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What gives you the right?

TelemontTelemont Registered User regular
edited August 2011 in Debate and/or Discourse
What gives you the right to <BLANK> ? I've heard this used in arguments a great deal as a method to try and discredit or undermine an opponents position. I am curious what an effective counter-argument might be? Just to be clear, I am referencing its use in every day life and not in a controlled debate setting.

I have a hard time thinking of decent responses to this. I assume claiming that you have the right because of X, Y, or Z is certain to bring X, Y, or Z under scrutiny. In some cases this might be valid, but in most cases involving any kind of opinion it would be laughable. In many ways I think this argument is a non-starter fallacy, because it presumes that a right is necessary to take an action or hold an opinion in the first place. What are your thoughts?

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  • ronyaronya Arrrrrf. the ivory tower's basementRegistered User regular
    Are you asking for effective counter-rhetoric, or for an elaboration of what internal justifications people might invoke when asked to defend their claims on some rights, or for a material explanation of why people believe they have claims on some rights?

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  • L*2*G*XL*2*G*X Registered User regular
    "Your mom did." duh.

  • HalfhandHalfhand a stalwart bastion of terrible ideas Registered User regular
    I don't know if this applies but friends have no right to judge other friends. The one time anyone I know has ever judged me to my face, we never spoke again after it happened.

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  • ronyaronya Arrrrrf. the ivory tower's basementRegistered User regular
    Why don't friends have that right, Halfhand?

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  • PonyPony Registered User regular
    Everyone has the right to judge everyone

    all the time

    you just might not be well-liked if you exercise that right constantly

  • TelemontTelemont Registered User regular
    edited August 2011
    I'm asking for effective counter-rhetoric AND possibly musing on the nature of the argument itself. In some cases the use of the argument might be perfectly valid, in a situation where the 'rights' of an individual are clearly and legally indicated. Under most circumstances in my life the argument seems to come up to counter and undermine the actions of people where no such clear and legally indicated rights actually exists. This seems to beg the question that one requires a 'right' when no such requirement exists.

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  • HalfhandHalfhand a stalwart bastion of terrible ideas Registered User regular
    edited August 2011
    ronya wrote:
    Why don't friends have that right, Halfhand?

    Because it's not their place, and more importantly really disrespectful. But "you don't have the right" is really just an expression to get across that I'm fundamentally not ok with you saying what you're saying.

    edit: what pony said

    If we're going strictly by the book, the term "You have no right" should never be used, since everyone has the "right" to say whatever they want. Which a lot of times is unfortunate.

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  • PonyPony Registered User regular
    I actually stop taking people seriously when they pull "WHAT GIVES YOU THE RIGHT" bullshit. It's a bullshit thing to say to someone, it's arguing from emotion. Any argument or debate where a person is whipping this out is an act they are making out of being flabbergasted and offended, not actually having a real counter-point.

    Unless, of course, you are actually making a legal argument, like "what gives you the right to forcibly eject that rowdy teenager from your front yard?"

    The Trespass to Property Act, actually!

    that sort of thing

    if it's being used outside of a legal/human rights context, like if someone says "What gives you the right to think my lawn is poorly maintained?!"

    it's just a fancypants way of say "NO U" and shouldn't be considered a serious argument worthy of a real counter-point.

    Which the OP sorta states?

    So what is this then, fallacy thread?

  • ronyaronya Arrrrrf. the ivory tower's basementRegistered User regular
    As effective counter-rhetoric: just ramp up the outrage. You no longer have a hope of convincing your interlocutor, who is already disinterested in philosophical argument, so at best you can convince bystanders that your moral outrage feels as strong as the other guy's. Cite higher moral authorities (which may or may not actually support your case, but who's gonna check) - the Constitution, history, tradition, the Bible, mother nature, the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, etc. If your interlocutor gains materially from denying you the relevant right, point this out.

    It may be useful to consult a list of common logical fallacies, and observe that these are common because they can be rhetorically effective.

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  • TelemontTelemont Registered User regular
    edited August 2011
    Pony wrote:
    So what is this then, fallacy thread?
    If someone uses it on you, and you are somehow better served to continue the rhetoric instead of ignoring them and walking away, then what are good examples of counter-rhetoric?

    *edit: Ronya ninja!

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  • PonyPony Registered User regular
    I can't think of a situation where I am better served by counter-rhetoric to an emotional fallacy like that

    as opposed to just

    discontinuing the argument with this obviously histrionic and foolish person

  • TelemontTelemont Registered User regular
    edited August 2011
    Any situation where you need to maintain credibility in the face of witnesses who do not necessarily recognize that it is an emotional fallacy? Possible debates with a spouse who has no interest in entertaining foolish ideas like logic when emotion is the only currency that counts? Living in a strange culture where your ability to recite rhetoric and sound convincing is given higher praise than the use of facts and logic? Politics?

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  • PonyPony Registered User regular
    Telemont wrote:
    Any situation where you need to maintain credibility in the face of witnesses who do not necessarily recognize that it is an emotional fallacy? Possible debates with a spouse who has no interest in entertaining foolish ideas like logic when emotion is the only currency that counts? Living in a strange culture where your ability to recite rhetoric and sound convincing is given higher praise than the use of facts and logic? Politics?

    uh, wow

    almost none of those things apply to me or my life or the people i care about or my daily interactions with others

    crazy

  • ronyaronya Arrrrrf. the ivory tower's basementRegistered User regular
    Anticipate common arguments and plan a reply that is (1) brief (2) immediately coherent (3) falls outside their own universe of anticipated common replies. Preferably, snappily allude to the vague ideas that tend to float around the wider zeitgeist rather than trying to explain them yourself (avoiding keywords that may have been distorted in the mind of your target, i.e. "liberal" or "conservative").

    tl; dr: use soundbites. You can tune them for open hostility or concern-trolling levels of helpfulness as appropriate.

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  • KamarKamar Registered User regular
    You can list off credentials, drop objective sources, stuff like that, I suppose. If your audience isn't the type to find pesky things like facts and logic convincing, you're boned from the start unless you're willing to sink to your opponent's level.

    Slightly off the main topic, but I can't think of anyone MORE suited to judging someone to their face than a friend. What kind of thin-skinned goose cuts off ties with any friend who calls them on something? A real friend won't stand by and let you be a fuckwit.

  • PonyPony Registered User regular
    Kamar wrote:
    Slightly off the main topic, but I can't think of anyone MORE suited to judging someone to their face than a friend. What kind of thin-skinned goose cuts off ties with any friend who calls them on something? A real friend won't stand by and let you be a fuckwit.

    this

  • ScooterScooter Registered User regular
    Pony wrote:
    Kamar wrote:
    Slightly off the main topic, but I can't think of anyone MORE suited to judging someone to their face than a friend. What kind of thin-skinned goose cuts off ties with any friend who calls them on something? A real friend won't stand by and let you be a fuckwit.

    this

    Yea, if someone won't listen to a friend I can't imagine who they would listen to


    Anonymous forum posters maybe?

  • ronyaronya Arrrrrf. the ivory tower's basementRegistered User regular
    I presume Halfhand means "judge" in a way which is not the typical meaning.

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  • PonyPony Registered User regular
    ronya wrote:
    I presume Halfhand means "judge" in a way which is not the typical meaning.

    it sounds like the teenage usage of the word

    like

    "don't judge me, maaaaan"

  • ronyaronya Arrrrrf. the ivory tower's basementRegistered User regular
    What, really? Now I feel old.

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  • surrealitychecksurrealitycheck lonely, but not unloved dreaming of faulty keys and latchesRegistered User regular
    edited August 2011
    you gotta go biblical up in dis shit

    just not lest ye be judged

    and son you been judgin' all day long

    yeahhhhhhhhhhh

    ps: Ronya bro you're decrepit get back in the old persons' home!

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  • TheOrangeTheOrange Registered User regular
    Teenagers started to say "maaaan" again? When did this start and why was I not informed?

  • Evil MultifariousEvil Multifarious Registered User regular
    this thread is difficult to respond to without some concrete examples of this rhetorical position and when it is fallacious

    the question "what gives you the right" is way too broadly applicable. i usually hear it in melodramatic confrontations between heroes and villains, not everyday dialogue.

  • PonyPony Registered User regular
    this thread is difficult to respond to without some concrete examples of this rhetorical position and when it is fallacious

    the question "what gives you the right" is way too broadly applicable. i usually hear it in melodramatic confrontations between heroes and villains, not everyday dialogue.

    i only hear it in everyday dialogue if i am talking to melodramatic people

    like, i am a security guard, i hear this shit sometimes from people. "WHAT GIVES YOU THE RIGHT TO ASK ME TO LEAVE?" uh, the Private Security and Investigative Services Act, and the Trespass to Property Act, that is what gives me those rights, specifically.

    but in a general sense I hear it from the sort of folk I don't take seriously anyway, like some woman in a McDonalds freaking out at being told her coupon will not be accepted.

    It is not a form of counter-argument I hear from reasonable people.

  • MKRMKR Registered User regular
    What gives you the right to ask what gives me the right to ask you what gives you the right to ask what gives me the right?

  • Rhesus PositiveRhesus Positive GNU Terry Pratchett Registered User regular
    "This." *Flip bird*

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  • PonyPony Registered User regular
    edited August 2011
    MKR wrote:
    What gives you the right to ask what gives me the right to ask you what gives you the right to ask what gives me the right?

    my god

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IXLDv-fUINM&amp;feature=related

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  • AtomikaAtomika Live fast and get fucked or whatever Registered User regular
    One thing that kept popping up during the Dixie Chicks Bush-bashing scandal was people defending them by asking, "Whatever happened to freedom of speech?"

    Which, despite how dumb the whole entire thing was, this was one of the dumbest.

  • Eat it You Nasty Pig.Eat it You Nasty Pig. tell homeland security 'we are the bomb'Registered User regular
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hFyV6iwGTIM

    (I spent far too long looking for this clip)

    hold your head high soldier, it ain't over yet
    that's why we call it the struggle, you're supposed to sweat
  • Eat it You Nasty Pig.Eat it You Nasty Pig. tell homeland security 'we are the bomb'Registered User regular
    Anyway there's probably lots of situations where "what gives you the right?" is perfectly valid implied criticism. And when it's not, the "correct" answer is "nothing, so what"

    hold your head high soldier, it ain't over yet
    that's why we call it the struggle, you're supposed to sweat
  • DivideByZeroDivideByZero Social Justice Blackguard Registered User regular
    Counter: "What gives YOU the right to assume that you/your position is immune from criticism, maaaan?"

    Bonus points if you can stretch out the "maaaaaan" long enough that it could pass for a Seth McFarlane gag.

    First they came for the Muslims, and we said NOT TODAY, MOTHERFUCKERS
  • TheBigEasyTheBigEasy Registered User regular
    One thing that kept popping up during the Dixie Chicks Bush-bashing scandal was people defending them by asking, "Whatever happened to freedom of speech?"

    Which, despite how dumb the whole entire thing was, this was one of the dumbest.

    I am only vaguely familiar with the Dixie Chicks vs. Bush scandal ... but what makes that "Freedom of speech" thing dumb?

  • Eat it You Nasty Pig.Eat it You Nasty Pig. tell homeland security 'we are the bomb'Registered User regular
    freedom of speech means freedom from government censorship, not freedom from lots of people not buying your album

    hold your head high soldier, it ain't over yet
    that's why we call it the struggle, you're supposed to sweat
  • DivideByZeroDivideByZero Social Justice Blackguard Registered User regular
    Yeah that argument might have been remotely valid had armed federal agents busted down their door and carried them off kicking & screaming.

    Freedom of speech does not immunize you from the social consequences of that speech. So you can call out your friends on their shitheaded behavior all the time, but don't be surprised if they don't want to hang out with you anymore!

    First they came for the Muslims, and we said NOT TODAY, MOTHERFUCKERS
  • JebusUDJebusUD Adventure! Candy IslandRegistered User regular
    Yeah that argument might have been remotely valid had armed federal agents busted down their door and carried them off kicking & screaming.

    Freedom of speech does not immunize you from the social consequences of that speech. So you can call out your friends on their shitheaded behavior all the time, but don't be surprised if they don't want to hang out with you anymore!

    The whole thing is funny. How dare they have an opinion counter to country music standards.

    Where were you... when they built that ladder to heaven!

    and I wonder about my neighbors even though I don't have them
    but they're listening to every word I say
  • enc0reenc0re Registered User regular
    If I'm being a shithead, I expect my friends above all others to call me out on it.

    Telemont, are you willing to cough up a little more detail on your situation? It's an awfully broad question.

  • EchoEcho ski-bap ba-dapModerator, Administrator admin
    In a vacuum:

    What gives me the right? The fact that laws have not taken that right away.

    Of course, like mentioned, even if I have a legal right I'll still have to accept the social consequences.

  • Modern ManModern Man Registered User regular
    JebusUD wrote:
    Yeah that argument might have been remotely valid had armed federal agents busted down their door and carried them off kicking & screaming.

    Freedom of speech does not immunize you from the social consequences of that speech. So you can call out your friends on their shitheaded behavior all the time, but don't be surprised if they don't want to hang out with you anymore!

    The whole thing is funny. How dare they have an opinion counter to country music standards.

    Where were you... when they built that ladder to heaven!
    Well, if your career depends on the goodwill of a certain demographic, it's kind of a dumb move to adopt a position that will anger said demographic.

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  • ArbitraryDescriptorArbitraryDescriptor Registered User regular
    I thought we were going to be talking about fences that keep people out whist keeping mother nature in, or signs that perpetuate haircut-based discriminatory hiring practices.

    Now I don't know what to feel.

  • MaratastikMaratastik Just call me Mara, please! Registered User regular
    I thought we were going to be talking about fences that keep people out whist keeping mother nature in, or signs that perpetuate haircut-based discriminatory hiring practices.

    Now I don't know what to feel.

    Can't you read the siiiii-iiign?

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