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  • So It GoesSo It Goes We keep moving...Registered User regular
    HAHA I WON

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  • DynagripDynagrip destroy everything you touch Registered User, ClubPA regular
    So It Goes wrote: »
    if the dude cares about what dish you order that much he is a douche anyway

    this is another thing [chat] needs to take collective action on. mya, send us links to your potential okcupid amours prior to engaging with them. you'll be in a rewarding relationship in no time. look at some of our success stories like, uh, richy?

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  • So It GoesSo It Goes We keep moving...Registered User regular
    kedinik wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    kedinik wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    if the dude cares about what dish you order that much he is a douche anyway

    I wouldn't go that far, but if he wants to pay then yeah he wants to pay.

    if he wants to pay then that's fine, if he has $ restrictions he should let her know, mya should not be auto-shaming herself in this situation it's fucking ridiculous

    I'm just saying it's a far leap from Mya internally pressuring herself on the assumption of what the dude believed to saying the guy's a douche.

    IF he is the type of guy that would really care that much THEN he is a douche

    this is an if then statement

    BRAH

    /imperial red

  • DasUberEdwardDasUberEdward Registered User regular
    i ain't one to entertain such feelings. but this particular lady has that right blend of crazy that would make a different DUE think hey why not?

    all leather jacket and blue hair sending incomprehensible snapchat videos.

    what a delight!

  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    we've got married people in [chat]

    which is either winning the game or being too lazy to participate depending on how you look at it

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  • Casual EddyCasual Eddy The Astral PlaneRegistered User regular
    I might be a little late but that was totally a humblebrag

    Elki wrote: »

    Casual Eddy: best poster 2014.
    tyrannus wrote: »
    Casual Eddy: best poster of 2015

    gotta update that stuff man
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  • msmyamsmya Being Fabulous Registered User regular
    kedinik wrote: »
    So Mya did you at least enjoy your date's company?

    To be honest, I cannot tell if he liked me or not. He was looking around most of the time, not really looking at me.
    And I don't know; not really any fireworks you know; but he didn't immediately get up and say "OK LET'S GO" as soon as dinner ended, either.

  • ElldrenElldren Is a woman dammit ceterum censeoRegistered User regular
    Irond Will wrote: »
    Atomika wrote: »
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    Atomika wrote: »
    Thomamelas wrote: »
    Atomika wrote: »
    The whole mindset and history behind Sweet 16/Quinceañera is really disturbing to me, and nothing moreso about that than it's still a thing.

    Always kinda odd when I go to the Galleria on a Saturday and have to remind myself that's not a group of kids coming from their prom.

    It just seems like such a gross condoning of oppressive objectification and sexualizing of young girls.

    But, I mean, that's definitely a thing that people do.

    not to apologize for the sheer grossness of quinceaneras but the tradition is based on the idea that a 16 year-old girl is now a woman

    it's exactly the same thing as a bar/ bat mitzvah

    It can be, depending on how religiously-tinged the ceremony is, but Bar/Bat Mitzvahs tend to be much more about the person's transition into the religious community.

    In that way, S16/Quince is much more akin to debutante balls, being little more than a patriarchal expression of permission given to another person for control of their own body, performed in front of a crowd of their closest friends and family.

    i mean that is kind of the anthropological basis of all coming-of-age ceremonies i think

    this person is an adult => this person has agency over their lives => this person has bodily and sexual agency

    the thing i hate about quinceaneras is that they're incredibly crass, what with the preening and the pinning of money on the dress and all of that.

    but i think the anthro subtext is nearly universal.

    man that's just a Mexican thing

    Mexicans are weird

    fuck gendered marketing
  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    I might be a little late but that was totally a humblebrag

    wasn't

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  • So It GoesSo It Goes We keep moving...Registered User regular
    msmya wrote: »
    kedinik wrote: »
    So Mya did you at least enjoy your date's company?

    To be honest, I cannot tell if he liked me or not. He was looking around most of the time, not really looking at me.
    And I don't know; not really any fireworks you know; but he didn't immediately get up and say "OK LET'S GO" as soon as dinner ended, either.

    pass

  • Casual EddyCasual Eddy The Astral PlaneRegistered User regular
    and i should know, my dick is too big and I please the ladies too much

    Elki wrote: »

    Casual Eddy: best poster 2014.
    tyrannus wrote: »
    Casual Eddy: best poster of 2015

    gotta update that stuff man
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  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    i ain't one to entertain such feelings. but this particular lady has that right blend of crazy that would make a different DUE think hey why not?

    all leather jacket and blue hair sending incomprehensible snapchat videos.

    what a delight!

    I approve of blue hair

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    ElldrenDasUberEdward
  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    is her leather jacket by any chance long

    is her skirt short

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  • Casual EddyCasual Eddy The Astral PlaneRegistered User regular
    #sohumble #soblessed #thinkingaboutthatsizereductionsurgery

    Elki wrote: »

    Casual Eddy: best poster 2014.
    tyrannus wrote: »
    Casual Eddy: best poster of 2015

    gotta update that stuff man
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  • So It GoesSo It Goes We keep moving...Registered User regular
    god that janky so raven shape, it burns me

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  • kedinikkedinik Registered User regular
    edited March 2014
    So It Goes wrote: »
    kedinik wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    kedinik wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    if the dude cares about what dish you order that much he is a douche anyway

    I wouldn't go that far, but if he wants to pay then yeah he wants to pay.

    if he wants to pay then that's fine, if he has $ restrictions he should let her know, mya should not be auto-shaming herself in this situation it's fucking ridiculous

    I'm just saying it's a far leap from Mya internally pressuring herself on the assumption of what the dude believed to saying the guy's a douche.

    IF he is the type of guy that would really care that much THEN he is a douche

    this is an if then statement

    BRAH

    /imperial red

    There is room in your if statement for a guy who cares about prices AND is not a douche.

    It's on both of them to talk about each of their expectations before a mismatch of expectations becomes a problem.

    e: SIS.

    kedinik on
  • msmyamsmya Being Fabulous Registered User regular
    "do you play instruments?"
    "no"
    "did you do any clubs in college?"
    "no"
    "do you like to dance?"
    "no"

  • Sir LandsharkSir Landshark resting shark face Registered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    Man, fuck you all. Humblebrag my fucking ass. This sucks. I blew a good thing and you're all "lol you're humblebragging about having a good thing".

    Dude this happened like, 4 hours ago?

    Nothing is blown. Call the fucking girl up and tell her you are a dumbass and actually interested. I highly doubt she's moved on.

    Please consider the environment before printing this post.
  • So It GoesSo It Goes We keep moving...Registered User regular
    kedinik wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    kedinik wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    kedinik wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    if the dude cares about what dish you order that much he is a douche anyway

    I wouldn't go that far, but if he wants to pay then yeah he wants to pay.

    if he wants to pay then that's fine, if he has $ restrictions he should let her know, mya should not be auto-shaming herself in this situation it's fucking ridiculous

    I'm just saying it's a far leap from Mya internally pressuring herself on the assumption of what the dude believed to saying the guy's a douche.

    IF he is the type of guy that would really care that much THEN he is a douche

    this is an if then statement

    BRAH

    /imperial red

    There is room in your if statement for a guy who cares about prices AND is not a douche.

    It's on both of them to talk about each of their expectations before a mismatch of expectations becomes a problem.

    oh my fucking GOD ked

    ok you are right

  • DynagripDynagrip destroy everything you touch Registered User, ClubPA regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    I might be a little late but that was totally a humblebrag

    wasn't
    just arbitrarily redefine humblebrag and voila, you're right

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  • InquisitorInquisitor Registered User regular
    msmya wrote: »
    "do you play instruments?"
    "no"
    "did you do any clubs in college?"
    "no"
    "do you like to dance?"
    "no"

    This is why open ended questions are better.

  • kedinikkedinik Registered User regular
    So It Goes wrote: »
    kedinik wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    kedinik wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    kedinik wrote: »
    So It Goes wrote: »
    if the dude cares about what dish you order that much he is a douche anyway

    I wouldn't go that far, but if he wants to pay then yeah he wants to pay.

    if he wants to pay then that's fine, if he has $ restrictions he should let her know, mya should not be auto-shaming herself in this situation it's fucking ridiculous

    I'm just saying it's a far leap from Mya internally pressuring herself on the assumption of what the dude believed to saying the guy's a douche.

    IF he is the type of guy that would really care that much THEN he is a douche

    this is an if then statement

    BRAH

    /imperial red

    There is room in your if statement for a guy who cares about prices AND is not a douche.

    It's on both of them to talk about each of their expectations before a mismatch of expectations becomes a problem.

    oh my fucking GOD ked

    ok you are right

    Yeah I've been pretty damn pedantic for the last two days in particular.

    It doesn't feel good for me either.

  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    Man, fuck you all. Humblebrag my fucking ass. This sucks. I blew a good thing and you're all "lol you're humblebragging about having a good thing".

    Dude this happened like, 4 hours ago?

    Nothing is blown. Call the fucking girl up and tell her you are a dumbass and actually interested. I highly doubt she's moved on.

    Well yeah you're right. Tonight is blown, but, yeah. I'm just really annoyed at myself.

    I mean

    there is oblivious and there is ignoring that.

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  • DynagripDynagrip destroy everything you touch Registered User, ClubPA regular
    i don't want to go to bed. fuck this gay earth.

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  • msmyamsmya Being Fabulous Registered User regular
    I did those too; what tv shows do you like, what movies do you like, what do you do for fun, where are you from, etc.

  • So It GoesSo It Goes We keep moving...Registered User regular
    Inquisitor wrote: »
    msmya wrote: »
    "do you play instruments?"
    "no"
    "did you do any clubs in college?"
    "no"
    "do you like to dance?"
    "no"

    This is why open ended questions are better.

    holy cow what boring answers

  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    Dynagrip wrote: »
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    I might be a little late but that was totally a humblebrag

    wasn't
    just arbitrarily redefine humblebrag and voila, you're right

    I refuse to accept that "a girl among the multitudes is into me" is bragging even in [chat]

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  • kedinikkedinik Registered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    we've got married people in [chat]

    which is either winning the game or being too lazy to participate depending on how you look at it

    I played the game until I beat it.

    gg no re, single life.

  • ElkiElki get busy Moderator, ClubPA mod
    My stupid Chrome doesn't want to play tldr's wav. jake, where is your music? I don't see a link.

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  • InquisitorInquisitor Registered User regular
    So It Goes wrote: »
    Inquisitor wrote: »
    msmya wrote: »
    "do you play instruments?"
    "no"
    "did you do any clubs in college?"
    "no"
    "do you like to dance?"
    "no"

    This is why open ended questions are better.

    holy cow what boring answers

    Yeah the guy could be doing a lot better.

    I mean, you can do a lot even with bad questions.

    He sounds really boring and dull.

    Pass.

  • msmyamsmya Being Fabulous Registered User regular
    my answers:

    yup, I used to be in band in high school and played piano.
    yup, I was a student senator, and a sorority. lots of fun; made a lot of girl friends.
    I LOVE TO DANCE.

  • DeebaserDeebaser on my way to work in a suit and a tie Ahhhh...come on fucking guyRegistered User regular
    msmya wrote: »
    "do you play instruments?"
    "no"
    "did you do any clubs in college?"
    "no"
    "do you like to dance?"
    "no"

    y/n questions are terrible
    they lead to y/n answers

    So, what do you do for fun/professionally?
    What do you like about it?
    What's your family like?

    If your date answers no/no/no to that, they are in a coma.

    kedinik
  • kedinikkedinik Registered User regular
    edited March 2014
    msmya wrote: »
    kedinik wrote: »
    So Mya did you at least enjoy your date's company?

    To be honest, I cannot tell if he liked me or not. He was looking around most of the time, not really looking at me.
    And I don't know; not really any fireworks you know; but he didn't immediately get up and say "OK LET'S GO" as soon as dinner ended, either.

    Well good luck, I hope you get another date if you want one.

    And if you want one, consider being the one to bring it up even if he doesn't.

    kedinik on
  • msmyamsmya Being Fabulous Registered User regular
    Sorry my questions sucked!! I promise not all of them were bad.

  • DasUberEdwardDasUberEdward Registered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    is her leather jacket by any chance long

    is her skirt short

    no but her jeans are black and her boots are high

    best kinda lady basically.

    except she might be crazy so...

  • OrganichuOrganichu jacobkosh Registered User regular
    mya does love to dance

    i seent it

  • TraceTrace GNU Terry Pratchett; GNU Gus; GNU Carrie Fisher; GNU Adam We Registered User regular
    Chat.

    Has anyone noticed that cereal fucking sucks lately?

  • msmyamsmya Being Fabulous Registered User regular
    Deebaser wrote: »
    msmya wrote: »
    "do you play instruments?"
    "no"
    "did you do any clubs in college?"
    "no"
    "do you like to dance?"
    "no"

    y/n questions are terrible
    they lead to y/n answers

    So, what do you do for fun/professionally?
    What do you like about it?
    What's your family like?

    If your date answers no/no/no to that, they are in a coma.

    yeah see I totally asked those questions right off my bat, my rules are to talk about the F words

    Family
    Friends
    Food
    From?

  • InquisitorInquisitor Registered User regular
    msmya wrote: »
    Sorry my questions sucked!! I promise not all of them were bad.

    Well, like I said you can do a lot even with no great questions.

    No reason why they guy couldn't go "No, I didn't do any clubs in college, instead I spent my time doing..."

    AbdhyiusMazzyx
  • AbdhyiusAbdhyius Registered User regular
    Abdhyius wrote: »
    is her leather jacket by any chance long

    is her skirt short

    no but her jeans are black and her boots are high

    best kinda lady basically.

    except she might be crazy so...

    ...and since you are a man I doubt that will stop you even if it is to the point where it really should

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