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Help me exercise more good

VishNubVishNub Registered User regular
So, I recently finished grad school, during which I put on 20-25lbs. I'm now 6'1" and ~225. During grad school I didn't really exercise, other than the 30 minute walk to and from work and occasional weekend trips, hikes, etc... I used to do track and cross country, then ultimate frisbee in undergrad so I was in decent to good shape prior to grad school, and weighed about 20lbs less. I'm not like, obviously obese, but there's a little more gut and chin than I'd like.

Now I'd like to 1) get back in at least fair shape. 2) lose those 20lbs back if possible. I'll take 10 if that's more reasonable. and 3) build a little muscle mass. I'm not interested in running marathons or in looking like a bodybuilder.

Currently, I'm trying to eat healthier than I used to, or least eat less than I used to. And I've started going to the gym at work -- I have access to a full gym, with weights, weight machines, 1/8(12?) mile track, elliptical, bikes, etc...

My usual program is 3 nights a week I do some combination of 10-20m of biking at a heart rate of 120-130bpm, interval stuff on the elliptical with 1m slow then 1m of 160-180bpm, repeated 3-4 times, rowing for 1000m, and weights. For the weights I do 10-15 reps of the max weight I can do 15 reps of for that exercise (usually 70-90lbs). I don't currently do any lower body weight exercises, which I know is bad, but I'm not sure what to do and I'm kind of embarrassed wandering around the weight room looking at exercise diagrams.

So, I dunno, any tips? Is my program structured OK? What lower body lifts should I be doing, etc...

I've found it hard to locate good information on this stuff between the one weird trick articles and the 'roid rage bodybuilding forums.

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  • PsykomaPsykoma Registered User regular
    See if there's a trainer at your gym who can work with you to develop a plan.
    Personally my biggest thing for exercising is whether or not I enjoy the exercise in question. If I do, then even on a day when I'm really not feeling it I'll still manage to complete it. If I don't, then it becomes a lot easier to say "maybe tomorrow".

  • ceresceres When the last moon is cast over the last star of morning And the future has past without even a last desperate warningRegistered User, Moderator Mod Emeritus
    Psykoma wrote: »
    See if there's a trainer at your gym who can work with you to develop a plan.
    Personally my biggest thing for exercising is whether or not I enjoy the exercise in question. If I do, then even on a day when I'm really not feeling it I'll still manage to complete it. If I don't, then it becomes a lot easier to say "maybe tomorrow".

    Which is the fastest way to end the world because tomorrow never comes.

    But yes, it seems like a trainer is really what you need. A good (you need to check) trainer will be able to not only set up a plan with you, but take into account your current size, body type, past injuries, realistic goals, and even help some with diet, depending on the trainer. They are also very useful in helping you learn the equipment properly, because while I'm sure there are faster ways to do permanent damage to yourself than misinterpreting a diagram for heavy equipment, this one will likely make you feel the most stupid. It's hard for us to tell you how good your program is for your goals, because we can't see you and we don't really know your history. Maybe more important than how much you do is how maintainable what you're doing is over the long term.

    There's a lifting thread in SE, they can probably help you out with weight lifting advice appropriate to your level.

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  • MelksterMelkster Registered User regular
    edited June 2017
    VishNub wrote: »
    So, I recently finished grad school, during which I put on 20-25lbs. I'm now 6'1" and ~225. During grad school I didn't really exercise, other than the 30 minute walk to and from work and occasional weekend trips, hikes, etc... I used to do track and cross country, then ultimate frisbee in undergrad so I was in decent to good shape prior to grad school, and weighed about 20lbs less. I'm not like, obviously obese, but there's a little more gut and chin than I'd like.

    Now I'd like to 1) get back in at least fair shape. 2) lose those 20lbs back if possible. I'll take 10 if that's more reasonable. and 3) build a little muscle mass. I'm not interested in running marathons or in looking like a bodybuilder.

    Currently, I'm trying to eat healthier than I used to, or least eat less than I used to. And I've started going to the gym at work -- I have access to a full gym, with weights, weight machines, 1/8(12?) mile track, elliptical, bikes, etc...

    My usual program is 3 nights a week I do some combination of 10-20m of biking at a heart rate of 120-130bpm, interval stuff on the elliptical with 1m slow then 1m of 160-180bpm, repeated 3-4 times, rowing for 1000m, and weights. For the weights I do 10-15 reps of the max weight I can do 15 reps of for that exercise (usually 70-90lbs). I don't currently do any lower body weight exercises, which I know is bad, but I'm not sure what to do and I'm kind of embarrassed wandering around the weight room looking at exercise diagrams.

    So, I dunno, any tips? Is my program structured OK? What lower body lifts should I be doing, etc...

    I've found it hard to locate good information on this stuff between the one weird trick articles and the 'roid rage bodybuilding forums.

    Why just 3 nights a week? I've found 5 nights a week, plus Sunday, to be way better personally, for me. Just from a pure motivational perspective. My brain is trained at this point to be like "Okay, work is done. I just got home. Now time to put on my gym clothes and shoes and go to the gym." And I still get Saturday to stay in and play Stellaris all day. :P

    I do weight lifting on M/W/Fri. Cardio on T/Th/Sunday.

    Weight lifting: I didn't use a trainer. Instead I just looked up resources online, and bought a book. What's funny is like, I'm pretty sure it doesn't *really* matter precisely what guide you follow. What matters is you more or less hit the major muscle groups. (Edit: Though it occurs to me that if you have injuries or special concerns, yeah for sure talk to a trainer.) Some random tips:

    * Have a plan BEFORE you go to the gym. Would you like to copy the routine I'm on now? I'd be happy to share, but I'm definitely not a trainer or fitness professional at all.
    * Supersets are great. It's more interesting to do ABCABCABC rather than AAABBBCCC. You get through the routine so much quicker, and it's more fun. Plus you don't look like a dope spending half the time at the gym on your phone. :P
    * Definitely get your lower body into your routine buddy!

    Cardio: Your cardio routine seems way more interesting than mine! Maybe I should take notes. I usually just run for my three cardio days, 3 miles in ~25ish minutes or so.

    You mentioned that you played ultimate in college. Why not join an ultimate rec league?! I did that myself half a year ago and have been kicking myself for not getting into it sooner. It's so much more fun than anything else, and you'll actually have an outlet for all that training you'll be doing. Are you in the SF bay area? If so I have some more specific recommendations.

    BTW, the most important thing though of course is food, dude! You didn't even mention it! Food is everything! Way more important than exercise if you're looking to lose weight. If you want to lose weight, cut the calories. Simple as that. Yeah yeah, I too wish I could eat like I did in college and have it make no impact at all, but we're older. :P Get a food tracking app, track what you're eating now. Get a good baseline. Then cut down the calories by like 30%. Or you can do what I did, and not use an app but just kinda eyeball what you've been eating and just not eat a third of it. It sucks for a while but eventually I got used to it, and eventually couldn't eat as much as I used to even if I tried. Also, apparently a low-calorie diet is super good for you. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21840335

    Anyway, good luck dude! Honestly this stuff is much simpler than people say it is, in my opinion, for many people, assuming you're not training for very specific athletic objectives or whatever. For most people, I would bet, it's as easy as doing literally any exercise that you want for like 30-60 minutes a day and eating less. It's just a matter of doing it consistently for months and years.

    Melkster on
  • KyouguKyougu Registered User regular
    Yep, food is the way to go if you want to lose weight and more importantly, keep it off.

    For me calorie counting works wonder. Its not even that I don't know what I'm eating is unhealthy or not, but just having the numbers right there at easy access makes me way more accountable. I also don't let it control my life though. If I have a weekend where I go out with friends, I'll try to pick healthy options, but I won't deny myself a beer just because I'm already at my max. (Obviously this is not an every day thing).

    Weight wise, I can't recommend 5x5 Workout enough. I really enjoyed it.

    https://stronglifts.com/5x5/

    Honestly, and I'm sure this comes from me being a person that prefers routine, losing weight and working out is not THAT hard. It involves lifestyle changes, and the start can be a bit rough, but if you find a routine and steps that works for you and stick to them, you see that its not so bad. Also there's the cycle where you workout out, start seeing the differences (clothes fit better, your workouts feel easier) which makes you push yourself harder to keep it going, which feeds back onto the cycle.

  • DarkewolfeDarkewolfe Registered User regular
    Do not, do not, do not lift without a day break in between until you understand muscle group routines. Get at that cardio every day, but rotate weights and strength. If you're out of shape, there's a lot of things you have to slowly bring back into fitness.

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  • mtsmts Dr. Robot King Registered User regular
    Kyougu wrote: »
    Yep, food is the way to go if you want to lose weight and more importantly, keep it off.

    For me calorie counting works wonder. Its not even that I don't know what I'm eating is unhealthy or not, but just having the numbers right there at easy access makes me way more accountable. I also don't let it control my life though. If I have a weekend where I go out with friends, I'll try to pick healthy options, but I won't deny myself a beer just because I'm already at my max. (Obviously this is not an every day thing).

    Weight wise, I can't recommend 5x5 Workout enough. I really enjoyed it.

    https://stronglifts.com/5x5/

    Honestly, and I'm sure this comes from me being a person that prefers routine, losing weight and working out is not THAT hard. It involves lifestyle changes, and the start can be a bit rough, but if you find a routine and steps that works for you and stick to them, you see that its not so bad. Also there's the cycle where you workout out, start seeing the differences (clothes fit better, your workouts feel easier) which makes you push yourself harder to keep it going, which feeds back onto the cycle.

    food or exercise alone will not do it. you need both.

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  • CantidoCantido Registered User regular
    Y'know how warning labels say "Consult a physician before starting any diet or exercise program?"

    DO THAT SHIT.

    My workout, hell my professional work performance, were diminished by something that could have been solved with a simple blood test. Your physician is one of your best partners in fitness goals.

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  • MelksterMelkster Registered User regular
    Yeah definitely -- what Cantido said. Definitely a good idea to go talk to your doctor.

    Also WRT this:
    Darkewolfe wrote: »
    Do not, do not, do not lift without a day break in between until you understand muscle group routines. Get at that cardio every day, but rotate weights and strength. If you're out of shape, there's a lot of things you have to slowly bring back into fitness.

    I think you may have been directing this at me, since I recommended exercising every day! Just to clarify -- yes TOTALLY don't weight lift every day to start with.

    What I recommended was exercising every day, but alternate your cardio with weightlifting days. The point is to get in the habit of exercising at the same time every day. For me, personally, it's so much easier to keep an every-day habit rather than a every-other-day habit.

  • MelksterMelkster Registered User regular
    Kyougu wrote: »
    Yep, food is the way to go if you want to lose weight and more importantly, keep it off.

    For me calorie counting works wonder. Its not even that I don't know what I'm eating is unhealthy or not, but just having the numbers right there at easy access makes me way more accountable. I also don't let it control my life though. If I have a weekend where I go out with friends, I'll try to pick healthy options, but I won't deny myself a beer just because I'm already at my max. (Obviously this is not an every day thing).

    Weight wise, I can't recommend 5x5 Workout enough. I really enjoyed it.

    https://stronglifts.com/5x5/

    Honestly, and I'm sure this comes from me being a person that prefers routine, losing weight and working out is not THAT hard. It involves lifestyle changes, and the start can be a bit rough, but if you find a routine and steps that works for you and stick to them, you see that its not so bad. Also there's the cycle where you workout out, start seeing the differences (clothes fit better, your workouts feel easier) which makes you push yourself harder to keep it going, which feeds back onto the cycle.

    Oh my gosh, YES, the 5x5 stronglifts are great. I had a small bit of trouble getting started with those myself, since my gym didn't have the appropriate equipment available all the time. You can find replacements however for each one of those big groups. For example, instead of an overhead barbell press you can do an overhead dumbbell press!

    (I know they say it's super bad to do that but, I'm personally not convinced. Besides, for me, it was like -- either find a replacement exercise or play World of Warcraft. :P)

  • PeenPeen Registered User regular
    If you are going to do a program like Stronglifts it's pretty critical to have access to a proper barbell and weights so that you can squat, bench, and deadlift. There is no substitute for any of those in terms of training efficiency and overall results. Starting those exercises is intimidating but the Internet is replete with good sources of information that make it possible to get good and strong and not get hurt.

    There are also tons of really, really bad sources of information so if you want suggestions for good ones let us know.

  • VishNubVishNub Registered User regular
    Hm. Thanks for all the advice.

    There's a pickup ulti game near me one night a week that I've been thinking about.

    I've been doing three nights a week because I have other outdoor hobbies I like to do after work (fly fishing) that require daylight. Which isn't a problem in summer, but its tough to do both in winter.

    It doesn't seem like the university gym has a trainer on staff, but I'll ask later. It would be helpful to have someone make sure I'm doing it right the first couple times I do lifting more seriously.

  • SmurphSmurph Registered User regular
    Idk what your work lunch situation is, maybe you have a nice cafeteria, but I would like to throw in that making your own lunches was one of the big difference makers for me. It's pretty easy to walk out the door in the morning planning on getting a salad for lunch, but then by noon you've rolled a 2 on the willpower check and talked yourself into a burrito or burger. Actually bringing your lunch, and having it be something tasty but healthy, is a good way to avoid that. I will occasionally skip gym days to meal prep if I haven't made lunches for the week yet, it's that important to me.

  • MelksterMelkster Registered User regular
    VishNub wrote: »
    There's a pickup ulti game near me one night a week that I've been thinking about.

    Dooo itttt!

  • furbatfurbat Registered User regular
    edited June 2017
    For me what did the trick was:

    1) Waking up at 4:30 am every day and working out before work. It sucks but you get used to it fast and it is the only way to get myself to workout 6 days a week. Working out after work is just a recipe for skipping days.
    2) Track your workouts and make sure you are doing 5-6 days a week. I find I need to run about 30 miles a week to not suck at running.
    3) You need to really hit 5-6 days a week for months to make real progress.

    furbat on
  • DarkewolfeDarkewolfe Registered User regular
    Really, that's the huge one. Not just working out, but having specific workouts that always happen and are just non-negotiable. "It is Monday, it is a lifting day." Not, like, "Oh, yeah, I think I'll lift." Monday = Lift day.

    What is this I don't even.
  • DhalphirDhalphir don't you open that trapdoor you're a fool if you dareRegistered User regular
    Stronglifts 5x5 (or it's similar alternative, Starting Strength) is a great program, because it's super simple but super good as an introduction.

    Anyone has a certain genetic predisposition to lifting weights, and when you start, you rapidly make gains that are very visible because you leap up in weight. At a bodyweight of 80kg/176lbs I went from squatting 50kg/110lbs to squatting 100kg/220lbs in six months, without my body weight changing. My other lifts went up a lot too, but I didn't record my starting weights for them so I'm not as sure as I am for the squat. I lost a nice amount of fat (obviously, since if I built muscle and stayed at the same weight then that weight had to go somewhere).

    Stronglifts is really nice in particular because there's a clean and intuitive mobile app you can use which automatically tracks your progress, allows you to easily track your sets & reps during the exercises, and automatically remembers which workout day it is (A or B).

  • VoodooVVoodooV Registered User regular
    be prepared to get sick of whatever routine you've devised. It ultimately boils down to finding something you're going to enjoy doing as part of your life. If you hate it or get bored, you're going to find a reason to quit.

    11 years ago, if you had told me I'd become a long distance runner, I'd have laughed at you so hard. But 11 years later, I'm still running and many half marathons under my belt. It was something I never thought I would enjoy.

  • OnTheLastCastleOnTheLastCastle let's keep it haimish for the peripatetic Registered User regular
    Stronglifts 5x5 is indeed a great starter program with a really good app.

    You might laugh at the starting weights BUT DO NOT SKIP AHEAD. It is building a foundation and correct form. That is why it is so good.

  • BouwsTBouwsT Wanna come to a super soft birthday party? Registered User regular
    Stronglifts 5x5 is indeed a great starter program with a really good app.

    You might laugh at the starting weights BUT DO NOT SKIP AHEAD. It is building a foundation and correct form. That is why it is so good.

    I just downloaded this app based on the recommendations of this tread, and ya it definitely starts you off painfully light, but you'll progress quickly (as it's increasing the weight every session / every other session). Take the time to practice your form early, establish good habits, and maintain that form when the weight gets heavy. Don't compromise form for weight, and you'll save yourself from injury.

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  • MelksterMelkster Registered User regular
    I just want to say that this thread makes me really happy.

    Good work with your routines, boys and girls. Keep it up!

  • DisrupterDisrupter Registered User regular
    edited June 2017
    I'm no expert by any means but I found the p90x 3 series by beach body (Tony Horton) to be a great work out. It's 30 minutes a day and rotates muscle groups so you can keep going.

    As someone who never could get going to the gym into habit this works great. I've finished a few 90 days series on it and moved into the insanity series as well (harder but only 5 days a week so mentally a little easier to not fall behind.)

    Another thing that's helped me is pre workout supplements. It's easy for me to get out of bed just to fill a glass of water and some powder. Then I can may back down for 15-20 while it kicks in and then I'm usually good to go. Much easier to get into a routine that way for me.

    Might not be the same for everyone but these things have helped me go from guy who never worked out to guy who works out daily.

    I also used weight watchers app to cut 20 pounds a few years back. Good for lifestyle changes as even years later I look at food choices differently.

    Disrupter on
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