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Religion or Rejection of Religion

DouglasDangerDouglasDanger PennsylvaniaRegistered User regular
edited May 2012 in Social Entropy++
Tube said this is an OK thread.

I have used these forums to work through my thoughts and philosophies on a variety of topics. I didn't really have any opinion on gays or trans people until a few years ago, and a combination of meeting people and talking with them, both in person and on these here forums, taught me that gay people and trans... folk? are just like any other people-- they can be be cool, they can be jerks, etc...

Anyway, I think I am an atheist, or at least agnostic. I was raised Protestant, I took church classes in high school and became a member of the United Methodist Church in my hometown. I went to church fairly frequently at different points in my life, but I never really saw or felt God or Jesus or anything. Most of the people at the different churches I attended were really nice people, but I just didn't get it somehow.

And I have been reading different things about the history of the Bible, and it sure seems like a bunch of guys got together and wrote a book to be used by kings to control people. I am not really familar with religion, aside from a couple sects of Protestant Christainity and a few Roman Catholic services I have attended, but I just don't think religion is for me.

I can't quite figure out my feelings on God or gods, but if they do exist, I have a really hard time believing they would give two shits about us or that they just created one planet with life on it. If God did just make one planet with just one sentient species on it, I have a hard time believing that God would allow so many genocides of its creations.

I'm not interested in becoming one of those aggressive atheists, I avoid conflict whenver possible. I'm just trying to figure some things out, and I find discussion useful and enlightening.

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  • UrielUriel Registered User regular
    I am an agnostic, been so my entire life, actually.

    My family is christian but it never really gets awkward.

  • HarrierHarrier The Star Spangled Man Registered User regular
    Religion is not something that can be forced. It is a disposition of the spirit, the psyche. If you truly don't feel moved to believe in God, that is all there is to it.

    I don't wanna kill anybody. I don't like bullies. I don't care where they're from.
  • mensch-o-maticmensch-o-matic Registered User regular
    man if i made a planet full of, like, ants or whatever id totally let all that bullshit happen to them why would i give a shit

    i dunno what else to say?

  • ButtlordButtlord Fornicus Lord of Bondage and PainRegistered User regular
    believe or not believe in whatever you want

    just don't be a raging douchebag who shits on people for believing in something else

  • GumpyGumpy There is always a greater powerRegistered User regular
    edited May 2012
    If I decide to be an atheist, and God doesn't exist, world just keeps on turning
    If I decide to believe in God, and God doesn't exist, World just keeps on turning
    If I decide to believe in God, and God does exist, World just keeps on turning
    If I decide to be an atheist, and God does exist, lets hope he has a sense of humour about it

    Gumpy on
  • BroloBrolo Broseidon Lord of the BroceanRegistered User regular
    h6qL5.png

    A diagram showing the relationship between the definitions of weak/strong and implicit/explicit atheism. Explicit strong/positive atheists (in purple on the right) assert that "at least one deity exists" is a false statement. Explicit weak/negative atheists (in blue on the right) reject or eschew belief that any deities exist without actually asserting that "at least one deity exists" is a false statement. Implicit weak/negative atheists (in blue on the left) would include people (such as young children and some agnostics) who do not believe in a deity, but have not explicitly rejected such belief.

    I am a negative explicit atheist.

    Don't see any evidence of a god, so I assume that no god figure exists, but I can't rule it out, either.

  • Dee KaeDee Kae Registered User regular
    Rolo wrote: »
    h6qL5.png

    A diagram showing the relationship between the definitions of weak/strong and implicit/explicit atheism. Explicit strong/positive atheists (in purple on the right) assert that "at least one deity exists" is a false statement. Explicit weak/negative atheists (in blue on the right) reject or eschew belief that any deities exist without actually asserting that "at least one deity exists" is a false statement. Implicit weak/negative atheists (in blue on the left) would include people (such as young children and some agnostics) who do not believe in a deity, but have not explicitly rejected such belief.

    I am a negative explicit atheist.

    Don't see any evidence of a god, so I assume that no god figure exists, but I can't rule it out, either.

    Agreed, lets go eat cake or something.

  • JayKaosJayKaos Registered User regular
    I was raised as an atheist- I mean they never sat me down and said "Son, there is no god and all that awaits you after death is oblivion", but it was implied. I generally prefer to think of myself as an apatheist- I just feel that the existence or non-existence of a god has no particular effect on how I should live my life, so why go to the effort of deciding for certain that the world is one way or another.

    Steam | SW-0844-0908-6004 and my Switch code
  • ProlegomenaProlegomena Frictionless Spinning The VoidRegistered User regular
    Gumpy, you've buggered that up

  • MysstMysst King Monkey of Hedonism IslandRegistered User regular
    really, if religion doesn't add anything to your life, why have it?

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  • godmodegodmode Southeast JapanRegistered User regular
    Having grown up very Catholic, a switch flipped in my brain one day and I realized that the concept of God is absolutely absurd and that it felt silly to talk to "Him" anymore. At this time, I was immediately disgusted with how much shitty human behavior is carried out in the name of religion.
    It works for some, and as a moral guide it can do some good. But it should not be used as a weapon like it so often is, like in the current opposition to gay marriage, for example. Oh, and don't forget those batshit-insane Wetsboro bastards.

  • MaydayMayday Cutting edge goblin tech Registered User regular
    A common argument when dealing with religion is that it's irrational. A person will claim that since there is no proof of existence of a god, it's irrational to believe in him and act in accordance with that belief. Then that same person will continue to uphold moral values, even though the only rational way of life is pretty much objectivism.
    So you might look at religion (any religion in fact) as a way of rationalizing your morality- it's natural for a social animal like humans to act morally (at least if you've been brought up to do it) but then you'll probably prefer to believe you'll get rewarded for it some day, even though that is likely not the case.
    Some religious concepts on the other hand are completely illogical (reincarnation being my pet peeve) so I try to keep my beliefs as simple as possible.

  • PonyPony Registered User regular
    I am not really familar with religion, aside from a couple sects of Protestant Christainity and a few Roman Catholic services I have attended, but I just don't think religion is for me.

    Thanks for admitting this much. It's enormously infuriating when people have incredibly strong, hardline views and stances on "religion" when, upon closer examination, they have familiarity with only one or two broad spectrums of religion (since this is an English-speaking, primarily American/European forum, this is usually Christianity in its myriad forms). It's generally the religion they grew up around, and interacting with people of that faith in their family or in their daily lives forms the foundation of their opinion of religion as a whole.

    There's nothing wrong with this when a person admits their knowledge is limited and the opinions they are expressing really only apply to the stuff they know about, which is what you did here and I appreciate that. When they use this limited life experience and knowledge as a jumping point to take harsh, condemning stances on all of religion and religious people, that's actually really insulting and irritating.

    Religion is global and and varied as individual human culture. For example, a great deal of your expressed consternation in your initial post concerns theism, specifically the idea of a god or gods who cause, permit, compel, or allow things to happen to humanity and how the larger implications of that notion do not sit well with you. This is hardly an uncommon viewpoint, but the sort of questions it raises and the sort of problems you suggest really are only applicable to theistic religions, or religions where theism is considered an important and integral component of the faith itself. That doesn't really represent the rest of the world, it's not an issue outside of that framework.



  • Grey GhostGrey Ghost Registered User regular
    I didn't really have a good word for my lack of belief until I found this
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apatheism

    Specifically the "apathetic agnosticism" definition

    I just don't care
    It affects my daily life by a factor of absolutely zero

  • PonyPony Registered User regular
    Mayday wrote: »
    A common argument when dealing with religion is that it's irrational. A person will claim that since there is no proof of existence of a god, it's irrational to believe in him and act in accordance with that belief. Then that same person will continue to uphold moral values, even though the only rational way of life is pretty much objectivism.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=McAeQiLmEYU

    what are you doing

    damn randians

  • Grey GhostGrey Ghost Registered User regular
    Mayday wrote: »
    A common argument when dealing with religion is that it's irrational. A person will claim that since there is no proof of existence of a god, it's irrational to believe in him and act in accordance with that belief. Then that same person will continue to uphold moral values, even though the only rational way of life is pretty much objectivism.

    Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

  • BroloBrolo Broseidon Lord of the BroceanRegistered User regular
    Pony wrote: »
    Mayday wrote: »
    A common argument when dealing with religion is that it's irrational. A person will claim that since there is no proof of existence of a god, it's irrational to believe in him and act in accordance with that belief. Then that same person will continue to uphold moral values, even though the only rational way of life is pretty much objectivism.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=McAeQiLmEYU

    what are you doing

    damn randians

    not sure if this applies here, but mayday doesn't always use the same definitions of terms as most other people on this forum

  • Grey GhostGrey Ghost Registered User regular
    Grey Ghost wrote: »
    I didn't really have a good word for my lack of belief until I found this
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apatheism

    Specifically the "apathetic agnosticism" definition

    I just don't care
    It affects my daily life by a factor of absolutely zero

    I'm really not trying to sound smug here either, like "oh I'm so completely above this debate I don't even have time for it"

    Like if you have strong religious beliefs and they add meaning and purpose to your life and you're not a dick about it, that's a wonderful thing!

    It's just not something I have any desire to get involved with any more

  • MaydayMayday Cutting edge goblin tech Registered User regular
    RE: allowing or disallowing genocides
    The whole point of free will is that humans do what they want. Can you imagine a God creating a world where everybody is allowed to do anything unless it's killing a large amount of people at once?

  • The_ScarabThe_Scarab Registered User regular
    Grey Ghost wrote: »
    I didn't really have a good word for my lack of belief until I found this
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apatheism

    Specifically the "apathetic agnosticism" definition

    I just don't care
    It affects my daily life by a factor of absolutely zero

    Wait, because something doesn't affect your life, or even your daily life, that's justification to not care?

    I mean, I don't expect everyone to take a stand. I just feel you're missing out. Philosophical debate is a tremendous joy, and you seem almost proud to not be a part of it.

  • chiasaur11chiasaur11 Never doubt a raccoon. Do you think it's trademarked?Registered User regular
    Mysst wrote: »
    really, if religion doesn't add anything to your life, why have it?

    Well, there's the basic thing of "happens to think it's the truth". Happens sometimes.

    Person looks at the evidence, thinks the existence of God or gods isn't on the table, only honest move is to go for atheism.

    Think the alternative, then you work from that.

    Lot of decent, intelligent people on both sides there. Also, lot of assholes and morons.

    Really, bugs the hell out of me when people try to argue about benefits and drawbacks ignoring the central "so, is it true?" bit. Because that's what matters most from my point of view.

    (Happen to fall on the believing side, for what little it's worth, but a lot of people I respect disagree. Way of the world.)

  • GumpyGumpy There is always a greater powerRegistered User regular
    Gumpy, you've buggered that up

    I didn't

    God did

  • Grey GhostGrey Ghost Registered User regular
    I've always had trouble reconciling "free will" with "God has a plan for everything"

    I'm sure there are plenty of nuances that I'm missing but those two statements seem largely opposed to each other

  • MaydayMayday Cutting edge goblin tech Registered User regular
    edited May 2012
    Rolo wrote: »
    not sure if this applies here, but mayday doesn't always use the same definitions of terms as most other people on this forum

    A likely case. If you guys are not too tired of my bullshit, maybe we could start by defining "rational behaviour"?
    and to further clarify: no, I'm in no way an objectivist, ugh! (we've had this discussion some time ago).

    Mayday on
  • WietWiet Mao Mao Registered User regular
    Huh, I guess apatheism applies to me too. I just don't care about my own spirituality in the slightest. A bonus is that the old Jehovah's Witnesses ladies who show up at my door sort of nod and go ''oh you young kids these days'' and move along because of it.

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  • KalTorakKalTorak One way or another, they all end up in the Undercity.Registered User regular
    I was raised Catholic up until I refused to be confirmed, now I'm a pretty strong atheist.

    I try to advocate for religious equality/push toward secularism in state policy etc., but I really prefer to not fight about religion on an individual level. There's very little to be gained from fighting with individuals about their religion, and I don't think it helps atheists as a whole to do so.

  • UrielUriel Registered User regular
    edited May 2012
    Tired of seeing atheist argument videos suggestions on youtube.

    Youtube is the worst.

    Uriel on
  • PonyPony Registered User regular
    Rolo wrote: »
    Pony wrote: »
    Mayday wrote: »
    A common argument when dealing with religion is that it's irrational. A person will claim that since there is no proof of existence of a god, it's irrational to believe in him and act in accordance with that belief. Then that same person will continue to uphold moral values, even though the only rational way of life is pretty much objectivism.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=McAeQiLmEYU

    what are you doing

    damn randians

    not sure if this applies here, but mayday doesn't always use the same definitions of terms as most other people on this forum

    is english his second language or something?

    look there's only so many things a person can mean when they say "objectivism"

    they can mean "Moral objectivism" in a generic sense, which will inevitably be expressed as some form of moral absolutism or deontological ethics framework where some things are just "right" and "wrong" without further metaphysical or universal reasoning as to why

    or they can mean Objectivism in the Ayn Rand sense of the word

    in which case

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2bgDi2BYtIY

  • mensch-o-maticmensch-o-matic Registered User regular
    god created the world so that anyone can choose to do what they want and hell is the concept of doing shitty things that fuck up the world which would be entirely your fault if you just did whatever

  • Donovan PuppyfuckerDonovan Puppyfucker A dagger in the dark is worth a thousand swords in the morningRegistered User regular
    I don't have a problem with faith. A dude wants to believe in a higher power, good for him.

    Organised religion can go suck a fuck, however.

  • UrielUriel Registered User regular
    Wiet wrote: »
    Huh, I guess apatheism applies to me too. I just don't care about my own spirituality in the slightest. A bonus is that the old Jehovah's Witnesses ladies who show up at my door sort of nod and go ''oh you young kids these days'' and move along because of it.

    My real father once burned a jehovah's witnesses bible right out in his yard.

  • PonyPony Registered User regular
    I don't have a problem with faith. A dude wants to believe in a higher power, good for him.

    Organised religion can go suck a fuck, however.

    define what you mean by "organized religion"

  • UsagiUsagi Nah Registered User regular
    Perhaps you should learn some things about non-Christian religions, as the idea of a personal God are not necessarily the norm elsewhere. For example, I identify with a few Buddhist and Taoist tenets but looking at Rolo's handy little diagram I refer to myself as a positive explicit atheist.

  • mensch-o-maticmensch-o-matic Registered User regular
    and dont bring up the 'but if you werent ever caught-' shit because were arguing about how the real world works and bringing up how objectivism is totally awesome if only you can do it and live in a whacky potato dimension doesnt account for shit

  • Grey GhostGrey Ghost Registered User regular
    The_Scarab wrote: »
    Grey Ghost wrote: »
    I didn't really have a good word for my lack of belief until I found this
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Apatheism

    Specifically the "apathetic agnosticism" definition

    I just don't care
    It affects my daily life by a factor of absolutely zero

    Wait, because something doesn't affect your life, or even your daily life, that's justification to not care?

    I mean, I don't expect everyone to take a stand. I just feel you're missing out. Philosophical debate is a tremendous joy, and you seem almost proud to not be a part of it.

    I made a second post to try to clarify

    I like philosophical debate and bullshitting around on the topic of religion as much as the next guy, but at the end of the day I have plenty of things to actually worry about and "is there a god" is way down the list for me at this point

  • AntimatterAntimatter Devo Was Right Gates of SteelRegistered User regular
    Sometimes I worry the Christian god exists and will punish me for my deeds done but most of the time I think belief in that deity is irrational and too many people use their beliefs to oppress others

    Like my dad :|

  • Peter EbelPeter Ebel CopenhagenRegistered User regular
    Grey Ghost wrote: »
    I've always had trouble reconciling "free will" with "God has a plan for everything"

    I'm sure there are plenty of nuances that I'm missing but those two statements seem largely opposed to each other

    I've always had trouble reconciling any objective reality with free will. I don't believe in free will any more. But who can say? I'm having hard time even imagining evidence that would prove or disprove this "actor" that is not constrained by deterministic causality.

    Fuck off and die.
  • PaladinPaladin Registered User regular
    What about the sanctity of human life


    Not in the abortion sense, but the idea that human death is a tragedy and a big deal in the cosmic sense and life must be spared at all costs

    Cause I've got theists and atheists on both sides of the aisle

    Marty: The future, it's where you're going?
    Doc: That's right, twenty five years into the future. I've always dreamed on seeing the future, looking beyond my years, seeing the progress of mankind. I'll also be able to see who wins the next twenty-five world series.
  • The GeekThe Geek Oh-Two Crew, Omeganaut Registered User, ClubPA regular
    From my personal experience, I do not have any good reason to believe in any sort of god.

    BLM - ACAB
  • worksintheoryworksintheory Registered User regular
    I'd like Christians more if they actually followed the teachings of Christ.

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