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I Really Hope the [Kids] are alright

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  • AldoAldo Hippo Hooray Registered User regular
    Corvus wrote: »
    Also my five year old has entered “never shuts up” age. This might be slightly easier if coffee didn’t taste like crap to me.

    Yoooo, exactly the same here. It takes soooo much patience.

  • KalnaurKalnaur I See Rain . . . Centralia, WARegistered User regular
    Caffeine gives me migraines. But I doubt that would make parenting easier. Then again, my kiddo isn't a talker, maybe it would help with that in particular.

    No, my kid is silent and a mischief engine. That's hard to stop unless they're locked down into a single space, and even then chaos options are nearly endless.

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  • TheStigTheStig Registered User regular
    edited July 2021
    Aldo wrote: »
    Corvus wrote: »
    Also my five year old has entered “never shuts up” age. This might be slightly easier if coffee didn’t taste like crap to me.

    Yoooo, exactly the same here. It takes soooo much patience.

    My daughter has been that age since she was like 1.

    I assume it will a lot more annoying when she enters the asking questions all the time phase.

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  • AldoAldo Hippo Hooray Registered User regular
    look dad, look. DAD look, LOOK dad

    *does something mundane*

    DID YA SEE?

  • MegaMan001MegaMan001 CRNA Rochester, MNRegistered User regular
    Aldo wrote: »
    look dad, look. DAD look, LOOK dad

    *does something mundane*

    DID YA SEE?

    *Rubs bridge of nose*

    I am in the business of saving lives.
  • ahavaahava Call me Ahava ~~She/Her~~ Move to New ZealandRegistered User regular
    Corvus wrote: »
    Also my five year old has entered “never shuts up” age. This might be slightly easier if coffee didn’t taste like crap to me.

    It's not.

  • ahavaahava Call me Ahava ~~She/Her~~ Move to New ZealandRegistered User regular
    TheStig wrote: »
    Aldo wrote: »
    Corvus wrote: »
    Also my five year old has entered “never shuts up” age. This might be slightly easier if coffee didn’t taste like crap to me.

    Yoooo, exactly the same here. It takes soooo much patience.

    My daughter has been that age since she was like 1.

    I assume it will a lot more annoying when she enters the asking questions all the time phase.

    It does.

  • mrpakumrpaku Registered User regular
    Ten hours into a cross country road trip, and the boys need for nothing. I close my eyes, for three frigging minutes:

    TW: Dad, can I have goldfish? Can I have some more? Can I have some more? Can I...

    MG: Dad, dad...dad, look! Look dad! Look at my legs, dad! (Sure enough, they're...legs)

    LM: Dad, what time is it...again? And where are we...do you think? And are we almost home yet? And when we get home...

  • CorvusCorvus . VancouverRegistered User regular
    So we did our first road trip as a family of four recently and let me tell you having the five year olds tablet paired with his own Bluetooth headphones made a big difference.

    :so_raven:
  • DaMoonRulzDaMoonRulz Mare ImbriumRegistered User regular
    So who else gets to hear about their kid's past life?

    So far Athena has been pretty consistent talking about the same named people and at some point I was in her tummy! I didn't ask if it was me me or past me.

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  • amethystoakamethystoak Registered User regular
    DaMoonRulz wrote: »
    So who else gets to hear about their kid's past life?

    So far Athena has been pretty consistent talking about the same named people and at some point I was in her tummy! I didn't ask if it was me me or past me.

    My 3 year old keeps telling us that she brushed her teeth a million years ago. Does that count?

  • Captain InertiaCaptain Inertia Central OhioRegistered User regular
    The contradictory instructions/logistics of newborn rearing is bullshit

    There needs to be a triage priority instead of implicit parent-shaming for not being able to do 60 minutes of necessary stuff in the hard 15 minute window

    And I’m not even the parent that is breast feeding while having a giant hole in her uterus

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  • CroakerBCCroakerBC TorontoRegistered User regular
    We threw in the towel tonight and gave the small one some baby Tylenol. Poor little man just isn’t sleeping, presumably because of pain from his teething. But it’s 04:30, and he needs to sleep more than an hour or two at a time, and so do we.

    Got to remind myself that this isn’t actually failure.

  • ahavaahava Call me Ahava ~~She/Her~~ Move to New ZealandRegistered User regular
    It's not failure.

    Medicine is there to help you to help them. We invented and improved it as a species for a reason.

  • CroakerBCCroakerBC TorontoRegistered User regular
    edited July 2021
    It's not failure.

    Medicine is there to help you to help them. We invented and improved it as a species for a reason.

    My actual brain knows this.
    My “but we shouldn’t give it to him unless necessary” brain is stupid and hasn’t had enough sleep.

    ETA: to clarify, medicine is good! Always just fretting if he needs painkillers, or just has gas, or is unhappy it’s not playtime any more, or, or… ; don’t want to be trying to fix the wrong thing.

    Hopefully it’s easier when they can talk?

    On the plus side, we were repaid for our hubris with a blowout diaper this morning.

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  • schussschuss Registered User regular
    Yeah, plus cutting teeth is something you only do once. Even if it happened later, it's not like bumping your knee or something. There's a reason we forget everything pre-4 at some point...

  • MegaMan001MegaMan001 CRNA Rochester, MNRegistered User regular
    CroakerBC wrote: »
    It's not failure.

    Medicine is there to help you to help them. We invented and improved it as a species for a reason.

    My actual brain knows this.
    My “but we shouldn’t give it to him unless necessary” brain is stupid and hasn’t had enough sleep.

    On the plus side, we were repaid for our hubris with a blowout diaper this morning.

    That's tough to work through, but Tylenol and Ibuprofen isn't failure. They were made to make kids feel better. Also, it may make you feel better to know my kids drank gallons of both while teething.

    Some kids teeth harder than others.

    I am in the business of saving lives.
  • Kane Red RobeKane Red Robe Master of Magic ArcanusRegistered User regular
    We were explicitly told by our pediatrician to give Lore Motrin (Ibuprofen) when she was teething. It was a very small dose, but painkillers exist for people in pain, and teething hurts.

  • ProlegomenaProlegomena Frictionless Spinning The VoidRegistered User regular
    I suppose you've got to find your own compass for this stuff.

    For me first child was like "oh we will soothe him with lavender and organic pillows made of the finest wools" and second child led to things in my search history like "is it ok to give a child anti-histamine just so it goes the fuck to sleep".

  • MNC DoverMNC Dover Full-time Voice Actor Kirkland, WARegistered User regular
    Posting this in both parenting threads due to hype:

    My kids were at grandma's house this weekend, and on Sunday, my son wasn't wearing a diaper. I've been trying to push him in this direction for a while and he's been really good about sitting down and using his toilet. But the moment I tried pulling up his underwear without a diaper, he went into a frenzied panic attack.

    So what changed? Apparently the were at the YMCA and another grandma was their with her grandson of about the same age. The ladies were talking and the other woman politely told my son that boys his age don't need to wear diapers. That was it. He literally said, "OK" and was cool all day without wearing a diaper. When he felt the urge to pee, he asked to go to the bathroom. He did have a poop accident, but that's to be expected.

    But, WTF? How does this wise old YMCA woman do what I cannot? Probably because she's a stranger and not a parent. Regardless, are we actually nearing the end of the diaper phase?! HYPE!

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  • ElvenshaeElvenshae Registered User regular
    The End of the Diaper Phase is one of the best parts of parenting.

    It's so much easier to do things when you can just cut out 3/4 of your logistics train.

  • MegaMan001MegaMan001 CRNA Rochester, MNRegistered User regular
    MNC Dover wrote: »
    Posting this in both parenting threads due to hype:

    My kids were at grandma's house this weekend, and on Sunday, my son wasn't wearing a diaper. I've been trying to push him in this direction for a while and he's been really good about sitting down and using his toilet. But the moment I tried pulling up his underwear without a diaper, he went into a frenzied panic attack.

    So what changed? Apparently the were at the YMCA and another grandma was their with her grandson of about the same age. The ladies were talking and the other woman politely told my son that boys his age don't need to wear diapers. That was it. He literally said, "OK" and was cool all day without wearing a diaper. When he felt the urge to pee, he asked to go to the bathroom. He did have a poop accident, but that's to be expected.

    But, WTF? How does this wise old YMCA woman do what I cannot? Probably because she's a stranger and not a parent. Regardless, are we actually nearing the end of the diaper phase?! HYPE!

    Social Cues and or pressure is real. My daughter just decided to start using the potty because the big kids at daycare did and she wanted to be like them.

    I am in the business of saving lives.
  • sponospono Mining for Nose Diamonds Booger CoveRegistered User regular
    Our boy peed in the potty for the first time yesterday

    So, potty training complete? Job well done, right?

    Right?

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  • AldoAldo Hippo Hooray Registered User regular
    spono wrote: »
    Our boy peed in the potty for the first time yesterday

    So, potty training complete? Job well done, right?

    Right?

    Well congratulations anyway, it's a great first step.

  • SharpyVIISharpyVII Registered User regular
    Pretty sure I've broken my two little toes by accidentally kicking his little trike this morning....

  • CruorCruor Registered User regular
    Anyone have any good tips for separation anxiety? My almost 3 year old is getting to the point where I can't leave the room without him screaming and crying. It's stressing out my partner as well since she stays home with the kids when I go to work, and the daily "daddy is out of eyesight" tantrums are getting out of hand.

    The separation anxiety makes sense, I had very very bad separation anxiety when I was little. I feel like daycare helped my older one out of his separation anxiety but that was pre-pandemic and I'm not super comfortable (either emotionally or financially) with setting up the 3 year old with daycare.

  • CorvusCorvus . VancouverRegistered User regular
    Aldo wrote: »
    spono wrote: »
    Our boy peed in the potty for the first time yesterday

    So, potty training complete? Job well done, right?

    Right?

    Well congratulations anyway, it's a great first step.

    There may also be several steps around pools of liquid on the floor.

    :so_raven:
  • PeenPeen Registered User regular
    Whelp, made it to 10 2/3 before daughter number one got her first period. Our efforts to inform and normalize body stuff seem to have worked for now, she's taken it in stride and seems to be in good spirits (and the ice cream sundaes probably don't hurt), but I don't know how much fuss to make. I want to acknowledge that it's a big deal without making it weird, any advice from other period having folks would be greatly appreciated.

  • ahavaahava Call me Ahava ~~She/Her~~ Move to New ZealandRegistered User regular
    The first person I called was my father.

    There's a big difference between knowing that it's a gross thing to go through, without that also translating into the kid not being gross.

    That was badly worded.


    There's a lot of stuff out there right now about how periods aren't gross, they're natural and beautiful. And sure the idea and the process and the "wow generating life" might be theoretically beautiful, but the actual act of the whole thing can be quite gross.

    Your kid isn't broken of they think the whole thing is a bit yuck. It is. But that doesn't mean that they are yuck. Just the whole process is.


    I was 13, about to have my Bat mitzvah, and so was ready.

    Go through some sustainable options with them, reusable pads and undies exist and are pretty easy to take care of. Moon cups are also a thing, but I'm not sure I'd love that if I wasn't even 11 yet.


    Good luck, friend

  • honoverehonovere Registered User regular
    So apparently, all the masking and lockdowns in the last year might not have actually removed all the other winter diseases from the calendar but shoved them all into the summer months instead. At least here all the kids are currently having respiratory diseases. Can't go anywhere without hearing sneezing and coughing kids. Pediatrician told us it doesn't only seem that way, it really is a big wave like they never had in summer before.

    Ours has had bronchitis twice and a middle ear infection within a month. At least she's gotten used to the inhaler.

  • ahavaahava Call me Ahava ~~She/Her~~ Move to New ZealandRegistered User regular
    We're being hit with a massive RSV infections all through the country down here. But at least it's still winter so it kind of makes sense?

  • MegaMan001MegaMan001 CRNA Rochester, MNRegistered User regular
    honovere wrote: »
    So apparently, all the masking and lockdowns in the last year might not have actually removed all the other winter diseases from the calendar but shoved them all into the summer months instead. At least here all the kids are currently having respiratory diseases. Can't go anywhere without hearing sneezing and coughing kids. Pediatrician told us it doesn't only seem that way, it really is a big wave like they never had in summer before.

    Ours has had bronchitis twice and a middle ear infection within a month. At least she's gotten used to the inhaler.

    Yeah, this is one hundred percent true. Every pediatric patient I have has a cold right now.

    I am in the business of saving lives.
  • SharpyVIISharpyVII Registered User regular
    Same in the UK. When my son got a chest infection four weeks ago the GP said they're at winter levels already for respiratory/Norovirus issues.

    His nursery currently has a sickness/diarrhoea outbreak too.

  • Kane Red RobeKane Red Robe Master of Magic ArcanusRegistered User regular
    We're being hit with a massive RSV infections all through the country down here. But at least it's still winter so it kind of makes sense?

    We all got RSV basically the moment the mask mandates lifted. To quote Mrs Red Robe, "This sucks and I'd rather have had Covid again."

  • mittensmittens he/himRegistered User regular
    Our daughter's daycare room just got hit with a wave of Hand Foot Mouth and she had to come home early yesterday and is home with us today and likely the rest of the week. Hoping that everything clears up before we head out for our long-planned beach vacation in a little over a week!

  • Captain InertiaCaptain Inertia Central OhioRegistered User regular
    m!ttens wrote: »
    Our daughter's daycare room just got hit with a wave of Hand Foot Mouth and she had to come home early yesterday and is home with us today and likely the rest of the week. Hoping that everything clears up before we head out for our long-planned beach vacation in a little over a week!

    …..same, you’re in Columbus too, right?

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  • AldoAldo Hippo Hooray Registered User regular
    Same here in The Netherlands, even made the news https://nos.nl/artikel/2390172-kinder-ic-s-liggen-vol-met-jonge-rs-patienten a specialist suspects that we didn't have our usual peak in the winter thanks to the lockdown, but that it's now coming back in force. They also noted that they're hoping to have a vaccine ready in 1 or 2 years. That'd be great to administer to at-risk groups.

  • SharpyVIISharpyVII Registered User regular
    Just got my first bill for stuff from the IVF clinic for the storage of various bits and bobs.

    Completely forgot we'd start paying for it soon.

    Also got an estimate of how much the next cycle would cost.

    Kids are expensive!

  • mittensmittens he/himRegistered User regular
    m!ttens wrote: »
    Our daughter's daycare room just got hit with a wave of Hand Foot Mouth and she had to come home early yesterday and is home with us today and likely the rest of the week. Hoping that everything clears up before we head out for our long-planned beach vacation in a little over a week!

    …..same, you’re in Columbus too, right?

    Cincinnati, last time I lived in Cbus was 2009 (yikes where has the time gone?).

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