My step-daughter is off to a pretty bad start in life. 19 with an 18-month old son in which she's found challenging to care for. That may be another post. My most immediate issue is my husband, her father, has asked me if I would be willing to cosign on a loan for a car for her. This will be the third car we would be helping her with if I agreed. The first one died, in my opinion due to possible neglect on her part. The second one she totaled in an accident. She agreed in writing to pay us back for insurance we helped her purchase and never has. She needs a way to work. Which is a good thing that she's working, but I'm struggling with the fact that she's been driving without insurance and has not been responsible in each of the car situations in the past. One solution that was recommended was to buy another beater for her. We are still paying on the loan for what I think was the previous car. And presently her life is in such a state where I don't have trust in her whatsoever, drugs, alcohol & thugs, again, another issue. The bottom line is she needs a way to get to work to get money to provide for her son and potential betterment in education. I just don't know how to respond and I'm looking for advice. Any thoughts on appropriate and responsible solutions?