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ceres

Hullis wrote:

ceres wrote:

Hullis wrote:

ceres wrote:

Hullis wrote:

ceres wrote:

That and my general positive (believe it or not) attitude about people that they're doing the best they can and mean well all the time have led me to be far too accepting, and landed me in considerable amounts of trouble.

hi yes, this is me

Because you know, people don't do bad things on purpose, they probably have their reasons and that makes it totally valid, from their perspective. They'd do better if they could.

And if it's valid in their perspective, what's the point in holding a grudge?

(On the other hand, if I'm not directly involved and i can see that someone's perspective is harming someone else, I'm gonna give 'em a chewing out till that perspective changes!)

Hold a grudge? Why get upset at all?

But oh yeah, it's only when it's me that I have the problem.

let's make a pact to bitchslap each other when we catch ourselves doing that

I would like that to be a thing that doesn't happen to me anymore

Sounds like a plan. I'm surprised I haven't given a Nigerian prince all my money yet.

WeedLordVegeta

ceres wrote:

Hullis wrote:

ceres wrote:

Hullis wrote:

ceres wrote:

Hullis wrote:

ceres wrote:

That and my general positive (believe it or not) attitude about people that they're doing the best they can and mean well all the time have led me to be far too accepting, and landed me in considerable amounts of trouble.

hi yes, this is me

Because you know, people don't do bad things on purpose, they probably have their reasons and that makes it totally valid, from their perspective. They'd do better if they could.

And if it's valid in their perspective, what's the point in holding a grudge?

(On the other hand, if I'm not directly involved and i can see that someone's perspective is harming someone else, I'm gonna give 'em a chewing out till that perspective changes!)

Hold a grudge? Why get upset at all?

But oh yeah, it's only when it's me that I have the problem.

let's make a pact to bitchslap each other when we catch ourselves doing that

I would like that to be a thing that doesn't happen to me anymore

Sounds like a plan. I'm surprised I haven't given a Nigerian prince all my money yet.

ceres i need your credit card info NOW

for to help fix my broken balls

Antimatter

are we fixing problems with balls right now

WeedLordVegeta

Antimatter wrote:

are we fixing problems with balls right now

yes

get rid of yours and give them to me!

ceres

The really terrible thing is that part of me is like "well, he seems like a nice person..."

Antimatter

sounds like a plan

you could also consider waiting for tiger to go take a bath and then take his balls

WeedLordVegeta

nonono, do not do this

I have to earn shit for once, I had so much shit hand-fed to me growing up that I was unprepared to try and fail at something I desperately wanted

ceres

Well, that's probably feeding into the whole "type" thing, if I had to guess.

Anyway, that's enough struggling not to give people money I don't have for one night. It's draining.

Time for bed. Goodnight, thread.

WeedLordVegeta

lifejournal thread, i too, will be turning in shortly

tomorrow will be a day of adventure! And possibly Bad Choices! I am excited

Nechriah

Tox wrote:

Have I mentioned that every girlfriend I've ever had has broken up with me during week 6 of the relationship?

I'm not even joking. Like a fucking clock.

Hullis wrote:

I feel like I'm being too narrow in what I want in a relationship partner and it's crippling my development as a person

augh i need to stop thinking someone gimme some rhino tranqs

Man I can relate to both of these things. I was seeing this great girl earlier this year, then we broke after 8 weeks because I have a stupid unrequited crush on somebody else. She knew about this before we started dating, and I guess we both figured that being in a real relationship with somebody who actually returned my affections would help me get past those feelings. But it didn't. First time we tried to have sex, I couldn't perform and my girlfriend was all "You're not over her, are you?" I don't know if that's what the problem was, but that was pretty much it for us. We had a big heartfelt talk about what had happened and resolved to remain friends, but that did not pan out.

DRAMA ENSUES:

After a while I realised fuck, I really wasn't over this other girl. My now ex-girlfriend had told me "You need to talk to her about this" so I went to send her a message and arrange to meet up, only to discover that she'd unfriended me on facebook. I saw her again for the first time last week and she said that she's still so angry at me that she can't talk about what happened, though she did say that she only got one side of the story and she realises we will need to talk about shit, just not now. I still feel like such an asshole about all this because really, it's hard not to see this as being all my fault.

Oh, and I'm going to party on new years day and I know that both my ex-girlfriend and the girl I have the stupid unrequited crush on will be there. This will also be the first time I've seen my ex-girlfriend since we broke up. I'm sure nobody wants to make a big dramatic scene and will just want to have a good time, but sweet Jesus I am anxious about this weekend. I tried talking to my best friend about it but he was all "Nobody wants to cause more drama, so just stop worrying about it and stop bringing it up."

And yeah, I really want to be in a relationship because I felt so positive about myself and life in general when I was seeing someone. And I really liked her. But now I'm worried that this shit will just keep getting in the way of my efforts to form a meaningful relationship with someone, so I'll need to get this sorted before I try (which will take god knows how long), or else find someone's who is okay with my neuroses and supremely daft unrequited crush (which seems unlikely). Oh, and I still have my regular band of problems like chronic depression and OCD.

Phew, that took longer than I thought to get out, but was extremely cathartic. And at least I now have notes for when I got to talk to a therapist about things.

Henroid wrote:

Well things don't turn over for the better in a day, or even a month. Just keep hanging int here with it. There's a lot of people on this forum who are really cool about being able to talk to anyone who needs it.

Thanks duder. The depression thread really helped me when I was dealing with all this crap earlier this year, especially when I can't always talk to my friends about things.

Henroid

All the stuff I was carrying on about some days ago, I've spent the last couple hours working it out with the necessary individual. I'll be okay, it turns out.

Tallahasseeriel

I caught a cold or flu or something.

That's what I get for not having a winter jacket.

Andrew Ryan

WELP, Look who's being a giant pussy and not going to sleep because he fears his dreams.
This guy.

Garlic Bread

Tonkka wrote:

It's me.

I have the giant dick!

whoa

come to butt-head

Tallahasseeriel

Andrew Ryan wrote:

WELP, Look who's being a giant pussy and not going to sleep because he fears his dreams.
This guy.

Do what I did last night and watch cosmos on netflix instead of sleep.

Andrew Ryan

I don't have a netflix. Hulu will have to suffice

Tallahasseeriel

Andrew Ryan wrote:

I don't have a netflix. Hulu will have to suffice

I think it might be on youtube now too.

I think I saw it on there at least.

Buttlord

TrippyJing wrote:

Buttlord wrote: »

"Destination scan" is the most worthless tracking update

"It's gonna come to your house! But not yet. Fuck you."

I have begun hating UPS and FedEx more and more since I started at FedEx I realized

I once ordered a package that was supposed to be shipped from New Jersey to me in New York City. According to the tracking, the package went halfway down the East Coast, back up and nearly crossed into Canada, back to New Jersey, and then to me.

I ordered stuff that was shipped from NH. It went from there, through New York (where I live!(!)) to Massachusetts, then to Buffalo, then to East Syracuse, then to me in Liverpool. Still figuring that out.

Buttlord

Airking850 wrote:

Dear Livejournal,

Lately I have discovered the therapeutic power of playing guitar. Fuck problems, I'm'a strum this motherfucker 'til I fall asleep.

This is good therapy

Andrew Ryan

I know this is not a battle that can be won, eventually I will fall asleep, but hopefully I can be tired enough to remember nothing.

Straightzi

Good morning Livejournal thread.

Today I learned that a friend I have had a crush on for years is going to be at the same New Year's Eve party as me. And is, as far as I know, single.

On a totally unrelated note, betting on how drunk Quetzi is going to get for New Year's Eve has now opened.

Gatsby

So drunk you black out, forget what happened, and due to whacky circumstances be confused as to whether you slept with this friend, another girl or no one.

Coming this Summer

All Quetz Are Off

The Lovely Bastard

gonna have the worst new year's

the only options I have are work 11p - 7a or still be sick

Each one has plusses and minuses

but mostly minuses

been fevering/not being able to breathe for a week though, so I am leaning towards work being the thing I wanna do most

Buttlord

Straightzi wrote:

Good morning Livejournal thread.

Today I learned that a friend I have had a crush on for years is going to be at the same New Year's Eve party as me. And is, as far as I know, single.

On a totally unrelated note, betting on how drunk Quetzi is going to get for New Year's Eve has now opened.

Fifty bucks on "so drunk"

Wiet

Gatsby wrote:

So drunk you black out, forget what happened, and due to whacky circumstances be confused as to whether you slept with this friend, another girl or no one.

Coming this Summer

All Quetz Are Off

Oh my God

Brolo

livejournal thread

I feel like such a slut for posting in the census thread

Munkus Beaver

Rolo wrote:

livejournal thread

I feel like such a slut for posting in the census thread

Good.

Mysst

me too but I could do with some ego strokin

Mysst

and some dick strokin but I mean no one's offering

The Lovely Bastard

I have zero qualms having glory and honor heaped on me via forumer opinions threads

All people should tell me I am great at all times

Buttlord

I signed up for shits and giggles

Gonna tell everyone JUST WHAT I THINK OF THIS PLACE

Straightzi

Gatsby wrote:

So drunk you black out, forget what happened, and due to whacky circumstances be confused as to whether you slept with this friend, another girl or no one.

Coming this Summer

All Quetz Are Off

This might be the best pun done with my name since Pony's "I'm bringing Quetzi back"

Brolo

I can't wait to talk shit about you people.

The Lovely Bastard

last year I signed up, forgot, and the thread was closed before I could tell you jerks exactly what I think of you

I will not let that happen again this time

Brolo

Especially that one guy.

Gatsby

I also had an idea involving a Cupid tattoo being your only clue and calling it On The Straightzi and Arrow, but thaat pun called out to me like some harmonious wind.

Straightzi

I am trying to remember if this lady drinks yet. I think she started drinking this past year, so I'm really hoping for some drunken midnight makeouts.

Garlic Bread

The Lovely Bastard wrote:

last year I signed up, forgot, and the thread was closed before I could tell you jerks exactly what I think of you

I will not let that happen again this time

I'm contemplating doing my opinions in a text document as people sign up in the census thread

The Lovely Bastard

she's in a nunnery now, quetzi

she saves all her hot makeouts for j-christ in the hizzy of the g-o-d

Munkus Beaver

Buttlord wrote:

I signed up for shits and giggles

Gonna tell everyone JUST WHAT I THINK OF THIS PLACE

Giving an opinion is free! Receiving one takes effort!