So I have a 1 year, 4 month old kitty named Piplup. I recently got a new kitty which we named Zeus, and he is about 4 months. I am attempting to integrate them happily together so they can one day be best friends.
Currently I have Zeus confined to the laundry room in the basement. The basement is off limits to Piplup but she can still access the rest of the house. I introduce Zeus to Piplup everyday by either holding Zeus or keeping him in his carrier. I let Piplup do her thing. Her body language shows she is very curious (her ears are not pinned back or any of that) but she will growl everyone once in a while or hiss is Zeus or myself make a quick movement.
I put him on my kitchen floor yesterday to let him wonder around while I fed Piplup treats. She watched him closely while she ate her treats but then quickly got into "stalk" position. So I picked him up. Another piece of information, Zeus could care less about her. He never seem intimidated and he definitely isn't offended by her.
I was wondering if anyone had any tips or tricks for integrating cats that are 1 year apart?
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If Piplup isn't going into an aggressive pose I'm not sure I'd be too worried about light hissing or stalking. Cats are playful and like chasing and fighting, but there's a dramatic difference between that and there territorial/aggressive behavior. As long as Zeus is big enough that you aren't worried about Piplup accidentally hurting him, I would give them a few minutes with each other and just see how it develops. Be available and prepared to separate them, of course.
Also, Piplup is an adorable name.
I will try letting them meet tonight. I would be surprised if there was no swatting.
Let them interact more. The cat may box the kitten once or twice but probably won't hurt it. Play with them at the same time (I used one of those scratching posts with a ball in the centre that rolls around) and just make sure to give the older cat some extra attention.
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Thanks again!
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So right now they are coexisting in my living room. Zeus just wants to play. Piplup is hissing and growling randomly, possibly even a little startled by him. Any suggestions on where to go from here? Do I just leave them to work things out for now?
They are adorable.
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OMG it's so Cute!!!
It's looking at the presents with a bewildered look and goes WTF is this?!? lol!
This is pretty normal. This is the equivalent of a young teenager and an adolescent. The adolescent wants to do stuff with the big kitty, the big kitty wants to be left alone because the child doesn't understand.
They should be fine, though they may still fight a bit from time to time.
I put Zeus back in his room so now I can give Piplup love without her trying to eat my hand.
Is it safe to say that this will eventually go away? Should I keep letting them interact like this everyday or should I keep him away from her for a few days?
First of all, that one of Piplup made me actually chuckle out loud. I could just picture a thought balloon saying, "OK, which one of these are mine? Wait, I'm a cat, they're ALL mine!"
I would recommend you let them keep interacting daily. Separating them again for a few days could wind up resetting the whole process, and it sounds like they're getting along pretty well. The hissing and growling is normal, and Zeus will continue to try and push boundaries until Piplup says, "Nope, you crossed a line here" with a swat or two.
As they aren't hurting each other, let them keep doing what they're doing while you keep a spray bottle handy just in case.
My dear friend had several cats and would introduce new ones sporadically. He told me he made a big mistake early on and kept breaking up their fights and separating them (mild fights, not violent ones) and as a result, dominance/pecking order was never established, so they never really got along, living in different parts of the house.
Good luck, they're both adorable.
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I just wanted to let you know that they seem to be playing now! They take turns chasing each other. Piplup still gets annoyed sometimes but it already better than it ws a few days ago.
Thanks, all!
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