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Marriage is something that is not easy and I didn't recently succeed at preposition

redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfixRegistered User regular
edited February 2011 in Social Entropy++
I guess my marriage is going down the shitter like, for real this time.

basically, go watch Blue Valentine, and then change a few nouns in the screenplay and bam

LJ thread or something i guess
if i drank at all it prob totally be drinking atm. but im a big fuckin' nerd so i post here

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  • WhippyWhippy Moderator, Admin Emeritus Admin Emeritus
    edited January 2011
    you know what you should do

    you should drink

    Whippy on
  • PoorochondriacPoorochondriac Ah, man Ah, jeezRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    That's pretty crummy, Redfenix. Better out of a shitty marriage than in one, though. Which I'm sure is little consolation, but is true nonetheless.

    Poorochondriac on
  • MrMonroeMrMonroe passed out on the floor nowRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    I thought I was going to get married once

    then I thought I was going to kill myself

    I decided afterwards that it was a shitty idea

    I'm here for you, buddy

    MrMonroe on
  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    and i guess this is a bad idea also

    since i applied for that dream job at PA

    and now they'll see this and not like me

    even though it'd totally do a wonderful job

    redfenix on
  • PoorochondriacPoorochondriac Ah, man Ah, jeezRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Marriage is a lot like jazz.

    If you're under thirty, and you're really into it, there's a ninety percent chance you're boring at parties.

    Poorochondriac on
  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    i have rum in the house

    and a mouth

    i may decide they need to get together

    redfenix on
  • MrMonroeMrMonroe passed out on the floor nowRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Koshian wrote: »
    my marriage is pretty happy + rad + awesome

    are you actually, legally married yet?

    MrMonroe on
  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    ill be 30 in july

    i was into it, but not perfect
    and she was less into it, and a perfectionist
    and 43

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  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    and thanks to the support-ish posts

    that includes that one about how i should drink

    redfenix on
  • KazakaKazaka Asleep Counting SheepRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    That blows, dude

    We here got your back though

    EDIT: Kosh is that hyper important to mention in this thread

    I mean for real though

    Kazaka on
  • MrMonroeMrMonroe passed out on the floor nowRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    redfenix: competing for "best milf fucker"

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  • MrMonroeMrMonroe passed out on the floor nowRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    naw, I'm just bustin your tits

    you a good dude

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  • YaYaYaYa Decent. Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    hugs redfenix

    hugs

    YaYa on
  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    apparently this book

    The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

    should be called 'the book you get from the library out of an attempt to turn things around because it's highly regarded, that your wife will kinda read but not really then decide that whole part about respect and contempt isn't going to change so nevermind'

    but the ink costs alone would likely make it cost prohibitive.

    redfenix on
  • World as MythWorld as Myth a breezy way to annoy serious people Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    I'm engaged but man I am like 75% sure I don't ever want to actually get married

    it sounds dreadful

    World as Myth on
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  • UrielUriel Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    I have a friend who is married.

    It's like a horror story.

    Uriel on
  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    hey, wanna see a good picture of my hot wife that doesn't like me?
    this is about a 4 year old picture, she's aged well i guess
    30695_1306921316674_1339782008_30752863_2961410_n.jpg

    our relationship didn't

    oooo burn

    o, wait.

    thanks, you can bust my tits any 'ol day

    edit: hi5 Kosh, thread title is prob not true, just for the OP

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  • BEARDBEARD Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Koshian wrote: »
    my marriage is pretty happy + rad + awesome

    Man

    don't you think this is rude to mention?

    BEARD on
  • KazakaKazaka Asleep Counting SheepRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    She kinda sounds like a bit of a coarse lass

    It blows now but you're getting off at the right stop

    Beard that's what I said too

    It's like "damn man, you gotta say that shit right now?"

    I guess red is aiight wit it though

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  • BEARDBEARD Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    she looks like a dude

    BEARD on
  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    BEARD wrote: »
    Koshian wrote: »
    my marriage is pretty happy + rad + awesome

    Man

    don't you think this is rude to mention?

    not at all, and i'm happy someone is happy

    honestly, i dont think this kinda thing ever sneaks up on someone
    not with a bang, but a whimper

    redfenix on
  • Calamity JaneCalamity Jane That Wrong Love Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    its okay, you can drink i'll allow it

    Calamity Jane on
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  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    i mean, you think by her like 3.5th marriage she'd figure out what to do

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  • FizFiz Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Sorry to hear that, Redfenix.

    That's a pretty big age difference. When did you two originally start dating?

    Fiz on
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  • HoukHouk Nipples The EchidnaRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Marriage is a lot like jazz.

    If you're under thirty, and you're really into it, there's a ninety percent chance you're boring at parties.
    pooro i hope you didn't steal this from someone

    cuz it is awesome

    Houk on
  • Cosmic SombreroCosmic Sombrero Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Watching a marriage collapse from the outside is horrible enough, I can't imagine what it's like to go through this. I hope posting about it gives you some kind of catharsis.

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  • KazakaKazaka Asleep Counting SheepRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    3.5?

    Maybe it's her?

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  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Fiz wrote: »
    Sorry to hear that, Redfenix.

    That's a pretty big age difference. When did you two originally start dating?

    married 4 years as of sep 1st 2010, dated about 9 months previous to that

    redfenix on
  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Kazaka wrote: »
    3.5?

    Maybe it's her?

    It's never just one person

    but yeah... there's a pattern.

    redfenix on
  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Watching a marriage collapse from the outside is horrible enough, I can't imagine what it's like to go through this. I hope posting about it gives you some kind of catharsis.

    it is cathartic, i'm not usually as publicly self-deprecating
    aside from SE++ business as usual, of course.

    redfenix on
  • BYToadyBYToady Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    bro hugs man. Break ups suck.

    BYToady on
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  • XehalusXehalus Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Dean shows up at the hospital angry, leading to a violent altercation which seems to doom their relationship and make divorce inevitable.

    Well, uhh...

    Xehalus on
  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    the gmail archives say that my first email to her, and thereby our first contact was on 11/28/05

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  • SwillSwill Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    people never figure out what to do

    Swill on
  • redfenixredfenix Aka'd as rfix Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Xehalus wrote: »
    Dean shows up at the hospital angry, leading to a violent altercation which seems to doom their relationship and make divorce inevitable.

    Well, uhh...

    ok, not scene for scene
    never punched a dude

    but there are a couple patched-up holes in drywall

    redfenix on
  • WhippyWhippy Moderator, Admin Emeritus Admin Emeritus
    edited January 2011
    redfenix wrote: »
    Watching a marriage collapse from the outside is horrible enough, I can't imagine what it's like to go through this. I hope posting about it gives you some kind of catharsis.

    it is cathartic, i'm not usually as publicly self-deprecating
    aside from SE++ business as usual, of course.

    is it time for the part of the healing where we talk about what a bitch she inevitably was

    or are we supposed to be nice and commiserating

    what do you need right now

    Whippy on
  • PoorochondriacPoorochondriac Ah, man Ah, jeezRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    Houk wrote: »
    Marriage is a lot like jazz.

    If you're under thirty, and you're really into it, there's a ninety percent chance you're boring at parties.
    pooro i hope you didn't steal this from someone

    cuz it is awesome

    That little gem is mine. Allllll mine.

    Patent pending, motherfuckers. Quit eyin' my line.

    Poorochondriac on
  • UrielUriel Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    I've seen my friend's wife come at him with a knife.

    They are still together.

    Sometimes people is crazy.

    Uriel on
  • FrankoFranko Sometimes I really wish I had four feet so I could dance with myself to the drumbeat Registered User regular
    edited January 2011
    don't marry old women

    Franko on
  • KazakaKazaka Asleep Counting SheepRegistered User regular
    edited January 2011
    redfenix wrote: »
    Watching a marriage collapse from the outside is horrible enough, I can't imagine what it's like to go through this. I hope posting about it gives you some kind of catharsis.

    it is cathartic, i'm not usually as publicly self-deprecating
    aside from SE++ business as usual, of course.

    is it time for the part of the healing where we talk about what a bitch she inevitably was

    or are we supposed to be nice and commiserating

    what do you need right now

    This is what I was wondering

    Are we looking to greener pastures or burning the one you just left

    Whatever you want, man

    Kazaka on
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