15 years this April. Get off my lawn and on my level.
Dick waving about join dates never gets old
I already get my quota of dicks being waved in my face on OKC. I come here for good, wholesome, family friendly, quality discussion.
Like the poop threads and @Metalbourne talking about what clothing would be best to eat.
I know a lot of guys send dick pics which I really got curious of why as it's not impressive and not the point of why I am talking to them yet I guess they expect it?
But then just having Okc contributing to making me miserable and super demoralized I gave up on it as I really was just making myself sad sending out message after message
Trying to find an elective placement is proving very difficult. I'm make cupcakes today, and will probably eat them all if I keep having crap luck at finding somewhere to go. Having an extra two weeks off would be great for my mental health, that should count as a placement.
If I can get past the third date, I guess that would be the time to say that
I know she's a rough time, but I think I need better communication
I don't want to be an emotionally needy person, but I'm a nervous mess
We've been talking (well, messaging) for about a month, sometimes for hours a day, sometimes just a message or two a day
And I don't know if it's what I say, or if it's just bad timing, but some times I'll be wondering if it was something I said that caused the conversation to stop or not, and I don't really get a lot of feedback
This past weekend, for example. A bit of chat Friday, I asked if she wanted to do dinner on Sunday
Killed the talk
Nothing until Sunday at like 4 o clock, two hours before what I thought would be dinner time
She apologized for the delay, said things were crazy
And I wish she had said that you know, on Friday
I don't know if we're to the point where I have any business saying anything though
I don't remember most of the dream, but a few of you were there, including @Rorshach Kringle who was referred to as a "special effects wizard" and he came out on stage surrounded by lightning and ended up starting a fire.
I don't remember most of the dream, but a few of you were there, including @Rorshach Kringle who was referred to as a "special effects wizard" and he came out on stage surrounded by lightning and ended up starting a fire.
I'm feeling really good about everything right now.
I asked her about our relationship yesterday, and we agreed to let it develop naturally.
Today was more book club chat, and I wrote her another poem since it was Valentine's Day.
One year ago, such a thing would be inconceivable.
"Somewhere, something incredible is waiting to be known." - Sharon Begley
If I can get past the third date, I guess that would be the time to say that
I know she's a rough time, but I think I need better communication
I don't want to be an emotionally needy person, but I'm a nervous mess
We've been talking (well, messaging) for about a month, sometimes for hours a day, sometimes just a message or two a day
And I don't know if it's what I say, or if it's just bad timing, but some times I'll be wondering if it was something I said that caused the conversation to stop or not, and I don't really get a lot of feedback
This past weekend, for example. A bit of chat Friday, I asked if she wanted to do dinner on Sunday
Killed the talk
Nothing until Sunday at like 4 o clock, two hours before what I thought would be dinner time
She apologized for the delay, said things were crazy
And I wish she had said that you know, on Friday
I don't know if we're to the point where I have any business saying anything though
personally, having gone through that exact stuff, I would probably just bring up that yes things are crazy and that it's totally ok to tell you that when they are rather than several days hours etc later and don't feel guilty about it
but also realize it's just your nerves and things will happen as they happen she may well be having big ol anxiety as well
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I don't want my anxiety's demands on me to make me request something like status updates from her, that would probably look controlling
And she's recently divorced and shares custody of her kids with her ex and things are not very civil at all between them
I don't want to add stress to her life, you know?
Sounds like it's just something you may need to endure then as shitty as that is. The fact she's dating at all in that situation is pretty amazing; she probably really likes you.
If I can get past the third date, I guess that would be the time to say that
I know she's a rough time, but I think I need better communication
I don't want to be an emotionally needy person, but I'm a nervous mess
We've been talking (well, messaging) for about a month, sometimes for hours a day, sometimes just a message or two a day
And I don't know if it's what I say, or if it's just bad timing, but some times I'll be wondering if it was something I said that caused the conversation to stop or not, and I don't really get a lot of feedback
This past weekend, for example. A bit of chat Friday, I asked if she wanted to do dinner on Sunday
Killed the talk
Nothing until Sunday at like 4 o clock, two hours before what I thought would be dinner time
She apologized for the delay, said things were crazy
And I wish she had said that you know, on Friday
I don't know if we're to the point where I have any business saying anything though
Maybe this is just me
But I think this might be something you need to work on, not her
Or at least something that you need to work on as well as her
You're stressing out over fairly minor communication gaps pretty much constantly, from what I've seen
And yeah, it sucks when you ask a pointed question and you don't get a response, I'll agree on that count
But that's not exactly the only time you've gotten like this
I got the "I'm more interested in hanging out as friends" from my date on Sunday. And man, friends are great and all, I have them and appreciate them, but I just want someone who'll stroke my hair and say I'm pretty. Does that make me a garbage person?
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I got the "I'm more interested in hanging out as friends" from my date on Sunday. And man, friends are great and all, I have them and appreciate them, but I just want someone who'll stroke my hair and say I'm pretty. Does that make me a garbage person?
I got the "I'm more interested in hanging out as friends" from my date on Sunday. And man, friends are great and all, I have them and appreciate them, but I just want someone who'll stroke my hair and say I'm pretty. Does that make me a garbage person?
I will totally do that for free I should open a booth
I got the "I'm more interested in hanging out as friends" from my date on Sunday. And man, friends are great and all, I have them and appreciate them, but I just want someone who'll stroke my hair and say I'm pretty. Does that make me a garbage person?
As long as they understand that you'll be moving on and they will get prioritized like all your other platonic freinds.
I finally found the place where aparantly I become attractive to women.....Hiking. Three meetup hikes in a row now interesting attractive women have expressed interest. After last week's hike a smart, fun, beautiful, woman asked me to spend time with her on the beach after the group hike was over. I got a friendly Valentine's day message from her today and we're driving to Tahoe this weekend to learn to snowboard together!
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I already get my quota of dicks being waved in my face on OKC. I come here for good, wholesome, family friendly, quality discussion.
Like the poop threads and @Metalbourne talking about what clothing would be best to eat.
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I'd think a leather belt or a shoe would be best. Boil them down enough and you can get a stew going
Don't you dare
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In all seriousness
I don't smoke weed and have never tried it. But it really should be legal.
Just legalise it, banning it hasn't worked.
People love getting high.
Like how how people love getting drunk.
I remember this from my lurker days! Or I saw it in a dream! Either way, it just made my morning much better.
We could do that with weed.
Look at the states in the US where weed is legal. It's done great things for the local economy.
this is fantastic
thanks, veldrin
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I know a lot of guys send dick pics which I really got curious of why as it's not impressive and not the point of why I am talking to them yet I guess they expect it?
But then just having Okc contributing to making me miserable and super demoralized I gave up on it as I really was just making myself sad sending out message after message
Deep breaths
I guess I could eat the box of chocolates if it comes to that
You'd have to eat the buckle or sole though, which would be no good.
Personally I reckon I'd have to go for a t-shirt. Especially if it's covered in pasta stains for flavour.
I cannot awesome this hard enough
please illegally long distance gay marry me
If I can get past the third date, I guess that would be the time to say that
I know she's a rough time, but I think I need better communication
I don't want to be an emotionally needy person, but I'm a nervous mess
We've been talking (well, messaging) for about a month, sometimes for hours a day, sometimes just a message or two a day
And I don't know if it's what I say, or if it's just bad timing, but some times I'll be wondering if it was something I said that caused the conversation to stop or not, and I don't really get a lot of feedback
This past weekend, for example. A bit of chat Friday, I asked if she wanted to do dinner on Sunday
Killed the talk
Nothing until Sunday at like 4 o clock, two hours before what I thought would be dinner time
She apologized for the delay, said things were crazy
And I wish she had said that you know, on Friday
I don't know if we're to the point where I have any business saying anything though
right now!
make out with me
everybody
Granted, that's every Tuesday, but today, IT'S A CELEBRATION.
Then I'm going to get sushi and watch John Wick, and will round out the evening with some drunk Mass Effect 2.
Think it'll be a good day.
@Rorshach Kringle would make a pretty good shitty-Mysterio.
I asked her about our relationship yesterday, and we agreed to let it develop naturally.
Today was more book club chat, and I wrote her another poem since it was Valentine's Day.
One year ago, such a thing would be inconceivable.
pro kissers only use tongues, stick them right outside your mouth and tongue their tongue
you must kiss like a noob
no!
I'm pashing the screen so hard
are are you too
or am I masturkissing
personally, having gone through that exact stuff, I would probably just bring up that yes things are crazy and that it's totally ok to tell you that when they are rather than several days hours etc later and don't feel guilty about it
but also realize it's just your nerves and things will happen as they happen she may well be having big ol anxiety as well
I don't want my anxiety's demands on me to make me request something like status updates from her, that would probably look controlling
And she's recently divorced and shares custody of her kids with her ex and things are not very civil at all between them
I don't want to add stress to her life, you know?
Awwww! This is so sweet!
Sounds like it's just something you may need to endure then as shitty as that is. The fact she's dating at all in that situation is pretty amazing; she probably really likes you.
you're more yellow than I would have thought [/slightly racist]
Maybe this is just me
But I think this might be something you need to work on, not her
Or at least something that you need to work on as well as her
You're stressing out over fairly minor communication gaps pretty much constantly, from what I've seen
And yeah, it sucks when you ask a pointed question and you don't get a response, I'll agree on that count
But that's not exactly the only time you've gotten like this
I will totally do that for free I should open a booth
or in a pinch my cat will
Holy shit.
As long as they understand that you'll be moving on and they will get prioritized like all your other platonic freinds.