Zero, my girlfriend and I have been having sex for a good 4 years now and just recently (Last few months) I found a better way to get her off during sex. You cannot gauge how hard a chick is to please until you have been with her a long while.
I would bet that your problem is likely similar. Positions, positions, positions. Get creative yourself, or possibly find a guide either at a local book store, or the internet.
Yeeeeeah.... one time I lost it after like 5 minutes on accident and she got super pissed. I don't think she'd ever agree to such a thing. Hell, anytime we have sex and she doesn't have an orgasm she gets all pissy...
That really sucks dude. She's putting a lot of pressure on you.
I know you say that if you work at it that she can finish every time, but that might not always be the case.
My wife is pretty good about climaxing, but sometimes, for whatever reason, it's just not going to happen for her. More often that not it's a mental thing and she just can't relax enough.
In those cases she doesn't care and just wants me to have my fun.
Yeeeeeah.... one time I lost it after like 5 minutes on accident and she got super pissed. I don't think she'd ever agree to such a thing. Hell, anytime we have sex and she doesn't have an orgasm she gets all pissy...
That really sucks dude. She's putting a lot of pressure on you.
I know you say that if you work at it that she can finish every time, but that might not always be the case.
My wife is pretty good about climaxing, but sometimes, for whatever reason, it's just not going to happen for her. More often that not it's a mental thing and she just can't relax enough.
In those cases she doesn't care and just wants me to have my fun.
yeah what she is doing to you DEFINITELY isn't normal. Pressure like that doesn't sound fun at all. You need to figure out what you can and cannot tolerate in the bedroom and go from there.
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I don't know, I mean I feel bad getting her all worked up and then leaving her unfulfilled. I know that isn't any fun.
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Were you guys always able to go for half an hour or did you have to go into training or something? I'm having trouble imagining lasting for that long.
Oral is usually how I make sure my girlfriend feels satisfied.
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We've always been like that. Hell, when we were younger we'd crossed the 1 hour mark a number of times.... but that's not really important.
She's into oral, but the majority of the time refuses it. I think she feels she isn't clean enough or something, from getting all sweaty having sex or whatever. It's my penis or nothing, essentially.
She's moving away soon, to a town about 50 miles away. We'll be having sex a lot less often, so this whole thing may not even be much of an issue for the next few months until I move up there too (it's where our college is, she's taking summer courses).
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I would bet that your problem is likely similar. Positions, positions, positions. Get creative yourself, or possibly find a guide either at a local book store, or the internet.
Don't worry, you'll figure it out.
That really sucks dude. She's putting a lot of pressure on you.
I know you say that if you work at it that she can finish every time, but that might not always be the case.
My wife is pretty good about climaxing, but sometimes, for whatever reason, it's just not going to happen for her. More often that not it's a mental thing and she just can't relax enough.
In those cases she doesn't care and just wants me to have my fun.
yeah what she is doing to you DEFINITELY isn't normal. Pressure like that doesn't sound fun at all. You need to figure out what you can and cannot tolerate in the bedroom and go from there.
Or vibrators? Just because it isn't your penis doesn't mean you aren't the one pleasuring her.
The harder the rain, honey, the sweeter the sun.
Were you guys always able to go for half an hour or did you have to go into training or something? I'm having trouble imagining lasting for that long.
Oral is usually how I make sure my girlfriend feels satisfied.
She's into oral, but the majority of the time refuses it. I think she feels she isn't clean enough or something, from getting all sweaty having sex or whatever. It's my penis or nothing, essentially.
She's moving away soon, to a town about 50 miles away. We'll be having sex a lot less often, so this whole thing may not even be much of an issue for the next few months until I move up there too (it's where our college is, she's taking summer courses).