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Roommate Skipped Town

Mai-KeroMai-Kero Registered User regular
edited December 2009 in Help / Advice Forum
So I recently moved into my first shared apartment with two friends. It is a glorious place in every way. I made two excellent choices. One was picking the apartment, and the second was choosing my friend Casey, who is awesome, fun, responsible and makes more money than me. I also made one terrible choice. My second Roommate was my friend Ryan, who sent me a text message when I was at work telling me that he was moving out because "I never have any money anymore and this seems like a huge waste." This was two months into the year lease that we all signed.

Casey was convinced that we could just go to the landlord and they would go after Ryan for being a delinquent piece of shit. I was very sure that they would do all of nothing, because as long as someone on the lease is still living at the apartment, they know they can make whoever is left pay up. The lease was signed with a requirement to pay three months rent if it is broken, and Casey wants to pursue Ryan for exactly that much.

So far Ryan has shown signs of being sorry that he moved in and then left us hanging, and has 2/3s of the second month's rent that he owes. I'm fairly confident he'll cough up the remaining third, but I very, very much doubt he'll give anymore.

At this point, do we really have any options? He moved all his stuff out so we can't sell it. The landlord says that they can't do anything. Harassing him is probably illegal. I doubt we have any legal standing. Pretty much the only thing I can think of is to ask his parents to pay his share, because he moved back in with them and is 20.

Is there any point in us taking him to court? I kind of think that won't get us anything and will be really expensive.

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  • noir_bloodnoir_blood Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    Who's on the lease?

    If I remember previous PA threads like this, if he's in the lease, he's responsible. If not, you're out of luck.

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  • KyleWPetersonKyleWPeterson Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    Did he sign a lease? If so that is a legally-binding contract and yes, you can sue him (plus damages to cover court costs and etc.)

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  • PeregrineFalconPeregrineFalcon Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    Mai-Kero wrote: »
    Is there any point in us taking him to court?

    Absolutely.
    I kind of think that won't get us anything

    You can definitely make him cough up the three month's he's due, but once he's paid that, his contractual obligations are fulfilled. He's still a douchebag for flaking on you like that, but you can at least get the 3 months.
    and will be really expensive.

    Small claims court is cheap.
    noir_blood wrote:
    Who's on the lease?

    If I remember previous PA threads like this, if he's in the lease, he's responsible. If not, you're out of luck.

    Salmon for (most likely) lies. The key words you're looking for in the lease are "joint liability." If those magic words show up, then the landlord will do exactly as you suggested in the OP - not give a flying fuck who's living there, and will go after any remaining tenant(s) for the full sum. If, however, you all have individual agreements, which is incredibly unlikely, then yes, they have to go after him specifically.

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  • witch_iewitch_ie Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    I think for this sort of thing, you would take him to small claims court, which shouldn't be all that expensive. Since you all three signed the lease and he broke it, I think Casey is right and he owes you three months rent in addition to the first two months rent during which he was still in the apartment.

    Of course, if you don't want to go after him for the money and just want to eat it, that's okay too, but you should probably start looking for a third roommate now anyway.

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  • Mai-KeroMai-Kero Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    witch_ie wrote: »
    I think for this sort of thing, you would take him to small claims court, which shouldn't be all that expensive. Since you all three signed the lease and he broke it, I think Casey is right and he owes you three months rent in addition to the first two months rent during which he was still in the apartment.

    Of course, if you don't want to go after him for the money and just want to eat it, that's okay too, but you should probably start looking for a third roommate now anyway.

    I do want to go after him for the money, because three months is very reasonable, and the only friend we share is his girlfriend, who I hooked him up with and agrees that he owes me the money. I'll of course ask him first, and try calling his parents to let them know what we plan on doing to see if we can fix it without court.

    To reiterate: He did sign the lease. I don't recall seeing a mention of joint liability, but I'll check.

    Would I just need a copy of the lease for small claims court? And how do they make him pay? His rent was only $276 a month, and he works part time at target. I'd bet his monthly income varies anywhere from $500-1000 a month depending on his hours. It seems like the court would just be like "Oh snaps too poor he doesn't owe anything."

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  • NerissaNerissa Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    I doubt they'd take his financial situation into account when deciding what he owes. He entered into a contract, he's legally obligated to fulfil it.

    That being said, if what he owes is more than he can pay, any judgement they would make in your favor could be pretty meaningless. Blood from a stone, and all that.

    However, if you're willing to take the money in installments, going to court might be ok, because they could probalby set up a payment schedule and require him to stick to it. I'd probably try to work something like that out with him directly before trying the legal route, and then if he refuses or doesn't keep up with the payments, then resort to a judge.

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  • Iceman.USAFIceman.USAF Major East CoastRegistered User regular
    edited December 2009
    Holy crap only $276/month? Where the hell do you live for that? You would die if I told you how much I pay for a 1BR right now.

    Anyway, if you're still talking to this guy I'd give him the option of working a payment plan with you for the amount due. If he refuses, go for the small claims court. At least then you've given him ample opportunity to make things right.

    Edit: Beat'd by Nerissa. At least we're both thinking alike! Wait, that might be bad...

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  • Mai-KeroMai-Kero Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    Holy crap only $276/month? Where the hell do you live for that? You would die if I told you how much I pay for a 1BR right now.

    Anyway, if you're still talking to this guy I'd give him the option of working a payment plan with you for the amount due. If he refuses, go for the small claims court. At least then you've given him ample opportunity to make things right.

    Edit: Beat'd by Nerissa. At least we're both thinking alike! Wait, that might be bad...

    Akron, Ohio. Ohio sucks, but this is in a fairly neat, albeit small, town/city. We're in a building right next to an incredible cool coffee shop, a neat icecream/italian food place (weird combination), a neat chinese place, like four hipster bars, a music studio, a badass public library, a metro burger, and a chipotle. It is perfectly located. It's cheap because the building is super old, but we're already friends with our downstairs and upstairs neighbors, so creaking on the hardwood floors isn't an issue. We all hang out on the balcony to talk and smoke (for those who do that here). It's pretty much the coolest place I've ever lived. Not saying much because I've lived two places, but I'm having a ridiculous amount of fun. Except for the money thing.

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  • Iceman.USAFIceman.USAF Major East CoastRegistered User regular
    edited December 2009
    Mai-Kero wrote: »
    Holy crap only $276/month? Where the hell do you live for that? You would die if I told you how much I pay for a 1BR right now.

    Anyway, if you're still talking to this guy I'd give him the option of working a payment plan with you for the amount due. If he refuses, go for the small claims court. At least then you've given him ample opportunity to make things right.

    Edit: Beat'd by Nerissa. At least we're both thinking alike! Wait, that might be bad...

    Akron, Ohio. Ohio sucks, but this is in a fairly neat, albeit small, town/city. We're in a building right next to an incredible cool coffee shop, a neat icecream/italian food place (weird combination), a neat chinese place, like four hipster bars, a music studio, a badass public library, a metro burger, and a chipotle. It is perfectly located. It's cheap because the building is super old, but we're already friends with our downstairs and upstairs neighbors, so creaking on the hardwood floors isn't an issue. We all hang out on the balcony to talk and smoke (for those who do that here). It's pretty much the coolest place I've ever lived. Not saying much because I've lived two places, but I'm having a ridiculous amount of fun. Except for the money thing.

    I guess the question is, do you want to risk your friendship with this person over ~$800. It's totally up to you, I would probably say yes in your situation but that's just me. I'm kind of a jerk when it comes to personal accountability, and the lack-thereof.

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  • balerbowerbalerbower Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    Meanwhile you should be looking to sublet his spot so you don't have to worry about covering what used to be his portion of the rent. $276/month sounds like a steal and I'm sure a lot of young peeps would love to jump in on it.

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  • skettiosskettios Enchanted ForestRegistered User regular
    edited December 2009
    Did you guys have to get co-signers for this place? Or more specifically, did he have a co-signer? I think part of the reason for the co-signer is someone to hit up for rent money if the renter can't provide. Not 100% sure though.

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  • deadonthestreetdeadonthestreet Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    Throw an ad up on Craigslist and find a new roommate.

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  • KyouguKyougu Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    Mai-Kero wrote: »
    Holy crap only $276/month? Where the hell do you live for that? You would die if I told you how much I pay for a 1BR right now.

    Anyway, if you're still talking to this guy I'd give him the option of working a payment plan with you for the amount due. If he refuses, go for the small claims court. At least then you've given him ample opportunity to make things right.

    Edit: Beat'd by Nerissa. At least we're both thinking alike! Wait, that might be bad...

    Akron, Ohio. Ohio sucks, but this is in a fairly neat, albeit small, town/city. We're in a building right next to an incredible cool coffee shop, a neat icecream/italian food place (weird combination), a neat chinese place, like four hipster bars, a music studio, a badass public library, a metro burger, and a chipotle. It is perfectly located. It's cheap because the building is super old, but we're already friends with our downstairs and upstairs neighbors, so creaking on the hardwood floors isn't an issue. We all hang out on the balcony to talk and smoke (for those who do that here). It's pretty much the coolest place I've ever lived. Not saying much because I've lived two places, but I'm having a ridiculous amount of fun. Except for the money thing.

    I guess the question is, do you want to risk your friendship with this person over ~$800. It's totally up to you, I would probably say yes in your situation but that's just me. I'm kind of a jerk when it comes to personal accountability, and the lack-thereof.

    The guy already threw away the friendship by pulling this huge dick move.

    OP, at least with 8 months left on the lease, there's a decent chance you could find an extra person, right?

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  • eternalbleternalbl Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    I thought in cases like this the roommate was responsible for a set amount of rent only if you weren't able to find another roommate to take over his portion of the lease. Also, the skipping out roommate is usually responsible for finding a replacement roommate and if he finds someone that works, he'll only owe what you guys are out. However, the remaining tenants have to put in genuine effort to find a roommate as well.

    Or are you guys figuring on not replacing him?

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  • Mai-KeroMai-Kero Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    eternalbl wrote: »
    I thought in cases like this the roommate was responsible for a set amount of rent only if you weren't able to find another roommate to take over his portion of the lease. Also, the skipping out roommate is usually responsible for finding a replacement roommate and if he finds someone that works, he'll only owe what you guys are out. However, the remaining tenants have to put in genuine effort to find a roommate as well.

    Or are you guys figuring on not replacing him?

    We'll have someone for sure in March, although were were hoping to find someone a bit sooner. The march timeline would coincide perfectly if Ryan pays up the three months worth that he owes.

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  • DocDoc Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited December 2009
    You have three options:
    1. Find a roommate ASAP
    2. Make him find a roommate (you will probably be unahappy with whoever he finds)
    3. Take him to small claims court for rent. You will likely have to show that you made an effort to minimize damages by trying to find a new roommate as quickly as possible. It sounds like you aren't really doing that.

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  • Rubix42Rubix42 Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    I recommend telling him to be a man and pony up his portion of the rent while you find a new roommate. $276 isn't a huge amount and he knew what he had to pay before he signed the lease.

    This is a total dick move. I hate people who walk on stuff they went into with their eyes open.

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  • Eat it You Nasty Pig.Eat it You Nasty Pig. tell homeland security 'we are the bomb'Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    Presumably "be a man" is not going to be persuasive given previous behavior.

    Small claims court is easy. It's judge judy, without the stupid drama. The court clerk will have you fill out a form explaining what damages you're seeking, and you can easily represent yourself.

    This might become a hassle if he actually has skipped town to some faraway place, but probably not that much of one as long as he hasn't decamped to siberia or something.

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  • DocDoc Registered User, ClubPA regular
    edited December 2009
    Dyscord wrote: »
    Presumably "be a man" is not going to be persuasive given previous behavior.

    Small claims court is easy. It's judge judy, without the stupid drama. The court clerk will have you fill out a form explaining what damages you're seeking, and you can easily represent yourself.

    This might become a hassle if he actually has skipped town to some faraway place, but probably not that much of one as long as he hasn't decamped to siberia or something.

    Expect to have to explain why you didn't try to find a replacement roommate immediately, though.

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  • Eat it You Nasty Pig.Eat it You Nasty Pig. tell homeland security 'we are the bomb'Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    Doc wrote: »
    Dyscord wrote: »
    Presumably "be a man" is not going to be persuasive given previous behavior.

    Small claims court is easy. It's judge judy, without the stupid drama. The court clerk will have you fill out a form explaining what damages you're seeking, and you can easily represent yourself.

    This might become a hassle if he actually has skipped town to some faraway place, but probably not that much of one as long as he hasn't decamped to siberia or something.

    Expect to have to explain why you didn't try to find a replacement roommate immediately, though.

    My understanding is that they aren't actually seeking back rent, they're seeking the penalty for leaving early per the lease. Not that you shouldn't be seeking a new roommate, but I'm not sure that it will matter for your purposes.

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  • eternalbleternalbl Registered User regular
    edited December 2009
    Dyscord wrote: »
    Doc wrote: »
    Dyscord wrote: »
    Presumably "be a man" is not going to be persuasive given previous behavior.

    Small claims court is easy. It's judge judy, without the stupid drama. The court clerk will have you fill out a form explaining what damages you're seeking, and you can easily represent yourself.

    This might become a hassle if he actually has skipped town to some faraway place, but probably not that much of one as long as he hasn't decamped to siberia or something.

    Expect to have to explain why you didn't try to find a replacement roommate immediately, though.

    My understanding is that they aren't actually seeking back rent, they're seeking the penalty for leaving early per the lease. Not that you shouldn't be seeking a new roommate, but I'm not sure that it will matter for your purposes.

    If you break your lease you're only liable while the landlord finds someone to occupy the apartment and only if the landlord can prove he's put in an effort to find a suitable replacement. The penalty is based on months of rent because it is, basically, rent that the party would be out should the person bail like this.

    In this case, though, the lease won't technically be broken to the landlord, just the one person breaking it and putting his roommates in a spot. So he'll owe them, and they still have to put in the effort to find a replacement.

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