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I'm going to keep this short (Girl thread)
billwill
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Alright, so I met a girl online. On Facebook, specifically. We started talking about a year ago now, and she is one year younger than I am, attending the same high school I attended, and graduating as valedictorian.
She also happens to attending the same college I am this fall.
So my question is: How can I make meeting her less awkward? We've talked a lot, and shared a lot with one another, and I just get really nervous when I imagine meeting her face to face, mostly because I know shes going to be different than what I pictured in my head.
I also like her, and am pretty sure she likes me, but I am just not sure how to proceed with the relationship. I'm kind of afraid that I'll disappoint her. Fall short of her expectations or something. I've never met someone in real life that I've met online.
She also happens to attending the same college I am this fall.
So my question is: How can I make meeting her less awkward? We've talked a lot, and shared a lot with one another, and I just get really nervous when I imagine meeting her face to face, mostly because I know shes going to be different than what I pictured in my head.
I also like her, and am pretty sure she likes me, but I am just not sure how to proceed with the relationship. I'm kind of afraid that I'll disappoint her. Fall short of her expectations or something. I've never met someone in real life that I've met online.
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Don't worry about it so much, she probably feels the same about you. :P
Lame advice, but just be yourself.
Interpret body language, make jokes, and most most most importantly smile a lot! Show her you're happy to be around her. Don't second guess yourself, I'm sure she's nervous too - especially it's her first year at college. She's probably happy to have you there as an island of familiarity in a place that's new.
Have you talked on the phone?
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She's probably not looking for someone who's Superman + James Bond + Dirk Diggler or whatever. She probably just wants a boyfriend who's fun to be around and easygoing and doesn't cause too much drama. Don't think you have to hold yourself to some crazy impossible standard or this chick won't be interested in you anymore.
In the meantime, master undoing a bra with one hand outside a shirt.
When she shows up, impress her with your mad skillz.
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You WILL lose contact with her if you don't meet her in person soon. College is very enveloping, and it's hard to make time for internet friends when real life friends have booze, games, study nights, food gatherings, social events, club meetings, etc.
You've broken the ice long ago, and now the internet mask is becoming a crutch. I'm all about using the internet to meet girls, but you've dragged this out much longer than you should have.
I don't see whats surprising about this if shes in a different year especially considering some high schools have over 3 thousand people attending.
just be like, hey, nice to meet you, what do you think of this campus so far, blah blah blah.
just don't expect anything from it right away. be normal.
2. Yes, I've seen normal pictures of her, and she has seen normal pictures of me. She's also seen a video I uploaded to Facebook, which shows me talking for a few minutes.
3. And yeah, our high school has 3500+ kids attending. Factor in the year difference, plus us being in completely different programs (and therefore classes), and its not surprising we haven't met.
Yeah, I guess I'm just building this up too much. Just gotta go with the flow.