Ok, so I met this girl on Omegle (yeah great start, haha) but she seemed pretty cool so we exchanged emails. Talked to her there for a while, found out we were both pretty similar in terms of personality, found out shes 28 and in Washington State (Im 25 in NC). Anyway, we keep talkin and move to texts, then to calls at night, and just recently camming on Skype. At this point we have both made comments about how if we lived closer we would be dating, each of our conversations usually touches on some form of "you need to visit!" kind of stuff, and vague blatant hints about sex (more along the lines of "oh we'd do more than cuddle" than "we gon' fuck").
Well, one night while we were camming (just talking, we haven't gotten to any phone sex or anything) and she accidentally plays a song really loud, like, blaring, and after a minute or two someone comes into her room and she tosses the iPod down (the cam shes using for skype) and I hear an older woman's voice say something. Something like "its too late for you to be up listening to loud music and camming" or something along those lines. Well, when she picks the cam back up she says its her neighbor. So at this point something doesn't sound right (what neighbor will hear 3 seconds of loud music and come over and just walk right into someone else's house and scold them?), but it hasn't quite formed yet so I just believed her.
Well, since Ive been talking to her Ive only seen her bedroom and even then not a whole lot of it (seems kind of odd for someone who lives alone. I would expect, at least occasionally, for her to cam somewhere else), she refuses to give out her facebook because "it has pictures of me" or her Deviant Art account (shes a tattoo artist so I would like to see her art and such). Up until tonight I just kind of chocked that up to her being shy.
Well, tonight I went and used the facebook find a friend deal to look up a friend on Skype I hadn't talked to in a while and this girl's skype name popped up as having a facebook. I figured I'd send her a request and if she mentions it and turns it down that shes just really shy. Buuuut the name on the facebook profile is in no way what she told me her name was. Granted I only have a first name and then the name of the person on Facebook but still. So this kind of sent off some warning bells and all those other things are starting to sound suspicious to me.
So now Im wondering if her schedule of getting up super early and being done with "work" at 3 is actually school, if that woman who came in is actually her mom, if she doesn't give out her facebook / DA account because it has her real info, and if shes just been pretending to be this girl Ive been talking to.
I think my plan at the moment is to sleep on it, see if the facebook person accepts my request or not. If they accept then I look at the photos and determine if its the person Ive been talking to. If they don't accept I guess Ill try to confront them? Pending suggestions from here I guess.
So what I really want to know is, do I sound like a paranoid dude or is this suspicious sounding to you all as well? If its suspicious, how do I go about bringing it up? Just ask her if that facebook profile is her?