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Resign / Wait / Something Else? Life Choice

cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
edited July 2011 in Help / Advice Forum
Urgh... I never thought I would make a post about this sort of thing but I need the view of outsiders on this.

Current situation - moved back in with parents to save money, long term girlfriend is moving back to Vancouver (On Saturday!) because her visa has expired after 2 years living in the UK. I have a job I love doing and have been doing it for 9 years. I also have an application for citizenship currently lodged with the Canadian Government because my mother is Canadian. I am British. I have a 1 way flight booked to Vancouver on Sept 7th, and I have requested expedited processing of my citizenship paperwork to tie in with this date (I sent a cover letter and my flight itinerary etc, after conversations with the Canadian Consulate in the UK)

My job has sort of collapsed. We used to have 45 people working on this project. Now there are 3 of us left. Redundancies and downturns have hit us hard. My line manager is leaving next week (resigned) and the guy who has taken over his role is clueless - he has taken the role to try and further himself and is currently brown nosing our senior managers. I have informed my soon to be ex-manager of my personal situation - I need to move to Canada, and he said the company would be interested in having me remain an employee, but be based there full time. Senior management have OK'd the deal and apparently they need to just review the finances and have it approved (my being based there would save our company $40k annually!). The soon to be new-manager does NOT share this viewpoint, and has said as much to me. My old manager's last day in post is next Friday 22nd July. Privately, he has told me he'll be trying very hard to get a deal in place before he leaves. If he doesn't do it, then I don't think it will happen.

Now - My choices:

(1) Resign this week, forget my current job, and hope that my paperwork arrives in time, fly to Vancouver, and start a new life
(2) Press my company for a resolution, and get a firm date from them by which I can leave for Vancouver, threatening resignation if they don't firm up the plans...

Green Wire or Red Wire? I am tending towards just resigning and walking away... and then dealing with the fact that I may have to remain in the UK for some time, waiting for my paperwork, but at least living at home with no real outgoings or expenses. My dad can give me a job working with him in the building industry for a while - so I will have spending money.

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  • ZeonZeon Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    Try and keep the job. Working remotely is pretty cool. It doesnt matter if your new boss is behind the deal if his bosses are. At this point I think he would need a pretty compelling reason to stop the deal if its going to save 40k a year for a company thats already struggling.

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  • noir_bloodnoir_blood Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    I don't get it, if you're apparently fine with resigning and sticking around the UK till your paperwork clears...why resign?

    I mean, I could sort of understand if this was "do I stay in the UK for my job until I get the ok, or do I just fly out to Canada on Saturday", but that doesn't fully seem to be the case.

    My advise would be to wait. If there's no rush(other than-I gotta see my gf), try to work things out with your job. It will make your life a lot easier on the long run.

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  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    Yeah, I guess what this boils down to is "do I cut my ties from this job, and face the prospect of being out of work, and hanging around waiting for citizenship paperwork", or "Push my bosses into doing what I want, with the prospect of me leaving if they don't." It sort of feels like I am trying to blackmail them.

    If I actually had my citizenship in hand, this would be a no-brainer. I've requested they expedite my application but it might be months until I get it... So, I could end up resigning my job this week, and not getting my citizenship until Christmas time or even 2012...

    The other complication is of course that the new manager who will be taking over is a nightmare person to work for... So the prospect of being stuck in a job I am rapidly going to HATE is also hanging over me.

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  • khainkhain Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    I don't really understand why you informed your manager of your situation when you don't even know what your situation is. Since you don't actually know when your going to get citizenship I would recommend staying in your current job until you do get it and then at that point say I'm moving to Canada in two weeks, you can either take this as my 2 week notice or let me work remotely. If you do end up hating your job your job before you get citizenship then you can quit, but it seems to me like your jumping the gun as there really isn't a downside to staying right now.

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  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    I see what you are saying. The downside to staying is that my long term trusted line manager is leaving, the rest of my technical team has been laid off, our software engineering lead is having interviews elsewhere, and I am going to be left here doing the work of 5 people, working for a guy that (a) doesn't know the first thing about the business, and (b) is not committed to allowing me to work overseas.

    I think if I stay in this job, I will end up getting sacked for misconduct...

    At the moment I figure I'll speak to my soon to be ex-manager this week and ask him honestly whether he can get an approval letter in my hand by 22nd July. If not, I'll just resign and work for my dad in the building industry until my paperwork arrives...

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  • CroakerBCCroakerBC TorontoRegistered User regular
    edited July 2011
    cmsamo wrote: »
    I see what you are saying. The downside to staying is that my long term trusted line manager is leaving, the rest of my technical team has been laid off, our software engineering lead is having interviews elsewhere, and I am going to be left here doing the work of 5 people, working for a guy that (a) doesn't know the first thing about the business, and (b) is not committed to allowing me to work overseas.

    I think if I stay in this job, I will end up getting sacked for misconduct...

    At the moment I figure I'll speak to my soon to be ex-manager this week and ask him honestly whether he can get an approval letter in my hand by 22nd July. If not, I'll just resign and work for my dad in the building industry until my paperwork arrives...

    We sort of did this the other way, my wife emigrated from the US. I can safely say that if the Canadian immigration service is anything like the UK one...stay in your job. You've applied for expedited processing, but unless i missed it upthread, you can't guarantee that they are going to expedite your application, which could leave you unable to fly out when you want to; this would not be a good time to be unemployed.

    I'd also say that something you may be really glad of when you do move is, well, a permanent job. Landing in a new country without any contacts for the first time is likely to be gruelling enough; finding a job at the same time has all the hallmarks of a major nightmare. I'd try and get something in writing from your office prior to your current LM's departure then progress up the chain from there. I don't recommend threatening to quit. It only annoys people, and makes them less willing to further your (presumably) reasonable request.

    Keeping the job and transferring is the most secure option, and has the added advantage that if it all goes wrong, you can start looking for a job in Canada whilst employed there, which is likely to be a little easier, and much less of a headache.

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  • schussschuss Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    Stay in the job. If it's already been ok'd with senior management and was already in the works, he's being very unreasonable by putting the kibosh on it. I would do your best to stay on his good side, but actively look for a new job once in Canada (just to be safe). More than likely he wants you to stay so that you can be influenced by him and spread that influence to others/not undercut him as you're a possible adherent to the old boss. So do a good job and don't give them any reason other than "in Canada" to dismiss you. If you're saving 40k a year and still doing your work, he has no grounds to eliminate you, as you're cheap.

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  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    There is a bit of back-story I didn't include in this - I've spent the last 5 years 'commuting' back and forth between my UK job and Vancouver, where I've been working this job. It's an extremely specialized product and I am one of the only people in the world with the knowledge and expertise to work on and maintain it. So - I already have a lot of friends (and a free place to live) in Canada when I get there. If I *do* leave my job, there will be several entities queuing up to get me to 'consult' for them, since the things I know are so specialised.

    Anyway, for now, I'll take the advice to try and stick the job out, at least until I get some further feedback from the Canadian Consulate on my application, and in the meantime I'll try and get it in writing from my current line manager that the company is committed to sending me overseas... Thanks everybody

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  • schussschuss Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    cmsamo wrote: »
    There is a bit of back-story I didn't include in this - I've spent the last 5 years 'commuting' back and forth between my UK job and Vancouver, where I've been working this job. It's an extremely specialized product and I am one of the only people in the world with the knowledge and expertise to work on and maintain it. So - I already have a lot of friends (and a free place to live) in Canada when I get there. If I *do* leave my job, there will be several entities queuing up to get me to 'consult' for them, since the things I know are so specialised.

    Anyway, for now, I'll take the advice to try and stick the job out, at least until I get some further feedback from the Canadian Consulate on my application, and in the meantime I'll try and get it in writing from my current line manager that the company is committed to sending me overseas... Thanks everybody

    Well, at least you have good options. I take it your old company will be up shit creek if you leave? Leverage. If they fuck with you too much, just go consultant and charge them exorbitant fees.

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  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    schuss wrote: »

    Well, at least you have good options. I take it your old company will be up shit creek if you leave? Leverage. If they fuck with you too much, just go consultant and charge them exorbitant fees.

    This is exactly what I was thinking of doing. The company kept 2 of us on (the two who know the most about the systems) and sacked everyone else. Now, my colleague is looking for work elsewhere, and our line manager has resigned. If I go, the new line manager (and anyone else he recruits) won't know what to do - not even down to the simplest thing like log on to one of our remote systems, and restart the software.

    One thing is for sure... If I DO go, then it will be hilarious watching them try to support 4 international customers without a clue what they are doing! :)

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  • ParielPariel Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    I would keep in mind that if you're planning on moving to a new country, burning bridges is not a particularly good plan.

    Yes, your manager doesn't appear to be a great guy. However, if your company feels like you've screwed them by leaving, they probably do have a great deal of leverage with the people you would otherwise work for. If they stop being able to support the system, and your customers decide to move to something else, then you're pretty screwed as well. I would keep your options as open as possible.

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  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    Good point about burning bridges.

    In this case, we are the only people who can support our system right off the bat. There is nobody that could come in and replace us without a ton of catch up time and re-learning/discovering things. Also, the product is a world-first, and world-only solution. Nobody else does what we do, or at least, nobody has a working solution to do what we do. So, knowledge and experience of this system is like gold dust.

    My working relationship with the Canadian customers is such that they trust me implicitly and usually ask for me by name to go and support them (hence why I've been back and forth to Canada so much). In fact, an angle I hadn't thought about is that if I was to give my notice here, they may want me to consult for them... Hmm...

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  • ceresceres When the last moon is cast over the last star of morning And the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, Moderator Mod Emeritus
    edited July 2011
    If your boss-in-training is already planning to fuck with you, it's not wrong to bail. There's no reason to do so until you're ready to leave, though, approved or not. May as well get paid.

    As was pointed out, it's senior management's decision, not your new boss's, so see what they do before you get too worked up. If they don't approve your move to a remote work situation, you may as well chill if you can until your transfer goes through. You are not screwing with them by leaving at that point, they have simply told you that you are not valuable enough to them even to keep you to their financial benefit. Your life situation is changing and it's their decision what they want to do about it. If they decide they'd rather replace you than work with you, especially if you have other options, there's no shame in letting them do so.

    If they decide to keep you remotely, then just keep them posted about your schedule and see how things progress with your new boss. He may come into things or he may not, but give him a chance. If he doesn't get the hang of things after a reasonable time and there's no indication that he'll be replaced, there's nothing wrong with leaving at that point, either.

    It sounds like if you hate it enough that you want to leave anyway you could just go to work for family in the interim and get a job once you move overseas. You haven't really mentioned the downsides to doing this.

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  • LorekLorek Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    IANAL and it may be different in the UK..

    But I know my company has each employees contract have a bit saying we can't quit and go work at our company's customers for x amount of years after we leave the company. I'm also pretty sure that when our customers license our software, part of the contract says they won't try to hire us away as consultants or anything like that. You may want to review your own contract to watch for that; you may yourself unable to get a job with your company's customers.

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  • Dr. FrenchensteinDr. Frenchenstein Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    yeah, definitely take a look at your employment contract. is your new boss being a bitch b/c he'd rather have you onsite?

    Definitely get something in writing before you jet off to canada.

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  • witch_iewitch_ie Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    Whichever option you end up pursuing, I suggest you keep maintaining your professional reputation as a priority, especially since you are so specialized. As you said, it may take a lot of work to train a new person on your systems and software and what have you, but no one is irreplaceable and given that your company has cut your team to such an extent, it doesn't seem to be something they are overly concerned about.

    This means that whatever transition you end up making, you need to do so displaying the appropriate professional attitude throughout. To echo some of the other advice here, when discussing your options given your plans to move to Canada with either senior management or you direct manager, don't make any ultimatums. The fact is that you plan to move to Canada at some point, and would like to know what your options are for continued employment that would be mutually beneficial and come to some agreement on it. If you feel like you're blackmailing them because of your unique skill set, you're doing it wrong.

    Also, since the date is very up in the air, I wouldn't push too hard to have something in writing until you have that date. My experience with location changes is that they need to know so that they can do all the administrative planning and set up - that would be a logical point to put pen to paper.

    In the meantime, if you don't feel secure, feel free to look for opportunities in Canada. I would recommend extreme caution when speaking with your current clients about a position though since it is possible for that to get back to your leadership and impact your chances with them.

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  • NorthNorth Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    You shouldn't be in a rush to preemptively resign. It's not like you will lose the option if they turn down your request to work overseas.

    If you just want to leave for the other reasons you talked about...Well those reasons are perfectly valid reasons to leave a company.

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  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    yeah, definitely take a look at your employment contract. is your new boss being a bitch b/c he'd rather have you onsite?

    Definitely get something in writing before you jet off to canada.

    Ya. There is a clause in the contract which says neither party can employ the other for x years. However I spoke to my soon to be departing line manager about it, and he said "there is no problem with that. If you have given notice to leave, then you can take any job you wish, and if you are consulting, then you're not in full time employment so the clause does not count".

    @Witch_ie: The date I am working to in my head is September 7th 2011 since I already booked a flight for that date. I hope above hopes that I get my citizenship but it is looking increasingly unlikely (due to Canadian Postal Service postal delays from the UK). Hence, I feel I need to approach my management with this 'hard' date in mind and ask that if they really consider my request to be a possibility, then we work to that date as a "latest date of departure"

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  • ceresceres When the last moon is cast over the last star of morning And the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, Moderator Mod Emeritus
    edited July 2011
    By the way, cmsamo, your sig is way too tall. Maximum allowed sig height is 80 pixels.

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  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    Ya the WoW signature I had has broken I guess. Fixed it now :)

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  • spool32spool32 Contrary Library Registered User, Transition Team regular
    Press for the job. Go to senior management yourself...

    The thing is, when you say "Senior management has approved the move" but then you say that things are still up in the air, this tells me one very important detail:

    You didn't get this deal in writing. That is a PROBLEM. What you need to do is ask your manager to go with you to the "Senior Manager" who approved the deal, and tell them both that you would very much like to get that approval in writing and signed. Once it's on paper and signed, there's really nothing your new manager can do about it.

    However, I would also fully expect your new manager to do whatever he can to get you fired. So once you get to Canada, start looking for a new job.

  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    I made the first step and emailed to the outgoing manager - I asked for an update on the situation, and asked for a formal agreement / clarification on whether it was going ahead - and he said that the HR department said it would be very complicated to sort out, and would cost the company quite a lot of money. He is presenting the figures to our Managing Director on Tuesday, and I'll get a final decision on either way, after which it will of course become formal if they go with it. He said he didn't think it would be much of a go-er, though.

    So, it seems I am going to have to wait around for my citizenship, put up with the job in the meantime, and give my notice once I have citizenship sorted. I can then move to Canada, find a new job, and 'consult' for the company I am going to leave, hopefully charging them double the hourly rate they pay me :)

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  • LewieP's MummyLewieP's Mummy Registered User regular
    Also, if you resign, you're not entitled to job seekers allowance, as you've made yourself unemployed - its only £68 per week, but you wouldn't get it. You won't get HB either, as you're living with your parents, so you'd only have savings to live on.
    Stay with the job til you have a definite moving to Canadia date.

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  • DhalphirDhalphir don't you open that trapdoor you're a fool if you dareRegistered User regular
    schuss wrote:
    cmsamo wrote: »
    There is a bit of back-story I didn't include in this - I've spent the last 5 years 'commuting' back and forth between my UK job and Vancouver, where I've been working this job. It's an extremely specialized product and I am one of the only people in the world with the knowledge and expertise to work on and maintain it. So - I already have a lot of friends (and a free place to live) in Canada when I get there. If I *do* leave my job, there will be several entities queuing up to get me to 'consult' for them, since the things I know are so specialised.

    Anyway, for now, I'll take the advice to try and stick the job out, at least until I get some further feedback from the Canadian Consulate on my application, and in the meantime I'll try and get it in writing from my current line manager that the company is committed to sending me overseas... Thanks everybody

    Well, at least you have good options. I take it your old company will be up shit creek if you leave? Leverage. If they fuck with you too much, just go consultant and charge them exorbitant fees.

    if you are this valuable to the company there is no way that the senior managers will let this new manager do ANYTHING to fuck with you.

  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    I guess I'll find out just how valuable I really am tomorrow, when the managing director decides whether or he wants to let me work in Canada. Unfortunately, given the fact that he's let so many people go already, I don't think he really sees how niche and specialized his product is. I've certainly been told by departing co-workers that when I leave, the company is screwed. But, well, we'll see....

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  • DhalphirDhalphir don't you open that trapdoor you're a fool if you dareRegistered User regular
    I think the only tricky part is that you don't really know when you need to begin working in Canada, due to the visa thing.

    For all they know, it may be six months.

  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    edited July 2011
    *edited*

    My company won't send me overseas, so I need to sit it out with them until I get my citizenship, and then resign.

    Or - lose my temper and resign in a huff.. and spend some months in the UK without work... I need to sleep on it before I work out which of these two options I go with...!

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  • spool32spool32 Contrary Library Registered User, Transition Team regular
    Work is better than no work. Sorry the shit didn't work out for you, but you're better off knowing, than believing the initial story that "senior management OK'd the deal". Now you can plan, and you're not being blindsided by a deal you thought was done but had never been put to paper.

  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    Ya.. true words... It turns out there is a policy whereby the company must pay for the accommodation/expenses of employees when overseas - something to do with insurance and health/safety legislation. That meant that any cash saving was wiped out by these extra costs - so, NO DEAL!

    On the plus side, if I can keep my temper long enough and stay at work, I stand to save up quite a lot of money to land in Canada with. Someone in Best Buy is going to be a very happy bunny the day I walk in and re-buy my xbox360, blu-ray player, surround sound, and TV/gadgets that I sold in the UK :)

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  • spool32spool32 Contrary Library Registered User, Transition Team regular
    You might be able to take some of those with you! The xbox will have to be replaced, but the blu-ray might not if it's region-free. The surround sound might work depending on the power supply's operating range. Have a look at the back, you might just need a different power cord. TV as well, you might own one that can work on 110 and 220, and has ntsc/pal settings.

    Your PC will definitely be usable in Canada, though you'll need a new power cord and remember to flip that red switch on the back over to 110 when you get here.

  • SwashbucklerXXSwashbucklerXX Swashbucklin' Canuck Registered User regular
    Having gone through the Canadian immigration system, I definitely recommend that you stay at your job in the UK until you know the date you'll be allowed to "land" in Canada. They could process you very quickly, or you could get boned because your app got sent to a particularly busy processing centre. If the worst-case scenario happens to you, you really don't want to be sitting around in the UK both jobless and steaming mad. Being in jobless immigration limbo is no fun, take it from me. I did it for a year (moved to Canada while my paperwork was being processed and wasn't allowed to work for a year because I only had "visitor" status) and it was pretty miserable. Suck it up on the job and save your money, it'll give you something to do and help pass the time while you wait for the paperwork.

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  • cmsamocmsamo Registered User regular
    So - an update on my situation :)

    I got my citizenship through today, so I'm giving notice to my work on Monday, applying for a passport, and 30 days after that, I am flying to Vancouver :)

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  • CybitCybit Merch Underling RedmondRegistered User regular
    Congratulations! :)

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