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Oww, I just stubbed my [Petty Complaints] thread

HoukHouk NipplesThe EchidnaRegistered User regular
This type of thread seems to have been pretty useful so far, so why not keep it going?!

Today's petty complaint is that I worked late last night and then didn't sleep very well, and I also might be getting mildly sick, so I've just been in zombie mode all day.

Also I had multiple bad dreams throughout the night, which is pretty common for me, but these ones were especially emotionally draining (for example, one being a drawn-out, friendship-ending fight between me and a childhood pal that never happened and never would but my brain decided to simulate for some reason). Which is also probably contributing to my crummy feeling now!

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  • smofsmof [Growling historic on the fury road] Registered User regular
    edited April 27
    I visited my grandad today. He's 90 and I'm glad to still have the one grandparent, but also he has dementia and doesn't know who I am any more and can't really hold a conversation and it fucking sucks! Getting old is bullshit.

    But also dying young is bullshit. What gives, life??

    smof on
  • furlionfurlion Riskbreaker Lea MondeRegistered User regular
    I visited my grandad today. He's 90 and I'm glad to still have the one grandparent, but also he has dementia and doesn't know who I am any more and can't really hold a conversation and it fucking sucks! Getting old is bullshit.

    But also dying young is bullshit. What gives, life??

    Does the UK have assisted euthanasia? That's my plan when/if i start to get like that.

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  • tynictynic PICNIC BADASS Registered User, ClubPA regular
    Mad about a shithead driver I got into a shouting match with on my bike about twenty minutes ago.
    I had like 50 perfectly nice interactions with car denizens in the previous 35km so I really shouldn't let one dickhead ruin my day, but of course those are the ones you remember.

  • RanlinRanlin Oh gosh Registered User regular
    tynic wrote: »
    Mad about a shithead driver I got into a shouting match with on my bike about twenty minutes ago.
    I had like 50 perfectly nice interactions with car denizens in the previous 35km so I really shouldn't let one dickhead ruin my day, but of course those are the ones you remember.

    It's hard not to let the bad interaction with an operator of a heavy metal murder machine be the one that sticks in your mind more.

  • smofsmof [Growling historic on the fury road] Registered User regular
    furlion wrote: »
    I visited my grandad today. He's 90 and I'm glad to still have the one grandparent, but also he has dementia and doesn't know who I am any more and can't really hold a conversation and it fucking sucks! Getting old is bullshit.

    But also dying young is bullshit. What gives, life??

    Does the UK have assisted euthanasia? That's my plan when/if i start to get like that.

    Nope. And honestly it's something that concerns me. I don't have kids, if I live to be old and feeble I'm going to be relying on the state for my comfort and dignity, and no thanks. I genuinely spend a fair amount of time trying to figure out the easiest and cleanest way to end it when I decide I've done enough living. I'm not suicidal at all, but it's just a practical thing you gotta think about.

  • furlionfurlion Riskbreaker Lea MondeRegistered User regular
    furlion wrote: »
    I visited my grandad today. He's 90 and I'm glad to still have the one grandparent, but also he has dementia and doesn't know who I am any more and can't really hold a conversation and it fucking sucks! Getting old is bullshit.

    But also dying young is bullshit. What gives, life??

    Does the UK have assisted euthanasia? That's my plan when/if i start to get like that.

    Nope. And honestly it's something that concerns me. I don't have kids, if I live to be old and feeble I'm going to be relying on the state for my comfort and dignity, and no thanks. I genuinely spend a fair amount of time trying to figure out the easiest and cleanest way to end it when I decide I've done enough living. I'm not suicidal at all, but it's just a practical thing you gotta think about.

    Same boat here in the US for the most part. Some of the more left leaning states allow it but i haven't looked into exactly what the requirements are yet. Really hoping that in the 40 years before it would even be a consideration that it is more wide spread.

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    PSN:Furlion
  • LabelLabel Registered User regular
    edited April 28
    Our refrigerator died a couple of days ago. We've got some electric coolers, and a second freezer. Frustrating to not really have room to store/eat leftovers, but we'll be fine. That's not the petty complaint.

    The problem is, we're split on how to replace the refrigerator. I hate the split-door style, and want a single-door hinged on the right. Other parties hate the single-door, and want the split-door. Replacing the freezers while we're at it is also part of the discussion, and is similarly conflicted. I think the smaller size freezer is just fine, they have always hated the smaller size.

    Sigh.

    Label on
  • DarmakDarmak RAGE vympyvvhyc vyctyvyRegistered User regular
    Came home yesterday to an air conditioner that would only blow room temp air, and it had been a bit warm and humid so that sucked. It's still blowing, it's just blowing gross air. Ugh, I'm sure that's gonna be expensive to fix

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  • DarmakDarmak RAGE vympyvvhyc vyctyvyRegistered User regular
    Oh, and apparently it's storming right now and we're under a tornado watch. I gotta go to work in this soon, oh boy

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  • smofsmof [Growling historic on the fury road] Registered User regular
    At least a tornado should cool you down?

  • DarmakDarmak RAGE vympyvvhyc vyctyvyRegistered User regular
    Hopefully, unless it's one o' them there fire tornaders 🔥🌪️

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  • MegaMan001MegaMan001 CRNA Rochester, MNRegistered User regular
    furlion wrote: »
    furlion wrote: »
    I visited my grandad today. He's 90 and I'm glad to still have the one grandparent, but also he has dementia and doesn't know who I am any more and can't really hold a conversation and it fucking sucks! Getting old is bullshit.

    But also dying young is bullshit. What gives, life??

    Does the UK have assisted euthanasia? That's my plan when/if i start to get like that.

    Nope. And honestly it's something that concerns me. I don't have kids, if I live to be old and feeble I'm going to be relying on the state for my comfort and dignity, and no thanks. I genuinely spend a fair amount of time trying to figure out the easiest and cleanest way to end it when I decide I've done enough living. I'm not suicidal at all, but it's just a practical thing you gotta think about.

    Same boat here in the US for the most part. Some of the more left leaning states allow it but i haven't looked into exactly what the requirements are yet. Really hoping that in the 40 years before it would even be a consideration that it is more wide spread.

    These are very important concerns and the easiest way to take care of them is to make sure you have your will completed with people you trust as your financial and medical power of attorney. Also to get an end of life document filed at your local hospital.

    I am in the business of saving lives.
  • Librarian's ghostLibrarian's ghost Librarian, Ghostbuster, and TimSpork Registered User regular
    All the rain has not helped my allergies. Spent most of last night awake due to breathing issues. I am so tired.

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  • TynnanTynnan seldom correct, never unsure Registered User regular
    My eyes are the worst they've ever been. The pollen is apocalyptic here.

  • sponospono Mining for Nose Diamonds Booger CoveRegistered User regular
    One of the burners on my stove doesn't work right. It still makes fire, but only a little bit. I think the little whatever inside the stove that spits out the gas is gunked up because all of the other burners work fine

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  • PerrsunPerrsun Registered User regular
    edited April 28
    Label wrote: »
    Our refrigerator died a couple of days ago. We've got some electric coolers, and a second freezer. Frustrating to not really have room to store/eat leftovers, but we'll be fine. That's not the petty complaint.

    The problem is, we're split on how to replace the refrigerator. I hate the split-door style, and want a single-door hinged on the right. Other parties hate the single-door, and want the split-door. Replacing the freezers while we're at it is also part of the discussion, and is similarly conflicted. I think the smaller size freezer is just fine, they have always hated the smaller size.

    Sigh.

    I hear you on the fridge troubles. 2 years back ours wasn’t draining the condensation, so it was freezing, and then when it melted it dripped into the fridge.

    We considered getting a new one, but the measurements just don’t work with any nice modern model. We’d either have to remove 1/4” from the cabinets above the fridge (because new ones are just a bit taller) or we’d have to lose half of the width.

    We ended up just emptying/unplugging the thing for 3 days to let it dry out (relying on a mini fridge for essentials), and that fixed the problem until 3 weeks ago. We have now completed another round of 3-no-fridge-days, so we’ll see if we get another 2 years of fix out of it or if we’ll have to go the harder route.

    Perrsun on
  • sponospono Mining for Nose Diamonds Booger CoveRegistered User regular
    spono wrote: »
    One of the burners on my stove doesn't work right. It still makes fire, but only a little bit. I think the little whatever inside the stove that spits out the gas is gunked up because all of the other burners work fine

    I fixed the stove

    The little dingus where the gas comes out was full of soot

    Luckily said dingus has a hex head and it was just a matter of screwing it out and then cleaning it with one of those cell phone reset needles

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  • UrielUriel Registered User regular
    I still feel bad from the bad memories from last year and didn't know if they'll ever get better. 🙃

  • David_TDavid_T A fashion yes-man is no good to me. Copenhagen, DenmarkRegistered User regular
    I walked my way to a blister today.

    I'm very impressed by people who walk 10 km each day, I don't have the time and I clearly don't have the feet for it.

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  • KyouguKyougu Registered User regular
    Checked out a new running club yesterday.

    It was the first time I had a "I think I'm too old for this group" feeling and it was sobering.

    I'm 42, these were late 20s at the oldest.

  • cabsycabsy the fattest rainbow unicorn Registered User regular
    I still feel bad from the bad memories from last year and didn't know if they'll ever get better. 🙃

    I can't promise they'll get better per se but things like this do eventually take up less space and someday it'll be five, ten, fifteen years from now and you'll be able to go 'that was awful but look at all the good I have in my life now'

    you're allowed to feel sad and bad about it, it was a crappy and painful thing, there's no rushed timeline on feeling 'better' about it

  • UrielUriel Registered User regular
    cabsy wrote: »
    I still feel bad from the bad memories from last year and didn't know if they'll ever get better. 🙃

    I can't promise they'll get better per se but things like this do eventually take up less space and someday it'll be five, ten, fifteen years from now and you'll be able to go 'that was awful but look at all the good I have in my life now'

    you're allowed to feel sad and bad about it, it was a crappy and painful thing, there's no rushed timeline on feeling 'better' about it

    Thank you for being reassuring.

    I'm just not so certain.

    See as I've gotten older it's only gotten easier to remember all of my bad memories in excruciatingly vivid detail including what I was thinking and feeling at the time. I remember everything from being 3 years old and saying something dumb and insensitive to another kid up to the day my step dad died and everything in that negative motional spectrum between in full on imax quality. And when I'm in the mode where I'm remembering things it's hard or outright impossible to switch tracks from negative memories to positive ones as the negative ones so share strong sensory and emotional associations like some kind of twisted automatic mnemonic device which lead to a kind of non-stop flood of them pretty much every night at around... 6pm?

    Pro tip for life. Don't be born with a strong autobiographical memory I guess?

    Anyway sorry. I'm glad I have a therapy appointment tomorrow.

  • tynictynic PICNIC BADASS Registered User, ClubPA regular
    Since post covid travel got easier (so, like, 2022), I've been trying to meet up with various relatives who are either living in or visiting the US. Unfortunately they're all around retirement age and are spending their twilight years jetsetting everywhere. My godmother just sent me her summer itinerary, where as best as I can tell she will be home to receive visitors for a grand total of two weeks in June.

  • RT800RT800 Registered User regular
    I'm trying to learn about steganography, and all the videos I watch seem to want to make sure people understand that it is distinct from cryptography.

    But I don't see how it is. I mean, if you hide a text message in an image by converting that text into a series of subtly altered pixels that then have to be decoded on the other end, how is that not cryptography?

    The only difference I can see is that steganography tries to hide the fact that there's any message being sent at all.

    Which just sounds like cryptography with extra steps.

  • TuminTumin Registered User regular
    edited April 29
    Cryptography says

    Suppose I encode a message M using process F with key K e.g. E = F(M,K)

    How much does knowing M, E, and F tell you about another message pair E' and M', using the same transform F and secret key K? Cryptography wishes it could make it zero, and it gets sort of close.

    Naively, breaking stenography would be, once you find any message, you know where to look for future messages, and you can apply plaintext techniques like letter frequency analysis or whatever. Knowing the scheme tells you a lot about breaking it, where to look.

    Breaking a cryptographic scheme is finding an efficient way to recover a key given the encrypted message and knowledge of hownit was encrypted, and even having some encrypted text pairs. Knowing how it is done doesnt help you break the scheme much, youre still left with an intractable math problem almost as hard as guessing and checking all the possibilities.

    Tumin on
  • ASimPersonASimPerson Cold... ... and hard.Registered User regular
    Back on the 18th, I got a planned jaw surgery to fix my underbite. This has been in the works since January of last year, where I decided on purpose to get braces in perpetration for this.

    I knew one consequence for this would be that I won't be able to eat normally for a couple of months, in particular, for what will have turned out to be 10 days post surgery my mouth is banded shut. I knew this would also affect my ability to speak, but I figured it'd be like talking while keeping your mouth closed.

    Suffice it to say, since I'm posting in this thread it's way worse than I imagined. There's a splint that's helping keep my jaw in place while it's banded shut, which keeps me from making any sounds that require your tongue to hit the back of your teeth. I knew I'd be on a liquid diet as well, but y'all, I gotta say, I'm going to be the happiest I've ever been to have mashed potatoes here in a few days.

  • smofsmof [Growling historic on the fury road] Registered User regular
    edited April 29
    What provoked you to get that surgery? I have an overbite and I keep wondering if it's something I'm ever going to have to do anything about, or if at my age there's no point.

    smof on
  • DarmakDarmak RAGE vympyvvhyc vyctyvyRegistered User regular
    I was supposed to get the same surgery for my underbite (they were going to break my upper and lower jaws), but ultimately I decided against it. I'm on anticoagulants so it'd be it's own issue coming off and then getting back on them, plus even though it's been awhile since I had one, I'm tired of surgeries and the recovery from them. Oh, and it was hard enough getting my insurance to agree to pay for the surgery, then we switched insurance providers and I didn't wanna go through the whole application process again. Oh, and even though they'd pay for the surgery for some reason they wouldn't pay the surgeon because he was out of network or some such, so that was going to be like $14k upfront paid in full before the surgery ever happened, which we can't afford like what the hell.

    tl;dr, was going to get it but changed my mind. My underbite needs to be corrected but I doubt I'll live long enough for it to ever really be an issue

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  • Blake TBlake T Do you have enemies then? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.Registered User regular
    I have started doing the 3D printing for my coffee project. The first piece needs to be reprinted as it doesn’t the electronics. I can probably resize it and reprint but it is still annoying.

  • Librarian's ghostLibrarian's ghost Librarian, Ghostbuster, and TimSpork Registered User regular
    Switched back to the other allergy pill. Did not have the breathing issue last night. Guess I just have the live with the low level of nausea it causes me at all times.

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  • UrielUriel Registered User regular
    Blake T wrote: »
    I have started doing the 3D printing for my coffee project. The first piece needs to be reprinted as it doesn’t the electronics. I can probably resize it and reprint but it is still annoying.

    I want to hear about this project as you do it. I want to try it myself someday but I think I would only do it if I somehow hit the lottery and could get a new espresso machine and just use the gaggia as a backup.

    I looked at a bit of the diagrams and shit the other day and it looks really complicated and I'm sure I would screw it up ha

  • ShadowhopeShadowhope Baa. Registered User regular
    Today is just warm enough to be too warm for my housecoat or a sweater.

    But it’s just cool enough to be too cool for a t-shirt.

    Civics is not a consumer product that you can ignore because you don’t like the options presented.
  • David_TDavid_T A fashion yes-man is no good to me. Copenhagen, DenmarkRegistered User regular
    I got a paper cut today.

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  • VeeveeVeevee WisconsinRegistered User regular
    edited April 29
    I burned the left side of my lower lip really bad yesterday after a pepperoni slipped off the slice of pizza I was eating and trapped some extra hot pizza sauce on it for too long.

    Nothing real bad, but still spoiling for those that don't want to read more
    The first blister popped and peeled off already, but it's still enflamed and sore. At least it's only mildly irritating and no longer painful to keep my mouth closed.

    Edit: Looks a lot like a really bad cold sore right now, too.

    Veevee on
  • HoukHouk Nipples The EchidnaRegistered User regular
    fellas fellas, the new thread title wasn't meant to be inspirational. Stop hurting yourselves!

  • tynictynic PICNIC BADASS Registered User, ClubPA regular
    fellas fellas, the new thread title wasn't meant to be inspirational. Stop hurting yourselves!

    Yesterday the (very light plastic) paint tray I was using blew off the table in a strong gust of wind, landing underneath the table. I couldn't reach it from the side i was painting on, so I walked around the other side. Now, I was hyper aware that tucked beside and beneath the table was the (open) tin of paint, put there to keep it out of the wind. What I had forgotten was that the overalls I was wearing had flappy straps on, so when I bent down to pick up the tray, one of them dangled straight into the open paint tin, thoroughly coating itself, before flapping back and distributing paint all down the length of my body when i stood up.

    None of that's relevant to what you said, though, it's just background context for why I was already stressed out when I thoughtlessly grabbed a piece of wood to hammer the top of the paint tin back on and embedded 3 or 4 long splinters well into my palm.

  • ChiselphaneChiselphane Registered User regular
    Too late, one of my kids opened an upper pantry door while I was looking in the bottom one and I didnt notice, so stood up and now I have an angry red gouge on my scalp.

  • smofsmof [Growling historic on the fury road] Registered User regular
    I was pruning bushes yesterday and lightly sawed my thumb

  • chromdomchromdom Who? Where?Registered User regular
    I had a heart attack and an aneurysm at the same and had to do surgery on myself on my desk at work; it's got that cheap formica surface that cut into my elbow.
    And then someone spilled lemon juice on it!

  • SirToastySirToasty Registered User regular
    I nicked my finger with my very sharp knife for the second day in a row.

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