Ok, so yeah...its me again...wow, im like popular here huh? Same girl, go check previous threads by me if you wish to know more...good reads IMO.
Weve been good...real good lately....neither of us have been happier...except...her b-day is coming up. Now, i dont know if i mentioned this in any of my earlier threads, but one of her friends from Alabama (who has never met her before) wanted to buy a plane ticket (300-400 bucks) to see her for a few days. This was back in early February. He bought the ticket without talking to me, and the flight was scheduled for a week later. I come home, and see the flight info that she wrote down, and asked her about it...SURPRISE LOL!
....yeah, surprise. i tell her to tell him to cancel the ticket. No way in hell im going to have that because this is the guy who said he wanted to be with her, and was waiting for us to break up so he can have her....yeah, thats the type of guy this is.
So anyway, he cancels it. i call him up and explain to him why i wanted him to cancel it, so i didnt seem like an asshole. This guy has been her online friend for a while, so i figure, if she goes to him all the time that i should befriend him so that way things are awkward anymore. Maybe then he will notice that im treating her good, and that he wont think that he has a chance with her. Things like that go through my head a lot.
So anyway, we keep going, and like 3 days later, she tells me "by the way, hes going to come down here for my birthday even if he has to sleep outside"
err, wait what? Ok, so i pay all of the bills for my apartment, and this guy wants to come down, spend all of his money (since he lives with parents) on a plane ticket to come see his "friend" who is NOT single just for a few days. and on top of it all, he wants to do it so badly, he will sleep outside?
So again, instead of me being a dick about it...i said...aight, lets try this. Come down on thursday evening. ill take friday off from work, and you can leave monday morning. That way i only miss 1 day of work. So, he said ok, and i said ok...regrettably.
So it was set...or was it? See, since then, her other online friends have been talking to her a lot...which yanno is fine. But this is where my thread title comes into play:
Her friends, plus this guy, seem to hit on her A LOT. now, of course...i mean of-fucking-course...she plays WoW with them ALL DAY and has a very very sexy/cute voice...it will sway any guy to like her. She does not flirt with them, nor give them any sense of "yeah, im single, come fuck me"....but thats not the point....look at the demographic behind WoW...its teenage horny kids. At any rate, i built her a computer so we can both play...her monitor is next to mine...i see what people tell her.
One of her friends said something like "yeah, you wish i was stalking you...mmm.." and she replied "lol shut up". and this Alabama dude said "yeah, id cheat on her, but only for you" on the phone, while it was on speaker phone (oops, busted). Another dude said "i missed talking to you all the time...i can never say bye, i just want to talk to you all night"
see? shit like that gets under my skin, hardcore....and i let it show...which is why she told the Alabama dude to not buy the ticket, AGAIN. i didnt know until today....and then her and i had a discussion about me, her, and other guys...aka her "friends".
i went on to tell her that any friend of mine who was a girl, i never said that kind of shit to...unless they were single. I have a lot of respect for people in relationships, i dont want to fuck a relationship over...ever.
So, my question: how do i not let this shit get to me? Guys hit on her all the time, but i know she doesnt instigate it. She just comes off as one of those girls that everyone wants. How do i shrug it off and ignore it? or...do i?
tl;dr: guys hit on my current girlfriend constantly, and mostly just over the internet. Some try to make it a RL connection. How do i ignore it, or how do i get HER to realize it is making me uncomfortable without being too irrational?