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Ok, so first i guess you will need some background. I've known this girl for 2 and a half years, we have been dating for the last 6 months, but where very close the 2 years before that. She just turned 18, i'm 20. For the first ~20 months i knew her she was dating some other guy, this didn't stop us from cuddling up when we had to crash at someones place after a party (often), but three times it lead to something more: 2nd night i met her, some time in the middle and a week before she broke up with her boyfriend at the time. We "only" ever got as far as making out/feeling up those times.
The 3rd time i pretty much told her that if she left her current BF i'd be willing to date her. She thought that was an awesome idea and dumped him a few days later. Of course there are complications, her "best friend" at the time was a guy who we will call B, B quite obviously had pretty strong feelings for her, i'd often voice my opinion "B wants down your pants" etc and she would always dismiss them. He invites her out to the movies, i insist that he will make a move, she goes and said she had a good time. A few months later she tells me that he did infact try to make a move.... This guy is still her "best friend".
After we had been going out for a good few months the next situation arises, we are at a good friends gathering, shes doing shots and getting pretty drunk while i'm drinking lite beers and having an early night due to work. I hit the sack at about 11:30, and bail for work at 6:30am, so obviously i missed out on a large part of the night and day after.Mainly the part where she attempts to drop her pants and lap dance a friend of ours. Along with getting a bit too close to some female friends of ours. She didn't mention this and at first flat out refused that it happened when i confronted her.
So now she's of legal drinking age. Bars, clubs and all those temptations, with her history i feel totally justified in not trusting her to not do something stupid and, if she did do something, i strongly doubt she would tell me if she did.
If i wasn't head over heals in love with this girl i'm pretty sure i would have broken up with her already. But apart from those 3 things everything has been so close to perfect. So H/A... HALP!