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Earlier this month I met a girl that a friend is dating. She seemed cool enough and he's a good guy so I was glad for him. We did the usual add each other on FB and what not.
It's on FB that she notices I do a bit of running, and she messages me asking if I ever want to run together. I say yes, since I do like running with people and her place is right by the place I always run. Then later that week she pops up on my OkCupid feed as a new user which raises an eyeborw.
So we end up running together and we pretty much talk the entire time through the 10 mile run. Really seem to click, and it's there I find out that she did the Ok Cupid thing because she's not entirely sure about a relationship wiht my friend (though she hasn't communicated with anyone else). Afterwards the run we grab some Jamba Juice, and my friend shows up (He had called asking where she was, she told him. He knew about her running with me prior). While we're sitting down I notice he pulls his seat closer to hers, doing the usual "guy marking his territory move". By this time I decide to head out, though she and me do make plans to play tennis and run more together.
So at this point I'm really liking hanging out with her and what's worse is that I could see myself dating her..if she wasn't with my friend. I'm not going to get in the middle of that or do anything that would mess up their thing. Additionally, like I said she's a cool girl with a lot of the same interest as I do, so at the least we could be good friends. I don't want my friend thinking I'm trying to move in on her though, but he lives about an hour away so by simple nature he doesn't get invited to a lot of our hanging out during the week (trivia nights, happy hours, etc), where as I would be inviting her. So I start throwing him out an invite too to everything?
TLDR: Not sure how to proceed with a girl who's sorta dating my friend and I may be interesting it