011
I don't think I'm very fussy, and I don't mean that in a defensive way
mostly I think that, okay, you sign up on a dating site to meet people, usually because other more "conventional" methods have not worked
when your profile is essentially the ONLY thing people look at prior to establishing contact, the fact that no EFFORT has been made to coherently share a single interesting thing about yourself, to me, indicates that if I messaged you, I'd be wasting my time
either you're not really into the OKC idea and you're doing it because you really don't know where else to go
or you want to seem completely "above" the online dating thing
or you want to appear completely aloof and disinterested (WHICH MIGHT WORK IN REAL LIFE BUT DOES NOT WORK ON A DATING SITE BECAUSE YOU ARE ON A DATING SITE YOU ARE CLEARLY INTERESTED ON SOME LEVEL OR ANOTHER so it's bullshit anyway)
and these things, to me, personally, do not appeal in the slightest (no matter how cute the butt really is), particularly if I were on OKC looking for a relationship with some potential
Nah. There seems like a good portion of people who dont really put any effort into their profiles or their messages. And probably a good portion of those who still get messaged a lot because they skate by on looks.
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BroloBroseidonLord of the BroceanRegistered Userregular
I don't care about grammar considering I ain't very good with it myself. What I am interested in is someone who likes being bound and gagged and transported across state lines.
My self-summary
im a girl with real curves and I'm very comfortable in my own skin! I'm really sexual and adventurous definitely no boring sex for this woman!! I currently live in the Albany Mobile Homes community with my four year old son Tye and five year old son Jamal. im not only looking for "the one" for me but also my kids. they need a respectible father figure.
I'm passionate and live life to the fullest. i go hard for the man in my life and im definitely a ride or die chick. im looking for somebody like me, romantic, sexual and EMPLOYED! ive sworn off deadbeats, so dont bother!
I make EVERYTHING and EVERYONE look good!!! But remember Im not just your arm candy!
I am sexy, curvy, and single
What I’m doing with my life
I live off of section 8 and food stamps.
I also sell (AND USE A LOT OF) sex toys. I like men who know their way around vibrators, handcuffs, gags, anal-beads, bondage straps, collars, whips, paddles, muzzles, clamps, to name a few.
I’m really good at
Sex, making out, drinking, cooking, being a mother,
The first things people usually notice about me
My sexy curves and eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't really read much, but I love to pick up a Cosmopolitan at the grocery store to learn how to please my man!
I don't have cable, but I'm always borrowing movies or digging through the 2 for 5 bin at Walmart!
I love to cook, and always have a fully stocked kitchen (thanks, Benefit card!). I don't like any of that vegetarian crap, give me real food! I'm from Virginia so i like dirty southern food, especially anything fried.
I usually listen to country or rap! LIL WEEZY!
The six things I could never do without
sex
my sons
bud
my neighbors wireless internet connection hehee
good food
did i mention sex?
Fair enough then. Less the actual grammar and spelling, more just the ability to portray ideas or just be interesting
Pretty much. I probably didn't make it clear in my initial post on the matter, but it's the lack of effort more than the lack of proper grammar that would bug me.
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I had this problem last time. In fact I think you me and Berk discussed the phenomenon and browsed each others' selections
...mind you I think "last time" equates to years at this point
hmm she's 24 and local:
that right there is a complete and utter turnoff
also twilight and barefaced admitting to being ugly
only like ironically LOL
ps kids are not a problem i can deal, my ex was a mum
I don't know why
but this one sounded more dumb than any of the other lols
Oh hey I knew people that went there.
I'm more concerned that she... can't seem to find one of her kids? Really I'm not even sure how to parse that sentence.
I'm thinking I might maybe possibly join you soon. Don't really want to, but I do at the same time. And i'm wondering how I'd even do at this point
but surely a profile that's written so clumsily—with zero attention paid not even to grammar but to basic things like your SHIFT KEY and your FULL STOP KEY—isn't going to net you that much attention
maybe I am overthinking this... maybe
but a profile written like that makes me think that if you're so inattentive and vapid as to the way you "sell" yourself or try to attract people enough to send you a message, it does not make me think you are really very serious about finding someone on OKC at all and are just doing it for some other reason
maybe those reasons are valid, sure, but I dunno, I feel like if she can't even put the effort into making a profile that's coherent, why bother making one at all
England, right?
I'm sure it got eaten by a feral Hobbit or something.
You know, showing you're not desperate or something by putting no effort in at all
They all get ignored.
lol
You are definitely over thinking this. There are a lot of people who do not see grammar and all this as a priority. Especially not online
That might not make them your ideal person, but it doesn't make them an unsuitable match
That's all I need.
I see where that other child went to now.
You've got weird dowry requirements.
Or at least the absence of lols
it's the sheer vapidity, if you will, of the stuff she is saying
you read all that stuff in her profile and you realize that even though you've read it, you know NOTHING about her except for the fact that has kids, laughs out loud a LOT, has an allegedly cute butt (LOL) and cannot think of a six thing she can't live without
sounds good and fun let's do that
I could see someone not having particularly strong writing skills consequently having a profile on OKC that doesn't really sell itself.
It just gives a horrible first impression, since for sites like this it's really just your writing and your pictures that you have to work with.
mostly I think that, okay, you sign up on a dating site to meet people, usually because other more "conventional" methods have not worked
when your profile is essentially the ONLY thing people look at prior to establishing contact, the fact that no EFFORT has been made to coherently share a single interesting thing about yourself, to me, indicates that if I messaged you, I'd be wasting my time
either you're not really into the OKC idea and you're doing it because you really don't know where else to go
or you want to seem completely "above" the online dating thing
or you want to appear completely aloof and disinterested (WHICH MIGHT WORK IN REAL LIFE BUT DOES NOT WORK ON A DATING SITE BECAUSE YOU ARE ON A DATING SITE YOU ARE CLEARLY INTERESTED ON SOME LEVEL OR ANOTHER so it's bullshit anyway)
and these things, to me, personally, do not appeal in the slightest (no matter how cute the butt really is), particularly if I were on OKC looking for a relationship with some potential
Yeah, while horrible grammar online bugs me, I know plenty of smart people in real life that just don't care about it online
Pretty much. I probably didn't make it clear in my initial post on the matter, but it's the lack of effort more than the lack of proper grammar that would bug me.