MetalbourneInside a cluster b personalityRegistered Userregular
This kind of hedging your bets is terrible for guys to do. What the hell does "everything" mean? Doing taxes? Singing Christmas carols at the old folks home? It tells me, "I'm trying to maximize my odds" unfortunately it works against you because hearing such a generalized answer drops my interest by about half.
This kind of hedging your bets is terrible for guys to do. What the hell does "everything" mean? Doing taxes? Singing Christmas carols at the old folks home? It tells me, "I'm trying to maximize my odds" unfortunately it works against you because hearing such a generalized answer drops my interest by about half.
"I don't know, I'm trying to win brownie points, so I guess some chick pastime of yours or something."
alt-post: Emby you wanna hang out and do taxes and stuff?
This kind of hedging your bets is terrible for guys to do. What the hell does "everything" mean? Doing taxes? Singing Christmas carols at the old folks home? It tells me, "I'm trying to maximize my odds" unfortunately it works against you because hearing such a generalized answer drops my interest by about half.
It's always wonderful weather for a sleigh ride together with you
It doesn't backfire. It gives you some agency in your life and forces you to respect other people and their decisions. Just because you had a conversation with someone that doesn't have the same interests as you doesn't mean your attempts backfired.
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MetalbourneInside a cluster b personalityRegistered Userregular
Starting what you want in clear terms is, first, the only way to ethically get what you want. Second, it opens up negotiations so that two people can work together to get what they both want.
backfire was probably the incorrect choice of words, pardon my mistake there.
I mean more along the lines of both parties may not be as equally experienced or used to a direct conveying of interests.
Like I've dated a girl who was much more forward then myself at the time and if she had told me what she liked II would of been a little taken aback due to lack of experience/ignorance. After dating her for a while though, she had opened me up to a lot of things I hadn't really given much thought to.
I could of missed out on awesome things!
Again though I meant no disrespect or anything, my tactfulness with words can be poor sometimes
Oh yeah I would deff be more descriptive in that scenario then that person was for sure.
I didn't mean my comment as an attack. I was just merely commenting on the fact that I've done the over-sharing before. So it can go both ways.
Sorry if it came across as aggressive.
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MetalbourneInside a cluster b personalityRegistered Userregular
Haha man one time I was at a party and I thought one of my friends might be interested, so I'm like, "do you want to scene?"
"Yes! "
"Do you like needles? " She went pale.
"Okay well what do you like?"
"I'd rather do some impact play"
"Shit I don't know how to do any of that"
So we cuddled on the couch and watched porn instead.
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MetalbourneInside a cluster b personalityRegistered Userregular
edited July 2015
Of course, for every success story I have about 20 "well good luck in your search" stories.
This kind of hedging your bets is terrible for guys to do. What the hell does "everything" mean? Doing taxes? Singing Christmas carols at the old folks home? It tells me, "I'm trying to maximize my odds" unfortunately it works against you because hearing such a generalized answer drops my interest by about half.
It's always wonderful weather for a sleigh ride together with you
Great
Now this will be stuck in my head in my head for another 6 months
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Today I went to see a doctor about a sore throat I was worried might be strep, couldn't get a quick appointment with my primary care doc but I got one with another doctor in the same practice and it's just a sore throat so it didn't really matter
The doctor I ended up seeing was so handsome it's unfair
He looks like he was created by scientists in a lab with the specific goal of making me feel incredibly shy and self conscious
So now I have a fun little crush on a doctor I saw for 20 minutes and will very likely run into again, which actually makes it kind of nice because I don't have to ever worry about the possibility of acting on it
Also I don't have strep throat but it is probably some kind of virus and it will likely clear itself up by next week but he sent a culture out anyway
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MetalbourneInside a cluster b personalityRegistered Userregular
This kind of hedging your bets is terrible for guys to do. What the hell does "everything" mean? Doing taxes? Singing Christmas carols at the old folks home? It tells me, "I'm trying to maximize my odds" unfortunately it works against you because hearing such a generalized answer drops my interest by about half.
It's always wonderful weather for a sleigh ride together with you
Great
Now this will be stuck in my head in my head for another 6 months
I know it's embarrassing to have someone point out your missed draft but I want to know more about that incomplete thought you had up there
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MetalbourneInside a cluster b personalityRegistered Userregular
Haha man one time I was at a party and I thought one of my friends might be interested, so I'm like, "do you want to scene?"
"Yes! "
"Do you like needles? " She went pale.
"Okay well what do you like?"
"I'd rather do some impact play"
"Shit I don't know how to do any of that"
So we cuddled on the couch and watched porn instead.
This kind of hedging your bets is terrible for guys to do. What the hell does "everything" mean? Doing taxes? Singing Christmas carols at the old folks home? It tells me, "I'm trying to maximize my odds" unfortunately it works against you because hearing such a generalized answer drops my interest by about half.
It's always wonderful weather for a sleigh ride together with you
Great
Now this will be stuck in my head in my head for another 6 months
I know it's embarrassing to have someone point out your missed draft but I want to know more about that incomplete thought you had up there
I actually have no idea where I was going with it, but I'm going to assume it was in a Fury Road direction.
So the closest lady friend in my life, outside of my actual wife, just got engaged.
This is a person who pretty much everyone who knows us has agreed I probably would have married if events hadn't brought Nat and I together instead. There's no awkwardness about it at all, it's just pretty much universally accepted as an alternate-timeline thing.
Anyway, is there any weirdly specific western European word that describes the ridiculously irrational feeling of your heart being in a state of simultaneously swelling with absolute joy yet cracking with pensive sadness?
So the closest lady friend in my life, outside of my actual wife, just got engaged.
This is a person who pretty much everyone who knows us has agreed I probably would have married if events hadn't brought Nat and I together instead. There's no awkwardness about it at all, it's just pretty much universally accepted as an alternate-timeline thing.
Anyway, is there any weirdly specific western European word that describes the ridiculously irrational feeling of your heart being in a state of simultaneously swelling with absolute joy yet cracking with pensive sadness?
Because I am currently that.
And I feel like the silliest goose.
Nah don't feel goosy about it.
There's a reason "what if" type stories are very common and popular in media. People like to wonder how things would end up if only X had happened instead of Y.
I have now, slapped my gf twice when being woken out of sleep paralysis, luckily not hard each time. The new rule is, prod me with a broom or let me suffer.
I have now, slapped my gf twice when being woken out of sleep paralysis, luckily not hard each time. The new rule is, prod me with a broom or let me suffer.
separate beds like god intended
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MetalbourneInside a cluster b personalityRegistered Userregular
I have now, slapped my gf twice when being woken out of sleep paralysis, luckily not hard each time. The new rule is, prod me with a broom or let me suffer.
separate beds like god intended
I am all for seperate beds. I like to move around!
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I like the idea of sending back a pic of one of Emby's Cthulhu dick sculptures.
“I was quick when I came in here, I’m twice as quick now”
-Indiana Solo, runner of blades
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MetalbourneInside a cluster b personalityRegistered Userregular
So the closest lady friend in my life, outside of my actual wife, just got engaged.
This is a person who pretty much everyone who knows us has agreed I probably would have married if events hadn't brought Nat and I together instead. There's no awkwardness about it at all, it's just pretty much universally accepted as an alternate-timeline thing.
Anyway, is there any weirdly specific western European word that describes the ridiculously irrational feeling of your heart being in a state of simultaneously swelling with absolute joy yet cracking with pensive sadness?
Because I am currently that.
And I feel like the silliest goose.
Nah don't feel goosy about it.
There's a reason "what if" type stories are very common and popular in media. People like to wonder how things would end up if only X had happened instead of Y.
If Hallmark Channel movies have taught me anything it is that you always learn that the other life sucked. And to believe in the power of Santa.
But who knows really? Maybe you'd have hated each others guts in a relationship. It's understandable but there really is no sense dwelling on it.
Besides, we all have to deal with not swooping in and snatching you up first. :tell_me_more:
and I wonder about my neighbors even though I don't have them
but they're listening to every word I say
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it's messy and questionable.
Steam Me
Only smut
Not if you farm corn.
This kind of hedging your bets is terrible for guys to do. What the hell does "everything" mean? Doing taxes? Singing Christmas carols at the old folks home? It tells me, "I'm trying to maximize my odds" unfortunately it works against you because hearing such a generalized answer drops my interest by about half.
"I don't know, I'm trying to win brownie points, so I guess some chick pastime of yours or something."
alt-post: Emby you wanna hang out and do taxes and stuff?
It's always wonderful weather for a sleigh ride together with you
Hard to gauge just how kinky some people are
It doesn't backfire. It gives you some agency in your life and forces you to respect other people and their decisions. Just because you had a conversation with someone that doesn't have the same interests as you doesn't mean your attempts backfired.
That doesn't make sense.
Either you find out they don't want what you want, or you lie to them.
Like, if you're "too precise" then you're just identifying something you want that they don't.
How's that a backfire? You found out they're not on your level.
e: also pretty much what metal said.
I mean more along the lines of both parties may not be as equally experienced or used to a direct conveying of interests.
Like I've dated a girl who was much more forward then myself at the time and if she had told me what she liked II would of been a little taken aback due to lack of experience/ignorance. After dating her for a while though, she had opened me up to a lot of things I hadn't really given much thought to.
I could of missed out on awesome things!
Again though I meant no disrespect or anything, my tactfulness with words can be poor sometimes
this isn't what we were talking about.
Yes on a first date when someone asks what you're into you maybe don't immediately start telling them about your mlp/mcu crossover hentai script.
But you also don't say, "oh, you know, stuff."
there's sorta kinda a rather large spectrum of options there in between though.
Also it's would've and could've (and should've)
not of.
I didn't mean my comment as an attack. I was just merely commenting on the fact that I've done the over-sharing before. So it can go both ways.
Sorry if it came across as aggressive.
"Yes! "
"Do you like needles? "
She went pale.
"Okay well what do you like?"
"I'd rather do some impact play"
"Shit I don't know how to do any of that"
So we cuddled on the couch and watched porn instead.
It's just how it is.
This guuuuuuuuuuuy
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Now this will be stuck in my head in my head for another 6 months
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The doctor I ended up seeing was so handsome it's unfair
He looks like he was created by scientists in a lab with the specific goal of making me feel incredibly shy and self conscious
So now I have a fun little crush on a doctor I saw for 20 minutes and will very likely run into again, which actually makes it kind of nice because I don't have to ever worry about the possibility of acting on it
Also I don't have strep throat but it is probably some kind of virus and it will likely clear itself up by next week but he sent a culture out anyway
I know it's embarrassing to have someone point out your missed draft but I want to know more about that incomplete thought you had up there
Well guess who I just messaged.
I'll keep you all updated on what happens
I actually have no idea where I was going with it, but I'm going to assume it was in a Fury Road direction.
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This is a person who pretty much everyone who knows us has agreed I probably would have married if events hadn't brought Nat and I together instead. There's no awkwardness about it at all, it's just pretty much universally accepted as an alternate-timeline thing.
Anyway, is there any weirdly specific western European word that describes the ridiculously irrational feeling of your heart being in a state of simultaneously swelling with absolute joy yet cracking with pensive sadness?
Because I am currently that.
And I feel like the silliest goose.
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Nah don't feel goosy about it.
There's a reason "what if" type stories are very common and popular in media. People like to wonder how things would end up if only X had happened instead of Y.
Bittersweet
Sehnsucht maybe?
-Indiana Solo, runner of blades
I think I might still be sleeping.
I think he means his friend is a dentist and he's cooking things to give you cavities
Lies I have seen the teen mom porn several time son tumblr it's pretty much the only place I can find it on a regular basis
For research
"A dick with a future"
e: something something "going places"
separate beds like god intended
Something jess and I saw on tumblr and would say to each other to make the other laugh
One word: plastics
Wait what
I am all for seperate beds. I like to move around!
-Indiana Solo, runner of blades
I need to make a really terrifying one
If Hallmark Channel movies have taught me anything it is that you always learn that the other life sucked. And to believe in the power of Santa.
But who knows really? Maybe you'd have hated each others guts in a relationship. It's understandable but there really is no sense dwelling on it.
Besides, we all have to deal with not swooping in and snatching you up first. :tell_me_more:
but they're listening to every word I say