After the last raid on my bhole, it was a real molten core, let me tell you
+5
MrMisterJesus dying on the cross in pain? Morally better than us. One has to go "all in".Registered Userregular
edited October 2019
I’ve been on and off PrEP a couple times, but only when I was cruising. There are reasons not to take it just in case as an addition to condoms, let alone in addition to condoms in a closed monogamous relationship. Namely, it has kidney and bone toxicities, and also it is often free/cheap for consumers after insurance and rebates but costs the health system a bunch of money because we’re dumb monsters about patents.
That being said, I haven’t looked up the most recent indications: maybe they’re going all in on PrEP for everyone, even people in closed relationships who use condoms (but that strikes me as insane but what do I know)
PrEP is really important for people who are raw doggin it on the regular and/or people where every now and then they get too drunk and oops just put it in (but then it’s okay because of that pill you take every day)
A problematic but pioneering queer musical, like the Rocky Horror Picture Show or Hedwig
dk senpai
0
Deebaseron my way to work in a suit and a tieAhhhh...come on fucking guyRegistered Userregular
Vanguard is pissing me the fuck off. The feed we use to determine board positions doesn’t actually have good data for the board of Vanguard because of the way that ETFs are set up, they aren’t showing as a “real” company. I’m basically putting in my transition documentation “yeah... you gotta get the current board members from the about page on their website and look everyone up individually. Good luck w/ dat. Peace.”
0
MrMisterJesus dying on the cross in pain? Morally better than us. One has to go "all in".Registered Userregular
Also yes, if you have an HIV positive partner who’s undetectable and continually medication compliant you don’t need condoms
U = U is the big public health slogan now (undetectable = untransmittable)
Also yes, if you have an HIV positive partner who’s undetectable and continually medication compliant you don’t need condoms
U = U is the big public health slogan now (undetectable = untransmittable)
Between this, PreP, and if we every actually did proper like test and treat in high risk parts of the world also providing meds for cheap/free we could actually get really close to eradicating* HIV.
I’ve been on and off PrEP a couple times, but only when I was cruising. There are reasons not to take it just in case as an addition to condoms, let alone in addition to condoms in a closed monogamous relationship. Namely, it has kidney and bone toxicities, and also it is often free/cheap for consumers after insurance and rebates but costs the health system a bunch of money because we’re dumb monsters about patents.
That being said, I haven’t looked up the most recent indications: maybe they’re going all in on PrEP for everyone, even people in closed relationships who use condoms (but that strikes me as insane but what do I know)
PrEP is really important for people who are raw doggin it on the regular and/or people where every now and then they get too drunk and oops just put it in (but then it’s okay because of that pill you take every day)
<.<
>.>
husband and I have been doing some monogamish cruising type stuff lately and honestly i think it has improved our relationship in surprising ways
we were talking about going on PrEP together but neither of us are very much into anal so I'm not sure the utility of it except as a safeguard
there is like no rule book for us so I never know if occasional cruising stuff would lead to a big fracture in our relationship but we talk it over a bunch and give permission and agree that if it causes jealousy or becomes problematic we stop
curious what all the chat thoughts are on this
+2
surfpossumA nonentitytrying to preserve the anonymity he so richly deserves.Registered Userregular
Also, to answer the thread, 1776 is the greatest film.
I think you'll be much more satisfied with this one
The literal ONLY THING is going up to 16 gb of RAM, but that's dependent on use case and might not even be necessary, and 8GB of DDR4 2400 RAM is fucking cheap.
I may even have 16 GB of 2600 DDR4 swimming around.
Vanguard is pissing me the fuck off. The feed we use to determine board positions doesn’t actually have good data for the board of Vanguard because of the way that ETFs are set up, they aren’t showing as a “real” company. I’m basically putting in my transition documentation “yeah... you gotta get the current board members from the about page on their website and look everyone up individually. Good luck w/ dat. Peace.”
@Vanguard man you've been busy fucking with people lately
Honk honk I’m a fuckin goose motherfuckers and I got the fuckin bell and I’m gonna go back again later and fuckin goose some more cuz I’m a fuckin goose
+2
jungleroomxIt's never too many graves, it's always not enough shovelsRegistered Userregular
A stealth musical, like O Brother Where Art Thou? or A Hard Day's Night
The hardest part of building a computer is connecting all the power cables to your power supply correctly and snaking your hands around everything to connect things to the motherboard.
no, don't talk to me about cable management
That 4 pin mobo power connector at the fucking top.
+1
MrMisterJesus dying on the cross in pain? Morally better than us. One has to go "all in".Registered Userregular
Also yes, if you have an HIV positive partner who’s undetectable and continually medication compliant you don’t need condoms
U = U is the big public health slogan now (undetectable = untransmittable)
Between this, PreP, and if we every actually did proper like test and treat in high risk parts of the world also providing meds for cheap/free we could actually get really close to eradicating* HIV.
We don't because a shit ton of stupid reasons.
But we could.
And in our lifetime!
*Eradicating here means stopping new cases.
The 90-90-90 goal is still a dream and yet everyone thinks funding’s going to be evaporating over the next decade so -.-
A problematic but pioneering queer musical, like the Rocky Horror Picture Show or Hedwig
i looked at r/gaybros to see if there were other monogamish couples but nearly all posts were that if you cruised or didn't have a deep and loving connection with every man you met (not in a gay bar though, only through dating and classic heteroromantic tropes) then you were garbage
I’ve been on and off PrEP a couple times, but only when I was cruising. There are reasons not to take it just in case as an addition to condoms, let alone in addition to condoms in a closed monogamous relationship. Namely, it has kidney and bone toxicities, and also it is often free/cheap for consumers after insurance and rebates but costs the health system a bunch of money because we’re dumb monsters about patents.
That being said, I haven’t looked up the most recent indications: maybe they’re going all in on PrEP for everyone, even people in closed relationships who use condoms (but that strikes me as insane but what do I know)
PrEP is really important for people who are raw doggin it on the regular and/or people where every now and then they get too drunk and oops just put it in (but then it’s okay because of that pill you take every day)
<.<
>.>
husband and I have been doing some monogamish cruising type stuff lately and honestly i think it has improved our relationship in surprising ways
we were talking about going on PrEP together but neither of us are very much into anal so I'm not sure the utility of it except as a safeguard
there is like no rule book for us so I never know if occasional cruising stuff would lead to a big fracture in our relationship but we talk it over a bunch and give permission and agree that if it causes jealousy or becomes problematic we stop
curious what all the chat thoughts are on this
You and your husband do whatever y'all comfortable with and communicate about.
Vanguard is pissing me the fuck off. The feed we use to determine board positions doesn’t actually have good data for the board of Vanguard because of the way that ETFs are set up, they aren’t showing as a “real” company. I’m basically putting in my transition documentation “yeah... you gotta get the current board members from the about page on their website and look everyone up individually. Good luck w/ dat. Peace.”
How the fuck does anyone here expect to be a wizard if they can’t handle volcel life?
+2
MrMisterJesus dying on the cross in pain? Morally better than us. One has to go "all in".Registered Userregular
Yeah fcc it sounds like yr approaching this in a pretty sensible way and like it’s been working out so far!
MrMrMister and I are open and he fucks around a lot and I mostly don’t. It’s been okay so far. I think distance might be more of a problem than it already is if he weren’t.
Also yes, if you have an HIV positive partner who’s undetectable and continually medication compliant you don’t need condoms
U = U is the big public health slogan now (undetectable = untransmittable)
Between this, PreP, and if we every actually did proper like test and treat in high risk parts of the world also providing meds for cheap/free we could actually get really close to eradicating* HIV.
We don't because a shit ton of stupid reasons.
But we could.
And in our lifetime!
*Eradicating here means stopping new cases.
The 90-90-90 goal is still a dream and yet everyone thinks funding’s going to be evaporating over the next decade so -.-
The future!!
In grad school I met one of the people who actually came up with test and treat. And his folks did a cost estimate. If we did the investment then (2012ish?) and continued it the overall cost to do it everywhere including Africa was well below the estimated cost of not doing for the same amount of time.
But the upfront bill was really high. And that was kind of pre-PreP really hitting the scene.
+2
BethrynUnhappiness is MandatoryRegistered Userregular
I’ve been on and off PrEP a couple times, but only when I was cruising. There are reasons not to take it just in case as an addition to condoms, let alone in addition to condoms in a closed monogamous relationship. Namely, it has kidney and bone toxicities, and also it is often free/cheap for consumers after insurance and rebates but costs the health system a bunch of money because we’re dumb monsters about patents.
That being said, I haven’t looked up the most recent indications: maybe they’re going all in on PrEP for everyone, even people in closed relationships who use condoms (but that strikes me as insane but what do I know)
PrEP is really important for people who are raw doggin it on the regular and/or people where every now and then they get too drunk and oops just put it in (but then it’s okay because of that pill you take every day)
<.<
>.>
husband and I have been doing some monogamish cruising type stuff lately and honestly i think it has improved our relationship in surprising ways
we were talking about going on PrEP together but neither of us are very much into anal so I'm not sure the utility of it except as a safeguard
there is like no rule book for us so I never know if occasional cruising stuff would lead to a big fracture in our relationship but we talk it over a bunch and give permission and agree that if it causes jealousy or becomes problematic we stop
curious what all the chat thoughts are on this
I dunno
Sounds risky
Humans are naturally monogamous
We just aren't wired for multiple partners
every person who doesn't like an acquired taste always seems to think everyone who likes it is faking it. it should be an official fallacy.
A problematic but pioneering queer musical, like the Rocky Horror Picture Show or Hedwig
when I say no rule book for us I mean like
we already transgressed the big ones: don't be gay
so like part of queer life is making your own rules
but then I feel like I have betrayed our striving for gay marriage by also being monogamish
which is so stupid to feel that
0
jungleroomxIt's never too many graves, it's always not enough shovelsRegistered Userregular
A stealth musical, like O Brother Where Art Thou? or A Hard Day's Night
even though I am literally learning everything from scratch because I didn't even look at it until I absolutely have to, I am enjoying (slowly) figuring out how to do what each task asks of me - breaking it down into steps, then figuring out how to do each step
I'd probably enjoy this a lot more if I wasn't on a strict time schedule to finish all of it by tomorrow 23:59 also with time to do the 3d modelling and the lab, but hey
A problematic but pioneering queer musical, like the Rocky Horror Picture Show or Hedwig
do i need to let everyone on our wedding registry know that we went to a nude beach and got down with other people
should i have some sort of patreon to update them
I’ve been on and off PrEP a couple times, but only when I was cruising. There are reasons not to take it just in case as an addition to condoms, let alone in addition to condoms in a closed monogamous relationship. Namely, it has kidney and bone toxicities, and also it is often free/cheap for consumers after insurance and rebates but costs the health system a bunch of money because we’re dumb monsters about patents.
That being said, I haven’t looked up the most recent indications: maybe they’re going all in on PrEP for everyone, even people in closed relationships who use condoms (but that strikes me as insane but what do I know)
PrEP is really important for people who are raw doggin it on the regular and/or people where every now and then they get too drunk and oops just put it in (but then it’s okay because of that pill you take every day)
<.<
>.>
husband and I have been doing some monogamish cruising type stuff lately and honestly i think it has improved our relationship in surprising ways
we were talking about going on PrEP together but neither of us are very much into anal so I'm not sure the utility of it except as a safeguard
there is like no rule book for us so I never know if occasional cruising stuff would lead to a big fracture in our relationship but we talk it over a bunch and give permission and agree that if it causes jealousy or becomes problematic we stop
curious what all the chat thoughts are on this
oh boo i asked a deep question on botp 99
welp there goes that forever
I wish I could offer more advice after very recently going poly myself, but I haven't actually had any additional partners yet since it's only been a couple of months and I am kind of grappling with body image issues
Agreeing on making the shift has been very good for my relationship, personally, and I support this choice if you're both interested and communicating about it!
Posts
FDA vs CDC
fight fight fight
CDC probably hasn't updated. FDA does the label stuff, CDC just does the recommendations to the public.
Funny thing I clicked the FDA label site on it and it still matched the CDC. Because government is bad at internet.
That being said, I haven’t looked up the most recent indications: maybe they’re going all in on PrEP for everyone, even people in closed relationships who use condoms (but that strikes me as insane but what do I know)
PrEP is really important for people who are raw doggin it on the regular and/or people where every now and then they get too drunk and oops just put it in (but then it’s okay because of that pill you take every day)
<.<
>.>
U = U is the big public health slogan now (undetectable = untransmittable)
"Too soon..." Man ain't that the truth, bet you were on a real rag after that.
pleasepaypreacher.net
Between this, PreP, and if we every actually did proper like test and treat in high risk parts of the world also providing meds for cheap/free we could actually get really close to eradicating* HIV.
We don't because a shit ton of stupid reasons.
But we could.
And in our lifetime!
*Eradicating here means stopping new cases.
we were talking about going on PrEP together but neither of us are very much into anal so I'm not sure the utility of it except as a safeguard
there is like no rule book for us so I never know if occasional cruising stuff would lead to a big fracture in our relationship but we talk it over a bunch and give permission and agree that if it causes jealousy or becomes problematic we stop
curious what all the chat thoughts are on this
I think you'll be much more satisfied with this one
The literal ONLY THING is going up to 16 gb of RAM, but that's dependent on use case and might not even be necessary, and 8GB of DDR4 2400 RAM is fucking cheap.
I may even have 16 GB of 2600 DDR4 swimming around.
welp there goes that forever
@Vanguard man you've been busy fucking with people lately
That 4 pin mobo power connector at the fucking top.
The 90-90-90 goal is still a dream and yet everyone thinks funding’s going to be evaporating over the next decade so -.-
The future!!
r/gaybros is weird sometimes
You and your husband do whatever y'all comfortable with and communicate about.
@Vanguard
Rain makes me sleepy and tired
It is good I don’t live in London
How the fuck does anyone here expect to be a wizard if they can’t handle volcel life?
MrMrMister and I are open and he fucks around a lot and I mostly don’t. It’s been okay so far. I think distance might be more of a problem than it already is if he weren’t.
In grad school I met one of the people who actually came up with test and treat. And his folks did a cost estimate. If we did the investment then (2012ish?) and continued it the overall cost to do it everywhere including Africa was well below the estimated cost of not doing for the same amount of time.
But the upfront bill was really high. And that was kind of pre-PreP really hitting the scene.
I dunno
Sounds risky
Humans are naturally monogamous
We just aren't wired for multiple partners
the "no true scotch man" fallacy.
we already transgressed the big ones: don't be gay
so like part of queer life is making your own rules
but then I feel like I have betrayed our striving for gay marriage by also being monogamish
which is so stupid to feel that
even though I am literally learning everything from scratch because I didn't even look at it until I absolutely have to, I am enjoying (slowly) figuring out how to do what each task asks of me - breaking it down into steps, then figuring out how to do each step
I'd probably enjoy this a lot more if I wasn't on a strict time schedule to finish all of it by tomorrow 23:59 also with time to do the 3d modelling and the lab, but hey
should i have some sort of patreon to update them
ACTUALLY Feral, that’s not always true 8-)
Get some cool wood ones!
I wish I could offer more advice after very recently going poly myself, but I haven't actually had any additional partners yet since it's only been a couple of months and I am kind of grappling with body image issues
Agreeing on making the shift has been very good for my relationship, personally, and I support this choice if you're both interested and communicating about it!
That's what you keep writing about yourselves, at least :razz:
Way ahead of ya
Switch - SW-7373-3669-3011
Fuck Joe Manchin