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haha I saw someone who looked cute then I saw shes from Sunderland which I doubt v much doubt is within 25 miles of Carlisle
That was a pretty bad idea.
Amazon wish list | Please check out my wife's blog and jewelry store.
You have always left out one detail in your story.
Had he seen the Dalek Porn?
Satans..... hints.....
Ohhh you know it is going so great! We've picked out matching napkins and tablecloths that look so cute and all we've got to do now is
OH WAIT. Thats right, that is your rumour, Blake.
Satans..... hints.....
I am over winter.
Satans..... hints.....
Secret Satan's Wishlist!
Satan! My About Me post!
Yes.
It was boring and not even so bad it's funny.
e: Well ain't this a swell totp
me too but minus the sister fucking
just sat around some beer garden and talked and had a few beers and yeah
gal's a lawyery type in HR at a big company here in town, smart cookie, obv
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Bitches love that shit
'hey, the internet wanted me to ask if your baby maker works'
and keith, I'll just tell her that i'll tit for tat, as it were
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so the aforementioned lass, is of a... larger body type than i'm used to, which is to say, my ex.
and that's not really fair, since my ex is also a terrible partner and i shouldn't care
and i certainly find people attractive for a myriad of reasons, physical appearance being only part of it
and and she is very pretty, has beautiful eyes, and by no means is unhealthy or anything
i guess i'm just trying to figure out how to get over being marginally shallow when i know it's stupid because of deep-seated baggage about acceptable body types (since my ex basically said i was overweight and not attractive, thanks)
something something
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it's just not what i'm used to, so it's less desirable, i guess? but i just hate that because otherwise i feel like we get along very well so far
and i don't want to be a shallow fuckwit
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The difference between a friendship and relationship is attraction. You need to think about whether you are physically attracted to her enough, or if you just see her as a friend with a pretty face. Getting along is fine, but it needs more than that.
So have a think about it, its not being shallow if you're not attracted to her enough. If you are, great! If not, time to think about things.
um, i dunno? i've got date #2 on tuesday, so maybe ill have a better answer then
o, point of reference, i guess
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It aint necesarily a sudden instant thing either tho red. I mean in my case I knew i thought my GF was pretty straight off, but the attraction between us was a... sortof slow growing thing. And she was definitely very different (in every sense) t the girl I dated before her
So yeah, think about it.. just keep in mind that what yuo also want is the potential for attraction, so dont overthink it as a bad thing if you're not already dazed and dizzy just thinking about her. But if you dont think you have that potential, yeah time to think about things.
*shrug*
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V is right, attraction can grow, rather that hit you like a ton of bricks. I should have mentioned that in my last post really.
and I've had that happen before, which is why i guess i needed some validation to not be hasty and dumb
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One went disastrously bad- worse than you can imagine.
The other went great! Next month will be five years we've been together.
Terrible view of attraction
*Less terrible**
**Slightly less terrible. It was still pretty bad.
We pretty much started dating the day we met, because it was just there.
Myspace is for rogues and ne'er-do-wells.
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On a terrible terrible web game and its associated hive of scum and villainy
i had an ex that was obsessed with a stupid web game and it's community
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I once, no word of a lie, ended up meeting some based off our shared presence in a fanfiction forum.
I think in terms of internet cred that makes me unable to judge anyone, anywhere, for pretty much anything
this ex of mine got increasingly obsessed with one of those shitty turn-based browser games where you roam around a little grid city (by clicking things, there's no graphics to speak of) and it was vampire themed
but the insane forum community about this stupid game was staggering
and her vampire character like.. married or hooked up with some dude's vampire character
until it got basically out of hand and she was internet cheating on me with some dude in belguim
who she flew out to see after i dumped her
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Her fiance wasn't very thrilled about it.
Was called Star Kingdoms, just checked and it's still freaking going.
www.starkingdoms.com so bad.
If you're not attracted to someone you're unlikely to become attracted to them, and it's silly to stick overlong with a relationship that doesn't drain blood from your brain to your, erm, alternative reasoning center, regardless of its chromosomal configuration
but it doesn't sound like that's what's happening here
it sounds more like Red is at least somewhat attracted to this person but is kinda weirded out by the fact that she's not what he's used to
I just mean, and excuse my vulgarity, and ignore this if you have some moral objection to sex before marriage or sex before a "serious relationship," but
maybe try slapping her titties around once or twice or whatever you're into before you decide whether it's something that's awkward because it's different or unappealing because you're not attracted to her
and if it's the latter, just bail. Ain't shame in that.