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Xurliren
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I swear i had like 3 questions, but i guess i forgot them by the time i got to my computer....maybe i will think of them later and add them in...but for now:
Im in kind of a dilema. During intercourse with my girlfriend, i can get her worked up. Of course, in doing, im working myself up. She *loves* to hear me breathing in her ear, or light moans, or whatever. Im sure most girls are like that. So as im doing that, i can hear her getting excited by hearing me, and hearing her moan in response is like the biggest turn on to me. A girl's moan is almost instant-relief to me. So when i hear that, i nearly come immediately.
Now, a couple of things to know on the side. 1: we dont use a condom. I dont know how she is doing it, but she is not getting pregnant. Pills? no. Any form of it? no. Weve been doing the same practice for 3-4 months now, and no signs of pregnancy.
So, i cum in her.
problem is, she gets freaked out (even though she loves the feeling of it) and basically shuts down. She wont be able to finish (i can keep going for another 2 hours if she lets me. the "guy" never goes to...um...sleep). Basically, shes satisfied that i came, paranoid that she might get pregnant, and it turns her off.
Before you ask, i pull out a LOT and then go back in after i cum on her. And she *still* shuts down.
so, my question: How do i get her to finish, or better yet...how do i stop myself from coming almost instantly when she is getting close to climax. Oh, and ive heard of the PV muscle...or whatever that thing is called....hard as hell to control in the middle of sex though.
tl;dr: her moans when close to climax gets me to come, and she is no longer wanting sex, and satisfied by it. HALP!
Im in kind of a dilema. During intercourse with my girlfriend, i can get her worked up. Of course, in doing, im working myself up. She *loves* to hear me breathing in her ear, or light moans, or whatever. Im sure most girls are like that. So as im doing that, i can hear her getting excited by hearing me, and hearing her moan in response is like the biggest turn on to me. A girl's moan is almost instant-relief to me. So when i hear that, i nearly come immediately.
Now, a couple of things to know on the side. 1: we dont use a condom. I dont know how she is doing it, but she is not getting pregnant. Pills? no. Any form of it? no. Weve been doing the same practice for 3-4 months now, and no signs of pregnancy.
So, i cum in her.
problem is, she gets freaked out (even though she loves the feeling of it) and basically shuts down. She wont be able to finish (i can keep going for another 2 hours if she lets me. the "guy" never goes to...um...sleep). Basically, shes satisfied that i came, paranoid that she might get pregnant, and it turns her off.
Before you ask, i pull out a LOT and then go back in after i cum on her. And she *still* shuts down.
so, my question: How do i get her to finish, or better yet...how do i stop myself from coming almost instantly when she is getting close to climax. Oh, and ive heard of the PV muscle...or whatever that thing is called....hard as hell to control in the middle of sex though.
tl;dr: her moans when close to climax gets me to come, and she is no longer wanting sex, and satisfied by it. HALP!
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and yeah, i can get her to cum with my mouth and hands and what not, but i can only do that if were in a public place, because if were alone, then she will drag me up and basically shove the..."guy" into her and have her way with me (which is awesomely awesome).
She strives to have me in her.
Edit: In response to your above post, have you tried using ribbed condoms? Putting lube on the condom? I know when I tried a ribbed condom (I think it was called something like trojan twisted's or something... green box) my g/f said it was almost as good as the real thing. Also there are lotions you can rub on her clit to get it more sensitive.
You can get birth control pills for very very cheap or free at Planned Parenthood, so look into that.
Oh, and the word you're looking for?
P-E-N-I-S
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Wow.
You two are being really stupid by not using any birth control methods at all.
Use a freakin condom.
Why the heck does she not like you wearing a condom? How will that change the sensation so much that she won't enjoy it? This doesn't make sense.
Good god, you guys need to do something. Get her on the pill or have her remove her uterus or something if you aren't gonna wrap it up.
BTW: Pre-cum has sperm in it too.
Someone needs to take sex ed.
she will *still* shut down because i came. Thats why i made it a point to mention that ive pulled out several times and came on her, and she still has no willpower to continue.
so, maybe that will put this train back on its tracks.
::edit:: oh, were both 20
Actually, it makes a huge difference, and both of them may enjoy it a lot less. That's why there are alternatives.
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Wait...what?
Expand on this. Because it sounds like meekrob to me.
Yeah, we havent really tried anything like that... i havent really asked her if she is in favor of trying products during sex. We dont use lube, condoms, pills, nothing. just straight sex with no curveballs. So i guess products are an option. gotta pass it by her though.
She just isnt turned on by it. its like the post above you says...the sensation and the mood is dropped signifcantly for both parties.
He really, REALLY does not want to wear a condom, but he's complaining about how he doesn't last long enough and how there's a risk of pregnancy. This won't go anywhere, other than people telling him to use birth control and him complaining about it and saying he won't.
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Birth control pills are easily obtainable and cheap. There are many varieties of condom, with varying degrees of sensation--Trojans generally being on the low end of that spectrum. There are other options, like the diaphragm or the cervical cap, or long-term BC like the Nuva ring, or Depo-Provara.
Really, you two are 20. I know you haven't been adults for long, but you are adults, and with that comes a degree of responsibility. In this day and age, the only reason that people should be having unprotected sex is if they are deliberately trying to conceive.
And also, she can always come first, and then you can go for the intercourse. Most women can't climax through penetration anyway, or certainly not as easily as through oral stimulation. Get down there first and make sure that her need are met.
Note that this doesn't substitute for proper birth control.
Hm. Have you thought about anal sex?
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you sure about that?
Do you want kids? Do you think abortions are like, fun affairs? They don't give you cotton candy at the abortion clinic, man.
There's been some ok advice in this thread so far, but holy shit, get her on a pill or put a rubber on. Something. Anything. Pulling out is so risky.
Yes, it does.
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Otherwise, I hope you are both pro choice.
If you want a tale of horror. My mate from back home got his old girlfriend accidentally pregnant just before they broke up, because she's a christian she didn't get an abortion and they were basically waiting to have the kid, finally feeling happy about it. The kid was going to be a girl and they had decided to call it Madeleine. Then, twenty five weeks in they get told that there is an abnormality with the child and that there are chances that it will be born deaf, blind or both. Twenty six weeks in and the child is still born.
The funeral was the Saturday that's just gone. I was unable to make it to the funeral, but i'm telling you that my mate is not exactly top of the fucking world at the moment and wont be for quite a while I don't think.
That's because both statements are true. Pre-cum is a fluid created before the channel to the sperm opens up and is added tot he seminal fluid, so in technical terms, it does not contain sperm.
In reality, previous recent emissions may leave sperm deposits along the urethra, so they become added to the fluid as it travels up the shaft. So in this way, it can
Practically speaking yes, technically speaking, no.
this is why it's important to always drain the sea monster before pillaging the booty without a helmet
Best analogy of the year.
The girl is bat-shit crazy. You need to break up with her. She's trying to get pregnant so that you can't break up with her so that even if she can't emotionally leech off of you, she'll at least be able to financially leech off of you.
I'm just gonna lock this and let VC deal with it when he gets on, since he's the last one to have talked to you.
Well, what you need to do first is pay her $800 "speeding-ticket", then when she gets back from blowing the guy she gets meth from, you're going to have to wait for her to finish spending four hours on the phone with her ex. Then you'll start fucking, because it's the only reason you even talk to eachother. Somewhere in there you should squeeze in a mean-spirited argument about nothing that leaves you both in tears. And then you should probably take a hint, realise that we mods can see that you're still tuscloud despite having created a new username, and die in a fire.