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Meeting a girl from myspace, good idea?SOLVED
xxhennersxx
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SO I've been talking to this girl...and well I guess i started to like her. and vice versa. WE really instantly clicked and it felt like we've known each other forever.
and we live within 10 minutes of each other.
We're going to get some Bubble Tea and then watch red vs blue at her house...
Her Profile seems legit, and it would be pretty elaborate to have a huge circle of friends and stuff...
i got her phone number and she SOUNDS like a girl.
so just about everything checks out...
should i be scared?
Should I call it off?
Am I fucking stupid, plain and simple, for deciding to date this girl?
and we live within 10 minutes of each other.
We're going to get some Bubble Tea and then watch red vs blue at her house...
Her Profile seems legit, and it would be pretty elaborate to have a huge circle of friends and stuff...
i got her phone number and she SOUNDS like a girl.
so just about everything checks out...
should i be scared?
Should I call it off?
Am I fucking stupid, plain and simple, for deciding to date this girl?
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get to know her.
I know in life it's the things I haven't done that I regret more than the things that I did do that ended badly.
I say go for it.
Lots of people meet off the internet. Actually it seems that people get along better the sooner they meet in real life. Similar to how someone is more receptive to a movie/book combination if they watch/read them in close succession, compared to reading the book 3 or 4 times and then watching a movie on it a year later -- you've developed thoughts and other perceptions in your head that are pretty "set." If you get it over with early, though, it tends to jive pretty well.
So, yes, go, have fun and be merry.
I'm an 18 year old male...she's an 18 year old female. both gamers, nerds, etc...
her
half my friends think i'm going to get stabbed.
One friend recommended I have another friend secretly follow us.
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lol nub!
Neither picture looks like a girl, to me.
You know what, people who can't give a good honest picture of themselves (where you can at least see their faces) are hiding something more often than being "artsy". I can only see an eye and the outline of her lips.
Keep the date to a single, contained, but public meeting. Something one can easily make an exit from should the need arise.
lol yes.
anyway, the date is on Vday and I usually go for a first date, like coffee/bubble tea and a movie. but since everyfuckingplace is going to be crowded I said "how about a DVD?"
yeah...the only reason i'm kinda comfortable about going over to her house is because I really feel connected. it's REALLY fucking weird man. I dunno if i'm trippin or not.
Oh she has OTHER pictures of her. I just really like that one. XD the pictures are definatly of a GIRL. the thing that kinda puts me off...is that...perhaps this is a dude fronting as a girl.
Online is good only if you can see that other person in real life.
Myspace friends are friends in the same sense that a large collection of stamps are friends.
No i mean the circle of friends in that they seem like real world friends so it would be pretty elaborate for this to actually be some fat guy named tony.
That's the only thing that would scare me.
She has a penis.
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nice myspace the movie reference...anyway
no she's got full body shots. I just didn't post'em. like i said, I know this much
the pictures are
1) a girl
2) a girl with a nice figure
3) a girl that i deem cute (yeah she has that guy emo hair cut...i like it. :P sue me)
what makes me paranoid is that instead of a cute emo chick showing up at my door on Vday
some fat guy named Tony shows up in a Van with no windows. x_X
She could be a skinny guy named tony.
You said she has other pics? Does she look like a girl in any of them? because she just doesn't in that pic you posted, sorry.
As Zek says, she has "the angles." If you don't know what that means...watch this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zLl_1xHDTu0&eurl=
It's the first part.
anyway, yeah I'll post pictures. she sent'em to my cell so i gotta transfer them to my PC and upload'em.
Why wouldn't they be on her myspace?
It had to be linked.
Seriously though, I met my girlfriend on Myspace. It's been a year and a half and great, although I did have many of the same fears as you. I met up with her at a public festival thing and hung out there for a bit and I took her home, great first date. Keep it casual, have fun, and beware the SIF.
EDIT: Beat'd hard. I fail.
Because I requested them. lol...and they're not all "artsy" angle shots. Just normal, full body shots.
I challenge any sane person to not be able to instantly come up with 5 things that could go horribly wrong.
And I challenge any sane person to think of 5 things that can go amazingly right.
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lol nub!
anyway,
http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y19/FreeFall1049/000_0117.jpg
boobs = girl.
her arms are big because she's been in martial arts for 13 years...
so...yeah...
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lol nub!
I mean, for me, this is common sense common sense, but seeing what other people have written, I am actually quite shocked, really.
That's a better picture.
Still let someone know where you'll be. And just make sure she's 18, dude. Just make sure she's 18.
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lol nub!
well, in Washington state the age of concent is actually 16.
so.
yeah.
anyway, like i said. we're not going to her house first. if something goes horribly wrong, then it's a no go. Hell we could just decide to go back to my house.
and yeah I'm going to of course have people know where I'm at. and my cell phone will be with me, etc.
Meet somewhere public, and stay there.
Don't go back to her place and don't bring her back to yours the first time you hang out, under any circumstances.
Not following these three suggestions would just be reckless and ignorant. Put aside all the silly thoughts about how "connected" you feel, and how much you want a girlfriend and take care of yourself. Be clear-headed, intelligent and safe.
Just because this person is probably a girl doesn't rule out the chance of her being a psycho and/or dangerous. I mean shit... she has what appears to be "Hot Topic" written in red crayon on a piece of paper stuck to her wall.