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[Queer] thread: A Gay ‘Ol Time

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  • ElldrenElldren Is a woman dammit ceterum censeoRegistered User regular
    Sleep wrote: »
    Oh don’t worry too much it’s mostly a bit. We barely even had the language or community around when I was that age. Like I was saying that at the end of the 90s and into the early aughts. The only word I woulda had for it at that time is a slur (and probably why I’m currently digging through like 20+ years of internalized transphobia). Besides by then my armor was already so thick I almost forgot all the bad shit I was trying to block out, the core lies I just told by rote from a young age cause the reality sucks and I’d been well groomed.

    I do think it’s funny that I was basically saying it out loud all the way back then without the proper language or realizing it’s deeper implications, like it wasn’t even weird to me. It just explained who I was. Like I think that’s the explanation I used to end up at all of the all girl sleep overs I ended up at in high school where literally none of the parents that met me gave a fuck that I was there despite presenting as a dude from the football team. “He’s just one of the girls” was absolutely a thing said about my participation in certain friends groups that made me feel good on a regular basis actually.

    I think the funniest thing is that as I dig into other people’s experiences to figure out what my label might be and to see what resonates I keep running into the fact that none of these things are necessarily special either, shit half of this stuff is apparently downright stereotypical to the point of being memetic.

    Like that memory shaking loose yesterday is resolving a whole bunch of doubts and uncertainty I was trying to weed through. Cause that’s a way I have always considered myself, and I’m pretty sure that’s just what the kids call being non binary.

    Internalized transphobia is the worst. I need to do more to clear up mine. Thankfully the best way I’ve found is to just hang around and befriend other trans people.

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  • Zilla360Zilla360 21st Century. |She/Her| Trans* Woman In Aviators Firing A Bazooka. ⚛️Registered User regular
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  • ElldrenElldren Is a woman dammit ceterum censeoRegistered User regular
    I need more sneakily trans colored things

    I want to express myself more but in a way that won’t get me death threats or fired from my job in my deeply terrible state

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  • minor incidentminor incident expert in a dying field njRegistered User regular
    Coincidentally, I just got in my new batch of my logo stickers for my Etsy store today. I toss a couple in with every order I ship out. Every time I order a batch I do a new color scheme, and this time I decided to go with the trans flag colors.

    If anyone gets pissy about it, oh well, fuck ‘em.

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    Ah, it stinks, it sucks, it's anthropologically unjust
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  • DeansDeans Registered User regular
    So the gender feels hit me pretty hard a couple weeks ago. It's like once I considered transition a viable option the flood gates opened. I'm not particularly dysphoric, but hearing some trans folks talk about emotional numbness and dissociation felt familiar. I'm not unhappy with myself, but feeling more and more confident I would be happier as a lady.

    So I'm thinkin about stuff a lot, doing some research, feeling more motivated to exercise and groom and generally take care of myself. My feminine features are jumping out at me and I'm like, whoa that's neat. One annoying thing though, why the hell is it still so hard to get rid of hair? Our best method is seriously blasting each individual follicle with lasers/electrified needles? What the fuck science?

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  • I needed anime to post.I needed anime to post. boom Registered User regular
    Yeah I've really been wrestling with my chest hair lately. I swear it's developing antibodies against Nair

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  • LucedesLucedes might be real Registered User regular
    reject societal expectations, return to curvaceous monke

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  • destroyah87destroyah87 They/Them Preferred: She/Her - Please UseRegistered User regular
    edited November 2023
    Deans wrote: »
    So the gender feels hit me pretty hard a couple weeks ago. It's like once I considered transition a viable option the flood gates opened. I'm not particularly dysphoric, but hearing some trans folks talk about emotional numbness and dissociation felt familiar. I'm not unhappy with myself, but feeling more and more confident I would be happier as a lady.

    So I'm thinkin about stuff a lot, doing some research, feeling more motivated to exercise and groom and generally take care of myself. My feminine features are jumping out at me and I'm like, whoa that's neat. One annoying thing though, why the hell is it still so hard to get rid of hair? Our best method is seriously blasting each individual follicle with lasers/electrified needles? What the fuck science?
    Yeah I've really been wrestling with my chest hair lately. I swear it's developing antibodies against Nair

    Shaving is an option! I do a weekly body shave for everything below the neck. The smooth silky skin is really nice. I like it as a weekly ritual and it's even fun now that I've practiced enough to do it pretty quick.

    Epilating works for longer; Just be careful where. Chest and Belly epilation hurts but is doable. The lower-face is an absolute do-not epilate zone. Arms and Legs vary, my upper thigh hurts to do, but the lower leg and arms are easy. - Doing epilation the first time WILL Hurt. There's just no way around it. It becomes less painful the more you do it but it's still tweezing out hairs, so it's not ever gonna be painless.

    Permanent removal is basically only down to electrolysis, yeah. Which is painful, slow, and expensive. Laser will work for a year or so before hair can regrow but is not permanent.

    I tried a chemical depilatory once or twice; but the second time I had a mild red almost-rash on my arms for a few days because I held it on slightly too long; I went to epilating and then shaving and haven't looked back.

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  • GnizmoGnizmo Registered User regular
    Laser can last a good deal longer than a year these days. There is another method as well that does similar effect that I can't remember the name of. They are billed as permanent hair reduction because no one wants to pay for the FDA studies as I recall. Either way laser can deal with hair for a very long time/forever.

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  • destroyah87destroyah87 They/Them Preferred: She/Her - Please UseRegistered User regular
    Gnizmo wrote: »
    Laser can last a good deal longer than a year these days. There is another method as well that does similar effect that I can't remember the name of. They are billed as permanent hair reduction because no one wants to pay for the FDA studies as I recall. Either way laser can deal with hair for a very long time/forever.

    Oh ok! Thank you for the clarification!

    I had only a single data point of a friend that got laser on her face about two years ago and has started up a small number of sessions again this summer because of some regrowth.

    Don't get me wrong, Laser is great and well worth it! I've had seven sessions on my face now and the growth is about 95% gone. only have a few patches on my chin and right along the jawline that like to hang on; but still barely grow even after 24 hours. like, not even to the range of "stubble" :grimace:

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  • PsykomaPsykoma Registered User regular
    Last time I had seen, the efficacy of laser depended on the genetics - light skin and dark hair get the best results, pale hair, red hair, and dark skin would get much weaker results, if any

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  • ElldrenElldren Is a woman dammit ceterum censeoRegistered User regular
    edited November 2023
    No love for waxing in the Queer thread?

    It’s definitely an option. About on par with epilating but you can get a pro to do it and make it more comfy

    Edit: though as someone with mild trichotillomania maybe take any of my opinions on the comfort of tweezing out hairs with a grain of salt

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  • PsykomaPsykoma Registered User regular
    edited November 2023
    I get my legs & bikini waxed every five or six months. I'm lucky enough that my leg hair grows back super pale (this was not the case pre transition), and it gets like a cm long before it begins to be visible.

    I strongly suggest it, and if you're there anyway throw in armpits, brows, and any torso you want.

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  • destroyah87destroyah87 They/Them Preferred: She/Her - Please UseRegistered User regular
    edited November 2023
    Elldren wrote: »
    No love for waxing in the Queer thread?

    It’s definitely an option. About on par with epilating but you can get a pro to do it and make it more comfy

    Edit: though as someone with mild trichotillomania maybe take any of my opinions on the comfort of tweezing out hairs with a grain of salt

    I wouldn't mind at all doing a wax to get whatever's on my back gone. I just don't think of it for home use.

    Setup is finicky and it's not something I can do for myself, need a helping hand. But shaving or epilating anywhere I can reach is easy to do solo.

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  • ElldrenElldren Is a woman dammit ceterum censeoRegistered User regular
    Elldren wrote: »
    No love for waxing in the Queer thread?

    It’s definitely an option. About on par with epilating but you can get a pro to do it and make it more comfy

    Edit: though as someone with mild trichotillomania maybe take any of my opinions on the comfort of tweezing out hairs with a grain of salt

    I wouldn't mind at all doing a wax to get whatever's on my back gone. I just don't think of it for home use.

    Setup is finicky and it's not something I can do for myself, need a helping hand. But shaving or epilating anywhere I can reach is easy to do solo.

    Yeah I wasn’t really considering home waxing. There is peril there.

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  • I needed anime to post.I needed anime to post. boom Registered User regular
    i don't too much mind body hair, i haven't done anything on my arms or legs, but i figure i'm growing boobs for the first time in my life, let em breathe a bit

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  • SleepSleep Registered User regular
    I actually just trimmed off all of my leg hair for the first time this week. I did it with the same clippers I used to shave off all of my hair in high school to start my SHARP phase kinda by accident. Hair that I took off because, for some odd reason, I hated that my hair would never act the way I wanted it to, and just never looked right. Right about as I started the clippers my Pandora decided to play shinin by Kim Petras.

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  • pimentopimento she/they/pim Registered User regular
    Gnizmo wrote: »
    Laser can last a good deal longer than a year these days. There is another method as well that does similar effect that I can't remember the name of. They are billed as permanent hair reduction because no one wants to pay for the FDA studies as I recall. Either way laser can deal with hair for a very long time/forever.

    The other method you may be thinking of is IPL (Intense Pulsed Light - kinda like a hardcore camera flash). It also only really works on fair skin/dark hair but it worked a treat on my face before I went to electrol. You can also get home IPL devices that can be quite effective at reducing hair growth, same caveats apply, it won't work as quickly or effectively as the full fat machines but it's a lot cheaper and way better than nothing. It's certainly lessened the stubbliness on my legs since I switched from epilation to shaving.

    NSFWish:
    I nuked my pubes a few years go and they are barely growing back now. They're basically best case for pale skin and dark hair for me and it was super effective I tell you whut.

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  • ToxTox I kill threads he/himRegistered User regular
    Lucedes wrote: »
    reject societal expectations, return to curvaceous monke

    gender affirming six hours ass-up under the tanning light

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  • TankHammerTankHammer Atlanta Ghostbuster Atlanta, GARegistered User regular
    I only just found out a friend of mine who is a trans woman who has found enormous joy in Brazillian Jiu-Jitsu tournaments got targeted by TERFs last month and her full name and some unflattering angles published in international right-wing media. I feel horrible I didn't know sooner, but the references that were made on social media to it did not convey the enormity of the horrible experience it must have been. Now the league she was a part of has caved to TERFs threatening to boycott by banning trans people from competing as their gender, only by what they were assigned at birth. The articles are disgusting and keep referring to her as "biological-male".

    I'm furious and heartbroken for her. This shit sucks and I wish all of those transphobic dipshits the most Twilight Zone of cosmic punishments.

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  • pimentopimento she/they/pim Registered User regular
    Bold of them to piss off competative martial artists.

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  • TankHammerTankHammer Atlanta Ghostbuster Atlanta, GARegistered User regular
    pimento wrote: »
    Bold of them to piss off competative martial artists.

    For some, ones they already lost to, hence the salt.

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  • lonelyahavalonelyahava Call me Ahava ~~She/Her~~ Move to New ZealandRegistered User regular
    Reading a copy of this book from the library. So far the introduction is real good.

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  • VeeveeVeevee WisconsinRegistered User regular
    edited November 2023
    Was on a drive listening to music and Not Fair by Lily Allen came on and it just fucking floored me. I listened to her first 2 albums one repeat forever after they were each released. Basically nothing but those sets of songs whenever I was given a choice. Never questioned why, just put it down to making my brain happy and that was all I needed.

    I am proud to say I successfully made it to the 4th word before all the emotions overtook me. I put the other 8 songs on a repeat playlist and just let the tears flow.

    Feels good.

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  • DarkPrimusDarkPrimus Registered User regular
    "Before we get going, are there any Moms for Liberty in the house? No? Good. then hands will not need to be thrown tonight."

    Host LeVar Burton kicks off this year's National Book Awards ceremony. #NBAwards

    LeVar Burton continues to be the best.

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  • Munkus BeaverMunkus Beaver You don't have to attend every argument you are invited to. Philosophy: Stoicism. Politics: Democratic SocialistRegistered User, ClubPA regular
    Take a look, it’s in a book, reading painbow

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    I think this time I am gonna take his word for it

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  • tzeentchlingtzeentchling Doctor of Rocks OaklandRegistered User regular
    Butterfly in the sky, I wish a bitch would try

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  • VeeveeVeevee WisconsinRegistered User regular
    It's in a book, what a left hook

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  • minor incidentminor incident expert in a dying field njRegistered User regular
    Friends to know, and hands to throw

    Ah, it stinks, it sucks, it's anthropologically unjust
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  • DepressperadoDepressperado I just wanted to see you laughing in the pizza rainRegistered User regular
    some may take umbrage at the implication that he'd fight a woman, but dangit, come at me, soccer mom, there's no place for me in the Heaven I'm building.

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  • lonelyahavalonelyahava Call me Ahava ~~She/Her~~ Move to New ZealandRegistered User regular
    So my company has a working group called Rainbow Heroes. I'm sure I've mentioned this before.

    Y'all

    I have never been more comfortable in a work meeting than I am with these folks.

    We're discussing things like getting the company to do big sponsorships for Pride events, adjusting the pronouns in our signatures to have every possible pronoun combination at can think of (using she, he, they, ia as the building blocks). Talking about how to get the company to include extra leave for Transition surgery recovery in our Transitioning at Work policy that's being written.

    We're getting amazing Pride lanyards for our work badges, and we're going to make them available to the entire company, providing people actually go through multiple training modules on what being LGBTQ+ is all about and how to be an ally and not be an asshole.

    And it's just so nice to have a safe space where I can just be queer in my own right.

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  • GundiGundi Serious Bismuth Registered User regular
    edited November 2023
    Just thought I'd share this video I came across today. It's talking about the weird (to me) cross section of -Chan-like spaces and queer spaces and the seemingly often toxic interplay between those toxic boards and queerness, in particular gender non-conformity/transness+talking about the either explicitly trans or at the very least trans-coded manga Inside Mari+a bunch of the author's own trans story. (Content warning for that last part, which is most of the last third of the video, has some mentions of serial assault and bullying and overall is pretty uncomfortably personal in a lot of ways. Earnest, but it might hit too close to home for some folks.)
    Something that made click on the video was this weird trend I started noticing maybe starting about two years ago online. So algorithms are pretty bad (by design) at distinguishing between content about something and content about criticism of something. And as most people probably know that that means if you look for stuff about queer issues online you will also be exposed to vile takes on queer issues. Because I have a morbid curiosity where I cannot stop myself from occasionally doing the internet equivalent of touching a hot stove I cannot help myself from occasionally intentionally exposing myself to hateful shit. (I dunno why, brains are weird.) Except, I started to notice something incongruous about a lot of these vile videos or memes or what have you that I couldn't stop myself from occasionally clicking on. A lot of them were becoming... queer-er? And specifically becoming more and more trans. Like, at first specifically in a very misogynistic way: "Oh women are too stupid and dumb to date *insert flavor of the week toxic masculine idea on how romantic relationships works* so maybe men who are women are better." That kind of bullshit. But overtime I noticed a change: a bunch of people who were obviously just steeped in the toxic misogynistic, racist, engaging-in-any-criticism-of-social-power-dynamics-makes-me-ENRAGED culture that's been around forever were starting to express sentiments publicly online that I couldn't help but reading as very authentically trans. Not in exactly the language I was used to, and certainly still having most of the shitty regressive intentionally cruel attitudes that you'd expect in those spaces... but still pretty fucking queer.

    And ever since I started noticing that I couldn't help but wonder about it. My various feed and recommends were hardly proof of some larger trend but it did still feel like a trend. Certainly there have been some openly queer prominent figures in online-spaces that are very anti-queer. But like regular members of that community gong through public journeys of sexual and gender discovery? Trans incels? Socially conservative femboys? Genuinely confused, genuinely interested but also genuinely uninterested in having to shift through the perhaps oceans of vile shit to get a better sub-cultural understanding. So this video which seemed to also be interested in that caught my attention. It's not like an academic discussion or anything, but I do think it presents some interesting ideas about how folks can start from radically different frameworks to reach pretty similar conclusions about themselves. It didn't really explain how these smaller queer sub-communities are able to survive in such extremely toxic larger communities, but it did give me... some grasp on it. Also it spoils almost all of Inside Mari in case anybody ever wants to read that.

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  • Zilla360Zilla360 21st Century. |She/Her| Trans* Woman In Aviators Firing A Bazooka. ⚛️Registered User regular
    You watch enough anime (as a non-binary trans woman) and eventually this happens:

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    Please excuse the facial hair and lack of make-up. I have been massively busy and snowed under at work.
    Simply no time in the day to shave or put on the Vaniqua lately.

    Also a friend of mine just died. We think suicide. Pills, as they were found in their bed. :(

    Another vulnerable person hounded to death by amoral transphobes. The were an amazing human being The best. RIP, 'C'.

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  • GundiGundi Serious Bismuth Registered User regular
    Awesome'd for the picture, not the news about your friend. I'm sorry about that.

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  • Zilla360Zilla360 21st Century. |She/Her| Trans* Woman In Aviators Firing A Bazooka. ⚛️Registered User regular
    edited December 2023
    Gundi wrote: »
    Awesome'd for the picture, not the news about your friend. I'm sorry about that.
    Thanks. Dancing to this with the ears and bells on my head:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wz1ca1-_-MY

    The world/civilization is ending (climate crisis etc). Most of my best friends are dead. Let's get drunk and fuck shit up! 🤘🏻😝

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  • lonelyahavalonelyahava Call me Ahava ~~She/Her~~ Move to New ZealandRegistered User regular
    Well

    Kid asked me to tell their teachers that they're non binary.

    We're doing weekly pronoun checks, currently we're going with She/They/Them.

    For whatever reason they hate the word "Her" when in reference to themself. But not She.


    So yeah. Still adjusting my speaking around the house. Sometimes a "Her" just slips into the sentence before my brain catches it. Also tripping up on communication with external family and friends. I default to their pronouns in most of that, but I'm unsure if they want those relationships to know, and she hasn't fully figured that out yet. So I'm sometimes switching all over the place.


    I'm so very proud of them. She's run into a single friend at school who reacted with "if you say that your NB, then you don't exist" and that was a tough night of "maybe I'll just go back to hiding"

    But we've worked through that and have come out the other side, kind of. Nothing is linear.

    But yeah.

    I'm so proud of my little human.

    We went shopping the other day for new undies (ugh growth spurt in December, just in time for Santa), and ended up grabbing a bunch of summer dresses and shorts, but also this awesome t-shirt with a roaring T-rex that glows in the dark.

    They're carrying a really neat purse now, but it's got their little info book about native insects and one of their pretend snakes.

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  • minor incidentminor incident expert in a dying field njRegistered User regular
    Just gotta remember that one friend is going to eventually realize they aren't as clever as they think they are, but your kid's gonna continue to be pretty fucking rad.

    Ah, it stinks, it sucks, it's anthropologically unjust
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  • Zilla360Zilla360 21st Century. |She/Her| Trans* Woman In Aviators Firing A Bazooka. ⚛️Registered User regular
    Still at it with the stupid culture war:

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  • ElldrenElldren Is a woman dammit ceterum censeoRegistered User regular
    edited December 2023
    I don’t know what that tweet said because it’s broken

    Edit: in positive news I’ve started HRT so wooooo

    Only took me 15 years

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