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Work provided health insurance, babies, and job instability
So, for some incomprehensible reason my wife would like to allow me to reproduce (God save us all). I apologize in advance for the terror I will be unleashing on this world.
Anyway, here's the problem. From what I remember of any health insurance forms I had to fill out at every job I've ever worked they only cover pregnancy if your little minion is conceived while insured or possibly within a short time period of starting on their insurance - something like 30 days. My job is not so stable. I will almost certainly be allowed to go down with the ship but, well, this ship seems to be sinking faster and faster and I don't want to go down with it. Common sense would suggest I just get a new job first but that's not as simple as it sounds. My skill set is not in terribly high demand around here, especially for long term employment rather than short contracts. It could quite conceivably take a year for me to find a suitable replacement job and actually get offered the position. Has anyone here dealt with changing jobs mid-pregnancy? Do the insurance companies tend to work with you on that? What if I change jobs and the company has insurance through the same place, so I'm changing policies I'm on but am still covered by the same company? Getting health insurance outside of what is offered by work has come to mind, but that normally costs $texas, but if anyone has any suggestions, I'm certainly open to them.
What Than said. There's NO way you should even be considering it if you might have have insurance. It can wait a year or two until you're sure you will have the insurance.
This is going to largely depend on the specific insurance. At both my current and previous job, all pregnancy visits/costs were covered (with a small copay) as long as my wife was covered, regardless of when the child was conceived.
But, I agree that not knowing whether you'll have solid employment along with insurance coverage would probably make me think twice about having a kid right now.
I'm not very concerned about the company actually going under while this is all going on. I'm more concerned that I won't be able to put up with the bs and start looking for another job. I can hang onto this one as long as it'll take to get a new job, my fear is her getting pregnant and then me getting a new job, and trying to ensure that we will be covered by insurance.
Perhaps the "wait until things are more stable" approach is the right one this time. Things have just not been stable for about 8 years now and we had put off so many other things in hopes of everything getting better. Secure employment in this area is nearly non-existent. It is almost entirely 6 month to 1 year contracts.
Anyway, rest assured, "wait it out" is the plan until we know for sure everything is ok, I'm just looking for ways to make sure it'll be ok sooner rather than later.
There is always time to have kids. Wait till you have ze insurance and ze income.
EDIT: If there isn't any security in your area, you may think about moving to do what's best for the family unit? Also, does the wife have insurance? If she does then her kid should be covered and she'll get a nice long maternity leave too.
There is always time to have kids. Wait till you have ze insurance and ze income.
EDIT: If there isn't any security in your area, you may think about moving to do what's best for the family unit? Also, does the wife have insurance? If she does then her kid should be covered and she'll get a nice long maternity leave too.
My wife could have insurance, but it's stupidly expensive from her employer and she would like to stop working and stay at home with the kid for at least the first couple of years, which means no insurance there.
I dunno, maybe this is the push I need to give up on the company I currently work for and start looking for something else. Obviously there is some non-contract, direct hire work available as I have one of those jobs. I do believe I am the only person I am in regular contact with in IT that is not working for a contracting firm, though.
Id go down with the ship while shopping for a new one. Bag it for a while and keep the potential kids sent out to the curb on rubbish day. A child is something that is best brought into a world ready for it, the reverse could be quite damaging for his upbringing and your ability to maintain any quality of life
I'd say hold off as well. Alternately you could go for the "breed lots of kids with the hope that some will be viable economic units" school, but that is kind of out of favour in the West these days.
Kind of freaks me out a little that you have to worry about insurance for pregnancy though, but then you have to play by the rules in the country you live in I guess.
In most places, you can elect for something called COBRA coverage. Basically, you can extend your insurance from your job even though you don't work there any more. It costs more, but not a lot more I don't think. Give your insurance agent a call to find out the details.
Kind of freaks me out a little that you have to worry about insurance for pregnancy though, but then you have to play by the rules in the country you live in I guess.
Having a baby is super expensive (in America, where I'm guessing OP is from). Doctor's appointments, blood tests, ultrasounds, etc. are outrageous without insurance (and can even be expensive with insurance depending on your plan), not to mention the $20k+ for the actual event at the hospital (hopefully your insurance would cover most if not all of this, but be prepared to pony up some cash).
Know or find out what your current insurance will or will not cover, and if you do start looking for new employment, find out as much as you can about their insurance coverage before you take the job. At my job, you aren't eligible for health insurance until you've been employed for 2 months. If your timing is off, something like that could be disasterous for you. Also, if you'd like to take any kind of paternity leave, FMLA isn't available until you've worked at a place for 1 year (also find out if your leave would be paid or unpaid (whether or not they're required to pay you depends on which state you live in).
You'll also want to check on the whole "pre-existing condition" thing with the insurance company, should you knock her up before switching jobs. They're the only ones that'll know for sure if it would be considered a pre-existing condition and therefore not covered.
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Kind of freaks me out a little that you have to worry about insurance for pregnancy though, but then you have to play by the rules in the country you live in I guess.
Having a baby is super expensive (in America, where I'm guessing OP is from). Doctor's appointments, blood tests, ultrasounds, etc. are outrageous without insurance (and can even be expensive with insurance depending on your plan), not to mention the $20k+ for the actual event at the hospital (hopefully your insurance would cover most if not all of this, but be prepared to pony up some cash).
Just to clarify a bit here (I really wasn't terribly clear about exactly what I was looking for in the first post), I'm at no risk of losing my current job for some time. I believe the company has 1-3 years left in it, assuming the CEO doesn't go even more batshit insane with terrible decisions. I am absolutely critical to the company and would have to fuck up something awful to lose my job prior to the company going under.
I was primarily trying to find out if anyone had any sort of first hand experience or knowledge on how insurance companies handle situations such as switching jobs mid-pregnancy and if anyone has any first hand experience with insurance outside of that provided by work which is reasonably priced and has the coverage I need. I realize that in the end the insurance companies are the best source of definitive answers, but you guys are easier to talk to for the initial basic information gathering phase of things.
Ok, I do not have experience with your particular circumstance. That said, I do have experience carrying what they call a "pre-existing condition" from one insurance to another. As long as you have had continuous coverage, it should be covered by the new insurance too. This is something to check out with your insurance agent as well as your new agent, whenever that comes about. But to continue with what I mentioned previously, if you have any doubts at all, any doubts that aren't answered by your agent saying, "Yes, you, your wife, and your coming child are covered," continue your old coverage. It will be expensive, but considerably less than paying for the birth of a child out of your own pocket.
You should wait until you have more stable employement.
Although it'd be a very good idea to get into the habit/preparing, and start setting aside as much money as you can. Don't buy anything that isn't needed, etc etc.
The insurance thing seems like a biggie, so I'd definitely check with your insurer what happens if you transfer employment mid-pregnancy or whatever. But ultimately, having a baby is a huge upheaval and there's always a good reason why having a baby right now isn't a good idea. Eventually, you just have to take the plunge and keep repeating the mantra 'there are people in worse situations than us successfully raising children'.
The insurance thing seems like a biggie, so I'd definitely check with your insurer what happens if you transfer employment mid-pregnancy or whatever. But ultimately, having a baby is a huge upheaval and there's always a good reason why having a baby right now isn't a good idea. Eventually, you just have to take the plunge and keep repeating the mantra 'there are people in worse situations than us successfully raising children'.
This right here is exactly why I decided to start looking into it even though this is clearly not an ideal situation. My wife and I put off getting married for several years while waiting for the job situation to be better. We put off getting a house while waiting for the job situation to get better. "There's always some reason not to do it" was the conclusion we came to on those things and just got it done, too. I suspect in this case I probably should just try to find the new, non-contract job since that situation is inevitable anyway.
Yup, obviously do what you can to make things as good as possible but if you both really want to have kids, don't put it off. Apart from anything else, it can be pretty difficult getting pregnant - average estimates put it at about 1 to 1 and a half years to get pregnant, although take that with a pinch of salt, it only took us about a month - and the older you get (hence the longer you put it off) the more difficult it gets (after the female passes 30, her chances of getting pregnant start to decline dramatically).
Of course, I'm speaking from the security of national health care and the idea of not even being able to afford basic care leading up to the birth is quite disconcerting.
Federal law prevents pregnancy from being considered a pre-existing condition when enrolling in a group policy. In other words if you start a new job and go to add your pregnant wife to the insurance they can not decline to cover the pregnancy.
I'm in much the same shoes as you. Currently I'm an engineer (been here for 6 years) for a small company that doesn't pay for any part of spouse and kids insurance. To add my wife to the policy here at work would mean I'd be paying $680/month out of my own pocket just for her. So we had a private insurance policy for my wife and kid. We found out recently that #2 is on the way and that the current insurance policy does not offer maternity.
I'd been looking around for a new job anyways. This just expedited the search and luckily I was able to find a job with excellent health insurance.
Anyway, here's the problem. From what I remember of any health insurance forms I had to fill out at every job I've ever worked they only cover pregnancy if your little minion is conceived while insured or possibly within a short time period of starting on their insurance - something like 30 days.
No, you've got it slightly wrong.
Assume you have a health plan through your employer, or you've continued your old health plan using COBRA. Once your little one is born, he is eligible for coverage - no matter how long you've been covered by your health plan. However, you must enroll the child within 30 days of birth.
If the child is born while you lack insurance, you should be able to enroll the child in any insurance plan you get just by opting for family coverage.
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As feral said you have 30 days from the time of birth to enroll in an insurance policy on a newborn. The newborn is covered from birth on after you enroll. So any medical care the baby received while in the hospital will be covered.
You can do this by simply changing your policy at work to a family policy or getting an individual private policy. Kids are fairly cheep to insure with a private policy (Mine was $80/month) but usually your work group policy will have better coverage.
Anyway, here's the problem. From what I remember of any health insurance forms I had to fill out at every job I've ever worked they only cover pregnancy if your little minion is conceived while insured or possibly within a short time period of starting on their insurance - something like 30 days.
No, you've got it slightly wrong.
Assume you have a health plan through your employer, or you've continued your old health plan using COBRA. Once your little one is born, he is eligible for coverage - no matter how long you've been covered by your health plan. However, you must enroll the child within 30 days of birth.
If the child is born while you lack insurance, you should be able to enroll the child in any insurance plan you get just by opting for family coverage.
I'm going to have to see if I can find the paperwork from my current job. I'm pretty certain it said maternity costs are only covered if conception was while on the health plan or within 30 days prior to starting the health plan. Specifically using the words conception and maternity, so not likely talking about insuring the kid after it is born but the hospital bills for getting the little me out in the first place.
In the end, though, this thread has mostly just confirmed what I already knew.
1) I really need to talk to the insurance company
2) I probably should just get on with finding a new job anyway
I think it has less to do with the insurance policy of your current job, and more to do with the insurance policy at whatever job to which you end up switching. Unless you get COBRA.
It's not cheap even if you have decent insurance, the event is setting me back about $4K (no C-section), and I've 80/20 coverage. That figure may go down, I'm waiting to pay to see if there are more insurance "adjustments"
I think it has less to do with the insurance policy of your current job, and more to do with the insurance policy at whatever job to which you end up switching. Unless you get COBRA.
True, which means I can't really have any way of knowing. COBRA I know will cover it, but that's expensive.
It's not cheap even if you have decent insurance, the event is setting me back about $4K (no C-section), and I've 80/20 coverage. That figure may go down, I'm waiting to pay to see if there are more insurance "adjustments"
Fortunately, I'm not too worried about that. Expensive, yeah, but I make good enough money and parents aren't going to let us starve on my side or her side of the family if the shit were to really hit the fan somehow.
Specifically using the words conception and maternity, so not likely talking about insuring the kid after it is born but the hospital bills for getting the little me out in the first place
The actual birth would fall under the whatever policy your wife is on. All the medical care for the infant after birth on would be on the policy you put the baby on.
Like I said earlier. Federal Law states pregnancy can not be considered a pre-existing condition. So the insurance carrier for your new employer can not decline to cover the costs of pregnancy/birth. Note this only apply to group policies and not an individual policy you would go and purchase yourself.
Anyway, here's the problem. From what I remember of any health insurance forms I had to fill out at every job I've ever worked they only cover pregnancy if your little minion is conceived while insured or possibly within a short time period of starting on their insurance - something like 30 days.
No, you've got it slightly wrong.
Assume you have a health plan through your employer, or you've continued your old health plan using COBRA. Once your little one is born, he is eligible for coverage - no matter how long you've been covered by your health plan. However, you must enroll the child within 30 days of birth.
If the child is born while you lack insurance, you should be able to enroll the child in any insurance plan you get just by opting for family coverage.
I'm going to have to see if I can find the paperwork from my current job. I'm pretty certain it said maternity costs are only covered if conception was while on the health plan or within 30 days prior to starting the health plan. Specifically using the words conception and maternity, so not likely talking about insuring the kid after it is born but the hospital bills for getting the little me out in the first place.
In the end, though, this thread has mostly just confirmed what I already knew.
1) I really need to talk to the insurance company
2) I probably should just get on with finding a new job anyway
That is really fishy.
IANAL but here is my understanding of federal law:
If a plan offers coverage for dependent children, they must also offer maternity benefits. If a company is an Equal Employment Opportunity employer, then any health plan they offer must include maternity benefits (because EEO employers are not allowed to discriminate against pregnant women). However, if an employer is not EEO, and if their health plan does not cover dependent children, then they are not required to cover maternity. It is possible that your employer satisfies both of these conditions, but that would be... weird.
Maternity benefits must cover, at a minimum, a 48-hour hospital stay for labor or a 96-hour hospital stay for C-section.
If they cover dependent children, they must allow you to enroll your newborn within 30 days of birth, regardless of how long ago you got on the plan.
Federal law does not require them to cover any health issues arising in the mother after she is discharged from the hospital after birth - but most plans will anyway.
There may be additional state laws compelling even further levels of coverage depending on where you live.
I'd get some clarification from your insurance company. Specifically, basing any policy on the conception date is really suspicious to me because conception can only be estimated, not pinpointed.
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But, I agree that not knowing whether you'll have solid employment along with insurance coverage would probably make me think twice about having a kid right now.
Perhaps the "wait until things are more stable" approach is the right one this time. Things have just not been stable for about 8 years now and we had put off so many other things in hopes of everything getting better. Secure employment in this area is nearly non-existent. It is almost entirely 6 month to 1 year contracts.
Anyway, rest assured, "wait it out" is the plan until we know for sure everything is ok, I'm just looking for ways to make sure it'll be ok sooner rather than later.
EDIT: If there isn't any security in your area, you may think about moving to do what's best for the family unit? Also, does the wife have insurance? If she does then her kid should be covered and she'll get a nice long maternity leave too.
I dunno, maybe this is the push I need to give up on the company I currently work for and start looking for something else. Obviously there is some non-contract, direct hire work available as I have one of those jobs. I do believe I am the only person I am in regular contact with in IT that is not working for a contracting firm, though.
Kind of freaks me out a little that you have to worry about insurance for pregnancy though, but then you have to play by the rules in the country you live in I guess.
Having a baby is super expensive (in America, where I'm guessing OP is from). Doctor's appointments, blood tests, ultrasounds, etc. are outrageous without insurance (and can even be expensive with insurance depending on your plan), not to mention the $20k+ for the actual event at the hospital (hopefully your insurance would cover most if not all of this, but be prepared to pony up some cash).
Know or find out what your current insurance will or will not cover, and if you do start looking for new employment, find out as much as you can about their insurance coverage before you take the job. At my job, you aren't eligible for health insurance until you've been employed for 2 months. If your timing is off, something like that could be disasterous for you. Also, if you'd like to take any kind of paternity leave, FMLA isn't available until you've worked at a place for 1 year (also find out if your leave would be paid or unpaid (whether or not they're required to pay you depends on which state you live in).
You'll also want to check on the whole "pre-existing condition" thing with the insurance company, should you knock her up before switching jobs. They're the only ones that'll know for sure if it would be considered a pre-existing condition and therefore not covered.
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Ouch. Good luck guys
I was primarily trying to find out if anyone had any sort of first hand experience or knowledge on how insurance companies handle situations such as switching jobs mid-pregnancy and if anyone has any first hand experience with insurance outside of that provided by work which is reasonably priced and has the coverage I need. I realize that in the end the insurance companies are the best source of definitive answers, but you guys are easier to talk to for the initial basic information gathering phase of things.
Although it'd be a very good idea to get into the habit/preparing, and start setting aside as much money as you can. Don't buy anything that isn't needed, etc etc.
Just a thought.
The insurance thing seems like a biggie, so I'd definitely check with your insurer what happens if you transfer employment mid-pregnancy or whatever. But ultimately, having a baby is a huge upheaval and there's always a good reason why having a baby right now isn't a good idea. Eventually, you just have to take the plunge and keep repeating the mantra 'there are people in worse situations than us successfully raising children'.
Of course, I'm speaking from the security of national health care and the idea of not even being able to afford basic care leading up to the birth is quite disconcerting.
I'm in much the same shoes as you. Currently I'm an engineer (been here for 6 years) for a small company that doesn't pay for any part of spouse and kids insurance. To add my wife to the policy here at work would mean I'd be paying $680/month out of my own pocket just for her. So we had a private insurance policy for my wife and kid. We found out recently that #2 is on the way and that the current insurance policy does not offer maternity.
I'd been looking around for a new job anyways. This just expedited the search and luckily I was able to find a job with excellent health insurance.
No, you've got it slightly wrong.
Assume you have a health plan through your employer, or you've continued your old health plan using COBRA. Once your little one is born, he is eligible for coverage - no matter how long you've been covered by your health plan. However, you must enroll the child within 30 days of birth.
If the child is born while you lack insurance, you should be able to enroll the child in any insurance plan you get just by opting for family coverage.
You can do this by simply changing your policy at work to a family policy or getting an individual private policy. Kids are fairly cheep to insure with a private policy (Mine was $80/month) but usually your work group policy will have better coverage.
In the end, though, this thread has mostly just confirmed what I already knew.
1) I really need to talk to the insurance company
2) I probably should just get on with finding a new job anyway
It's not cheap even if you have decent insurance, the event is setting me back about $4K (no C-section), and I've 80/20 coverage. That figure may go down, I'm waiting to pay to see if there are more insurance "adjustments"
Fortunately, I'm not too worried about that. Expensive, yeah, but I make good enough money and parents aren't going to let us starve on my side or her side of the family if the shit were to really hit the fan somehow.
The actual birth would fall under the whatever policy your wife is on. All the medical care for the infant after birth on would be on the policy you put the baby on.
Like I said earlier. Federal Law states pregnancy can not be considered a pre-existing condition. So the insurance carrier for your new employer can not decline to cover the costs of pregnancy/birth. Note this only apply to group policies and not an individual policy you would go and purchase yourself.
That is really fishy.
IANAL but here is my understanding of federal law:
If a plan offers coverage for dependent children, they must also offer maternity benefits. If a company is an Equal Employment Opportunity employer, then any health plan they offer must include maternity benefits (because EEO employers are not allowed to discriminate against pregnant women). However, if an employer is not EEO, and if their health plan does not cover dependent children, then they are not required to cover maternity. It is possible that your employer satisfies both of these conditions, but that would be... weird.
Maternity benefits must cover, at a minimum, a 48-hour hospital stay for labor or a 96-hour hospital stay for C-section.
If they cover dependent children, they must allow you to enroll your newborn within 30 days of birth, regardless of how long ago you got on the plan.
Federal law does not require them to cover any health issues arising in the mother after she is discharged from the hospital after birth - but most plans will anyway.
There may be additional state laws compelling even further levels of coverage depending on where you live.
I'd get some clarification from your insurance company. Specifically, basing any policy on the conception date is really suspicious to me because conception can only be estimated, not pinpointed.