Girl cheats with me, stuck in relationship, how to get her?
Ok so my friend, let's call her "Tina" and her boyfriend "David" have been going out for almost a year and a half and them getting married has been openly discussed and the such. The problem they have is that David works in Michigan and Tina goes to college in Virginia, they are three years apart in age btw, and I go to college in Virginia as well but a different one and Tina and I just meet at our hometown in the middle during breaks and she discusses problems she's been having with him like he's dramatic, extremely worrisome, and jealous, the general long distance boyfriend thing. And she ended up cheating on him with me during one break, only to first base, but we never told anyone. Now recently it's happened again but we moved to third base and we admitted feelings for each other but she doesn't want to break up with David because it will hurt him and leave him alone and she's experienced that and doesn't want to put someone else through it. How do I, without being blunt and rude, convince her to break up so we can give things a shot? She's openly said if they weren't together we would be. And no, we weren't drinking during any of this.