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That is a seriously weird extremely paranoid view of thinking. That if you don't control them all the time they'll fly out of control and lead you to do things you wouldn't. That's... just not how people work.
It's... well, it's very christian.
it's the view of someone who's concerned with self-improvement?
if I'm not conscious of my thought patterns I tend to fall down several different wells of self-harmful actions; neglecting relationships and work, treating my body like crap, etc
and like, I think it's self-evident that how you think about people influences the way you act towards those people? It's weird that this is controversial. Like, iono, I have a coworker whose conservative and believes a bunch of conspiracy theory crap. If I always thought of him as a idiot then I would end up treating him like an idiot, ignoring his input even where it might be valuable, and just being generally rude. But while he has some bad ideas and opinions he's genuinely good at his job and not worth dismissing, and even if he wasn't I have to work with him so I can't spend every day pissed off at him. So I try to recast my thoughts when I think about it, to be more humanizing to him, and both my actions towards him are mediated and, eventually, even my unbidden thoughts are mediated.
This actually comes down to something I've wondered my entire life is if other people really do have such amazing control of their own actions because I don't
I need to police my entire brain to keep myself from becoming a shitty human, to force myself into doing work I have no desire to do but needs to be done. To seeing people as people and not annoyances.
yes
there isn't even a self there's all these competing selves with different motivations and things and uh like
stuff
animal instincts
what is in control
etc
that i've read and thought about but i'm tired and can't / am too lazy to articulate
I find it super weird that the conversation about masturbating to someone was immediately equated with thinking about murdering someone, and how Bad Thoughts don't make us Bad
Since when is just having thoughts about sex equatable to murder fantasies?
A trap is for fish: when you've got the fish, you can forget the trap. A snare is for rabbits: when you've got the rabbit, you can forget the snare. Words are for meaning: when you've got the meaning, you can forget the words.
FWW, your traveling for work makes me both curious and jealous.
More importantly, did you bring back any wine from NZed?
San Diego was for work, then was home for about three hours before I made the last minute gut decision to fly out to NY the very next morning to do Christmas with the family. One side of it anyway. I think I spent 12 hour or less in CA.
San Diego was much warmer.
Didn't bring any NZ wine back I'm afraid. Too many other gifts in the suitcase. And I don't really like sauvignon blanc. Some damn good chardonnay for cheap as down there though.
Yeah, not a bit fan of the white wine myself. I’m talking about the good stuff: Pinot Noir from Central Otago and/or Merlot/Syrah from Naiper/Hastings. If I had extra disposable income, I’d be importing multiple cases of that stuff.
I'm quite happy to mail you a bottle if you want.
Postage, shipping, import duty, and local state laws are all a bit fucked here with regards to alcohol. If I lived in another country, I’d totes take you up on the offer.
As it stands, if I get a few extra dollars after I’ve met my commitments (bills, savings, donations to local charity, etc), I have a few emails for a few of the vineyards there that I like, and they have a mechanism worked out with NZWineExport. Where NZWE does all the packing and hoop jumping.
I should just cut out the middle person and move to NZ though.
I find it super weird that the conversation about masturbating to someone was immediately equated with thinking about murdering someone, and how Bad Thoughts don't make us Bad
Since when is just having thoughts about sex equatable to murder fantasies?
Well when you're doing everything right...
I would like some money because these are artisanal nuggets of wisdom philistine.
i was raised to believe cool kids offering me free, high quality drugs and friendship would be a way bigger problem than its turned out to be
when i was slinging back in the 90s i would sometimes get kids who would just like
assume i would give them drugs for free?
they'd be like "isn't the first one free?"
i would laugh and laugh and then be like what no the first one is $10 you doink, get outta here with that shit
or like, i'd be at a party and i'd be the connect and someone would be like "y'know dude someone just told me you're the guy and like, what the fuck you haven't said anything or offered me anything"
and i'm like motherfucker I don't advertise, you come to me
i'm not gonna push this shit on you like "hey do it if you wanna be cool"
do it or do not, i don't fuckin care, i want your money and if you wanna make a transaction i'm here for you
I find it super weird that the conversation about masturbating to someone was immediately equated with thinking about murdering someone, and how Bad Thoughts don't make us Bad
Since when is just having thoughts about sex equatable to murder fantasies?
Allow me to introduce you to the darkest of Venn diagrams
I find it super weird that the conversation about masturbating to someone was immediately equated with thinking about murdering someone, and how Bad Thoughts don't make us Bad
Since when is just having thoughts about sex equatable to murder fantasies?
I didn't choose the yandere life, the yandere life chose me
I find it super weird that the conversation about masturbating to someone was immediately equated with thinking about murdering someone, and how Bad Thoughts don't make us Bad
Since when is just having thoughts about sex equatable to murder fantasies?
either a joke about la petite mort or something about american prudishness
I find it super weird that the conversation about masturbating to someone was immediately equated with thinking about murdering someone, and how Bad Thoughts don't make us Bad
Since when is just having thoughts about sex equatable to murder fantasies?
I didn't choose the yandere life, the yandere life chose me
the tsundere life doesn't care about what life you chose
i was raised to believe cool kids offering me free, high quality drugs and friendship would be a way bigger problem than its turned out to be
when i was slinging back in the 90s i would sometimes get kids who would just like
assume i would give them drugs for free?
they'd be like "isn't the first one free?"
i would laugh and laugh and then be like what no the first one is $10 you doink, get outta here with that shit
or like, i'd be at a party and i'd be the connect and someone would be like "y'know dude someone just told me you're the guy and like, what the fuck you haven't said anything or offered me anything"
and i'm like motherfucker I don't advertise, you come to me
i'm not gonna push this shit on you like "hey do it if you wanna be cool"
do it or do not, i don't fuckin care, i want your money and if you wanna make a transaction i'm here for you
elsewise fuck outta here
wait are YOU the cool kid i know who offered me drugs
omg
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I find it super weird that the conversation about masturbating to someone was immediately equated with thinking about murdering someone, and how Bad Thoughts don't make us Bad
Since when is just having thoughts about sex equatable to murder fantasies?
That’s not what I was going for at all, I used it as the most obvious answer that thoughts do not lead to actions. Because that is what the discussion was about then.
i was raised to believe cool kids offering me free, high quality drugs and friendship would be a way bigger problem than its turned out to be
when i was slinging back in the 90s i would sometimes get kids who would just like
assume i would give them drugs for free?
they'd be like "isn't the first one free?"
i would laugh and laugh and then be like what no the first one is $10 you doink, get outta here with that shit
or like, i'd be at a party and i'd be the connect and someone would be like "y'know dude someone just told me you're the guy and like, what the fuck you haven't said anything or offered me anything"
and i'm like motherfucker I don't advertise, you come to me
i'm not gonna push this shit on you like "hey do it if you wanna be cool"
do it or do not, i don't fuckin care, i want your money and if you wanna make a transaction i'm here for you
elsewise fuck outta here
wait are YOU the cool kid i know who offered me drugs
omg
i mean how much weed did you guys smoke before i brought it into your house
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one of my roommates is moving out and we have another girl moving in
so now the house is 3 girls and Brian
today on 3 girls and Brian
*girls up stairs drinking wine*
S: So do you have any plans ton-
BRIAN DOWNSTAIRS IN HIS ROOM: MOTHER FUCK YOU GENJI AND THE MERCY YOU RODE FUCKING REFLECT NEVER WORKS FOR ME LIKE *MUFFLED*
S:-night or are you just staying in again?
one of my roommates is moving out and we have another girl moving in
so now the house is 3 girls and Brian
today on 3 girls and Brian
*girls up stairs drinking wine*
S: So do you have any plans ton-
BRIAN DOWNSTAIRS IN HIS ROOM: MOTHER FUCK YOU GENJI AND THE MERCY YOU RODE FUCKING REFLECT NEVER WORKS FOR ME LIKE *MUFFLED*
S:-night or are you just staying in again?
one of my roommates is moving out and we have another girl moving in
so now the house is 3 girls and Brian
today on 3 girls and Brian
*girls up stairs drinking wine*
S: So do you have any plans ton-
BRIAN DOWNSTAIRS IN HIS ROOM: MOTHER FUCK YOU GENJI AND THE MERCY YOU RODE FUCKING REFLECT NEVER WORKS FOR ME LIKE *MUFFLED*
S:-night or are you just staying in again?
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yes
there isn't even a self there's all these competing selves with different motivations and things and uh like
stuff
animal instincts
what is in control
etc
that i've read and thought about but i'm tired and can't / am too lazy to articulate
pleasepaypreacher.net
Arch,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_goGR39m2k
Love you chat, be wonderful to each other!
Since when is just having thoughts about sex equatable to murder fantasies?
Postage, shipping, import duty, and local state laws are all a bit fucked here with regards to alcohol. If I lived in another country, I’d totes take you up on the offer.
As it stands, if I get a few extra dollars after I’ve met my commitments (bills, savings, donations to local charity, etc), I have a few emails for a few of the vineyards there that I like, and they have a mechanism worked out with NZWineExport. Where NZWE does all the packing and hoop jumping.
I should just cut out the middle person and move to NZ though.
shrooms for every man woman and dog
Well when you're doing everything right...
pleasepaypreacher.net
when i was slinging back in the 90s i would sometimes get kids who would just like
assume i would give them drugs for free?
they'd be like "isn't the first one free?"
i would laugh and laugh and then be like what no the first one is $10 you doink, get outta here with that shit
or like, i'd be at a party and i'd be the connect and someone would be like "y'know dude someone just told me you're the guy and like, what the fuck you haven't said anything or offered me anything"
and i'm like motherfucker I don't advertise, you come to me
i'm not gonna push this shit on you like "hey do it if you wanna be cool"
do it or do not, i don't fuckin care, i want your money and if you wanna make a transaction i'm here for you
elsewise fuck outta here
Don't be culturally insensitive about Philly traditions.
Allow me to introduce you to the darkest of Venn diagrams
pleasepaypreacher.net
the tsundere life doesn't care about what life you chose
baka
wait are YOU the cool kid i know who offered me drugs
omg
That’s not what I was going for at all, I used it as the most obvious answer that thoughts do not lead to actions. Because that is what the discussion was about then.
i mean how much weed did you guys smoke before i brought it into your house
rent's due
First and last plus security and cleaning.
so now the house is 3 girls and Brian
today on 3 girls and Brian
*girls up stairs drinking wine*
S: So do you have any plans ton-
BRIAN DOWNSTAIRS IN HIS ROOM: MOTHER FUCK YOU GENJI AND THE MERCY YOU RODE FUCKING REFLECT NEVER WORKS FOR ME LIKE *MUFFLED*
S:-night or are you just staying in again?
Arch,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_goGR39m2k
Arch,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_goGR39m2k
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