Hi all! I've mentioned before that every now and then, I google the exes I've lost touch with before. This has resulted in a few of my posts here, such as when I found out that one of my exes had gone on to get arrested for having a hundred dead pets in her house...and then a year later, when I found out they were making a movie about her life, and it was a ROMANTIC COMEDY.
Anyhow, I found another ex last night...and the news is bad. She was hit head on by a car going up the wrong side of the highway. Both of her legs are shattered and she is in ICU. Her 7-week-old daughter survived without a scratch. The people in the other car were badly injured and one of the passengers died.
This all happened a month ago...and there hasn't been any update. I'm losing sleep wondering what happened, if she's even still alive, and whether there is anything she needs or that I can do.
I don't have any contact with her, family, or friends anymore (we broke up about five years ago after six years of on and off). She got married about a year back (and as mentioned, has a 7-week old baby), and I'm getting married in exactly two months, so this isn't some ridiculous get-back-together scheme. I'm just sincerely worried about her, given that at BEST she has two broken legs and a young infant.
I don't know if she's still at the ICU, but would I be way out of line in going there to see? Would I even be able to find anything out? In trying to get more info, I found out what church she goes to, so dropping in there and trying to find something out might also be doable.
Or would all of that be entirely creepy at the worst possible time? I have the best of intentions, so if staying out of the way is what is best, then that's what I'll do.
What say you?
tl;dr: Ex in intensive care after massive car accident. Visit?