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  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    edited January 2013
    Shivahn wrote: »
    simonwolf wrote: »
    Shivahn wrote: »
    simonwolf wrote: »
    Shivahn wrote: »
    simonwolf wrote: »
    Shivahn wrote: »
    emnmnme wrote: »
    Elendil wrote: »
    there are no ladies anywhere

    Ravenhpltc24
    Shivahn

    Raven is pseudotaken and I don't like men!

    Sorry Elendil, you're doomed to die alone!

    Don't forget me, I am also doomed to that fate

    Nah you're gonna meet a pretty Japanese girl and get married and die together at the age of eighty.

    Christ, I wish, I haven't met any available women here at all

    or, you know, for the past half decade

    FOR WHAT IT'S WORTH I go through five year single periods too, I don't think it's a poor reflection on either of us.

    It's everyone else not even looking at us because we're so glorious they have to cover their eyes, lest they be blinded.

    I'm not claiming to be the only person in the world who goes through multiple years of dry spells (though for reference I'm currently on five years of zero anything, dates, smooches, etc)

    It's just that it is hard not to look at the fact that nobody has found me attractive since I was 19 and not think it might just be a reflection of my inherent self

    I don't really know you, but I know in my case people thought I was attractive and I didn't notice.

    Anyway, this isn't one of those things I can just talk away but seriously, lack of people finding someone attractive always means they're around the wrong people, not that there's something wrong with them.

    Man I am giving the most useless platitudes. They really are true though.

    not to be all... I dunno what it would be to simon, but yeah, this is probably the case

    Abdhyius on
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  • Element BrianElement Brian Peanut Butter Shill Registered User regular
    Organichu wrote: »
    oh, that's who i was thinking... rent

    haha oh yeah

    but seriously, fucking 200 pounds, i have curves in all the wrong places, i need to lose like 20 pounds..and then regain it in muscle

    Switch FC code:SW-2130-4285-0059

    Arch,
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_goGR39m2k
  • ShivahnShivahn Unaware of her barrel shifter privilege Eastern coastal temptressRegistered User regular
    Kana wrote: »
    Shivahn wrote: »
    BeNarwhal wrote: »
    I have so much to learn.

    Seriously, I am the last person you should be learning from.

    I've had sex with one person. Like thirty or forty times probably. We were long distance so we only met a few times a year for a few days.

    You can do the math if you want.

    Also seriously, the only real thing that I learned is that if you experiment you both might find new things you like. That's the worst advice ever. It's "keep an open mind" with respect to boning.

    I've had sex with 3 or 4 people.

    But I've never been in any kind of real long-term relationship.

    I feel the lack of the latter much more over the former.

    For what it's worth, my only adult relationship was long distance so we really did only spend a total of a few months together over several years.

    So I'm unsure how to classify it. It wasn't like, inferior to most relationships, it was just... a different set of struggles, and I wonder how much the experiences will carry over going forward.

  • TL DRTL DR Not at all confident in his reflexive opinions of thingsRegistered User regular
    Shitty is relative. The past isn't real. Just make the best of your position, whatever it is right now.

    BeNarwhal
  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    I've never had anything i can really call a "relationship"

    which kinda sucks!

    but like, circumstance

    so whateverrrrrr

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  • OrganichuOrganichu jacobkosh Registered User regular

  • TL DRTL DR Not at all confident in his reflexive opinions of thingsRegistered User regular
    'Fake it until you make it' is some of the most helpful reasoning to ever take up residence in my cognition.

    Ravenhpltc24ChanusVariableDeebaser
  • emnmnmeemnmnme Heard about this on conservative radio:Registered User regular
    BeNarwhal wrote: »
    emnmnme wrote: »
    BeNarwhal wrote: »
    emnmnme wrote: »
    Organichu wrote: »
    who was the chatter who really, really hated fat people

    TheNomadicCircle

    To his credit, dude was pretty fit.

    Wait that was the crazy fellow that attended York that Cass and I met, right?

    Wee wee, monsyuer.

    Surprisingly normal dude in person.

    Though we didn't spend enough time with him to really probe into his madness.

    Dude, come on, no one is like their internet persona in real life. Remember the PA comic? Anonymity + audience = total fuckwad.

  • Caveman PawsCaveman Paws Registered User regular
    edited January 2013
    If push comes to shove [chat], the plan is we all pool our resources and live together in a compound. Grow our own food, solar panels, puppies&kittens, the works.

    We're gonna be okay.

    Caveman Paws on
    DelmainChanusRegina FongRavenhpltc24
  • ShivahnShivahn Unaware of her barrel shifter privilege Eastern coastal temptressRegistered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    I've never had anything i can really call a "relationship"

    which kinda sucks!

    but like, circumstance

    so whateverrrrrr

    How old are you again?

    I had a multiple year girlfriend in high school but I'm not sure I'd count that. After that I didn't have a relationship for years, and again, it was different from most.

  • TaminTamin Registered User regular
    "what's wrong"
    "uh... boy bands. There's just... far too many of them, don't you think?"

  • ChanusChanus Sugoi! ^_____^Registered User regular
    TL DR wrote: »
    'Fake it until you make it' is some of the most helpful reasoning to ever take up residence in my cognition.

    Science says if you pretend to be confident and happy, it makes you more confident and happy.

    So fake it, indeed!

    **Winner Softest and Most Comfy Hugs Award Summer 2018**

    Blueberrywerewlf on the Sony Anime Games Box | BluberryWerewlf on the BroBone
  • BeNarwhalBeNarwhal The Work Left Unfinished Registered User regular
    emnmnme wrote: »
    BeNarwhal wrote: »
    emnmnme wrote: »
    BeNarwhal wrote: »
    emnmnme wrote: »
    Organichu wrote: »
    who was the chatter who really, really hated fat people

    TheNomadicCircle

    To his credit, dude was pretty fit.

    Wait that was the crazy fellow that attended York that Cass and I met, right?

    Wee wee, monsyuer.

    Surprisingly normal dude in person.

    Though we didn't spend enough time with him to really probe into his madness.

    Dude, come on, no one is like their internet persona in real life. Remember the PA comic? Anonymity + audience = total fuckwad.

    I've found making your av a picture of yourself helps!

    He/Him
    Narwhal, you should make "Sometimes while someone is explaining something to me, I am thinking about rockets" your signature
  • stevemarks44stevemarks44 Registered User regular
    I know this isn't like a "real problem", but my roommate has the most annoying habit.

    He invites people to stay and checks in with us. That's very nice.

    But...

    Then he's never here.

    Like he asked if his friend could stay over because of apartment renovation and we were like, sure! Then...he went and slept at his girlfriend's?

    Tonight he asked again. I'm setting up my comp and having a drink.

    His friend is here. No idea where my roommate is. Now...I'm supposed to be the host? Fuck this.

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    steam ID: stevemarks44
    DelmainKanaRavenhpltc24
  • ShivahnShivahn Unaware of her barrel shifter privilege Eastern coastal temptressRegistered User regular
    TL DR wrote: »
    'Fake it until you make it' is some of the most helpful reasoning to ever take up residence in my cognition.

    This is good advice if you're in a brief sucky place, but I'm not sure how much it helps with deeper stuff, because it can be hard to even start faking it without help sometimes.

  • OrganichuOrganichu jacobkosh Registered User regular
    i think the major difference between internet-me and me-me (and there aren't many, imo) is that in person i am not nearly so crass. i come off that way here because i am around people who are themselves kind of filthy. face to face i only do that in the most relaxed of situations when everyone present is comfortable with that sort of talk. i cringe incredibly hard when young people feel entitled to talk about vulgar shit loud in restaurants or on the bus or whatever.

    BeNarwhalDelmainEvil Multifarious
  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    Shivahn wrote: »
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    I've never had anything i can really call a "relationship"

    which kinda sucks!

    but like, circumstance

    so whateverrrrrr

    How old are you again?

    I had a multiple year girlfriend in high school but I'm not sure I'd count that. After that I didn't have a relationship for years, and again, it was different from most.

    twenty...

    (counting)

    one. Twenty-one.

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  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    I seriously had to count.

    I am drunk.

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  • emnmnmeemnmnme Heard about this on conservative radio:Registered User regular
    If push comes to shove [chat], the plan is we all pool our resources and live together in a compound. Grow our own food, solar panels, puppies&kittens, the works.

    We're gonna be okay.

    Living with [chat]ters? We would strangle each other to death by the third week.

  • ChanusChanus Sugoi! ^_____^Registered User regular
    emnmnme wrote: »
    BeNarwhal wrote: »
    emnmnme wrote: »
    BeNarwhal wrote: »
    emnmnme wrote: »
    Organichu wrote: »
    who was the chatter who really, really hated fat people

    TheNomadicCircle

    To his credit, dude was pretty fit.

    Wait that was the crazy fellow that attended York that Cass and I met, right?

    Wee wee, monsyuer.

    Surprisingly normal dude in person.

    Though we didn't spend enough time with him to really probe into his madness.

    Dude, come on, no one is like their internet persona in real life. Remember the PA comic? Anonymity + audience = total fuckwad.

    I'm seriously not any different for reals than I am on here because I'm past the point in my life where I see any utility in that.

    I am goofy and irritable.

    I make jokes constantly and only about a third of them are remotely amusing.

    I pretend to know something about everything.

    Just like on here.

    **Winner Softest and Most Comfy Hugs Award Summer 2018**

    Blueberrywerewlf on the Sony Anime Games Box | BluberryWerewlf on the BroBone
    emnmnmeShivahnVariable
  • ShivahnShivahn Unaware of her barrel shifter privilege Eastern coastal temptressRegistered User regular
    Chanus wrote: »
    TL DR wrote: »
    'Fake it until you make it' is some of the most helpful reasoning to ever take up residence in my cognition.

    Science says if you pretend to be confident and happy, it makes you more confident and happy.

    So fake it, indeed!

    I've been trying this and I think it's working, but mostly it's me making an effort to continue being happy after my recent euphoric events. It's working though.

    (The trick is to fondle yourself while you fall asleep)

    Ravenhpltc24Chanus
  • Ravenhpltc24Ravenhpltc24 So Raven Registered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    I've never had anything i can really call a "relationship"

    which kinda sucks!

    but like, circumstance

    so whateverrrrrr

    I'm sort of in the same boat. There were two guys in high school that were very fixed on having the "boyfriend" label despite the fact that they were the least qualified for it. No way was I ready for a relationship in high school. And I was never "official" with the two guys that I have cared about most since then. "Relationships" are a messy field for definition.

    (V) ( ;,,; ) (V)
  • Caveman PawsCaveman Paws Registered User regular
    edited January 2013
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    I seriously had to count.

    I am drunk.

    You drink too much. Do what you will do eventually: stop, save your money and your liver.

    You won't, known of us do until we're mid twenties and all your friends have moved on except the drunk losers...and you. D:

    Caveman Paws on
  • BeNarwhalBeNarwhal The Work Left Unfinished Registered User regular
    Shivahn wrote: »
    Chanus wrote: »
    TL DR wrote: »
    'Fake it until you make it' is some of the most helpful reasoning to ever take up residence in my cognition.

    Science says if you pretend to be confident and happy, it makes you more confident and happy.

    So fake it, indeed!

    I've been trying this and I think it's working, but mostly it's me making an effort to continue being happy after my recent euphoric events. It's working though.

    (The trick is to fondle yourself while you fall asleep)

    This is 100% correct.

    He/Him
    Narwhal, you should make "Sometimes while someone is explaining something to me, I am thinking about rockets" your signature
  • KanaKana Registered User regular
    Honestly right now I'm not that worried about a relationship (although some sex would be nice, don't get me wrong)

    I just want to get a job that's not minimum wage, finally get my associates and be able to start in on a bachelor's, and be able to start going back to the gym all the time.

    Also it'd be nice if I could actually get out and start meeting people again, there's so little to do in my town and I so rarely have transportation I feel like a shut-in some weeks.

    Also I wish I hadn't changed my sig to Magnum PI's naked hairy nipples.

    That was a mistake

    A trap is for fish: when you've got the fish, you can forget the trap. A snare is for rabbits: when you've got the rabbit, you can forget the snare. Words are for meaning: when you've got the meaning, you can forget the words.
    InfamyDeferred
  • Regina FongRegina Fong Allons-y, Alonso Registered User regular
    emnmnme wrote: »
    If push comes to shove [chat], the plan is we all pool our resources and live together in a compound. Grow our own food, solar panels, puppies&kittens, the works.

    We're gonna be okay.

    Living with [chat]ters? We would strangle each other to death by the third week.

    All evidence points to [chat] being able to get along in person.

    Variable
  • ChanusChanus Sugoi! ^_____^Registered User regular
    I know this isn't like a "real problem", but my roommate has the most annoying habit.

    He invites people to stay and checks in with us. That's very nice.

    But...

    Then he's never here.

    Like he asked if his friend could stay over because of apartment renovation and we were like, sure! Then...he went and slept at his girlfriend's?

    Tonight he asked again. I'm setting up my comp and having a drink.

    His friend is here. No idea where my roommate is. Now...I'm supposed to be the host? Fuck this.

    It's real enough that it bothers you.

    And it never hurts to talk to people about stuff that bothers you so long as you don't make it about the person, but keep it about the issue.

    **Winner Softest and Most Comfy Hugs Award Summer 2018**

    Blueberrywerewlf on the Sony Anime Games Box | BluberryWerewlf on the BroBone
  • ShivahnShivahn Unaware of her barrel shifter privilege Eastern coastal temptressRegistered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    Shivahn wrote: »
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    I've never had anything i can really call a "relationship"

    which kinda sucks!

    but like, circumstance

    so whateverrrrrr

    How old are you again?

    I had a multiple year girlfriend in high school but I'm not sure I'd count that. After that I didn't have a relationship for years, and again, it was different from most.

    twenty...

    (counting)

    one. Twenty-one.

    I have to count too. Sometimes.

    I didn't have an adult relationship until after that.

    Also you are young.

  • ChanusChanus Sugoi! ^_____^Registered User regular
    Well, I say "never" with the presumption all parties are reasonable.

    **Winner Softest and Most Comfy Hugs Award Summer 2018**

    Blueberrywerewlf on the Sony Anime Games Box | BluberryWerewlf on the BroBone
  • Regina FongRegina Fong Allons-y, Alonso Registered User regular
    Tamin wrote: »
    "what's wrong"
    "uh... boy bands. There's just... far too many of them, don't you think?"

    I have a plan to turn them into men


    One at a time

    Caveman Paws
  • ShivahnShivahn Unaware of her barrel shifter privilege Eastern coastal temptressRegistered User regular
    Chanus wrote: »
    emnmnme wrote: »
    BeNarwhal wrote: »
    emnmnme wrote: »
    BeNarwhal wrote: »
    emnmnme wrote: »
    Organichu wrote: »
    who was the chatter who really, really hated fat people

    TheNomadicCircle

    To his credit, dude was pretty fit.

    Wait that was the crazy fellow that attended York that Cass and I met, right?

    Wee wee, monsyuer.

    Surprisingly normal dude in person.

    Though we didn't spend enough time with him to really probe into his madness.

    Dude, come on, no one is like their internet persona in real life. Remember the PA comic? Anonymity + audience = total fuckwad.

    I'm seriously not any different for reals than I am on here because I'm past the point in my life where I see any utility in that.

    I am goofy and irritable.

    I make jokes constantly and only about a third of them are remotely amusing.

    I pretend to know something about everything.

    Just like on here.

    I made a post hours ago when this came up and said basically the same thing.

    Chanus
  • Caveman PawsCaveman Paws Registered User regular
    emnmnme wrote: »
    If push comes to shove [chat], the plan is we all pool our resources and live together in a compound. Grow our own food, solar panels, puppies&kittens, the works.

    We're gonna be okay.

    Living with [chat]ters? We would strangle each other to death by the third week.

    All evidence points to [chat] being able to get along in person.

    Just gotta keep the booze&blow flowing.

    Kana
  • ShivahnShivahn Unaware of her barrel shifter privilege Eastern coastal temptressRegistered User regular
    Well, sort of.

  • ChanusChanus Sugoi! ^_____^Registered User regular
    Organichu wrote: »
    i think the major difference between internet-me and me-me (and there aren't many, imo) is that in person i am not nearly so crass. i come off that way here because i am around people who are themselves kind of filthy. face to face i only do that in the most relaxed of situations when everyone present is comfortable with that sort of talk. i cringe incredibly hard when young people feel entitled to talk about vulgar shit loud in restaurants or on the bus or whatever.

    Yeah, I mean, if I'm ever crude or whatever, it's in company where I feel like people won't be bothered by it.

    Which is how I feel about this place.

    **Winner Softest and Most Comfy Hugs Award Summer 2018**

    Blueberrywerewlf on the Sony Anime Games Box | BluberryWerewlf on the BroBone
  • Casual EddyCasual Eddy Don't despair. Not even over the fact that you don't despair.Registered User regular
    i wish achewood still sold t shirts

    I would get everyone in chat the depression one

    Elki wrote: »

    Casual Eddy: best poster 2014.
    tyrannus wrote: »
    Casual Eddy: best poster of 2015

    gotta update that stuff man
  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    I've never had anything i can really call a "relationship"

    which kinda sucks!

    but like, circumstance

    so whateverrrrrr

    I'm sort of in the same boat. There were two guys in high school that were very fixed on having the "boyfriend" label despite the fact that they were the least qualified for it. No way was I ready for a relationship in high school. And I was never "official" with the two guys that I have cared about most since then. "Relationships" are a messy field for definition.

    oh no I have no problems with definitions here

    either things that fit squarely into "fling" or things that fit squarely into "drunken mistakes"

    or "unrequited love what are you even doing here already engaged even I'm better looking than your fiancee argh and oh godamnit he's a nice guy too now I can't even hate him why are you doing this to me"

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  • BeNarwhalBeNarwhal The Work Left Unfinished Registered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    I've never had anything i can really call a "relationship"

    which kinda sucks!

    but like, circumstance

    so whateverrrrrr

    I'm sort of in the same boat. There were two guys in high school that were very fixed on having the "boyfriend" label despite the fact that they were the least qualified for it. No way was I ready for a relationship in high school. And I was never "official" with the two guys that I have cared about most since then. "Relationships" are a messy field for definition.

    I never actually asked my ex out.

    But um, we were almost married, and in the eyes of the law we were definitely common law!

    Definitions are silly.
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    I seriously had to count.

    I am drunk.

    You drink too much. Do what you will do eventually: stop, save your money and your liver.

    You won't, known of us do until we're mid twenties and all your friends have moved on except the drunk losers...and you. D:

    As a proud semi-native, I don't know what your post is saying.

    You can't stop drinking. You just switch from beer and liquor to wine and sippin' liquor.

    He/Him
    Narwhal, you should make "Sometimes while someone is explaining something to me, I am thinking about rockets" your signature
  • stevemarks44stevemarks44 Registered User regular
    Yeah everyone is super reasonable, and we've been living together in peace for three years. And we're in the last month of our lease.

    It's just funny to me at this point. Like, how does your brain work that way. "Hey can my friend stay here?" "Sure" "Okay well you take care of him while I go on with my life."

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    steam ID: stevemarks44
  • simonwolfsimonwolf thought that love was science fiction until I saw you todayRegistered User regular
    In real life, I am exactly the same as I am on here, only my repulsiveness is far more insidious

  • ShivahnShivahn Unaware of her barrel shifter privilege Eastern coastal temptressRegistered User regular
    Kana wrote: »
    Honestly right now I'm not that worried about a relationship (although some sex would be nice, don't get me wrong)

    I just want to get a job that's not minimum wage, finally get my associates and be able to start in on a bachelor's, and be able to start going back to the gym all the time.

    Also it'd be nice if I could actually get out and start meeting people again, there's so little to do in my town and I so rarely have transportation I feel like a shut-in some weeks.

    Also I wish I hadn't changed my sig to Magnum PI's naked hairy nipples.

    That was a mistake

    I was so happy when I didn't know that and only sort of parsed it as maybe some space dust.

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