Another young buck seeking advice

Voodoo861Voodoo861 Registered User regular
edited March 2007 in Help / Advice Forum
Another in a streak of those with personal relationship issues, I have a conundrum on my hands.

I am in a committed relationship with a girl who loves me very deeply. I am of course just as deeply in love with her. This is my first year in college, and I was doing great on the whole temptation deal. Then, the moment of truth arrived. I took a two night class, and met this different girl, whom we'll call maggie. She is immensely attractive, and intelligent. Also, she is immensely single. Now, im not such a horrible person where Id even consider cheating, but I really would like to get to know maggie. Is that purely a sexual desire and can thus be disregarded, or is it perfectly acceptable to just have a friendshio.

Before you answer that im being retarded and its simple just to have a firendship, I would ask you to consider this: For me, the pre-relationship banter, awkward moments and whatever else, are not only immensely important, but almost irresistable. So, should I just leave this girl alone and keep her as far away as possible?

I really dont know, and I also dont think im explaining this in a way that can be anwsered outside of "just contain yourself"......

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  • SmasherSmasher Starting to get dizzy Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    There's plenty of people you can be friends with. Don't tempt fate; stay away from her and be happy with your relationship.

    Is your relationship a long distance thing, or is the temptation just of the general sort?

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  • The Green Eyed MonsterThe Green Eyed Monster i blame hip hop Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    Man -- if you want to screw around, tell your current girlfriend about it and do it.

    If you're committed to your current girlfriend, stop pretending and just stick by her and enjoy her.

    There is no crisis here besides you deciding what you actually want, so make that decision, and follow the fuck through with it.

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  • Voodoo861Voodoo861 Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    Its long distance, but whatev. Lock plz.

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  • ThanatosThanatos Registered User regular
    edited March 2007
    Trying to keep a long-distance relationship going during college, especially your first year, is a terrible idea.

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