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[LGBT] a transformative experience thread -NEW THREAD POSTED-

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    HobnailHobnail Registered User regular
    You want those pince nez jobs Lawrence Fishbourne had in the matrix, those look good on most people

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    ShortyShorty touching the meat Intergalactic Cool CourtRegistered User regular
    there's a good chance they won't stay on your nose though, not everyone has a nose shape that gives them good purchase

    they actually had to use spirit gum to get them to stay on fishburne's face

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    HobnailHobnail Registered User regular
    I was just being silly, pince nez glasses seem slightly more practical than a monocle

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    OmnipotentBagelOmnipotentBagel floof Registered User regular
    Yeah but if you graft them to your face you can technically call yourself a cyborg

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    Erin The RedErin The Red The Name's Erin! Woman, Podcaster, Dungeon Master, IT nerd, Parent, Trans. AMA Baton Rouge, LARegistered User regular
    Round frame dump incoming!
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    CromartyCromarty Danielle Registered User regular
    I switched from aviators in college to semi-rimless frames like these and I like them quite a bit.
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    They weigh a whole lot less, too.

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    TubeTube Registered User admin
    I like 4 and 2, they're not too round if being too feminine at work is a concern. Red glasses I find to be a little much, but that's just me.

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    MuddBuddMuddBudd Registered User regular
    Brown/black will go with more outfits.

    Personally I have always preferred lenses like those, that are squarish but not super huge.

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    Erin The RedErin The Red The Name's Erin! Woman, Podcaster, Dungeon Master, IT nerd, Parent, Trans. AMA Baton Rouge, LARegistered User regular
    I'm kinda digging the black and green ones myseld

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    LiiyaLiiya Registered User regular
    I like the first ones!

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    Erin The RedErin The Red The Name's Erin! Woman, Podcaster, Dungeon Master, IT nerd, Parent, Trans. AMA Baton Rouge, LARegistered User regular
    Also jeez I derailed he crap out of this thread. Sorry!

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    TubeTube Registered User admin
    You're an LGBT person asking for appearance advice in the LGBT thread. That is not a derail.

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    OmnipotentBagelOmnipotentBagel floof Registered User regular
    I'm kinda digging the black and green ones myseld

    Yeah those are probably my favorite of the lot.

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    credeikicredeiki Registered User regular
    Cromarty wrote: »
    I switched from aviators in college to semi-rimless frames like these and I like them quite a bit.
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    They weigh a whole lot less, too.

    Yeah I wear those too, but a bit more rectangular and with a more uneven aspect ratio. They definitely look less fun or youthful than other glasses styles, and are worn by a lot of scientist types.

    Of the ones TRV just posted, they all seem good except the red ones, which are a bit much.
    Really the most important things for glasses are whether you feel like you look like yourself when wearing them; when I recently got new glasses, I was surprised how wearing even a slightly different shape of glasses from my previous pair made me basically not recognize my face as my own.

    Glasses definitely do enhance or subtly change your gender presentation--so just keep that in mind when trying stuff on.

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    Erin The RedErin The Red The Name's Erin! Woman, Podcaster, Dungeon Master, IT nerd, Parent, Trans. AMA Baton Rouge, LARegistered User regular
    edited August 2017
    Ok well thanks :)

    I need to like narrow down to one from each group I think and go from there.

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    I feel like the second and third would be bigger departures from my normal? Which is kinda what I'm looking for at this point. I also like color. So the black and green I think may be the way to go?

    Hrm. Need to check their return policy

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    ZayZay yes i am zay Registered User regular
    Go for the bottom frames, I got plastic frames for the first time and I think I look way better in them than any pair of glasses I have ever worn

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    GundiGundi Serious Bismuth Registered User regular
    Honestly though I think the best way to buy glasses is to try wearing them in a store, and y'know, looking in a mirror and just seeing if there's anything about a frame that bugs you. I managed to get two pairs for the price of one (with lenses included!) last time I went, which was great because about three months ago I accidentally sat on my glasses.

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    Erin The RedErin The Red The Name's Erin! Woman, Podcaster, Dungeon Master, IT nerd, Parent, Trans. AMA Baton Rouge, LARegistered User regular
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    Gundi wrote: »
    Honestly though I think the best way to buy glasses is to try wearing them in a store, and y'know, looking in a mirror and just seeing if there's anything about a frame that bugs you. I managed to get two pairs for the price of one (with lenses included!) last time I went, which was great because about three months ago I accidentally sat on my glasses.

    I agree! But the thought of catching shit from some crappy salesperson for looking at the women's glasses makes my blood run cold. I don't do confrontation well, as I learned yesterday haha

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    TankHammerTankHammer Atlanta Ghostbuster Atlanta, GARegistered User regular
    I love the color of the blue and the green frames. The green is the best compromise between versatility and color.

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    credeikicredeiki Registered User regular
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    Gundi wrote: »
    Honestly though I think the best way to buy glasses is to try wearing them in a store, and y'know, looking in a mirror and just seeing if there's anything about a frame that bugs you. I managed to get two pairs for the price of one (with lenses included!) last time I went, which was great because about three months ago I accidentally sat on my glasses.

    I agree! But the thought of catching shit from some crappy salesperson for looking at the women's glasses makes my blood run cold. I don't do confrontation well, as I learned yesterday haha

    Glasses are generally unisex though, I think? If you look at, for example, Warby Parker, you can shop men's or women's but they're 90% the same frames--same dimensions, same colors! And if you walk into a glasses store, they are not generally separated into men's and women's frames or labeled as such--not anywhere I've been, anyway.

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    AllyxiaAllyxia Registered User regular
    Yeah, the places I've been to were just "Pick and try whatever off the wall."

    Otherwise the sales lady just adjusted the frames to fit my face.

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    DouglasDangerDouglasDanger PennsylvaniaRegistered User regular
    Most glasses stores in Pennsylvania, USA are divided into women's, men's, boys' and girls' sections

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    Magic PinkMagic Pink Tur-Boner-Fed Registered User regular
    Most glasses stores in Pennsylvania, USA are divided into women's, men's, boys' and girls' sections

    I always go to the women's section because the frames are so much cooler and inevitably some employee will come rushing over in a panic to tell me I'm a male in the womens' section

    thank you thank you for that notification do these pink rhinestone frames look as cool as i think they do on me

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    MadicanMadican No face Registered User regular
    I sometimes miss looking over different glasses styles, but then I remind myself that when I had them my nose constantly hurt, my ears constantly hurt, and steam/vapor/major temperature difference was my mortal enemy.

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    TankHammerTankHammer Atlanta Ghostbuster Atlanta, GARegistered User regular
    Magic Pink wrote: »
    Most glasses stores in Pennsylvania, USA are divided into women's, men's, boys' and girls' sections

    I always go to the women's section because the frames are so much cooler and inevitably some employee will come rushing over in a panic to tell me I'm a male in the womens' section

    thank you thank you for that notification do these pink rhinestone frames look as cool as i think they do on me

    Well at least they tried to preserve your presumed fragile masculinity! How kind of them to cater to the delicate sex like that. :tell_me_more:

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    SpuzSpuz Registered User regular
    I know a few of the online glasses sites have a virtual try on feature where you can upload a photo and see what they look like on your face. Not quite as accurate as trying them on in person, but it's better than nothing.

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    Erin The RedErin The Red The Name's Erin! Woman, Podcaster, Dungeon Master, IT nerd, Parent, Trans. AMA Baton Rouge, LARegistered User regular
    You really gotta be there to figure out the mouth feel for your glasses you know?

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    The BetgirlThe Betgirl I'm Molly! Registered User regular
    don't put the tester glasses in your mouth trv don't do that

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    Erin The RedErin The Red The Name's Erin! Woman, Podcaster, Dungeon Master, IT nerd, Parent, Trans. AMA Baton Rouge, LARegistered User regular
    don't put the tester glasses in your mouth trv don't do that

    Sucked it like a crawfish head

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    MadicanMadican No face Registered User regular
    I used to have these kind of gel-like frames that I would sometimes nibble on the tips. No real reason why other than they were somehow near my mouth. My pens used to suffer a similar fate.

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    KochikensKochikens Registered User regular
    edited August 2017
    I am currently rocking thhheeesee bad boys. Not me, but online models. I would especially say to try them on in store, because IMO the most important thing is that they sit below your eyebrows. if they match up perfectly with them, you lose your facial expression. And like, you need that!! Don't be afraid to go big. However I go for a v genderqueer style so ymmv take my advice with grain o salt


    these are ace & tate.. does it exist elsewhere? It isn't gender separated at all, which is nice for meee. And they give me a good range of vision but I like that they fade out to clear on the bottom so they sort of disappear on my face after bringing attention to my peepers
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    Magic PinkMagic Pink Tur-Boner-Fed Registered User regular
    don't put the tester glasses in your mouth trv don't do that

    Sucked it like a crawfish head

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    OghulkOghulk Tinychat Janitor TinychatRegistered User regular
    Magic Pink wrote: »
    don't put the tester glasses in your mouth trv don't do that

    Sucked it like a crawfish head

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    nasty as in sexy then yes

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    TankHammerTankHammer Atlanta Ghostbuster Atlanta, GARegistered User regular
    Oghulk wrote: »
    Magic Pink wrote: »
    don't put the tester glasses in your mouth trv don't do that

    Sucked it like a crawfish head

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    nasty as in sexy then yes

    Please rate it from 1 to Ms. Jackson.

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    MalReynoldsMalReynolds The Hunter S Thompson of incredibly mild medicines Registered User regular
    TankHammer wrote: »
    Oghulk wrote: »
    Magic Pink wrote: »
    don't put the tester glasses in your mouth trv don't do that

    Sucked it like a crawfish head

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    nasty as in sexy then yes

    Please rate it from 1 to Ms. Jackson.

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    Erin The RedErin The Red The Name's Erin! Woman, Podcaster, Dungeon Master, IT nerd, Parent, Trans. AMA Baton Rouge, LARegistered User regular
    Are you for reeeeeal

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    OghulkOghulk Tinychat Janitor TinychatRegistered User regular
    TankHammer wrote: »
    Oghulk wrote: »
    Magic Pink wrote: »
    don't put the tester glasses in your mouth trv don't do that

    Sucked it like a crawfish head

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    nasty as in sexy then yes

    Please rate it from 1 to Ms. Jackson.

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    FencingsaxFencingsax It is difficult to get a man to understand, when his salary depends upon his not understanding GNU Terry PratchettRegistered User regular
    You missed your shot, Mal

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    GundiGundi Serious Bismuth Registered User regular
    Apropros of nothing I managed to super impress an old guy at the hospital where I work because he set up a "16 Tons" song joke and I nailed it!

    I knew my interest in really, really old music would pay off some day!

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    TankHammerTankHammer Atlanta Ghostbuster Atlanta, GARegistered User regular
    Oh thank god that joke landed. It was a total shot in the dark!

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