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Life is finally good. Simon's first birthday today!

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    BigBearBigBear If your life had a face, I would punch it. Registered User regular
    My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your wife and kids Josh. Hopefully someday this will all be nothing more than a bad memory.

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    Munkus BeaverMunkus Beaver You don't have to attend every argument you are invited to. Philosophy: Stoicism. Politics: Democratic SocialistRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    All I can say is keep on trucking.

    Humor can be dissected as a frog can, but dies in the process.
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    QuothQuoth the Raven Miami, FL FOR REALRegistered User regular
    I am sorry about the thing I said :(

    For what it's worth, I'm praying like nuts for you guys

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    StaleStale Registered User regular
    Okay, so Medicaid is only covering my wife until six weeks after she delivers. I imagine getting further insurance is going to be a bitch, to put it mildly. I don't make enough money to pay for half a million dollars in cancer treatment. Does anybody have any advice here? My wife is friends with the Director of Operations for cancer services network here in Abilene and we're talking to her, but we won't know anything for a while and I figure it's better to do something sooner rather than later.


    like I told you via pm earlier, look into clinical trials. they are often little to no cost to patient.

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    Munkus BeaverMunkus Beaver You don't have to attend every argument you are invited to. Philosophy: Stoicism. Politics: Democratic SocialistRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    You're gonna cry a bit, you at least can lean on each other through this. But you're gonna get through it. That's really your only option. You either move forward or you don't, so I'm sure you'll make the right choice.

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    DruhimDruhim Registered User, ClubPA regular
    Stale wrote: »
    Okay, so Medicaid is only covering my wife until six weeks after she delivers. I imagine getting further insurance is going to be a bitch, to put it mildly. I don't make enough money to pay for half a million dollars in cancer treatment. Does anybody have any advice here? My wife is friends with the Director of Operations for cancer services network here in Abilene and we're talking to her, but we won't know anything for a while and I figure it's better to do something sooner rather than later.


    like I told you via pm earlier, look into clinical trials. they are often little to no cost to patient.

    However, keep in mind that they are trials. You're basically rolling the dice at that point for the sake of free healthcare, but it's potentially not even healthcare because it hasn't made it through trials yet. I can't emphasize enough that this should be an option you two should be hesitant to pursue unless you have exhausted all other options for getting proper care.

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    godmodegodmode Southeast JapanRegistered User regular
    Very sorry to hear, josh. I wish your family the best of luck.

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    apricotmuffinsapricotmuffins Angry Bee Registered User regular
    Okay, so Medicaid is only covering my wife until six weeks after she delivers. I imagine getting further insurance is going to be a bitch, to put it mildly. I don't make enough money to pay for half a million dollars in cancer treatment. Does anybody have any advice here? My wife is friends with the Director of Operations for cancer services network here in Abilene and we're talking to her, but we won't know anything for a while and I figure it's better to do something sooner rather than later.


    im so sorry for your situation. I find it especially depressing and horrible that I read your first post and thought 'i bet they have issues with medical care if they are in the US.' but this isnt the thread for debates about american healthcare criticisms really. I'll just say I boil with rage at that shit. last thing any sick person needs on top of a serious disease is far more financial stress than is necessary.

    Keep strong. you will get through.

    can you move to canada?

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    joshofalltradesjoshofalltrades Class Traitor Smoke-filled roomRegistered User regular
    Ha, maybe moving to Canada is the best thing to do, all things considered. Do I have to take a French literacy test? (not being serious here)

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    T4CTT4CT BAFTA-NOMINATED NAFTA-APPROVEDRegistered User regular
    edited October 2011
    I love you, guy.

    no seriously though I feel for you here and this sucks but you guys can get through it. Keep trucking. Determination is a powerful drug.

    T4CT on
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    joshofalltradesjoshofalltrades Class Traitor Smoke-filled roomRegistered User regular
    I love you too, man

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    QuothQuoth the Raven Miami, FL FOR REALRegistered User regular
    Not that this would be ideal, but could you just get the treatment and then declare bankruptcy or something

    Maybe munkus knows about that kind of legal stuff

    I'd say better to be in debt than the alternative

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    joshofalltradesjoshofalltrades Class Traitor Smoke-filled roomRegistered User regular
    But we were doing so good

    No debt at all, quite literally

    FFFFFFUUUUUUCK

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    DruhimDruhim Registered User, ClubPA regular
    Yeah, the U.S. healthcare system is pretty fucked up. :(

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    DisruptedCapitalistDisruptedCapitalist I swear! Registered User regular
    Jeebus, and here I was thinking my life was pretty fucked up lately. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts man. I hope the pregnancy goes well at least.

    "Simple, real stupidity beats artificial intelligence every time." -Mustrum Ridcully in Terry Pratchett's Hogfather p. 142 (HarperPrism 1996)
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    Captain MarcusCaptain Marcus now arrives the hour of actionRegistered User regular
    I'll definitely be praying for you guys. Best wishes for a speedy (and least expensive) recovery.

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    joshofalltradesjoshofalltrades Class Traitor Smoke-filled roomRegistered User regular
    Thanks again. We're about to go talk to the oncologist this morning, and I'll post what we find out later.

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    Peter EbelPeter Ebel CopenhagenRegistered User regular
    That is a shitty roll of the dice. I hope everything works out for the best for you and your family.

    Fuck off and die.
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    Blake TBlake T Do you have enemies then? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.Registered User regular
    Oh man josh this is all so sad. I hope things turn at as well as they possible can.

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    Peter EbelPeter Ebel CopenhagenRegistered User regular
    Peter Ebel wrote: »
    That is a shitty roll of the dice. I hope everything works out for the best for you and your family.

    Well, except your dad, who is apparently an ultra butt guy.

    Fuck off and die.
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    cooljammer00cooljammer00 Hey Small Christmas-Man!Registered User regular
    Guys, guys.

    I have an idea.

    Everyone needs to stop getting sick and bumming everyone out.

    :-( Sorry for everything, JoshOfAllTrades...

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    GoatmonGoatmon Companion of Kess Registered User regular
    Thanks again. We're about to go talk to the oncologist this morning, and I'll post what we find out later.

    Here's hoping for the best, man.

    You guys will get through this, one way or the other. Just gotta stay strong.

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    TastyfishTastyfish Registered User regular
    Druhim wrote:
    Stale wrote: »
    Okay, so Medicaid is only covering my wife until six weeks after she delivers. I imagine getting further insurance is going to be a bitch, to put it mildly. I don't make enough money to pay for half a million dollars in cancer treatment. Does anybody have any advice here? My wife is friends with the Director of Operations for cancer services network here in Abilene and we're talking to her, but we won't know anything for a while and I figure it's better to do something sooner rather than later.


    like I told you via pm earlier, look into clinical trials. they are often little to no cost to patient.

    However, keep in mind that they are trials. You're basically rolling the dice at that point for the sake of free healthcare, but it's potentially not even healthcare because it hasn't made it through trials yet. I can't emphasize enough that this should be an option you two should be hesitant to pursue unless you have exhausted all other options for getting proper care.

    She also probably won't be eligible, pregnant and nursing mothers are almost never allowed to get involved in clinical trials except under very specific circumstances (i.e drugs for pregnant and nursing mothers).

    That said, they are trials but most of the ones you'd be involved in are Phase III where the primary risk is that it isn't as efficient or cost effective as an alternative treatment. Phase I was the first in man safety trials and usually only open to young, healthy men where they look for toxicity, Phase II is where they look to see if it works and Phase III is a continuance of that assuming that they saw some success in Phase II and also a comparison against existing treatments.

    So you probably won't be eligible for a trial over the period when it's going to matter, but Phase III isn't that big of a gamble as people have made out - it will be medicine that works, it just might not work any better than the current treatment.
    I'm guessing that you're going to be looking at alternatives to breast feeding anyway, because of the cancer therapies so it might still be worth looking into, just don't be surprised if your not eligible.

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    joshofalltradesjoshofalltrades Class Traitor Smoke-filled roomRegistered User regular
    Update from my phone at the oncologist's office.

    It's classic Hodgkin's, the way he put it, there are 4 cell types and hers is not the "bad" type. There are obviously risks with beginning any kind of treatment, but until we get a chest X-ray, an MRI of the abdomen and a bone marrow biopsy we won't know what stage she's in and what treatment is required. If she's in Stage 3 or 4, she will need chemotherapy which is the riskiest situation while pregnant. Fortunately, the doctor seems to think that they can start radiation treatment while she is pregnant and quickly wrap up with a combination of radiation and chemotherapy after she delivers, and maybe get it all done within six weeks after her delivery.

    Okay, now the problem. She's on PCCM, which is like a Medicaid HMO. We can't see any doctors without a referral from her primary care physician, and literally no primary care doctors will see her since they will only get a small portion of what they charge. So we're at a standstill right now; we can't get testing without a referral, we can't get a referral without a PCP, And we can't get a PCP without better insurance.

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    LarlarLarlar consecutive normal brunches Moderator, ClubPA mod
    Druhim wrote:
    Yeah, the U.S. healthcare system is pretty fucked up. :(

    I honestly can't imagine living in a country where getting sick or injured could bankrupt me. I'd be anxious and paranoid all the time.

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    LarlarLarlar consecutive normal brunches Moderator, ClubPA mod
    Wish I could help, josh, but all I can do is give my best wishes. I hope you find a way to work this out.

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    HounHoun Registered User regular
    There's gotta be a free clinic or something that would count as a PCP, right?

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    DruhimDruhim Registered User, ClubPA regular
    For healthcare plans, a primary care physician that can give a referral under the plan will be a doctor that's in their network. Charity clinics aren't going to be in their network.

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    joshofalltradesjoshofalltrades Class Traitor Smoke-filled roomRegistered User regular
    Druhim wrote:
    For healthcare plans, a primary care physician that can give a referral under the plan will be a doctor that's in their network. Charity clinics aren't going to be in their network.

    This. We're at the Medicaid office right now begging to be seen by someone in their network.

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    DruhimDruhim Registered User, ClubPA regular
    Basically your situation reminds me of this

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kO2R_DDZPCM

    only not funny in the slightest

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    Baroque And RollBaroque And Roll Every spark of friendship and love Will die without a homeRegistered User regular
    AUGH INSURANCE

    Hope things start to turn around for you, man.

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    joshofalltradesjoshofalltrades Class Traitor Smoke-filled roomRegistered User regular
    My mother-in-law said on the way over that this is why the government shouldn't be involved with health care, with no trace of irony

    I wanted to ask her where we'd be right now if we didn't have ANY insurance at all but I know that conversation is a road I don't want to go down today

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    zen-zen- Registered User regular
    Get a plane ticket to the UK, we'll treat you right

    or elope to Canada

    either way this is all shitty news, and I hope you two get through it

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    HounHoun Registered User regular
    My mother-in-law said on the way over that this is why the government shouldn't be involved with health care, with no trace of irony

    I wanted to ask her where we'd be right now if we didn't have ANY insurance at all but I know that conversation is a road I don't want to go down today

    This both sums up the problem with the American Healthcare System and why we can't get it fixed. And it's fucking horrible. :(

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    DruhimDruhim Registered User, ClubPA regular
    My mother-in-law said on the way over that this is why the government shouldn't be involved with health care, with no trace of irony

    I wanted to ask her where we'd be right now if we didn't have ANY insurance at all but I know that conversation is a road I don't want to go down today

    Yeah, my parents are basically the same way. It's infuriating. And then of course they're perfectly willing to try and game the system to save a few bucks but no goddamn socialized healthcare, that's unamerican!

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    Dark Raven XDark Raven X Laugh hard, run fast, be kindRegistered User regular
    What the actual fuck.

    How what.

    How do you get treatment in the US then?

    Cause here, you just sorta wander into a hospital and we treat ya.

    Oh brilliant
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    Baroque And RollBaroque And Roll Every spark of friendship and love Will die without a homeRegistered User regular
    You are the full time student child of/spouse of someone with insurance or you get a job that gets you insurance.

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    joshofalltradesjoshofalltrades Class Traitor Smoke-filled roomRegistered User regular
    What the actual fuck.

    How what.

    How do you get treatment in the US then?

    Cause here, you just sorta wander into a hospital and we treat ya.

    But you have inferior doctors since you don't pay them $texas!

    Yeah it's all bullshit. But whatever. We got a number of a lady whose job it is to help patients find a doctor. She doesn't work at this office. I feel like I'm on some fucked up Treasure Trail game where you get a clue that leads you to the next clue, with the hope that there's a doctor at the end who will say, "Yes it's okay for you get tested to see what stage your cancer is in."

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    UsagiUsagi Nah Registered User regular
    You are the full time student child of/spouse of someone with insurance or you get a job that gets you insurance.

    And even then you cross your fingers that it's covered because otherwise you in the poorhouse son

    Heath care here is Broken

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    EntriechEntriech ? ? ? ? ? Ontario, CanadaRegistered User regular
    We don't know each other, but I've got my fingers crossed for you and your family, Josh.

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