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Background: Me and my girlfriend of over a year are totally in love with each other. However, she has had to act very mature her whole life and has never done the partying thing. Her parents were not strict but her mother raised her to be domestic and to act ladylike (her mother is also a complete two-face cuntbag and resembles the worst Disney villain but thats another story). I am a few years older and have moved into the social drinks/conversations with good friends phase.
Situation: She wants to "take a break", go out and do the party thing with her friends in order to experience this phase and to not feel like she missed out. Then when she's ready (and undisclosed/unkown timeframe has passed), she wants to come back and settle down for good.
My counter-offer: To stay together and she has carte blanche to come and go as she pleases and go out whenever/wherever and Ill do my own thing. My only caveat being for her NOT to let other guys touch her or grind on her, as I feel this is completely innappropriate as would most morally grounded people.
Her reaction: That I should just let her go for now, and she wont sleep with anyone. But shell come back eventually.
My reaction: If she doesnt want to be with me now, she wont be with me later at a time of her choosing. I may have used the term "spoiled goods".
Am I justified for not feeling comfortable with her going out and letting strange men grind her shit simply because she never went through a party phase?
(I realize this is rhetorical, but I need a place to vent)