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breaking up
Local H Jay
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R_f_mMJAezMthis is a thread to talk about breaking up, whether it be the good or the bad, or anything inbetween
i was dumped just over a month ago, punched some nice holes in a wall, and then cried out the rest of the frustration for several nights after that. having finally calmed down, thought about it rationally, it still fucking blows.
but this isn't a pity party. let's look at the bright side: i now can hit on all the ladies
downside: moving out, dividing 3 years worth of stuff, who gets the cat, all the other fun stuff ex's end up figuring out in the post-break up fallout
oh well anyways post your break up stories, songs, sonnets and soliloquies
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in high school i dumped a girl over the phone
it is a shitty thing to do
Satans..... hints.....
I went and got a milkshake with some friends about half an hour afterwards
I don't think I even cried or felt sad about it, which probably means the break-up was a good idea
that sucked, but within ten minutes I knew I'd done the right thing, so hey there's that
Satans..... hints.....
good thing i don't need or care for your respect then?
i never said it was rational or smart, it's what happened kay
unless the wall was talking some racist shit, then it's okay
It's called self control princess.
Two year olds have temper tantrums, adults should not.
Satans..... hints.....
And who asked for your respect, random internet guy?
i'll get some self control when you work on not being a prick buddy
Before the invention of the punching bag they used low paid workers.
Many saw the punching bag a great leap in technology that protected people from a horrible job. But the punching men were out of a job and for many of them it was all they knew..
to be fair it's generally not the violence that people want
it's the physical release of strong, intense emotion, and sometimes that involves punching something, because you want tactile response, such as the pain in your own hand
it's actually quite cathartic
that doesn't make it OKAY, but it's not about the violence in most cases - it's about the physical outlet and the sensation of physical pain to ease the emotional distress
at least he punched the wall and not someone else!
So all my breakups have been pretty easy
Except the emotional shit, you know
What if I want to eat an entire tub of ice cream without breaking up with someone?
What will I do then fuzzbutt?
Blake isn't really random. You however...
each one was its own unique flavor of Bad Times, but on the whole, being broken up with was worse
I would not recommend it
You know what else adults shouldn't do? Judge people on the internet who never asked to be judged. Go to H&A if that's your thing.
I have since become a hermit, and amish, and sworn off all electronics and telephones.
(I send all my posts by carrier pigeon to my electronics-using servant who puts them on the internet)